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130. How I stay true to my abstinence journey with so much temptation around. Plus my journey isn't about making a man 'do right' by me. Jun 23, 2022

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Episode to listen to next: 29 Titled: Theresa on: waiting until marriage to have sex is that the ONLY way I can get a lasting marriage? Does Jesus teach that? Click Here.

Also episode 31. Titled: Why praying hasn't gotten you a good man (yet). ⁣Click Here.

Hit me up for the next episode you should listen to after episode 31!

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Now, suppose you are ready to invest in yourself, to learn how to do the work to be happy single, truly. You want tools to do better in this area, unlearn bad Christian dating theology, learn how to set and KEEP boundaries and you know you have nothing else to lose. In, that case, I invite you to apply and join the wait list to Single You Academy.

Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

129. Jalencia on: how/why she kept getting the same dysfunctional results with men until she joined Single You Academy. Plus does this mean I can take credit for her boyfriend/healthy relationship? Jun 09, 2022

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Intro to Jalencia

:50 Did anyone have a conversation with her about what makes a healthy relationship vs. unhealthy? No and how that affected her dating life.
2:20 I (Jalencia) was dating to just date and how that set her up for dysfunction.
5:08 How did Jalencia find me and why she decided to spend the money to join Single You Academy.
14:13 Why did SYA work for you and advice didn't? The homework and I was ready to face myself.
19:00 How Jalencia handled assignments inside of SYA and 2 jobs.
21:35 How the self love work is different inside of Single You Academy regardless if you've heard the advice/guidance before.
23:13 How Jalencia has changed and learned boundaries all because of our time together.
25:43 How Jalencia established a healthy relationship with her now boyfriend while working with me (Reka). What she did differently this time around vs. what she did in her past that got her into dysfunctional relationships.
29:30 How did her now boyfriend receive all the questions she had for him?
32:10 How did she approach him? Attitude and demands or sweet and with grace? What questions did he ask her?
34:29 Sometimes doing 'the work' causes you to have to cut off friends. How did Jalencia handle that?
40:30 What was the most honest realization about herself? Her biggest growth and how long did it take her to start seeing a change in herself after joining Single You Academy. Plus how did her relationship with God change.
47:01 How she is continuing to do the work now that she's done with Single You Academy.
52:53 Jalencia on why you should join SYA.

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Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

128. (Part 2) Chris On: Good men aren't running around talking about they want a submissive woman + why we (women) should actually want a Beta male. Jun 02, 2022

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Listen to Part 1 here.

More information on Single You Academy Here.

00:00 A good man isn't running around screaming that he wants a submissive woman.
6:27 My abstinence journey, Chris' respect and the ebs and flows of handling it when it gets hard.
22:48 Alpha Vs. Beta man. The difference and the definition.
41:04 Our influence over men but how we're using it wrong.

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

127. {Bonus} Monday Motivation: Handling the "good morning beautiful" text loops and men who never ask you questions. May 30, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

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Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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126. (Part 1) Chris on: his savior complex with women and what we should know about men today. Plus unlearning bad religious dating theology. May 26, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

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Intro to Chris. You can find him here. And grab his TikTok swag here.
4:11 Did anyone have a conversation with you about what makes a healthy relationship vs unhealthy? How we've normalized dysfunction
6:40 How religion affected him positively and negatively when it came to dating.
9:20 Women don't know what a God fearing man is a real man.
18:10 So what is a real man?
23:10 Chris on his dating history and drama with women. His savior complex.
33:25 Stop confusing men.
35:30 Spirit of fear over having babies.
39:08 He who finds a wife finds a good thing... may have you moving with a negative mindset.
47:17 Holding myself accountable to the woman I say I want to be and only presenting myself to the man I say that I want.

--- to be continued.

Other episodes we mentioned. Bryan's episode.

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Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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My DM is always open! Find me on IG here. (the fake TikTok account, I'd love for you to report = @justmeRekaa)

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Email = Reka@justmeReka.com

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

125. {Bonus} Monday Motivation: How to know when to "teach him" or leave him... May 23, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

---- Now, suppose you are ready to invest in yourself, to learn how to do the work to be happy single, truly. You want tools to do better in this area, unlearn bad Christian dating theology, learn how to set and KEEP boundaries and you know you have nothing else to lose. In, that case, I invite you to apply and join the wait list to Single You Academy. Doors Close June 5, 2022

Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

DM me *boundaries* or Click here to complete your application now!

My DM is always open! Find me on IG here. (the fake TikTok account, I'd love for you to report = @justmeRekaa)

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Email = Reka@justmeReka.com

Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.

Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

124. (Part 2) Bryan on: creating a safe space for his wife, even before she was his wife. May 19, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

---- If you haven't listen to Part 1 with Bryan, I suggest you do that first. It would just make more sense sis. Go here.

In this episode with Bryan we pick right up where he was discussing how he should have never gotten revenge on is first wife. Which made his now wife (then girlfriend) question his character and ask a lot of deep ass discerning questions of him...

3:47 Bryan explains, It's ok to talk about your ex and that experience in your new budding relationship but there is a limit.
12:36 Handling phone triggers and those conversations.
18:45 Approaching new relationships with hard conversations

**Spoiler Alerts** for The Ultimatum Season 1 and Temptation Island Season 6

25:21 'The Ultimatum' (Netflix) and our take on the relationship between Ray and Zay
36:25 Kendall and Erica of 'Temptation Island' (Peacock) and our take on the relationship.

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Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

123. {Bonus} Single You Academy is Open + Monday Motivation: Are you good at setting boundaries with men or nah? May 16, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

DM me *boundaries* or Click here to complete your application now!

My DM is always open! Find me on IG here. (the fake TikTok account, I'd love for you to report = @justmeRekaa)

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Email = Reka@justmeReka.com

Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.

Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

122. (Part 1) Bryan on: creating a safe space for his wife, even before she was his wife. May 12, 2022

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More information on Single You Academy Here.

----- You can connect with Bryan here. The conversation I had with Dai here.

Intro.

1:05 There isn't enough Good men talking about their healthy relationships (with their wife).
4:15 How were you thinking about dating and marriage leading up to meeting Dai... at Starbucks
15:11 What was said and/or what was the vibe for you to even think Dai was your wife?
20:54 Men should speed up and women slow down when it comes to dating.
25:41 What kinds of question did you ask Dai to get to know her and show her interest?
27:04 Why is masculine energy bad for women?
32:05 Was Bryan ever intimidated by Dai?
35:40 Did Dai help him start his healing journey?
40:25 Men don't operate from the emotional space (especially if they don't do the work) but we grown now and I'll never take that excuse again.
41:43 Dai asked the questions that made Bryan become. What was those hard questions?

... to be continued to next week!

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Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

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Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a

{Bonus} Monday motivation and what's coming on Thursday... May 09, 2022

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Next week we'll talk to Bryan, my friend Dai's husband. She's been on the show before you can listen here. Bryan will be discussing how he created a safe space for Dai even before she was his wife. :-)

------ More information on Single You Academy Here.

Thank you again for your consideration. I look forward to learning more about you and how we might be-able to help.

DM me *boundaries* or Click here to complete your application now!

My DM is always open! Find me on IG here. (the fake TikTok account, I'd love for you to report = @justmeRekaa)

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Email = Reka@justmeReka.com

Single You the Pillow Collection; Shop Here.

Xo 💕𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘊𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘦𝘥 𝘕𝘓𝘗 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩, 𝘙𝘦𝘬a