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#390: 6 Types of People Who Say, "The Cheating Made Us So Much Stronger" (Dealing with Infidelity) Aug 08, 2025

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You've heard it. Maybe you've even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it.

I'm breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it's not the "flex" they think it is.

If you've ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one's probably gonna hit hard. Are you ready to hear what's really going on behind the scenes of these "stronger than ever" love stories?

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#389: DATING DECODED: He Says He's NOT READY for a Relationship (Dating Advice for Women) Jul 24, 2025

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It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he's "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what's actually going on beneath the surface.

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AND, let's take this a step further...

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#388: 10 Brutal Truths Re: Cheating - COLDPLAY COUPLE KISS CAM (Andy Byron & Kristin Cabot) Jul 22, 2025

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Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU.

Unless you've been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you've probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I'm not here to rehash the play-by-play - I'm here to deliver 10 brutal truths about cheating inspired by the mess.

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#387: If You Use AI to Communicate in Dating & Relationships, Please Stay Single :) Jul 15, 2025

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Let's be real: if you're using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should.

I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can't even send a text without help from a robot?!?! Make it make sense!!!

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Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

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#386: "Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!" (breakup advice that cuts the BS & provides clarity) Jun 24, 2025

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Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW.

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

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#385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships Jun 06, 2025

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So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, "What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW!

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

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#384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want "Closure" ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice Jun 04, 2025

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You say you want closure - but is that really what you're after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what's really behind that phrase.

It's not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There's something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW!

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com

(4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

(6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

#383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!) May 24, 2025

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Let's be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every "please just talk to me" moment? It's not helping. It's eating away at your dignity.

In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn't chasing you.

LISTEN NOW!

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com

(4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

(6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

#382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That'll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On) May 21, 2025

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Dear Cheaters: Don't get too cozy. This episode's got your name written all over it! And to everyone who's ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you're about to get the validation you deserve.

I'm dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They won't stay broken... but YOU'LL carry the stain of that choice for a long a$$ time.

LISTEN NOW!

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com

(4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

(6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

#381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn't Miss You After Your Breakup (Advice for Heartbreak) May 14, 2025

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Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: "Do they even miss me?!" If you've been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you.

Listen NOW!

Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

AND, let's take this a step further...

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)