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Fashion Is More Than Clothes–It’s Culture with Sandrine Charles Sep 02, 2025

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#308: Is working in fashion as glamorous as it seems?

This week, I’m joined by fashion consultant and PR powerhouse Sandrine Charles for a conversation that I know is going to stick with you. From working her way up in the fashion industry to starting her own agency and co-founding the Black in Fashion Council, Sandrine has built a career rooted in intention, integrity, and impact.

We talk about what it actually takes to grow a career in fashion PR, how she knew it was time to branch out on her own, and why representation in fashion goes way beyond who’s walking the runway.

Whether you’re in a creative industry, figuring out your next career move, or just trying to build something that feels more aligned—you’ll get so much out of this conversation. This episode is for anyone who's craving a more values-aligned path—and wants the inspiration to go after it.

We also talk about:

How Sandrine broke into the fashion industry
The not-so-glamorous truth about PR
Why she started her own agency (and how she knew she was ready)
How the Black in Fashion Council came to be
Why fashion is about so much more than just clothes

Resources:

Follow Sandrine on Instagram @sandrinecharles
Learn more about Sandrine’s agency https://www.sandrinecharles.com/
Follow the Black in Fashion Council on Instagram @blackinfashioncouncil
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

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Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.

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Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus] Aug 29, 2025

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#307: This week, I’m diving into something that’s been coming up a lot in my own life and in so many conversations with friends, too: the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we sabotage ourselves.

In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why other people don’t actually have the power to block what’s meant for us—but we do. Whether it’s through self-doubt, procrastination, perfectionism, or just plain fear, we can end up being our own biggest haters.

I’m also sharing some mindset shifts and honest reflections that have helped me recognize when I’m getting in my own way and how I try to move through it with a little more self-compassion and a lot more clarity.

If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that you might be the one holding yourself back… this one’s for you.

Resources:

Follow me on IG @lesalfred
Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
Follow me on TikTok @balancedles
Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypod
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

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Don’t Call Me Delulu and Other Unpopular Opinions [Solo] Aug 26, 2025

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#306: I usually keep things pretty neutral on She’s So Lucky, but today I’m spicing things up with some unpopular opinions you didn’t see coming. From the phrases we need to retire, to my unfiltered thoughts about your favorite TV shows, to the truth about influencer culture, join me for a casual kiki dishing some hot takes.

Resources:

Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template
Episode 297: How to Be More Lucky: Lucky Girl Commandments You Need to Thrive
Episode 304: Stop Being So Realistic:Why You’re Playing Yourself While Playing It Safe

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Keep in touch:

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Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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The Media Moves Fast—Here’s How to Keep Up with Nikki Ogunnaike of Marie Claire Aug 19, 2025

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#305: What does it mean to actually understand the media you’re consuming—and how does that shape how you move through the world? That’s what we’re getting into this week with our guest, Nikki Ogunnaike.

Nikki is the Editor in Chief of Marie Claire **US, host of Marie Claire’s Nice Talk podcast and one of the sharpest voices in fashion and culture today. Having held roles at Harper’s Bazaar, GQ, Elle, Glamour, InStyle, and Vanity Fair, she’s spent years helping people not just look good, but think critically about what they’re watching, reading, and sharing.

In this episode, we talk about the power of media literacy, why your personal style isn’t a destination, and why having your own lens is one of the most underrated success tools out there.

We Also Talk About…

How we can be more conscious consumers of fashion and media
How running has helped her find clarity and community
Her “Ins and Outs” for 2025—and whether they still hold up
Why media literacy is a non-negotiable in today’s world
The difference between copying style vs. cultivating it

Resources:

Listen to Nice Talk on Apple Podcasts
Listen to Nice Talk on Spotify
Follow Marie Claire on Instagram @marieclairemagazine
Follow Marie Claire on TikTok @marieclairemagazine
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

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Keep in touch:

Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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Stop Being So Realistic: Why You’re Playing Yourself By Playing It Safe [Solo] Aug 12, 2025

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#304: Is being too “realistic” keeping you stuck?

This week, I’m getting into something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately: how being “realistic” can actually be a form of shrinking our goals to fit our fears.

In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why being realistic isn’t always the wise or grounded choice it’s made out to be, and how it might actually be self-sabotage disguised as protection.

I also share some mindset shifts that have helped me stop shrinking my goals to fit what feels “safe” and start thinking bigger again—without spiraling into overwhelm. If you’ve ever talked yourself out of something because it felt too bold or too unlikely, this one’s for you.

In this episode, I talk about:

Why “being realistic” can be a trap
How I’ve noticed it showing up in my own life
What to do when your big goals start to feel too far away
The difference between grounded strategy and self-sabotage
Encouragement to stop playing small and dream a little bigger

Resources:

Follow me on IG @lesalfred
Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
Follow me on TikTok @balancedles
Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypod
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

Sponsors:

Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.
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Simply Pop is a new fruit-forward bevy of prebiotic sodas with 6 grams of fiber. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.
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The Secret to Building A Community-Driven Business with Nana Agyemang of EveryStylishGirl Aug 05, 2025

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#303: What does it look like to build a brand that’s rooted in real community, not just clout? That’s what we’re diving into this week with our guest, Nana Agyemang.

Nana is a journalist-turned-entrepreneur, founder of EveryStylishGirl, and the visionary behind Sip N’ Slay — one of today’s most sought-after events for women creatives and media professionals.

In this episode, we talk about building an authentic personal brand, why community is the best business strategy, and how Nana is planning for early retirement (at 40!) without sacrificing joy or alignment.

We Also Talk About…

What it really means to build an authentic brand
How Sip N’ Slay became the go-to event for women creatives
Mapping out your long game (and making peace with slow growth)
Shifting your money mindset for legacy and wealth
Knowing when to say no, and why boundaries are essential

Resources:

Get your tickets for Sip N’ Slay NYC on August 23
Follow Nana on Instagram @itsreallynana
Follow Nana on TikTok @itsreallynanaaa
Follow EveryStylishGirl on Instagram @everystylishgirl
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

Sponsors:

Function: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.
Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Learn more at thefabricofourlives.com.
Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.com
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Keep in touch:

Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
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Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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The Ambition Trap: Amina AlTai on Finding Purpose in Hustle Culture Jul 29, 2025

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#302: What if the version of success you’re chasing isn’t actually yours?

In this episode I’m joined by Amina AlTai, executive coach and author of The Ambition Trap, to unpack what it really means to pursue ambition with purpose. We talk about the difference between chasing success to prove something vs. purposeful ambition that aligns with your values and desires.

Amina shares the personal and professional wake-up calls that led her to redefine ambition, why we can feel our lowest during moments that are supposed to be our highest, and why fulfillment isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. If you’ve ever hit a milestone and felt underwhelmed, this conversation is for you.

We Also Talk About…

Why performative ambition can leave you feeling empty
The signs you’re stuck in the Ambition Trap
How to reconnect with purposeful, aligned goals
The difference between identity-driven success and ego-driven success
Permission to want more, but for the right reasons

Resources:

Check out Amina’s book The Ambition Trap
Follow Amina on Instagram @aminaaltai
Follow Amina on TikTok @aminaaltai
Follow Amina on LinkedIn
Check out Amina’s podcast, Amina Change Your Life
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

Sponsors:

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Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping by visiting nutrafol.com and using the promo code BALANCEDLES.

Keep in touch:

Follow on IG: @balancedles @lesalfred
Follow on TikTok @balancedles
Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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How to Become the Woman of Your Dreams with Kendra Austin Jul 22, 2025

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#301: What does it mean to be the woman of your own dreams?

That’s what we’re exploring in this week’s episode with guest, Kendra Austin. Kendra is a model, author, content creator, podcast host, and serial entrepreneur who lives authentically and unapologetically.

In this episode, we talk about what it’s really like to lean into your evolution and show up as your full self from glow-ups, to spiritual awakenings.

We Also Talk About…

Releasing the grip of perfectionism
Exploring various creative pursuits
What it means to build self-trust
The importance of play and curiosity as a means of self-discovery

Resources:

Follow Kendra on Instagram @kendramorous
Follow Kendra on TikTok @kendramorous
Listen to Kendra’s podcast, Eldest Daughter
Check out Kendra’s website https://www.kendraaustin.com/
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

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The RealReal: The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/lucky
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Keep in touch:

Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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The Best Advice for Creating Your Own Luck (300th Episode!) Jul 15, 2025

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#300: Clovers, we’ve officially reached our 300th episode of She’s So Lucky! To celebrate this milestone, we’re taking a walk down memory lane to reflect on some of our top episodes.

Relive some of our greatest hits, and the gems you may have missed for creating your own luck.

Episodes Shared:

Resources:

Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template
Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Follow on TikTok: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred

Sponsors:

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Function Health: Take charge of your health through lab testing with Function. Visit functionhealth.com/lucky or use the gift code LUCKY for a $100 credit towards your membership.

Produced by Dear Media.

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How to Keep Going When You’re Over It: Taking the Hill with Marcel Dinkins Jul 08, 2025

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#299: If you had to choose between running up a hill, or taking a flat road, which would you take? If you automatically said flat road, this episode may inspire you to take the hill.

Today we’re sitting down with Marcel Dinkins — Peloton instructor, podcast host and athlete — for a fun, lively conversation on what it means to move through discomfort. Marcel inspires us to take the best route, which isn’t always the easy one, and find new ways to reinvent ourselves along the way. If you’re looking for motivation to push through plateaus, this episode is it.

We Also Talk About…

Marcel’s career transition from the Army, to fashion, to fitness
How Marcel moved to New York on a whim in her early 20s and hasn’t looked back
Marcel’s funny run-in with Tracee Ellis Ross during the Girlfriends era
How Marcel manifested her dream job as a Peloton instructor
What it means to take the hill, and why you should

Resources:

Follow Marcel on Instagram @officialmarcelfit
Listen to Marcel’s podcast, Take the Hill
Subscribe to Marcel’s YouTube Channel
Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template

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Function Health: Function is offering 160+ Lab Tests for $365 to anyone who signs up between July 7th and July 11th. To learn more and get started, visit functionhealth.com/LUCKY
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The RealReal: The RealReal is attainable luxury that upgrades your personal style. Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to therealreal.com/lucky

Keep in touch:

Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com

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