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Episode 281 - The Importance of Physical Intimacy in Marriage Sep 08, 2023

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When I say "physical intimacy in marriage", what does that bring up? Usually it's sex. But intimacy is so much more than just sex. It's eye contact and hand holding. In this episode, we're going to explore what intimacy is, why it's important, why it sometimes declines, and how you can keep the flame alive. Or reignite it if it's gone dim. What level of intimacy do you and your spouse fall into most? Listen in to find out the levels.

Episode 280 - How To Keep The Romance Alive in Marriage Sep 01, 2023

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I often get asked how to keep the flames of romance burning after you've been married a long time. So, that's what we're going to talk about today. How do you keep those flames burning and not get stuck in a roommate situation. I have 10 areas with specific examples in each of the ways that you can keep that romance alive and rejuvenated. Remember, love is a journey, not a destination. Stay committed, stay passionate, and stay connected.

Episode 279 - The Mind-Body Connection Aug 25, 2023

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Your brain is your biggest sex organ. Have you noticed what you're thinking about sex? In this episode, we're going to talk about the mind-body connection when it comes to sex. We're going to look into gaining sexual thought awareness and how those thoughts shape our most intimate experiences. By cultivating awareness around our sexual thoughts, we can open doors to more mindful and fulfilling experiences.

Episode 278 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex, Shame Free Aug 18, 2023

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In Come Follow Me this coming week, we read about Paul's sexual purity letter to the Corinthians. Because of this, I think it's a great time to not only talk to your kids about sex, but also talk to their teachers about how they will teach this lesson. We need to break the cycle of shaming our kids into not having sex. And that can start with you. Listen to this episode to learn about how to teach your kids about sex, shame free, so they can have a healthy relationship with sex throughout their lives. I know from personal experience that this is an awkward discussion, but it's one we need to have so let me help you navigate it.

Episode 277 - The Importance of Foreplay Aug 11, 2023

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In the last episode, we spoke about erogenous zones. But if you are focusing solely on these areas without any warm-up or creating the right context for sex, you are missing out on a crucial piece - the importance of foreplay. In this episode, let's talk about what foreplay means and how important it is for both men and women to have an amazing sexual experience. It is the bridge that allows us to transition from the outside world into an intimate space where we can be fully present with each other and attuned to our partner's needs, desires, and feelings.

Episode 276 - Erogenous Zones Aug 04, 2023

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You may remember when Monica taught Chandler about erogenous zones on the TV show friends. (If you don't remember this iconic scene, the link is below) Chandler was surprised to learn that there were more than 3 erogenous zones. Are you surprised too? In this episode, we're going to talk about where the erogenous zones are and how best to stimulate them for enhanced pleasure and intimacy. Ready? Let's go!

Friend's Clip: https://youtu.be/3NLVior-nLs

Episode 275 - Sexual Validation & Rejection Jul 28, 2023

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Wanting sex so you can feel closer to your spouse or because you want to connect with them is great. But sometimes, we start to seek validation through sex. When we're seeking validation through sex, we see it as our partner not loving us when we aren't having sex. We also feel rejected, which can cause a lot of hurt and anger. So, what can we do if we are starting to notice that we need sex to validate us? Listen to this episode to find out.

Episode 274 - Sexual Conditioning Guilt Jul 21, 2023

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I often hear from my clients that they feel guilty about certain sexual things. When we really look into it, I question whether they're feeling guilty, which to me means that they are doing something outside of their integrity, or are they internalizing someone else's emotions about the subject. So in this episode, we're going to talk about naming the emotion we're feeling and if it really is guilt, how to change that feeling.

Episode 273 - Overcoming Triggers - An Interview with Crystal Haitsma Jul 14, 2023

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In this podcast, I'm talking with Crystal Haitsma about triggers. We hear the word all the time nowadays, but what does it really mean and how is it affecting our relationships? Listen in as Crystal and I define what triggers are and how self regulation can help us get over them. This is a great episode!

Crystal, The Parenting Coach is a Certified Life Coach and Canadian homeschooling mother of 4. She combines her background in Psychology with helpful mindset tools, somatic work and emotional processing to help parents change patterns of generational parenting. She helps you parent calm, confident kids that you LOVE to be around- simply, and in a faith-based way. She is the host of The Parenting Coach Podcast where she shares helpful parenting tactics every week.

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Episode 272 - Decision Not Desire Jul 07, 2023

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So many women I've talked to have said that they don't have any desire to have sex anymore. It's just gone. Now, I've talked about desire a lot on this podcast, but today I want to talk to you about one thing that I haven't talked about before and it just may blow your mind. So, listen in while we talk about desire and how it's affecting your sex life.

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