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307. The Vibesexuals featuring Logina and Ash of SuciaQueer Oct 22, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week we welcome Ash And Logina of SuciaQueer to talk their purpose in building the Sucia Queer community, Ashs transition and how it feels to have the testosterone secks "cravings" (lol), Loginas experience being egytian with parents that are from differing religious backgrounds and finding answers about herself once she discovered the queer community, living in a world where ppl are hateful towards ppl that are different than them, how colonization has informed peoples hate towards kink and gender differences, why people should be educated about the effects of psychedelics and its connection to schizoprenia, which gender Ash loves being more, and Loginas orgasm experience having relations with phantom d*ck! So many gems in this episode. ENJOY!!!!
Socials
Logina
@Queering_Existentialism
Ash
@EatMyAshlee on Instagram
Email Ash about the Queer Nightlife Community Center at Ash.H.Lee@gmail.com
Join the Sucia Queer community at @SuciaQueer and @SuciaNYC pages on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
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306. She wants Two and a Possible Feat Master Radiant Oct 15, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week we welcome Master Radiant to the show to talk wild asks in the bedroom, choosing a safe domme over being with one that doesnt respect your boundaries, the difference between a Domme and a top and a bottom and a sub, your kinks might coming from your traumas, what a daddy domme is, being married in a polyamorous relationship, feeling empathy for your husband/wife when they go thru a break up with their gf/bf, your wife/husband disresoecting your time with your gf/bf and is there really such a thing as polyamory if you have a primary partner or is that a scam. Great episode Guys! ENJOY!!!
Socials:
Radiant
@Master_Radiant on Instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
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305. Im an Oral A$$ N***a Feat King Noire Oct 08, 2025

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Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!
This week we welcome Royal Fetishes own King Noire to the show to talk the coochie being the window to happiness and peace, Kings take on Loon not wanting to say a man is attractive, are women naturally nurturing and if so what is a mans natural "thing", would you rather your partner cheat once or flirt with everybody all the time but never cheat, and how King felt growing up pansexual in Jersey and when he finally felt the confidence or awareness to openly identify as pansexual. Great episode guys! ENJOY!!!
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Socials:
King
KingNoirexxx.com
RoyalFetishxxx.com
@TheRealKingNoire on Instagram
@KingNoire on Twitter
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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GetTheButters
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304. Im Not Swallowing No Sad Come Feat Kasha Vannessa Johnson Oct 01, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!
This week we welcome Kasha Vannessa Johnson on the show to talk the nut navys "Brotherhood", women having fantasies about being DP'd and other fantasies they may have while in a relationship, body painter @IPaintHumans then joins us to demonstrate what to expect at the Halloween Party as he paints on all the hosts while we record, when you a moment happens that ruins the bedroom action you had planned for the night, Tahoe ruining the moment when his lady was trying to get freaky, Kashas new book Honey On Your Tongue and how women can change the way they communicate to get what they want in the relationship. This was a MASTER CLASS in communication by Kasha so tune in and take notes!!!! And ENJOY!
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Socials:
Go to www.KashaJohnson.com to connect to all things Kasha Johnson
@Au_Natural38 on Instagram
Andy
@IPaintHumans on Instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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303. D*ck Fight Island Feat HoneyDippedCreamPuff Sep 24, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week we welcome content creator HoneyDipped Cream Puff to the show as we talk one of our Semen (Seamen) in the Nut Navy making us a new intro, Honey actually being so turned on by audio that she masturbates to it, our love for hentai and how far back the crossover between hentai and anima goes, our superhero fantasies, if a person asked us to sleep with their partner would we actually do it, themed rooms for the play party, Loon watching as an old friend pleasured herself with a toy, Honeys career as a content creator and being in a polyamorous marraige with another content creator, have we ever been with somebody that filled up all your needs completely, the way we bond with our friends vs the way we bond with our partners and so much more. This episode was GOOOOD!!! ENJOY!!
Head to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com/vetting-form to get vetted for the play party or email us at HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if youve already been vetted in the past and just want to attend!
Socials:
Honey
@HoneyDippedC.P on Instagram
@Honey_DippedC on Twitter
Vote For Honey for Unsung Darling, Favorite Female Independent Content Creator in the AVN Awards and Favorite Female Content Creator in The XMA awards!
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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302. Fantasy Island Sep 17, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week the crew talk about what they actually thought play parties were before they actually experienced one vs what they actually are, finding out your partner is an exhibitionist, what their secks name would be, Tahoes plans for the Halloween play party, Yesssterday takes Tahoe to Homie Court, Tahoe not being able to pleasure himself while on vacation with Loon, the guys experience at Sex Down South, Tahoe and Loons experience watch a live porn scene at Sex Down South and if straight men should be welcomed into a Queer centered space with open arms or is it understandable if there is some hesitation by the LGBTQIA community. This convo got deep! ENJOY!
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Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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301. Sex Down South With Tia And Marla Sep 10, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week Tahoe and Loon travel down to the Sex Down South convention in Atlanta and sit with the founders Tia and Marla to discuss how they met and blossomed some pretty amazing kickbacks into the only all black sex positive convention that Sex Down South is today. We discuss some of the NSFW happenings at the convention, the seminars that gave Tahoe some deep introsection about himself and his feelings on being a Cishet black man in a queer and female centered space. This was such a great conversation! We look forward to seeing you all next year at Sex Down South! ENJOY!!
Socials
Join the sex down south community and buy tickets for Sex Down South 2026 at SexDownSouth.com
and follow them at @SDSCon on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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300. You Cant Just Date For The Sake Of Dating Anymore Sep 03, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week the guys get together for a dudecast as they talk ppl who do the most to "market" their relationship on social media, tahoe and Loon revisit their argument in last weeks episode, men adjusting the way they speak to women and around women, the reason why men dont spend as much on women that have money vs how they spend on women that dont have money, Yesssterday getting put on a performance enhancement plan and more! ENJOY!!
Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
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Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
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299. What Do You Mean You Had A Train Ran On You??? Aug 27, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week we talk when your friend finds out that your a freak, when to tell somebody about your freaky side, how much have you spent on your toy collection, a guy finds out about his girlfriends freaky past, remembering your favorite secks partner, can you teach someone to be your best partner ever, cuffing season is here and MORE..ENJOY!!
Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

298. K**lin Rodney From The Back Aug 20, 2025

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week the crew men having no rizz (not knowing how to talk to women), Tahoe says he is jealous of guys who have a lot of game, straight men attending a "bate session", Loon turns up at the play party, Courtney makes an admission, a guy has an interesting experience with a trans man, a story about a male threesum, Courtneys new audio book is loading, being in a sexless relationship, telling your friend that you saw their ex on a date, and MORE!!! ENJOY!!!!
Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and Twitter
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LOADBOOST
Visit LoadBoost.com and use code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the LoadBoost, Soaking Wet, and Drive Boost products!
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

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