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Welcome to this episode of It Starts With Attraction where we’ll be discussing the process of picking up the pieces after a divorce. Our guest, Julie Beckerman, will share her personal journey through the pain and struggles of divorce and how she found the courage to take matters into her own hands.
We’ll dive deep into the impact of divorce on children, specifically her daughter, and how she navigated the challenging terrain of setting boundaries and co-parenting. Our guest will offer valuable insights into the biggest pain points that people have during and after a divorce and share tools for setting boundaries and creating a support system to help you through the tough times.
We’ll explore the nuances of co-parenting and when it’s the right time to discuss it. Our guest will share her experiences with navigating this process and offer advice on how to make it as smooth as possible.
We’ll also discuss the importance of putting children first during a divorce and how to make sure their needs are being met. Our guest will share her thoughts on what parents should and shouldn't do to ensure their children's well-being.
If you or someone you know is going through a divorce, this episode is a must-listen. Our guest’s story is a powerful reminder that no matter how hard things get, there is always hope for a better tomorrow. So tune in, take notes, and learn from our Julie's experiences on how to pick up the pieces and move forward after a divorce.
Today’s Speaker: Julie Beckerman, High Conflict Relationship Coach
Divorce isn’t easy, hers was certainly no exception. In 2014, after 10 years of marriage, with the decision to get divorced, she began the most difficult, scary, confusing, angering, and liberating journeys of her life:
She navigated the waters of co-parenting, being a stay-at-home-mom, changing friendships, lawyers and courtrooms, living in the same house with her ex, relationships with ex-in-laws, dating, her ex getting remarried, going back to work, moving to a new home, new school for her daughter, new job, starting a new career, a new life…
With the help of a solid support system, she began to see this as not just a challenge to get through, which it certainly was, but also an opportunity that had only just begun.
She’s a Certified Professional Coach from the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching, as well as a certified career counselor from New York University.
She has experience and training in Dialectic Behavior Therapy, Effective Communication, and Mindfulness techniques with a background working in business and Human Resources.
She has experience navigating the transitions of divorce and dealing with the loss of a loved one, addiction, and health & fitness.
Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and Relationships
Kimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 200,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.
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