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333a. I'm A Professional Side Dude Feat Marcus and Imani (Part One) May 14, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week we welcome Marcus, a self proclaimed Side Dude and Imani, a working actress and producer to talk not wanting to have secks with your partner all the time, not being able to perform when you want to, Marcus side dude adventures and relationships, needing to feel exclusive in the way your married bae cheats with you, getting a women that cheats not being the flex that men think, Imani attending one of Tahoe's first play parties, and how we would respond when a person youre dating revealing one of their kinks to you.
Tune into part two this Saturday or visit our patreon to hear the full episode ad free right now!
Interested in coming to our July 18th play party? Email us at HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have been vetted already or go to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out our vetting form
Socials:
Marcus
@IMoveDifferent and @MarcusHereToHelp on Instagram
Imani
@ImaniBlair on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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332. Theres A Facebook For Farting??? Feat @MistressMysThick May 07, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week we welcome Dominatrix and Milk Maiden Mys Thick as we talk the fart store and why she thinks Tahoe needs to create an acount, women feeling like they are not getting violated enough in the bedroom, not being able to watch TV while having secks, Tahoe suffering a bedroom loss with one of Mys Thicks old friends that he has yet to heal from, trying to define wack pussee, men having to shooulder the responsibility of giving great secks by themselves and needing women to step up their great secks game, creating a secks quiz for people to see where they land on the secks scale, women wanting to have experiences with two men and why men are reluctant to try it, and a serious conversation about the biological reasoning behind why men cheat. This episode was TOO good!!!! ENJOY!!!
Tickets for FreakNik dropping today! Must be vetted to attend!
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Tune into the full episode AD FREE on our Patreon HERE
Socials:
Mys Thick
@MistressMysThick on Instagram
@MadamMysThick on Twitter and FetLife
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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331. I Dont Do Corn, Corn Does Me Feat @IamPvnch Apr 29, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week we welcome Hip Hop Conneisuer Pvnch to talk the Mt. Rushmore of video tape corn stars, and content creators, Pvnchs experience being involved with corn stars and how Tahoe dropped the ball with a popular corn star, the evolution of the guys freak sides from when they were young, is men having two women the new norm and why Pvnch thinks it is not as favorable to men as they may think, the bad sides of the threesum, Pvnchs wildest night ever and MORE!!!!
Tune into the full episode AD FREE on our Patreon HERE
Socials:
Pvnch
@IamPvnch on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonThe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
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330a. I Turned A Hotel Into A House Party Feat Milo The Misfit Apr 27, 2026

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Nut Navy Mid Week ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!
This week we got a call from Milo The Misfit out of North Carolina to talk the lifestyle scene in North Carolina, his upcoming Hotel takeover play party and why we need to be more diligent about creating bonds with communities from other places that are into kink and lifestyle activities. ENJOY!!!
Socials:
Milo
@We_The_Roses on Twitter/X
@Roses_Are_Red2017 on Instagram
Head to RoseBudSocial.com to join the community and find out more about their lifestyle events and to attend their May 2nd play party!!
Go To ArtofRoses.bigcartel.com to shop their merch

330. Mastering My Squirt Potential Feat Ezzy Exotic Apr 23, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week Tahoe and Yesssterday sit with Content Creator and Corn Star Ezzy Exotic to talk her career in corn, times when she got more horny because she was super drunk, mastering her squirt potential, needing more after a good time, 3 rounds a day or 3 rounds a week, being a cumsluht, being typecasted in corn, saving her booty for marraige, her bucket list items, asking her man to watch her with another guy, a persons do and donts for a gangbang, having secks with two brothers and MORE!!!
Socials:
Ezzy Exotic
@EzzyExoticx on Instagram
@EzzyExotic on Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

329a. The Forbidden Is What I Desire Feat Mistress Unknown (Part Two) Apr 18, 2026

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Welcome Back to Part Two!
Who Mistress Unknown thinks is secretly the most submissive, the pleasure Mistress Unknown gets from having white submissives, her origin into kink, some of the wildest things shes seen in kink, and Tahoe gets dommed. ENJOY!!
Socials:
Mistress Unknown
MistressUnknown.com
@MistressUnknown.NY on Instagram
@Miss_Unk on Twitter
To go to Camp Femme Domme 8/15-8/17 head to CampFemDom.com or to attend the Orgazm Experience head to @OrgzmExperience on IG
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
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329. The Forbidden Is What I Desire Feat Mistress Unknown (part one) Apr 16, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week not only do we have a LEGEND in the room but we also have a monumental occassion as Tahoe gets dommed by our guest Mistress Unknown as we talk how she got into the lifestyle, her progression into being a domme, what makes a person dominant vs submissive, the do's and donts of having submissives, Being a domme that is in a committed relationship, men that are sure of themselves being naturally submissive and MORE!! Tune into part two this Saturday or head to our patreon now to hear the full episode ad free! ENJOY!
Socials:
Mistress Unknown
MistressUnknown.com
@MistressUnknown.NY on Instagram
@Miss_Unk on Twitter
To go to Camp Femme Domme 8/15-8/17 head to CampFemDom.com or to attend the Orgazm Experience head to @OrgzmExperience on IG
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

328. I Can Share You But You Cant Share Me Feat @Esmy_V Apr 08, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!
This week we welcome one of the most electrifying guests we have ever had on the couch @Esmy_V to talk why she started an onlyfans, her first one night stand and her stance on sharing men she's had relations with, if we had an Onlyfans what our niche would be, how covid changed the way people look at secks work, what Esmy expects from potential suitors and how they lose her attention. Esmy speaks on her activism in the community, how women need to see men outside of the things they do for them, how to be a financial domme, orgasming through scat play and MORE!!! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free!
Socials:
Esmy
@Esmy_V on instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

327. I Was Like This Before I Knew What "This" Was Apr 02, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!
Welcome Back to another episode of the freakiest show on earth as we welcome our superstar friend Hope Giselle to the stage to discuss kinks we would not want people to know about, would the guys get a d*ck rejuvenation if they need one, jerking off because you need to vs jerking off because you want to, ways to get your partner ready for the second round, Tahoe thinking hes a gooner, Hope says men going to the strip club is no different than them masturbating together, and sooooo much more!!! ENJOY!!!!
Socials:
Hope
@HopeGiselle on all socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
Drive Boost
Visit VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

326. The Art Of Setting The Mood Feat @EmannyMusic Mar 25, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
Welcome back guys! This week we welcome singer and podder Emanny of the JBP to the couch as Tahoe goes on a rant about big meat merchants not ruling the world, using what you have to actually please women instead of just f^*n them, messing with women that have a breeding kink, getting back with an old fling just to keep them from moving on, Emanny tells us about how he got into kink and his experiences at play parties, giving D'assages, like vs love and so much more!!! ENJOY!!
Socials:
Emanny
@EmannyMusic on all social media platforms (Twitter, Instagram, TikTok)
Listen to his show All Eyes On E on all pod streaming platforms
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
SoakingWet
Visit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off or click here
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

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