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**Master Your Relationship Mind Drama**

Feeling anxious and insecure in your relationships? Showing up in ways you don’t love and struggling to manage your mind and emotions? Relationship coach, Rebecca Ore is here to help.

Latest Episodes:

163. ‘If they wanted to they would’ / When you’re obsessing over them Nov 28, 2025

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How often have you heard the phrase ‘If they wanted to they would’?

Well in today’s episode, I’m talking about that well used advice and how it isn’t always useful.

AND offering you a new perspective to try on in its place.

AND I’m also going to be talking about why we OBSESS over certain people or situations - and what to do when you notice your brain is in fixation mode.

Mentioned in the episode:

Request details of 1:1 coaching: rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

162. Anxiety in long distance relationships (BLAST FROM THE PAST) Nov 21, 2025

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Whether you're in a long distance relationship or not - there will be something in this episode for you!
We're going to cover:

Emotional permanence, and how some of us struggle to believe our partners still care about us when they’re not physically with us
Compromise and deciding how a long distance relationship will look
Managing your anxious brain and processing your emotions
The fears that often come up in long distance relationships
Feeling pressure for the time you spend together to be perfect
AND how you can feel connected to your partner, even when they’re not around or in contact

Ready? LISTEN NOW.
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161. Creating self confidence (BLAST FROM THE PAST) Nov 14, 2025

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Do you struggle feeling confident? And often find yourself feeling anxious, insecure, and filled with self-doubt?
Did you know that, despite what a lot of us think, confidence isn't actually something you're just born with?
And that you can actually create MORE confidence by managing the way you think?
In today's episode, I'm talking about:

Where confidence comes from (and where it doesn't come from)
Confidence-eroding thoughts vs confidence-producing thoughts
And the two key components to creating unshakable confidence

Mentioned in this episode:

Self Esteem Building Kit

160. Real life coaching: Inappropriate friendships, dating rejections, and unruly mother-in-laws Nov 07, 2025

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In today’s episode I’m answering questions from listeners on their real life relationship struggles.

Covering topics including:

What to do when your husband has female friends you’re uncomfortable with
Fear of being rejected because of what you post online
Dealing with potential rejection after asking for more commitment
AND dealing with a mother-in-law that does not respect your boundaries.

Ready? Let’s dive in!

159. Dealing with dismissive, defensive or emotionally immature partners Oct 31, 2025

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You’re all listening to this podcast because you’re perhaps aware your anxious mind is causing a lot, or some, problems and you want to take back control of your side of the equation.

But what happens if you’re doing all of that work - and your partner is continuously responding in ways that seem unsupportive, unkind, or pretty mean?

Maybe being dismissive of your feelings, getting defensive - even after you’ve worked really hard to approach them calmly, or perhaps even being quite harsh or unkind about what you’re struggling with.

In this episode I’m talking about:

Dealing with dismissive and emotionally immature partners
Setting boundaries
Validating yourself when they won’t
And deciding if they’re the best partner for you

Mentioned in the episode:

Self Esteem Building Kit
Email me about 1:1 coaching: Rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Email me with a question for next week's episode: Rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

158. How to handle triggers in the moment Oct 24, 2025

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Do you ‘get’ this work - but still find yourself reacting badly when you’re triggered

Do you know your thoughts aren’t likely true, but can’t help but panic and react when they appear?

If so - you’re likely missing a key piece of the puzzle, which is self-regulation. And in this episode, I’m going to give you concrete tools and techniques for regulating in the moment of a trigger.

Mentioned in the episode:

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157. Are we having enough sex? (And other fears) Oct 17, 2025

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Do you ever get anxious about how often you and your partner are having sex?

Do you question whether you’re having ‘enough’ sex?

Keeping score of who initiates the most?

Or focusing on their experience of sex, rather than your own?

Our unmanaged minds can create so much unnecessary disconnection and resentment around sex - so that’s what we’re talking about in today’s episode.

Mentioned in the episode:

Find out about 1:1 coaching - Rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com
Join my email list

156. Am I gaslighting myself? Oct 10, 2025

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Ever worry that if you start to do this work to clean up your own thinking you might end up accidentally gaslighting yourself or becoming okay with everything - even bad behaviour?

If so - you’re not alone in that fear.

In today’s episode I’m talking about:

Why questioning our thoughts isn’t the same as gaslighting ourselves
AND how to tell when you WOULD be using this work against yourself

Mentioned in the episode:

Own Your Side - my 8 week group coaching programme
Email me - Rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

155. Needs vs wants: And communicating for connection Oct 03, 2025

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Is this a want or a need?
Why does my partner get so defensive when I tell them what I need in the relationship?
And is this relationship just not right for me?

In today’s episode - I’m talking all about wants, needs, and how taking responsibility for your emotions first can make communicating your preferences 10x more likely to end in connection.

I’m also going to be talking about my brand new group coaching programme - Own Your Side ...

Which is going to help you to drop the drama in your relationship and get clear, calm, and confident in just 8 weeks!

Ready? Let’s dive in!

Own Your Side - 8 week group coaching programme

Email me directly: Rebecca@rebeccaorecoaching.com

154. 5 questions for when you're feeling rejected (BLAST FROM THE PAST) Sep 26, 2025

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Today, I’m sharing a blast from the past in the form of a previous episode I released in 2024 - offering you 5 questions to ask yourself when you feel rejected.

If you’ve already heard this one - the recap will be just what you need.

And if not, you’re going to learn 5 questions to help you meet your mind with compassion and curiosity when you feel rejected, AND challenge some of the unhelpful assumptions your brain is offering you.

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