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Ep. 94: What To Do If You Are Ready For Better Sex NOW Jan 29, 2021

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I want you to know that right now, you can start practicing the skills and going through the processes needed in order to have better sex. Yes! Right now. If you are listening to this podcast, I know it’s because you are looking to make a shift when it comes to the sex you’re having, or may not be having. You know that it’s out there; the connection to your partner, to yourself, confidence, passion, and of course, orgasms. And in this episode, I share with you how to access it all for yourself, how to apply it to all areas of your life, and how to become a fully pleasured and orgasmic woman.

All of this juicy goodness is available to you through my Better Sex in 90 Days program, which kicks off soon! Throughout the 90 days, you get to focus on what you need most and create the results you are looking for, with step-by-step coaching, meditations, modules, and group support. No matter where you are coming to this work or the results you are looking for, I know you will find it here, and so much more. I know this work works because I have seen it. And this is all available to you too.

Here is just a taste of some of the skills, practices, and results that await you in the program:

Actually embracing and celebrating the sexual part of you
Openness to receiving pleasure, as opposed to chasing it
Creating awareness around the thoughts and habits in our brain
Focusing your thoughts during sex
Developing the skill of processing your emotions
Feeling more confident in communicating with your partner
Evaluating and learning from the sex you are or aren’t having

Wherever you are right now, I’ve got you. I truly have. It’s there for you to experience all this juicy pleasure that is your birthright. I can’t wait to see you in there and for you to see and experience all the delicious goodness that these next 90 days have in store. To join, go to: https://daniellesavory.com/group/. You might even be eligible for more delicious bonuses depending on when you enroll, so make sure that you don’t hesitate! I can’t wait to see you in there.

To help other women find this show and create more pleasure in their lives, leave a review! Click here to go to Apple Podcasts and follow the steps below.

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Ep. 93: From Blah to BJs, Multi-Orgasms & Juicy Marriages Jan 21, 2021

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In this episode I speak with 7 women who went through the first cohort of the Better Sex in 90 Days program. It was such a joy to hear updates from each of them around what the long-term results of doing this work have had on their lives. And by sharing their stories, you’ll get a chance to see just how life-changing this work can be over the 90 days and beyond

If you are ready for better sex, then I invite you to join the Better Sex in 90 Days program, which kicks off in just a few weeks. This is where you’re going to learn everything that I talk about on this podcast, on a deeper level. Over the 90 days, you will learn how to identify what is holding you back from pleasure, how to connect with your body, your partner, and your sexuality all with compassion, and really be able to show up more alive than you thought possible, not just in your sex life, but in every aspect of your life.

Topics in this episode

Why they joined Better Sex in 90 Days – where they were starting and their hesitations in joining
How they moved through thoughts of shame and religious upbringings around sex
Ways in which they now prioritize pleasure throughout their day-to-day lives
Fears about pleasure taking away from business growth
The stories of despising bj’s to loving them, becoming multi-orgasmic and living in a more juicy marriage.
Self-compassion what does that even look like?
The camaraderie of a community of women learning to lean into pleasure

You’ll also hear them say things like

You teach that we can have an amazing sex life whenever. And now the main takeaway is that I can be turned on whenever I want. I have the tools to do it, and it’s not hard at all. It keeps getting better! This is amazing. And it’s my new me.
-Fanny

So much of it for me was about reclaiming my power and trusting my body. I thought that pleasure had to be earned, before. And now I know that I have a right to pleasure that I want, when I want it, just for pleasure sake.
-Kate

I was worried that pleasure would take away from the business growth. It has really been just so breathtaking to watch the beauty of a woman being present with her own pleasure in all aspects of her life, in the way that that contributes to her blossoming in her full growth potential showing up, too.
-Lizzie

It made me feel so normal! When you actually gather with women and they’re actually sharing all their experiences, you get to hear it firsthand. And I walked away from every call just feeling empowered and super connected to women in general, which is so special to me.
-Jamee

Ep. 92: BETTER Than Better Sex Jan 14, 2021

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In today's episode I interview 5 incredible women that have gone through the Better Sex in 90 Days program in the most recent cohort. Their fears, hesitations and of course the sex and results they got from doing this program. I often talk about the process working through many different layers of what is holding you back from pleasure, and how to access the pleasure that is your birthright and now, you get to hear from the women who have been through it and have built the solid foundation of skills and practices that they can keep returning to again and again. The better sex and so much more.

In these conversations, you will hear them share

Why they joined Better Sex in 90 Days - their fears and hesitations
Their big takeaways and the obstacles they had to overcome
How this work changed them both inside of the bedroom, as well as throughout other parts of their lives
What it looked and felt like to work within a group setting, and the joy and freedom they found within it
What they would say to someone considering joining Better Sex in 90 Days (spoiler alert, everyone recommends it!)

You’ll also hear them say things like

What I got out of it was so much deeper, so much more about me than it even was about my relationship, my partner, or sex. No regrets!
-Ruthie

I fell deeply in love with my own body
-Tonya

Sex was an area where I felt dependent on my partner. And it’s just not a fun dynamic to be like, ‘Hey, if I want to be turned on, I need you’. You get to take responsibility for your own pleasure, and it definitely changes your relationship.
-Vikki

The connection I have with the other women is huge. People would be vulnerable on the calls and I would think, ‘I’m so glad they’re sharing that, because it’s touching me so much, just in the way that I need.
-Dana

As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this episode with you. Thank you to all the women who came on the podcast and took part in the Better Sex in 90 Days group experience. I’m so excited to meet the next group of women who are going to be coming into this group. I can’t wait to hear from you and what your stories are going to look like.

If you’re hearing this, and it’s speaking to you and it’s something you want to do, then I invite you to join Better Sex in 90 Days. We kick off the first week of February! As you can see, everything is there for you to be able to unlearn the things that we’ve been taught in this society that’s holding us back from our pleasure, and learn and access all of the juicy goodness that is available to you.

To help other women find this show and create more pleasure in their lives, leave a review! Click here to go to Apple Podcasts and follow the steps below.

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Ep. 91: 5 Tips For Success with Your Sex Goals Jan 07, 2021

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Let’s have some sex-success! In the previous episode, I shared with you why you should set intentions around the area of your pleasure and sexuality, and what that may look like for the year ahead. This episode is a continuation of that conversation in which I share with you the “how” of how to reach that success.

I also want to share with you that this time in the new year can bring a feeling of excitement, or may bring a sense of pressure and overwhelm when it comes to creating goals. Whatever you’re experiencing, welcome it, invite those feelings in with acceptance and love, and know that the results you want to create are still entirely doable. Now let’s talk about how.

Topics in this episode

Debunking the myth of laziness or a “weak” mindset around a lack of follow-through
Why you get stuck in the status quo
What happens when you make it mean something about you
5 things for being successful in achieving your goals
Examining your self-talk, and moving from guilt to love
The importance of defining sexual success for ourselves
How stress shows up in your sex life, and the effect it has on your sex goals
The benefit of investing in your pleasure every day and what that looks like

It has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. These five tactics will be so helpful in achieving your sex goals. These are the exact things that we work on in the group coaching, Better Sex in 90 Days. Sign up now for access to the most premier program for getting all of the sex goals that you want to achieve. We start in February and I look forward to you joining us.

To help other women find this show and create more pleasure in their lives, leave a review! Click here to go to Apple Podcasts and follow the steps below.

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Ep. 90: Setting Sex Goal - Why & How Dec 31, 2020

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I love the end of one year and the beginning of the next. The new year gives us a chance to reflect on what worked well and to celebrate those things! So often, we’re only looking ahead at what’s next, what’s next. In this episode, I share with you some ways to examine your sexuality this year and what may be revealed. I also share with you why it’s so important to create intentions for the new year centered around your pleasure, and what that may look like for the year to come. For those of you who are serious about having better sex, the Better Sex in 90 Days program is the most efficient way of getting there. It’s 90 days of getting coached directly by me in a supportive community of other women with the same intentions. Enrollment starts in January and the program kicks off the second week in February. If you’re interested, you can find all of the details and enroll here.

Topics In This Episode

Scientific benefits of prioritizing your pleasure
What we can learn by looking at our wins
Celebrating our achievements in the area of pleasure
Looking at what’s really possible in 90 days
Experiencing the ripple effect of being mindful in your life
How to create a resilient brain, and the freedom that result
The framework for evaluating your sex lives and creating intentions for the new year.

Thank you so much for an incredible year in 2020. It has been my absolute pleasure to bring this podcast to you nearly every week. I’m so excited for you to take this opportunity to look at your sex life, see where you can celebrate, and apply what worked to the goals and results you look to create in the year ahead.

As a reminder, there’s still time to enter for the giveaway! Entries will be accepted until January 4th. So, submit a review, take a screenshot, and email it to team@daniellesavory.com for the Sensational Sex starter kit, and a chance to win the most delicious, pleasurable gift box ever.

Ep. 89: Let's Talk Vibrators Dec 24, 2020

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Recently, there has been a bit of "buzz" about vibrators in the community, perhaps it’s because we are in the swing of the gift-giving season. I’ve seen a lot of articles out there about sex toys and vibrators, and I realize that it’s time we talk about it here on the podcast. In this episode, I share with you why I recommend for some clients to use one, and for others to not. I also dive into some of the myths around vibrators and take a look at how they affect our mindset and the ability to access pleasure in our bodies.

And don't forget about the most incredible giveaway going on right now for a pleasure-filled box just for you! In this gift box are some of the most luxurious things to get yourself pleasured. All you have to do to be entered for this giveaway is go to Apple Podcasts and write a review and share your feedback. Take a screenshot of that review and email it to team@daniellesavory.com. When you do so, you’re also going to immediately get the Sensational Sex starter kit. Which includes instructional videos, meditations, and a workbook to take this work even further

Topics in this episode

Vibrators and long-term sexual sensation
What happens in your brain when you use a vibrator
Achieving the same level of focus with manual stimulation
Asking ourselves, what is the goal for this sex session?
The confidence and comfort of using a vibrator
Addressing what you’re making the use of a vibrator mean
Looking at the dependence upon a vibrator for an orgasm

As always, it’s been my absolute pleasure to be with you. This week I encourage you to investigate your thoughts around using a vibrator or not. When you are able to see the types of thoughts you are having, that when you’re really going to open the doors for your pleasure and be able to lean into your pleasure potential. Enjoy yourself and your journey to becoming the most pleasured woman possible!

Ep. 88: Drinking & Sex Dec 17, 2020

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No is such an important word, and it is important to use it effectively. We want to use no to create safety and remove the pressure, and we also don’t want no to be our automatic response when sex comes up. In the last episode, we talked about when we should say no. And in this follow-up episode, I share with you why you shouldn’t say no, how saying no becomes an automatic response, and the kind of awareness and pleasure that is possible for you.

I also want to remind you about the amazing opportunity I have going in the month of December 2020. For this month, whenever you leave a review on Apple Podcasts, take a screenshot of your review and send it to team@daniellesavory.com and you’ll receive your Sensational Sex starter kit! My team and I have put together meditations, instructional videos, and a workbook to really jump start this part of your journey.

You’ll also be entered in a giveaway for a gift box of some of my favorite sexy things to help facilitate getting you in the sexy mood. It includes some sexy toys, high-end vibrators, items for general self care, skincare products that make me feel good and help me access pleasure, and some other goodies.

Topics in this episode

It starts innocently
When no becomes automatic, and you find yourself always saying no
Saying no ahead of time, to avoid saying it later.
Noticing when you start cutting your partner off in little ways
Practice in the pause in between the idea of sex, and deciding what you’re going to do
Entertaining the thought, “Maybe I could be into it”
Responsive desire - putting yourself in a place where desire can bloom
Making “maybe” your new automatic response

As always, it’s been my absolute pleasure to be with you today. I hope these two conversations around the word no has created curiosity and awareness of your thoughts around why you’re saying no, feeling safe so that you can even enter a place of possibility, and starting to say yes and creating the pleasure that is possible for you.

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Ep. 87: Stop Saying NO Dec 10, 2020

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I also want to remind you about the amazing opportunity I have going in the month of December 2020. For this month, whenever you leave a review on Apple Podcasts, take a screenshot of your review and send it to team@daniellesavory.com and you’ll receive your Sensational Sex starter kit! My team and I have put together meditations, instructional videos, and a workbook to really jump start this part of your journey.

Topics in this episode

It starts innocently
When no becomes automatic, and you find yourself always saying no
Saying no ahead of time, to avoid saying it later.
Noticing when you start cutting your partner off in little ways
Practice in the pause in between the idea of sex, and deciding what you’re going to do
Entertaining the thought, “Maybe I could be into it”
Responsive desire - putting yourself in a place where desire can bloom
Making “maybe” your new automatic response

Ep. 86: The NO We Should Be Saying More Nov 26, 2020

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A lot of my clients have this expectation that in long-term, committed relationships, there is less pressure when it comes to sex, but oftentimes, there’s even more pressure, and it can be difficult to say no when we really should. Today I really want to talk with you more about saying no, using this word, stopping sex and when this is important for you and your pleasure, and also why it’s so damn hard to do. I’m not even going to pretend that it’s not, because it is really tricky, but it’s important to remember why we’re doing this and that it’s just one more way to keep becoming a fully turned on woman living a pleasured life.

I also want to say thank you to those who have taken the time to write a review on Apple Podcasts. If you haven’t yet, please write a review and take a screenshot and send it to team@daniellesavory.com for your Sensational Sex starter kit! I’ve put together some meditations, instructional videos, and the things you need to help you get started on this journey. All submissions are entered to win a giveaway with one lucky winner who will receive a box with so much good stuff in there to nourish you, nourish your soul, and be able to bring pleasure into your life.

Topics in this episode:

Saying no creates boundaries and safety.
No can work against you when it’s the only thing that you say
The ultimate outcome is to shift your mind to connect with yourself and your partner in a way that you are experiencing more pleasure
Creating a container that is inviting for pleasure
The body needs safety and a lack of pressure
The disconnect between what we know cognitively, and what we feel in our bodies
Reasons why we’re afraid to say no
Addressing the idea that it is our job and responsibility to prioritize the pleasure of others

As always, it’s been my absolute pleasure to share this information with you about stopping sex and why it’s so hard to say no. Remember, there is no room for pleasure when you don’t give yourself the permission to say no. It’s crucial that you feel that it’s ok. Saying no is scary sometimes, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it. I hope this episode helps you create more safety in your body so that pleasure and desire can grow. In the next episode, I’ll be talking about when you shouldn’t say no, and why these are both important.

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Ep. 85: Sex & Trauma: Moving Through Nov 19, 2020

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This episode is part 2 of what we started to talk about last week, sexual trauma. If you haven’t yet, I would encourage you to go and listen to that episode first. We truly can’t expect to have freedom as a turned-on woman in our lives when we’re weighed down by past trauma and all the emotions that come with it. My promise to you is that I will not mention any details of sexual trauma. In this episode, I share with you how to begin the work of recognizing and responding to triggers and identifying the ways in which we may making our trauma worse and adding to our suffering. It is our birthright to feel whole as pleasured women, and with these episodes, I want to help you on that journey.

I mentioned last week that I’m doing a drawing for a sensational sex starter kit and we came up with an even better idea to put together hand-picked items for the most delicious, sexy, gift box you can imagine. These are premium products that I absolutely swear by that allow you to connect with yourself in a sensual and loving way. All you need to do to be eligible to win this box is write a review on iTunes. By writing a review, you’ll also receive a sensational sex starter kit, which includes a workbook, meditations, and everything you’ll need to begin your journey of being a turned-on woman. In order to receive this sex starter kit and entered to win the sexy gift box, simply write a review on Apple iTunes and send a screenshot of your review to team@daniellesavory.com.

Topics in this episode

Responding to the reaction and feelings of when we are triggered
Trauma takes us away from being able to access what we truly want
Pleasure isn’t about adding something in to our lives. It’s about liberating our true nature.
Starting our healing journey by addressing the additional suffering
Creating containers for you to be able to bring pleasure in
What it looks like to process stored emotions
Rewriting our stories

It has been my absolute pleasure to share some of these tools with you as you begin your own journey. I am so proud of you all for showing up and listening to this episode. I know it can be scary, but hopefully this episode outlined the process of beginning to face your trauma and showed you what it can look like when you do. Feeling whole and connected with your body is your birthright. It might be scary, but it is so worth it on the other side.