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315. D*ck Gumbo feat @ENYScoot Jan 08, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!
Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner?
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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314. Slap My Yssup, Slap My Face Dec 18, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!

313b. The Healing that made the Healer feat. Madame Sé (part two) Dec 12, 2025

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Welcome back to Part Two!
Madame Se continues with the mommy wound conversation, being the problem in her previous marraige, having postpartum depression after her pregnancies and feeling like she wouldnt be a good mother for her children, survivng her own depression and attempts to self harm, how to support people who suffer from depression, why Aysha says a woman should leave a guy who is not treating her right two weeks after his mom passes, and if she will ever be 'Ok"...ENJOY!
Socials:
Madame Sé
@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram
Book Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.com
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
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313a. The Healing that made the Healer Feat Madame Sé (Part One) Dec 10, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week Tahoe sits with Coach Bellamy aka Madame Sé aka The Kinky Oracle to talk her new show on the Hard Or Soft network RAW, starting her show Temple of Euphoria after being secksually assaulted at a play party, which of her kinks are attached to her trauma, graduating therapy, Tahoes fear of therapy, how she deals with being diagnosed with epilepsy, what she loves about the Hard Or Soft Show, wanting to be a Dominatrix, why she tends to sympathize with the male experience, Mommy wounds and so much more! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free or tune in this friday for Part Two! oh and ENJOY!!
Socials:
Madame Sé
@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on Instagram
Book Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.com
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

312. The Secks Needs To Be Falling Off The Bone Dec 04, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!
Welcome back guys! The crew starts the show asking if they think they are "nice" people, sucking d*ck for 100 million, Freddy from the Southern Pleasure Expo calls in to tell us about it, a poly woman talks about the difficulties dating monogamous people, Tahoe calls a friend to confess something about the past, a woman says to keep the big d*cks away from her, 5 issues men with big d*cks have to deal with and MORE! ENJOY!!
Come out to Dallas, TX to the Southern Pleasure Expo Dec 12th-14th!
Get Tickets Here!
Socials
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LoadBoost
Visit LoadBoost.com and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

311a. The Hoodoo Baddie Part Two Feat Alexis Jade Dec 01, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
Alexis Jade (@JupiterGrl_) is back to talk Christmas and liking experiences vs receiving gifts, having a child and dating, being single and ready to mingle (kinda), and she teaches Tahoe about the rest of the chakras and what they mean to the body and mind. We ask what exactly is a hoodoo baddie and then we get secksy as she talks about the things that make her hard and the things that make her soft. ENJOY!
Socials:
Alexis
@OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram
@Jupitergrl_ on Twitter
@DiaryofAlexisJade222 on Tiktok
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

311. The Hoodoo Baddie Feat Alexis Jade (Part One) Nov 26, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!
This week Tahoe gives the crew a week off for the holidays as he speaks with spiritual advisor Alexis Jade about the benefits of tantric secks and even if it could be harmful to do it. Pisces being psychics and people who protect their energy from being stolen by friends and lovers. Then we get into the different chakras of the body and how Alexis became so good at her craft. Tune into part two releasing this friday and ENJOY!!
Socials:
Alexis
@OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram
@Jupitergrl_ on Twitter
@DiaryofAlexisJade222 on Tiktok
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

310. I Can Take More Pain Than The Average Person Feat Hoodman Nov 20, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week Courtney shares a situation she went thru where a guy told her that her secks was lackluster, a man wants his wife to make up scenarios where she cheats on him and tell them to him while they're having intercourse, improper use of numbing cream, the play party recap and then we are joined by HoodMan who is a pro Bottom for femme dommes who tells us how they became a bottom, what they're into and how they wound up having multiple surgeries after taking their desire for pain a little too far. Then we have an exhibition of sorts as Hoodman teaches Courtney how to top them. ENJOY!!!
Socials:
Hoodman
Fetlife: Hoodman
Twitter @Hoodman2nd
Email Hoodman87@proton.me
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LoadBoost
Visit LoadBoost.com and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

309. Frog Splashing In The Sheets Nov 05, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
This week the crew talk the typical men that love bigger women (Yesssterday coded), a guy taking too much time to set up a first date, giving to give vs giving to receive, seeing signs of other people in a person you're datings home, discussing boundaries before going to a swinger party, telling your partner that you want to engage secksually with other people, being in a relationship without adequate communication about your desires, the difference between making love, quickies and f*cking, the different kinks prevalent in each state and MORE! ENJOY!!
Socials:
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and add code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all products!
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

308. Put Ya T*tties On The Glass! Oct 29, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!
This week the crew talk uncomfortable situations that happen when involving a third partner in your relationship, when you partner cheats with somebody moore popular than you, how a mans health effects his peen performance, only giving good secks when your partner is used to getting great secks from you, intercourse not being the most pleasurable secksual expereince for women, the proper way to engage with a woman secksually when you dont have a big peen, and the way secks can positively affect your mood. ENJOY!!
Socials:
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

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