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325. Nuttin Was The Same Feat @ShyThugg Mar 19, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week @ShyThugg joins Tahoe, Loon and Yesssterday to talk breast appreciation, giving tit jobs, not liking to ride, getting appreciated for her performance, the pleasures of nipple play, Tahoe not eating poom for him, Shys Bucket List, men with wack strokes, scissoring being a little difficult but a vibe, and MORE!!!
Socials:
Shy
@ShyThugg on Instagram and Twitter
Listen To Her Show The Yappy Hour and follow at @YappyHourShow_
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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324. Stroking This Brown Sugar BBC Mar 12, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
On the night before the Nut Gala one of our pleasure tops and member of the Nut NAvy, Sir Suga, joins us to talk things we do to keep the spice alive in the bedroom, dating long distance, giving cum tributes, giving Miss B Nasty her flowers, Courtneys new game Spicy or Desperate, popping up at your persons crib for sex, How Suga got into kink, a demonstration of how to use a car buffer for pleasure and MORE!! ENJOY!!!
Socials
Sir Suga
@Thee_SirSuga on Instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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323. I Was Gay For 26 Hours Mar 05, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
Welcome Back!! This week Lonn tels us a story abouit how he thinks he was gay for 26 hours (again), the sexiest names to cry out during sex, greatest squirt experiences, when she tells you that shes about top climax but you climax before she does, Tahoe gets engaged (again), doing special moments for you vs doing them for other people, spending big money on a wedding vs going to the courthouse, and Tahoe unboxes his Masquerade Party Fits. ENJOY!!
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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322. The Last Dragon Feat Messiah Feb 27, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL
Welcome back Yall! This week Courtney and Loon take on exotic male dancer Messiah as they discuss his intro to exotic dancing, the stigma that comes with it (Good and Bad), sexual comfortablity in relationships, the importance of consent, navigating consent within your relationship and confirming/dispelling the myths of exotic dancing. ENJOY!!!
If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.
Socials
Messiah
@MessiahNYC on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV on Instagram, TikTok, Threads and IG
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

321. Can I Break Fast With Secks??? Feat @YourExGirlFriendTara Feb 19, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
Welcome back guys! Tahoe rejoins the cast as we welcome @YourExGirlfriendTara to talk an interesting threesome Tahoe wants to recreate at The Nut Gala except for the fact that he is practicing Ramadan and cannot masturbate OR Have relations with his fiance. Yesssterday throws him under the bus as he calls out Tahoe for being a Gooner, Tara speaks on her experience as a Sex Ed coach, and Tahoe asks what makes a person good at secks. Courtney tells us about her Valentines day as Tahoe gets offended that she didnt take his advice on what to do for her new boo and then asks Chat Gpt an interesting question...ENJOY!!
If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
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Socials
Tara
@YourExGirlfriendTara on Instagram
Also head to www.loveandlust.co & check out their website.
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV on Instagram, TikTok, Threads and IG
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

320. Whats a Goon To A Goblin? Feb 12, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday talk being a Gooner, whats in their goon cave, Kinks with the intent on not finishing, how certain kinks reflect where we are with relationships ad social media, and Valentines day plans!! We also get a call from Anisha of Bedroom Kandi who talks about their social affair that Tahoe is hosting in Atlanta on March 31st!! ENJOY!!!
If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.
Socials
Anisha
@PartiesByAnisha on instagram
RSVP for the Bedroom Kandi 2026 social affair HERE
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click Here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

319. Sophisticated And Horny Feb 05, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!
This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday take the stage as they talk low libidos in relationships, whats a healthy amount of knocking boots one should be doing weekly, micro cheating, Old school vs New School corn and Courtney introduces a new segment called the Hard Question Jar...ENJOY!!!
If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click Here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

318. What Do T*tties Really Do Anyway? Jan 30, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week the crew open up about there love for the boob but Tahoe asks..what do t*tties really do anyway, then we read a few fantasies that people submitted for the March 7th play party, we ask what are some pre-secks things that we do to make the evening super sensual, how to treat the third so they dont feel used, and MORE! Enjoy!
f you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
Drive Boost
Visit vb.health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off or click HERE
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

317. Just Bring The Nut! Jan 21, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!
This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY!
If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.
If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss Jan 15, 2026

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Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!!
In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.
Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.
We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!
Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here
To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials
Kandi
@Kandi on Instagram
Kasha
@Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter
Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio
Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube!
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

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