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342. You Can Fk Her But NO CUDDLING! Feat @NYCThickums Jul 16, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!
This week we welcome @NYCThickums to talk women loving boyfriend d*ck, trying to be with someone with a smaller member and the adjustments she tried to make to make it work, testing the bewtyhole to see if men were with bewty play, the connection between mens ego and secks, what pp get from swapping partners or letting them have secks with other ppl, being open to sharing your partner and the scale of boundaries that people place on such activities, the conversations that need to be had before opening your relationship, the effect of religion on your secksual inhibitions, and so much more!! ENJOY!!
Socials:
@NYCThickums on Instagram
@ThisBronxGirlWrites for her blog
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
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341. Is A Little Delulu Necessary? Feat @TheRealMarkel Jul 08, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week we welcome Markel Logan Coleman (@TheRealMarkel) to talk not telling the truth in the bedroom, how the miltary shaped some of Markels personality traits, having an affair on his then boyfriend with his now husband, understanding why some ppl cheat, allowing your partner to step out for freaky tithings, and Markel takes over the show to ask Loon and Yesssterday some questions. ENJOY!
Socials:
Markel
@TheRealMarkel on instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
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340. Being Gay is Actually Mad Lit Feat Mr Dominus Jul 01, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLL!!! Strap yourselves in TIGHT because this episode is a DOOZY!! Mr Dominus steps in and takes Tahoe and Loon for the ride of their lives as we talk poly and hierarchical relationships and whether gay men suffer from the same ego/control and jealousy that staright men go through in their relationships. Trying to explain to your partner that you needing other ppl has nothing to do with them, Dominus being a platinum gay member and what it takes to maintain that member status, different hookup sites in the Gay community and how free gay men are in their secksual exploits, Dominus love language, where his arousal to men comes from and when he realized he was gay. The convo gets intense as he talks his west indian family and their response to his sexual orientation and lifestyle, wearing flags to show what types of kinks you're into, his love for and SOOOO much more. This is a Platinum level episode!!! ENJOY!!!
Socials:
Dominus
@MrDominus_DC on Instagram
Listen to the @FreakNSeePodcast
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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339. Why Cant More Women Be Like Daphne Joy Feat Marley Moore Jun 24, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
This week we welcome an old friend of the show, content creator and corn star Marley Moore, to talk Tahoes lil man not being present, Daphne Joys effect on men since shes been doing interviews, why women dont like Daphne Joy, Marleys early retirement and getting back into the corn game, how corn has changed, Being a sensual Domme and what that entails, Domme'ing Yt guys vs Domme'ing Black guys (specifically Yesssterday), the domme who went to jail for a kink gon wrong, what a JOI is and how Marley gives them, women sneaking out cums and men being able to tell or not being able to tell when a woman climaxes and so much more... ENJOY!!!
Socials
Marley
@MarleyDaBooty on Twitter
@MarleyXMoore on Instagram
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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338. Are We Identifying Ourselves or Are We Being Branded? Feat Lamark and Chelsea Jun 17, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week we welcome Lamark and Chelsea of Lamark After Dark as we ask whats TOO horny, who is hornier straight ppl or the lgbt community, sharing locations with your partner, straight guys that like ssa play and the women who wont date them, water sports and the people who like it, why women hate guys that ask them to get it hard for them, why straight men are so caught up on being super masculine, the effect women have on straight mens seckuality, the war between straights and gays and why it is, gay guys mistaken freindship from straight men for them possibly being interested in more, Tahoe plans a trip for his lady and the kinky things they got into. Great Episode yall!!! ENJOY!!!
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Socials:
Lamark
@Lamark_Fresh on Instagram
Chelsea
@OMGItsNettai on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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337. Is There A Part Of The Spectrum Called Being Dicktistic?? Jun 10, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!
This week the guys talk women who actually love sucking, Madame Se calls in to discuss the guys perspective about Daphne Joy, why some men dont want to "slut their wives out", Tahoe being open to his partner being with other people, men liking women that have a scent to their private parts vs guys that dont, and Young MA says she "targets" straight women and enjoys dating them more than bi or lesbian women. About to go get on a plane.. ENJOY!!!!
Tickets almost sold out for Freaknik In Brooklyn!! email us at HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com for the ticket link or go to TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

336. Secks Explained with Krystal Tantric Yogi Jun 03, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
This week we welcome tantic yogi instructor @KrystalTantricYogi to talk experiencing secks through your real feelings instead of just trying to get to a goal, discovering a new relationship with secks and her body after getting into tantra and yogi, men not being ready to experiencing true feelings because of a fear of vulnerability, entering into the psychic world and the females cosmic cavern, men valuing their penis and understanding how important penetration is to women, sharing your energy with someone who does not deserve it, TRIGGER WARNING ...we speak about Daphne Joys response to her seckstape being released against her will.. (sensitive topic)..annnnd Tahoe introduces a new segment. ENJOY!!!!
Tickets to the FreakNik In Brooklyn party are on sale NOW!! email us at HardorSoftevents@gmail.com if you have been vetted to get the ticket link or go to our website at TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials:
Krystal
@KrystalTantricYogi On Instagram
Join Krystals patreon at Patreon.com/SexExplained
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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335. I'ma Need You To Come Catch this Gooch May 28, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
This week the guys talk aggressive women talking their pants off, switching personalities in the bedroom, do men reveal how freaky they are first or do we wait to see where women are at with it, how men get women to eat the bussy, who was more into discovering booty play men or women, the best position to try anal for the first time, do we share the corn we like with our partners, feeling unsafe sharing your freaky side with your partner, wacking off in the shower, women taking the lead in the bedroom, our fav tracks off the drake albums to have secks to and more..ENJOY!!
Tickets to the FreakNik In Brooklyn party are on sale NOW!! email us at HardorSoftevents@gmail.com if you have been vetted to get the ticket link or go to our website at TheHardorSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials:
Loon
@KingLoonthe1st on Instagram
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
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334. Courtneys Farewell May 20, 2026

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Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
After almost two years on the show Courtney bows out and wishes the guys farewell as she decides to move on from being a host of the show. We discuss the reasons she decided to leave and recap our time together on the show. We also talk flirting just to flirt, screaming someones name while you masturbate, spiritual handjobs??, and Tahoe asks what happened to the superhead movement. Then the crew surprise Courtney with a farewell gift.... ENJOY!!
Interested in coming to our July 18th play party? Email us at HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have been vetted already or go to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out our vetting form
Socials:
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Yessssterday
@Yesssterday on Instagram and Twitter
Courtney
@Courtney_Shav on Instagram
Loon
@Kingloonthe1st on Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
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333b. I'm A Professional Side Dude (Part Two) May 16, 2026

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Its a Saturday ROLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!
The episode continues with Marcus and Imani.
Full Description might get uploaded later.
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