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Episode 271 - Not Liking the Sex You're Having ||Embracing You Teaser|| Jun 30, 2023

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Do you not like sex or do you just not like the sex that you're having? Oftentimes, we actually just don't like the sex that we're having. Listen to this teaser Embracing You podcast episode as I coach Quinn on how to make the sex that she is having more enjoyable so she can like it more.

Are you subscribed to my private podcast, Embracing You!? If not, you should be. Three times a month, you can listen in as I coach actual clients on anything from making sex more enjoyable to how to navigate life after divorce. For just $99 you can get 36 episodes packed full of important information that can help you in your relationship. Just go to AmandaLouder.com/embracingyoupod/ to subscribe today!

Episode 270 - Sexual Compatibility Jun 23, 2023

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Do you worry that you aren't sexually compatible with your spouse? I think truly being sexually incompatible is rare. But in this episode, we talk about those questions you may be having. What makes for sexual compatibility and what we can do to work on ourselves to make our relationships that much better? If you both are willing to look at yourselves and grow, ultimately you can have that honest conversation you need for both of you to be happy.

Episode 269 - Emotional or Physical Intimacy First? Jun 16, 2023

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One of the most common disagreements I hear from couples about sex are about emotional and physical intimacy and which goes first. In my mind, it looks a lot like a tug of war between the couple to show which is the right kind of intimacy for a marriage. It's time to drop the rope, and find a better way. Listen to this podcast to hear why we need to find a better way and how to do it.

Episode 268 - Affection Without Expectation Jun 09, 2023

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When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex. I, like a lot of women, didn't want it to always mean I had to have sex. I missed what it was like when we were dating, when we could be affectionate and that's as far as it went. So, why does this pattern of expectation start and what can we do about it in our relationships? That's what we're talking about in this episode. If that pattern is happening in your relationship, let's work to fix it!

Episode 267 - Sexual Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning Jun 02, 2023

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Let me ask you a question. Are you overfunctioning or underfunctioning in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Taking a look at yourself and honestly answering this question can help you have a better relationship. We often get into patterns and dynamics that seem helpful but end up causing more problems in the end. So let's define what it is and what we can do about it.

Episode 266 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 2 May 26, 2023

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This is part two of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. This week we're talking more about our young adults and how they are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you're a young adult, either single and dating or newly married or you have young adults, even if you have been married a long time, I think you're going to find some really good, valuable insights into why things are the way they are for you in this episode. If you didn't hear part one, I would recommend listening to that one first here.

Julie Balkman, founder of the 100 Interviews Project and expert panelist for the LDS dating app Mutual, is a dating expert and certified life coach who helps young adults get out of the dating game and into a real relationship that lasts. The dating game often continues into engagement and marriage, so she also works with newly married couples, helping them build a relationship based on real love and intimacy. With eight years experience working with hundreds of young adults (single and married), she has seen firsthand the desire and need for clear answers, actionable steps, and real results. You can find her at juliebalkmancoaching.com and @lifecoach.julie on Instagram.

Episode 265 - The Sexual Conditioning of Young Adults that Keep Them From Great Relationships - Pt. 1 May 19, 2023

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This is part one of an amazing interview I did with fellow life coach Julie Balkman. I really wanted to do this interview with Julie because I think a lot of our young adults are really struggling in dating and moving into relationships and into sexual relationships. Whether you're a young adult, either single and dating or newly married or you have young adults, even if you have been married a long time, I think you're going to find some really good, valuable insights into why things are the way they are for you in this episode. Don't miss part 2 coming next week.

Episode 264 - Igniting Passion In Your Sex Life May 12, 2023

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Have you noticed that the passion in your sex life has disappeared? It's time to ignite it again, don't you think? I was recently on Ashlee Sorenson's podcast called A Bit Better Everyday and I loved our conversation so much that I asked Ashlee if I could share it with you and she graciously said yes. So, join us as we talk about how we ignite that passion again both in our lives and in the bedroom.

Episode 263 - How Do You Define Sex? May 05, 2023

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Our definition of sex can really affect how much sex we're getting. So, how do you define sex? Is sex just penetration and orgasm? Or are there other activities that you define as sex? This isn't a one-size-fits-all answer but it's important to ask yourself how you define it and why. Listen as we discuss what a broad definition of sex can do for your sex life.

Episode 262 - Sleep Divorce Apr 28, 2023

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Have you heard about sleep divorce? "Sleep divorce" is a situation where couples sleep separately on a regular basis to improve their sleep quality due to issues like snoring, different sleeping schedules, or personal preferences. Studies show that it can help save relationships, but it may also cause problems. Listen to this episode to find out what those problems may be and how to make it work in your relationship.

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