Last First Date Radio

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EP 454: Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick - An Insider’s Look Into Modern Dating May 25, 2021

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Yue Xu & Julie Krafchick are the hosts of Dateable, one of the top rated podcasts about dating, love and sex. As active daters turned dating sociologists, they’ve talked to thousands of real life daters and experts to explore modern dating culture and why people date the way they do. Before the podcast, Yue was a dating coach with clients all over the world. Julie was an app designer and researcher using technology to help people form connections. Together they have been #stayingdateable since 2016.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

The biggest struggles in dating this past year
The difference between ‘relationshipping’ and ‘relationshopping’
Why you should take yourself on ‘masterdates’
The new dateable mission: date without hate
The three ‘whys’ and how they help you bust limiting beliefs
Some surprises Yue and Julie have discovered through making the podcast

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EP 453: Maureen Scanlon - What You Can Learn About Relationships From Your Pet May 18, 2021

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Maureen Scanlon is the founder and CEO of Maureen Scanlon Life coaching. She’s an award-winning author, relationship expert, motivational speaker, positive change integrator, and spiritual coach who has successfully helped many people, from experienced professionals to young adults and couples.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

How animals help us overcome dating frustration
How our pets can stop us from attracting the wrong people
What pets can teach us about spicing up a relationship
What’s more important than love in a relationship

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EP 452: Jocelyn Johnson - The Relationship Check-In Method May 11, 2021

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Jocelyn Johnson, founder of the Happy Partners Project, created the Relationship Check-In method by drawing upon over 10 years of her own personal development practices, mindfulness, and her training in Cognitive Behavioral Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

What Check-Ins are and why we need them in our relationships
The five categories of Check-Ins
Conscious relationship habits to help your relationship
The types of agreements that strengthen our relationships
What happens when only one partner wants to do the work

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BONUS: Women Over 40 Dating After Divorce May 08, 2021

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I was honored to be a featured guest on Divorce Force's Facebook Live broadcast, where the topic was women over 40 who are dating after divorce. Host, Jenn Butler, interviewed me and Anne Grey, author, consultant, and advocate for women over 40 who specializes in empowering women to navigate the world of dating apps to find gratifying relationships. She is the author of Amazon Best Seller, Sex and the Single Girl, A Slightly Older Girl’s Guide to Dominating the Dating World and has recently partnered with sex educator and erotica store owner, Cheryl Sloane, to launch the very first online course for single women over 40 on dating and sexuality.

Highlights of what we covered:

What are some of the common fears you see women have around getting back out and dating?
Is there a right time to start to consider dating again after divorce?
Is there preparation or inner work that you suggest women focus on?
Are there questions women should ask themselves to help them know if they are ready?
When is the right time to have sex?
What should women expect to be different from before? Does “old fashioned” type of dating exist anymore?
The world of dating apps-use them or not?
What type of attitude toward dating do you suggest for women to have?
What are the possibilities when women are willing to take the risk and put themselves out there?

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EP 451: Laura Bilotta - Common Triggers for Dating Burnout & How to Avoid Them May 04, 2021

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In a world where dating is dictated by algorithms and predetermined categories, Laura Bilotta, professional matchmaker, dating coach and author, offers over 19 years of expertise and personal guidance to help singles navigate through the complicated dating landscape in the ever-elusive search for “the one.” Her experience, skills and insights have led to thousands of successfully united singles through events and one-on-one matchmaking coaching sessions. She is host of The Dating and Relationship Show on Global News Radio 640 Toronto.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

Why Clubhouse is the new way to date
What causes dating burnout?
How can people avoid dating burnout?
How to improve your dating profile
How to date during the pandemic

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EP 450: Logan Ury - How to Not Die Alone Apr 27, 2021

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Behavioral scientist turned dating coach, Logan Ury is an internationally recognized expert on modern love. She’s the author of the new Amazon #1 bestseller, How to Not Die Alone. As the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, Logan leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. After studying psychology at Harvard, she ran Google’s behavioral science team—the Irrational Lab. Logan lives in the Bay Area with her husband, Scott.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

The science behind why dating is so hard
How dating can be improved
The Three Tendencies in Dating
Why you shouldn’t be looking for the ‘spark’
How to stop searching for a prom date to find your life partner
The biggest mistakes people make in dating
Ways to make dating fun

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EP 449: Laura Doyle - How to Fix Your Relationship When You’re the Only One Doing The Work Apr 20, 2021

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Laura Doyle is the founder of the international relationship coach training school, Laura Doyle Connect, the star of Empowered Wives on Amazon Prime, the Creator of The Ridiculously Happy Wife program, and the host of The Empowered Wife Podcast. She has helped over 15,000 women fix their relationships--even the hopeless ones--without their husband’s effort.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

Why Laura, who helped over 15,000 women fix their relationships, almost got divorced
Why so many women struggle with their men
The number one thing to let go of if you want a healthy relationship
The six intimacy skills

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EP 448: Jon Birger - Why Women Should Make the First Move Apr 13, 2021

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Jon Birger is an award-winning magazine writer and author of two dating books—Date-onomics and Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge. A former senior writer at Fortune, Jon is also a familiar face and voice on television, radio, and podcasts, with appearances on ABC’s Good Morning America, BBC World Service, Girls Gotta Eat, CNBC, CNN, MSNBC, National Public Radio, and Fox News — discussing topics ranging from dating to investing. A graduate of Brown University, Jon lives with his family in Larchmont, N.Y.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

Why the myth of biologically-determined gender roles is long overdue for debunking
The difference between women making the first move and being overly aggressive in dating
Why online dating has proven so disappointing for so many
Why you should delete dating apps if long-lasting love is your goal
The best places to find love
How the post-#MeToo era altered the dating landscape

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EP 447: Dominey Drew - How to Date Authentically Apr 06, 2021

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Dominey Drew is the premiere in personal and relationship coaching. Her direct, intuitive approach is unlike anything else in the industry - she solves in mere minutes issues that people have struggled with for decades. She's been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur Magazine and ThriveGlobal for her work, and loves nothing more than facilitating powerful transformation for her clients.

In this episode of Last First Date Radio:

What is authenticity?
Why do people hold themselves back?
How can people learn to trust and find themselves?
How can we be lonely when in a relationship?

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EP 446: Riana Milne - Healing from Toxic Relationships Mar 30, 2021

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Celebrity coach, Riana Milne is a Global Life, Love Trauma Recovery & Mindset Coach who has appeared on CBS, NBC, ABC, Fox News, a prior Advice Columnist, and an author for top media outlets like eHarmony and Digital Romance. She has done the research on a cutting-edge topic that impacts 9/10 adults - and has the answers as to WHY 90% of adults struggle in life, love, and/or business.

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