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Lingerie Humiliation, Sex Sans Erection & Sexual Worthiness Oct 30, 2020

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The brilliant Dr. Lexx Brown-James joins us to share their insights and answers your sex & relationship questions including: How to deal with feelings of rejection. What’s the real difference between truth and honesty. What to do when you or your lover lose their erection. Managing feelings related to weight gain and why more weight can mean more pleasure! How to get over fears of initiating sex. How to feel worthy of love, sex and pleasure without the pressure to “do more” in bed. Follow Dr. Lexx on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. This podcast is brought to you by Cliovana. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Lingerie Humiliation, Sex Sans Erection & Sexual Worthiness 00:00:00 - 00:05:08 You're listening to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast sex and relationship advice you can you off tonight? Welcome to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon. We're here with my always thought the other half. Dr. Jess. How are you? Oh, wonderful. It's going to be 6 with Dr. Lex today. Oh mixing it up. Yeah, but it's not me playing a role. It's an actual other person doctor Lex the therapist and we're going to be answering some of your questions and I have to say we do receive so many questions and we fall behind and I always feel badly that we don't get to all of them Faithfully. We're going to power through a few today and I want to open with a question for Brandon. It's a nice short and sweet one that I received on Instagram before we dive off. In want to say thank you to our October sponsored Cleo Vana. You can learn more at cleveland.com. Cleveland uses sound wave therapy to induce a number of biological responses, like cellular reaction and nerve stimulation and improve blood supply and improve nerve functioning and neovascularization. All of which are intended to lead to be improved orgasms. So cleveland.com check them out. And now let's dive into Brandon's thoughts on a short and sweet question. This person says, so I'm single and people say I should lower my standards. I think that is total BS. Do you agree with me or them while they really only gave me two choices there so I don't ever standard question because is it specific to me? Did you have to lower your standards for me? I don't know if I had standards when I was dating know honestly. I'm putting it back on you. I know when I am. No, no. No, I don't know that I had specific standards when we met I was young and I don't think I was specifically looking for a relationship or not looking for a relationship. I didn't grow up with much in mind in terms of you know, having a partner or not having a partner had like a boyfriend in high school that I we kind of just fell into it, but it was not one of those people that you know dreamed of my wedding or dreamed of a specific life. I didn't think that far ahead. So I don't think that I don't even want to say you met my standards or exit or you know, exceeded my expectations. I mean, you're you're fabulous. I don't want to I don't want to say I mean I'm going to save you right now, but by interjecting I blah blah, but I I mean on so many levels you say you you were you exceeded everything I could have possibly hoped for in a partner and I think the more I got The more I've gotten to know you over the last almost twenty years t...

Astrology of Sex & Relationships Oct 23, 2020

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Author and Astrologist Mecca Woods joins Jess and Brandon to weigh-in on whether or not you should consider your Zodiac sign in dating, and shares her insights on: The relational and sexual strengths of each Zodiac sign How air, earth, water and fire signs differ from one another How we can benefit from embracing elements from all Astrological signs The areas you may want to work on according to your Zodiac sign How Astrology can support self-development Astrology as a motivational tool as opposed to a destiny-focused blueprint Follow Mecca on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. Also, check out her podcast: Stars On Fire This podcast is brought to you by Cliovana. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Astrology of Sex & Relationships 00:00:00 - 00:05:09 You're listening to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast sex and relationship advice you can you off tonight? Welcome to the sex with dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon. We're here with my lovely other page. Dr. Jess. Hey, hey, hey, you're ready to talk about you as an aquarium. I am I'm I'm definitely ready to dive into that Wormhole. I you know anything about being an aquarium. No other than having had been born in February. That's about it. Okay, so your your birthday, thank you. Yes, I think our eighteen-month-old nice note both day. There you go. We're going to be talking about astrology and sex and relationships and personality and all that fun stuff before we dive in I want to say a big change. Q to our October sponsor Cleo vanes Oakley Ivana uses sound wave technology to enhance orgasms at the cellular level by targeting the clitoris, you know, I love the clitoris and the treatment boost the process of regenerating cells in the clitoris which results in improved blood flow to the area. Sounds good. Hun. Sounds amazing. I wish they had something like that for those of us with penises. No, no don't even stop it stop honestly because there's so many treatments for penises Cleveland earlier response to the lack of treatment for clitoris has well, it sounds great. All right, let's talk. Let's talk astrology. So not too long ago. I was part of a press event for the whole bunch of the nova-2 from Levi, which is just an incredible toy. So it is like a Rabbit vibrator, but it actually works. So it has an internal team that presses against the G'zOne that area on the upper wall and it has its own separate motor and it's adjustable and then it has the outside arm in the old days. These are like little bunny ears, but it has a full bulb that presses against the external clitoris and you can control each arm the internal and external separately so you can yep. Obviously you can control it at the source or you can pair it with the app. Anyhow, we've I've had this big launch party online for the nova-2 and they hired an astrologist Mecca Woods to to discuss the ways in which the stars and the planets are used to predict and understand love and relationships. So all of these journalists show up with their questions about their jobs and sign and their moon sign and where are the different planets are and I was completely lost like just so lost. I know that I'm a monkey in Chinese. I know that I am an aquarium like you bought a birthdays are just a few days apart,

Pleasure Mapping, Clitoral Response & Redefining Healthcare Oct 16, 2020

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Dr. Uchenna “UC” Ossai is a sex-positive pelvic health physical therapist and sexuality educator. She joins Jess & Brandon to discuss all things sex, pleasure, wellness and bourbon! How can pleasure mapping improve sexual communication and pleasure? How do you deal with a hypersensitive clitoris? How do you assess pelvic pain and endometriosis? How can therapists and other helping professionals take care of their own physical and mental health? What is vaginal stretching? How can we assess racism and oppression in healthcare? What are Bourbon Talez and what can you learn from them? Follow Uchenna on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter. This podcast is brought to you by Cliovana. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Pleasure Mapping, Clitoral Response & Redefining Healthcare 00:00:05 - 00:05:01 You're listening to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast sex and relationship advice you can you off tonight? Welcome to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast on your co-host Brandon. We're here with my lovely other half a. HS. Hey, hey, how're you feeling today? I'm okay. How are you? I'm good. I'm good. I sense there's a lot of tension in there not just with you but just with the world. Yeah you commented before on down on hyper vigilance. And for me, it's an intensity. That's this overarching feeling making all my other feelings exaggerating all of my other feelings, whether it's good or bad. Yeah, we talk about hyper vigilance in you know, in these times where everything is changing where our freedom of movement is restricted. We're we're walking around with a little bit of fear, or if not dead. Fear simply the unknown right walking down the street. You don't want to walk too close to people either because you want to protect yourself and likely because you might make them uncomfortable as well. So just everything in life has gone up in intensity and I can feel it. So I just was thinking we could take a nice moment to take a couple of deep breaths and encourage people listening to also do the same just to take an inhale through your nostrils and then hold for a moment and exhale through your mouth. Are you doing it? I was doing it when you first started talking about it and then I started reflecting on how I might have physically assaulted a banana putting it into the freezer what happened I shoved it in because I was so frustrated. Yeah. He's this breathing really helpful. So maybe a little bit more context there because you're feeling frustrated all the little things get to you. So when I saw you earlier like the freezer was wasn't going to close. I saw you just punch. Even the frozen fruit to get it looser true it would fit. Yeah trying to shake it up a little bit but that's just more reflective of the overarching. Like I said frustration intensity. Yeah, so often, you know that aside at least we get a moment to sit and talk about some topics that are of interest to us because today we're going to be talking about pleasure mapping and self-care and racial Justice jobs in healthcare. We're going to be talking about the pelvic floor and much more with. Dr. You see from you see logic so doctor you see they host bourbon take off on Instagram where she answers all sorts of questions ranging from what do I do if my clitoris is...

Vaginismus, Delayed Ejaculation, Penis Health & Posture: Change Your (Sex) Life Via Your Pelvic Floor Oct 09, 2020

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We’re joined by pelvic health physiotherapist, Michiko Caringal, who answers all of our questions about how the pelvic floor affects sexual health including: Why might ejaculation be painful? How do you address delayed ejaculation? Why do penises require pelvic floor therapy? Can my vagina fall out? Why is pelvic floor therapy important for cis and trans folks alike? What does a pelvic floor consultation look like? Who might benefit from a rectal exam? How can we improve patient experience to ensure more active vs. passive care? How do you clean your vulva and vagina? What does it mean to “release the tailbone”? How is back pain related to pelvic health and how can posture affect pelvic floor health? Follow Michiko on Instagram & Facebook. This podcast is brought to you by Cliovana. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Vaginismus, Delayed Ejaculation, Penis Health & Posture: Change Your (Sex) Life Via Your Pelvic Floor 00:00:05 - 00:05:02 You're listening to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast sex and relationship advice you can you off tonight? Welcome to the sex with dr. Jazz podcast. I'm your co-host Brandon. We're here with my lovely other half a Jess. How are you? I'm feeling good. We've got a great guest today who's going to answer so many of our questions regarding pelvic floor health and more. So not just penises and vaginas, but we're going to be talking about delayed ejaculation painful ejaculation pelvic floor therapy for Trans folks for sis folks what a pelvic floor consultation looks like the role of rectal exams in some pelvic floor treatment how we can make patient experiences more active vs. Passive. We're going to be talking about how to clean your Volvo. How long In your vagina what it means to release the tailbone so much more all in the name of sexual health and of course pleasure and that brings us to our October partner for the podcast Cleo Ivana and Cleo Ivana is a treatment that uses sound wave technology to stimulate the growth of blood vessels and nerve tissue and it's completely non-invasive treatment that actually targets the clitoris. So it's not about the vagina and we know the clitoris is responsible for all the pleasure down there and across the body and so with no don't down. It's an exciting new treatment folks can learn more at Cleo Vana.com. Now we are going to be speaking with Michiko caring gal from Happy down there who specializes in pelvic Health physiotherapist all genders Michiko went to U of T and have a couple of master's degrees in physical therapy as well as a master of Health Science in bioethics. Thanks so much for being here. We're happy to chat with u always learning off of Explorer therapists. Tell me tell me about your journey. How did you end up working in this field? Yeah, so I actually experienced pain with sucks for so long for two years actually about ten years ago and I went through so many medical professionals and people were saying, you know, it's in your head or you know, what? Why don't you just a baby in your pelvic pain will go away and all these like, it's like I can't even say how am I supposed to have a baby? So I just went to a pelvic Health physiotherapist and with wage Long commitment and like a lot of work I've got bett...

Intensify Pleasure & Orgasms! Oct 02, 2020

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TL;DR: Sexual Wellness Is a Full-Body, Whole-Life Conversation OBGYN Dr. Nicole E. Williams joined us on the SexWithDrJess podcast to answer your real questions about sexual health and pleasure. From period sex to fibroids to post-hysterectomy healing, she breaks it down with compassion and clarity. • You can absolutely have sex on your period if you want to. Many people feel more aroused due to hormonal shifts. Lay down a towel or try a waterproof blanket and get curious. • Fibroids and heavy bleeding are real medical issues, not something you need to “put up with.” Dr. Williams explains treatment options including medication, ablation, embolization, and surgery. • Libido drop after hysterectomy is common, especially with ovary removal. Dr. Williams suggests addressing hormones, exploring clitoral anatomy, and giving yourself permission to rediscover pleasure. • Burning post-orgasm can be caused by oxytocin-related uterine contractions. This temporary cramping, called dysorgasmia, is usually not dangerous but deserves attention. • To support sexual health and orgasmic potential, Dr. Williams also recommends pelvic floor strength, nutrition, lifestyle care, and open communication. Curious about how to keep building pleasure after surgery or hormonal changes? Explore How to Have Multiple Orgasms Or revisit Your Guide to G-Spots and Squirting For more real-world sexual health insights, tune in to the SexWithDrJess podcast and subscribe to our newsletter for expert tips, tools, and pleasure-positive resources. OBGYN Dr. Nicole E. Williams joins us to answer listener questions, discuss sexual wellness and weigh in on how to: Have sex on your period (if you want to) Intensify pleasure & orgasms Manage heavy bleeding due to fibroids Get in the mood post-hysterectomy Find your clitoral legs! Deal with burning post-orgasm Consider options other than a hysterectomy Explore more frequent and intense orgasms with Cliovana & other approaches Follow Dr. Williams on Instagram & Facebook. Thank you for listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess Podcast and engaging with our conversations about pleasure, health, and healing. We appreciate you (for real). If you’re looking to explore your sensuality, feel good in your body, or expand your pleasure, check out our affiliate links and use discount code DRJESSVIP for exclusive savings. Code DRJESSVIP THANK YOU! 💜 (for real) Code: DRJESSVIP-Save $ + Support Us! No pressure — but if you’re shopping, use our code DRJESSVIP for exclusive savings and a little support for us, too. Win-Win! LOVEHONEY.COM WE-VIBE.COM This is an affiliate link. We may earn a commission. Thank you! Sexual Wellness & Period Sex: How to Intensify Pleasure & Orgasms Yes, you can absolutely have sex on your period, if you want to. There’s nothing unhygienic or taboo about menstrual blood, and as Dr. Williams explains, “It’s just blood and tissue your body doesn’t need anymore.” Feeling more turned on during your period? You’re not alone. In fact, some people experience a spike in libido thanks to hormonal shifts. Want to avoid mess? Dr. Jess recommends a waterproof, machine-washable blanket like the No More Wet Spot or just lay down a towel and enjoy. If you’re exploring period sex for the first time, you might also want to try a toy that’s easy to clean and gentle on sensitive tissue, like the We-Vibe Touch or the We-Vibe Melt, both of which are waterproof and body-safe. Code DRJESSVIP We-Vibe Touch X Save with Discount Code - DRJESSVIP •Ultra-soft tip delivers deep, rumbly clitoral pleasure. • 8 intensity levels + multiple patterns = fully customizable orgasms.

“I Love You, Man.” Tantra, Emotional Expression & Opening Up Sep 25, 2020

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Emeka Menakaya joins Jess & Brandon to talk about how his studies in tantra have opened him up to improved relationships all around. He shares his insights on how cis men can be more vulnerable and open with one another and discusses his spiritual, emotional and sexual journey. Follow Emeka on Instagram & The Hustler's Corner Podcast on Instagram. The podcast episode is brought to you by Femtasy. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. I Love You, Man. Tantra, Emotional Expression & Opening Up 00:00:05 - 00:05:02 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess, podcast sacks, and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr Jasser podcast. I'm your co host Brandon where here with my lovely other half Dr Jess Hey. Hey. How's it going today? I'm good. How are you? I'm alright. I'm having a I'm having a day. I had I had such a great night last night because I saw a baby owl. I mean a tiny little baby our shorter than your fist bigger than my fist. But shorter than your fist, and this is maybe this comes you know I'm a city slicker I get it we live downtown. We give some context here. We don't live anywhere where you normally see our indefinitely not baby. They're so cute. So had this great night last night, but then I also. Made. The mistake of looking at facebook late at night, and of course, you know we tell people to digitally detox every night at the end of the night which I didn't do and a news article came up about A. Who had who passed away two years ago right now This week and he's been on my mind it's weird like I didn't really think about the Dayton it and I don't think I even commemorated the date in any way consciously. But subconsciously he's been on my mind and I brought him up to you a few days ago, and then this article came up that his death is suspicious and they posted pictures of people in the news that they were looking for in in his death and in a an associated robbery with his death. And I couldn't get the pictures out of my head of these people. So I stayed up all night. really couldn't fall asleep I probably did sleep for a couple of hours. So all that being said feeling tired and I feel anxious today and my anxieties been higher I wouldn't say I'm a particular like I wouldn't say I'm particularly anxious person but since some this big shift in in life and in the news and in what's going on in the world, I, felt a lot more anxious and as I feel more anxious I notice i. Feel. More frustrated like soul frustrated. So easily little tiny things that I would never. Ever be set off by are just pushing my buttons and I feel like the idea and frustration being connected, and also you know the stuff that's going on in the world You know obviously Kobe and then all the racist stuff and the awful news that that we're seeing and they just racial injustice being brought to the forefront obviously weighs heavily on me. It's you know this topic that I've been privately talking about with friends for so many years and that's been on my mind to I've been thinking about how this is like dear diary. I've been thinking about how? Over the years I've had all these different discussions and debates and I'd say arguments with friends with white friends about racial justice with about white fragility about white privilege...

Starting Over After A Breakup Sep 18, 2020

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Amira de Vera joins Jess on the podcast this week to share her experience after a breakup with a long term partner at the age of 34. They discuss how she went from lying on the floor crying to feeling happier than ever. Amira opens up to discuss: Overcoming the fear of starting over in your 30s How to identify what you really want in a partner and relationship Multiple approaches to getting over a tough breakup The importance of sitting in the pain and using pain to heal How to shift from focusing on others to focusing on yourself Getting over the idea that you must hit specific milestones by a specific age Breaking free of negative spirals Amira’s path to self-love The role of journaling, therapy, nature, friends, and creativity in healing The fallacy of someone “completing” you Follow Amira on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. Follow Project Four Public Relations on Instagram, Twitter & Facebook. This episode is brought to you by Provacare. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Starting Over After A Breakup 00:00:05 - 00:05:20 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess, podcast sacks, and relationship advice you can use tonight. Pay Hey just a rally here your friendly neighborhood sexologist and I'm flying solo today without brandon but I will have a guest joining me in just a moment to share her story Amirah is going to talk to us about her recent break-up and her story is real and raw and really inspirational and interestingly I think what she has to tell us really aligns with what the research says about getting over a breakup and I also want. To answer a question related to this topic that somebody sent in about an extra cheated on them. But before I do a shadow to Provo care a brand I'm partnering with four pro. V. Talks on instagram be sure to follow them because their product uses probiotics to treat and prevent yeast and bacterial infections, and they're also working to create content and really community around overall sexual health vaginal health all that good stuff they are by Provo care. On instagram and you can find them in my profile as well in the show notes so. You know I'm excited to talk to Amira. But I I want to answer this question about how to get over an axe. Who Cheated, and you know this is a question that I get often because I think that you know cheating sexual infidelity, whatever you call it is is more common than we realize that the data puts it in the range of twenty, four percent. So about a quarter of all relationships, but that data only reflects people who are willing to admit to it. So the reality is. You know many of us have cheated and we want to admit it to ourselves. We've kind of told ourselves the story that we've erased that and people certainly move on after cheating either with the same partner with a new partner and so what I'd say to this person who who sent me this message is that first and foremost really give yourself permission. To feel. Sad or mad or scared, or insecure, ensure, or excited or embarrassed or hopeful that full range of emotions that you inevitably experience after a break-up because breakups are. Inevitably going to involve a period of grieving and the feelings of loss are not necessarily lightened or swayed by the fact that your ex cheat...

Stripping, Strap-Ons, Porn & Digital Intimacy Sep 11, 2020

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Andre Shakti joins Jess and Brandon to share their journey and story as a stripper, sex worker, educator and activist. They discuss: What Andre loves about stripping and what drew her into the strip club in the first place How to cultivate intimacy (in person and online) Strap-on strategies for beginners SANCTUARY, the virtual strip club How strippers connect with their clients on a more personal level How COVID and digital dates have changed connection for the better Creating community for sex workers Andre’s experience in the porn industry and prop 60 STI testing in the porn industry and what we can learn from The Bella Thorne OnlyFan debacle Follow Andre on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. Also check out Andre's weekly advice column on non-monogamy, "I Am Poly(amorous) & So Can You!". Andre's image was shot by Tristan Crane. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Stripping, Strap-Ons, Porn & Digital Intimacy 00:00:05 - 00:05:00 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess, podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr. Jeff. PODCASTS I'm your co host. Brandon we're here with my lovely other half. Dr Jess I'm failing lovely. You're looking lovely. Just throwing the compliments at you this morning. Yeah. Well, IT'S A. It's a weird time of the year because for most entrepreneurs and students and parents this feels like a new. Year. Yeah I usually struggle leading up to the day after Labor Day because it reminds me of going back to school which was a long time ago. and all of these sorts of feels right now. Yeah and for folks who go back to school at a different time of year in in. Toronto we've always gone back to school the day after Labor Day it's always been the way it is, and of course, this year is different because some kids aren't going back to school. Some are doing a blended hybrid type learning some have been postponed until next week because I guess the government's in the school boards couldn't agree on what would be safe for staff and students, and I would say about fifty fifty percent I'd say fifty fifty in terms of our friends. in terms of sending their kids back to school or keeping their kids at home. Yet and I mean, maybe people are gonNA. Think I'm a lot younger than I am now that I said that I'm nostalgic about going to school no no, one thinks here. Yeah. Thanks. Before we dive in today, I want to say a big. Thank you to Provo Care, which is a natural way to restore the healthy bacteria and normal Ph level required for a balanced vaginal ecosystem, and so it perfectly has been clinically proven to treat and prevent recurring yeast and bacterial infections, and you can check them out online provo care dot. Ca and you can I believe you can find them on Amazon as well. Now today, we're talking a whole lot of things. You're talking sex work online stripping, which to me feels very intimidating but I'm interested to learn more the porn and Industry Sti testing maybe some strap on sex. How about that sounds like a whole lot of interesting stuff and yes online stripping sounds like something that I would not be very good at would you strip for me? I would but I'm super conscious. I feel I feel ridiculous listen I can dance to the base not the trouble,

Jeannie Mai On Forgiveness & Living Happily Ever After Sep 04, 2020

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Emmy-award winning, Jeannie Mai, host of The Real, joins us to talk about love, relationships, and moving on via forgiveness. She is newly-engaged (to Jeezy), full of energy, good vibes and insights on: What it's like to live your life and share your love with millions of fans. How to build a happily-ever-after relationship. How to forgive family, friends and partner after heartache and trauma. The importance of creating a shared vision as a couple. Her personal formula for self-love. How her upbringing affects her relationships. How to better manage arguments and deal with triggers. Follow Jeannie on Instagram, Facebook & Twitter. Also, be sure to check out her Youtube series, Hello Hunnay and podcast, Listen Hunnay! This podcast is brought to you by Femtasy. If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Jeannie Mai On Forgiveness & Living Happily Ever After 00:00:05 - 00:05:02 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess, podcast sacks, and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr Just podcast. I'm your co host Brandon. Wear here with my lovely other have Dr Jess Hey. Hey. How's it going? Good Gin on digging the sound of Your Voice because I'm an audio person and folks who know my co Author Marlene? Stewart she talks about the fact that. You are learning style whether you're more of a visual learner or an audio learner or a kinesthetic learner affects your sexual and seduction style, and so people who learn better by listening and through words and through reading tend to be really Dronne to sounds and voices the pitch, the tone, the volume, the speed at which you speak and I'm I'm such an audio person I love the sound of your voice first of all. I I find it hot like I'm probably more attracted to people. Based on the way they talk than the way they look. You've always said that you've always said that the sound of someone's voice is the first thing that attracts you to somebody. It really is, and I recognize voices more than faces. I don't know if I've spoken about this here before but I have difficult difficulty recognizing faces so much so that I think I might be able to be diagnosed because I, really really struggle to recognize faces I, remember names I, remember details all even remember the sound of voice but I struggle with faces I've mistaken you for multiple people know I've I've mistaken other people for you in the past. So it's all about the voice for me. And so that makes me excited to bring on our new sponsor FEM to see. So Feminazi is this streaming platform that has short erotic audio stories and they're read by different voice I don't call them actors they read by different people, different themes they get into like setting the scene, but also into the raw sexual acts and yeah, I'm just I'm a fan a new fan of to see was really excited when they called because just voices do everything for me not just sexually but emotionally like even to help me relax the sound of your voice is really what does it and I wonder if it's been enhanced by the fact that for years. We were separated oftentimes because I was overseas for work and you you would talk to me on the phone and so I think that I found a lot of comfort in that but every night your use your voice?

Sex Talk With My Mom: Cougars, Confidence & Grieving The Loss of a Spouse Aug 28, 2020

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Mother-son duo Karen Lee and Cam join Dr. Jess and Brandon to share their story of loss, love and podcasting. They chat about: Grieving the loss of Karen Lee’s husband and Cam’s dad How to have more sex-positive conversations How to date with confidence Cam’s dating struggles and stories How to be more vulnerable with your parents and children Leaning into the awkwardness of dating and talking about sex How Cam and Karen Lee came together and started this podcast How they dealt with the death of Cam’s father together How they get over the discomfort and were able to be vulnerable with one another How Cam as a young man brought more sensitivity to dating and sex Karen Lee's advice as a single woman, getting past the grief from her late husband Follow The Sex Talk With My Mom Podcast on Youtube, Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. And as always, Thank you for being here! If you’re shopping for pleasure products, be sure to check out our affiliate links and use our discount code DRJESSVIP to save at checkout. Code DRJESSVIP THANK YOU! 💜 (for real) Code: DRJESSVIP-Save $ + Support Us! No pressure — but if you’re shopping, use our code DRJESSVIP for exclusive savings and a little support for us, too. Win-Win! LOVEHONEY.COM WE-VIBE.COM This is an affiliate link. We may earn a commission. Thank you! TL;DR: Talking Sex With Your Parents Is Weird… and Worth It Grief & pleasure can coexist. KarenLee started dating six months after losing her husband, proof that healing and desire are not mutually exclusive. Awkwardness is a bridge, not a barrier. Cam & KarenLee didn’t start with anal jokes. They began with small chats and built trust from discomfort. Sex isn’t emotionless. Even in hookup culture, we’re emotionally entangled. Cam reminds us: if emotions are always present, we should learn to talk about them. You define your sexual values. Whether you’re down for casual or prefer connection, your values are valid no matter what culture says. Confidence is earned, not innate. KarenLee wasn’t always bold. Her “COUGAR” acronym (Confident, Older, Unique, Genuine, Assertive, Racy) is a roadmap, not a personality type. Product recs: We-Vibe Touch X for gentle, comforting reentry into pleasure Womanizer Duo 2 for deep stimulation + emotional grounding Mindful Sex Course to enhance communication & connection Explore more: Understand Your Sexual Values (And Your Partner’s) Emotional Seduction & Core Erotic Feelings Bottom line: You don’t need to talk sex with your mom, but if you can lean into those vulnerable conversations with anyone, you might find new confidence, deeper healing, and better sex. Even if it starts with a cringe. A Candid Conversation About Grief, Confidence & Taboo-Breaking Sex Talk When was the last time you talked to your parents or your child about sex? For most folks, the answer is somewhere between “never” and “please don’t make me.” But mother-son podcast duo KarenLee and Cam of Sex Talk With My Mom are shattering generational silence with humour, heart, and a willingness to get uncomfortable in pursuit of intimacy. KarenLee began her journey back into the dating world after the tragic loss of her husband (Cam’s father) and her story is one of unapologetic resilience. She didn’t just date again; she launched a YouTube channel, wrote books, and reclaimed the term “cougar” with sass and sincerity. Her acronym? Confident, Older, Unique, Genuine, Assertive and Racy. Cam, a comedian, initially found himself squirming in the shadow of his mom’s unabashed openness. But when grief hit home, so did a new bond between them, one rooted in vulnerability, awkward honesty,

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