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Ep. 104: Motherhood & Sex - Overcoming Obstacles To Pleasure May 07, 2021

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With Mother’s Day coming up, I want to celebrate all of the momma’s out there who are investing in their pleasure, and talk about the specific hurdles I see for my client’s who are mother’s and the ability for them to connect with their pleasure. I want to share that as a momma myself, I see you, and I see the challenges you face. I want this episode to serve as a reminder to put yourself first, your pleasure as a priority, and to hold yourself with love and kindness. So often, when women become mothers, that serves as their identity. And yes, you are a mom, and you are so much more, and it is your birthright to be a pleasured woman.

If you struggle with setting pleasure as a priority, then I suggest you check out my mini program, Making Time For Intimacy In Three Simple Steps. I take you step by step how to make the time for your pleasure. I give you the actionable steps, mindset shifts that it takes, and I talk to you about how to talk to your partner about creating this time in a way that benefits both of you.

Topics In This Episode:

Celebrating the wins of a client
How we can redefine our motherhood from burnout to pleasure and joy
Looking at how the narrative of struggle plays out in our role as mothers and as partners
Advocating for our pleasure and for that of other moms
Setting pleasure as a priority, instead of an afterthought
The results we create when we start from a place of pleasure
Investigating our self talk, and how it affects our relationship with ourselves and those around us
Removing the pre-momma version of you from a pedestal

As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I want you to see that pleasure is so possible for you with your full schedule and with your children needing you. It is still possible. And not only is it possible, you deserve for your pleasure to be at the forefront of your mind. It will create delight in your body and in your life that fuels you and allows you to show up differently.
And if you’re ready to take this work further and really apply these skills and making the best years yet, then join us for Better Sex in 90 Days. Enrollment is open, and I love helping women come back home to their bodies in a loving and celebratory way. To learn more and apply, go to https://daniellesavory.com/group/.

Ep. 103: The 411 on Foreplay Apr 29, 2021

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I’m going to paint a picture for you. You have spent your day being a high achieving woman, taking care of your business and your kids. It’s the end of the night, and you know that you have sex on the schedule, but it’s one of the last things on your mind. You’ve made a commitment to yourself and your partner, but you are tired and aren’t thinking about sex as something that you want to do. So you decide to follow through, but you cut out foreplay in order to make the sex session as quick as possible so you can get back to whatever else you wanted to do. What if I told you that you are missing out on the most important part?

For most of the women I work with, they have been with their partners for a while, and foreplay is no longer a part of their pleasure toolkit. Our society puts such high importance on penetrative intercourse that it seems like we should just skip ahead to that end goal. But in this episode, I share with you why foreplay is crucial for your pleasure and how to approach it with your mindset in order to achieve lasting change and become the fully pleasured woman you deserve to be.

Topics In This Episode:

The shift in foreplay throughout the life of a relationship
What it looks like when we have a lack mentality with our time, and how that affects our sex life
When sex becomes just another item on your to do list
Being aware of when we put foreplay on the backburner
The great misunderstanding of female pleasure
Preparing our bodies for intercourse
Why I call them “sex sessions”

As always, it has been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I encourage you to take all of the things that we talked about in this episode today, examine the beliefs that you have, and see how these things are getting in the way of your pleasure. Begin to do thought-work around them and start to give yourself the time to warm up and become aroused so that you can experience more and more pleasure.
This is exactly the process that I take all of the women that go through Better Sex in 90 Days. To learn more or to join, go to https://daniellesavory.com/group/

Ep. 102: My Story of Becoming a Sex Coach Apr 16, 2021

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Ep. 101: Creating Profit & Pleasure with Master Coach Stacey Boehman Apr 06, 2021

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So many of the women that listen to this podcast and who I work with in the Better Sex in 90 Days program are high achievers. They come to me and ask me for how they can make time for pleasure when they are already so busy with their careers and their families. In this episode, I am delighted to share with you a conversation I had with my friend and coach, Stacey Boehman. Stacey is one of the most ambitious and high-achieving women that I know. In our conversation, she shares insight into how she intentionally and consistently makes pleasure a priority, both in the bedroom and beyond.

Topics in this episode

What it looks like to date yourself, and why you should
The power in being able to turn yourself on
Untangling the patriarchy from our pleasure
Recognizing when other things are taking priority over sex, and recommitting to it
Building a business as a pleasured woman
The freedom of an unbound life
Breaking out of the default mode
How to get into the moment when he catches me off guard
Committing to courage and vulnerability in the bedroom

As always, it was my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. I hope you were able to see from Stacey just how important it is to be intentional in your commitment to pleasure. Yes, life is busy and hard, and other things may come up, but staying committed to your result of being a pleasured woman will benefit you, those around you, and your business. To learn more about Stacey Boehman, go to her website at: https://staceyboehman.com/

Ep. 100: Meeting Your Match - Interview with The Husband Himself Apr 01, 2021

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Ep. 99: 6 Daily Habits To Spark Desire Mar 18, 2021

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Most of us in long-term relationships have faced that time in our lives where it feels like all desire for our partners have faded away. Trust me. It’s not you. You’re not broken. This is a natural thing that happens in our brains as we get comfortable and move through the demands and responsibilities in everyday life. But you can get it back! Just because this is normal and this is what happens, doesn’t mean we have to settle. In this episode, I share my six daily habits to spark desire and get that spark back with the one that you love.

I’ve also been thinking about the issue where it feels like there just isn’t enough time in the day. And one of the first things that tends to go out the window is making time for our sexual desire and pleasure. So I’ve created a new mini-course for you called 3 Simple and Effective Steps to Create More Time for Intimate Connection. We’ll take a look at why you’re not making time for pleasure, why you want to follow through with getting it back, how to talk to your partner about it, and then how to move through resistance when it is on your calendar. This is such a great resource and I am excited to share it with you! To get this course, go to:

Topics in this episode

The 6 habits to spark desire
Reasons why our desire dwindles
Looking at what is required in order to get interested in pleasure
How our bodies respond to stress
Ways to be aware of pleasurable sensations throughout your day
Getting back the feeling of love and connection with your partner
Creating awareness around how we feel in our body

As always, it’s been my absolute pleasure to share this with you today. If you’re enjoying this podcast, I encourage you to share it with other women in your life who you believe could benefit. And don’t forget about the new mini-course I created for you. It is going to change everything for you, and it’s only $17!

Make sure to follow me on social media! You’ll get tips and mindset shifts to help you and that you can share with the women in your life and continue to normalize women pursuing their pleasure. Instagram: @thesexcoachforwomen

Ep. 98: Sexual Pleasure Advocacy for YOU Mar 04, 2021

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Let’s talk about advocacy, what it means to advocate for your own pleasure, and for that of the women in your world! If we take a look at how the landscape of mental health has changed over the past few years, it has evolved from being something hush-hush to something that we now talk about openly. And this has lead to more options, and more solutions to the problems that exist. I want to share with you that this is possible when it comes to pleasure and sexual pleasure!

I share with you how to begin the process of advocating for your own pleasure. You may think that this means speaking up in the bedroom, and that is certainly part of it, but there’s also so much more! I also go into some ways in which we can begin to be pleasure advocates in small ways that, when we all start to do them, become part of a much larger shift for our society and for future generations.

Topics in this episode

The role that advocacy plays in your pleasure journey
Your sexual pleasure is part of you. You don’t have to feel broken, alone, or have shame around this part of you.
The 3 parts of self sexual advocacy
Being able to identify what is blocking your pleasure, and working through those blocks
Techniques for getting out of the stress cycle, in order to create space for ease and connection
How can you advocate for pleasure outside of the bedroom?
Having the conversations with our partners to be able to ask for the things that we want
Ways in which you can begin shifting the narrative for women’s pleasure

As always it’s been my absolute pleasure to share this with you and I hope it gives you some good pointers to really become a pleasure advocate, both for yourself and for the women in your world. I want you to know that we can, and we should start talking about it. It’s a huge part of our well-being and it is our birthright.

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Ep. 97: He Only Wants Sex From Me Feb 25, 2021

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I’ve got to be honest with you and tell you that I’m a little bit fired up, and there’s something that we can all do about it. There is something that I hear from women all the time, whether they are clients, friends, or from people on social media, I hear them say, “he only wants one thing from me”. This is not a thought that creates an openness to desire and becoming a more turned-on woman.

Let’s take a look at how this idea of sex being a give and take has been engrained in us from a very young age, and how a shift in our thoughts can really change the narrative around sex within our society as a whole. And not only that, we’ll look at how you can apply these shifts to your relationship and how you can make your pleasure about you, and create the results you are seeking of more passion and connection.

Topics in this episode

Being aware of our thoughts, and the ones that do not create an openness to pleasure
Investigating how it feels in our bodies when we think "he only wants something from me"
It’s not him. It’s actually you.
Blaming our partners
How we are sabotaging our own pleasure
Being able to identify when your brain is working against you
How as a culture we perpetuate the idea that men only want sex from

It has been my absolute pleasure to share this truth bomb with you about him wanting something from you, and how it’s killing your own desire and your own pleasure. And if you are wanting to take this work to the next level, I invite you to join Better Sex in 90 Days, where I share practices and tools for you so that you get real results. We are always enrolling and we have another cohort starting soon. For more information, go to https://daniellesavory.com/group/

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Ep. 96: Pausing the Autopilot Feb 18, 2021

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When was the last time you just stopped and took a second, pause it all? We live such full lives, and our brains are wired to constantly be on the lookout to keep us safe and efficient. And that’s not to mention how bombarded we are with emails, notifications, and constant distractions. All of this working together makes it difficult to connect with ourselves, our bodies, and our pleasure. Today I want to share with you the practice of the pause. Why the pause is an easy and impactful practice both in your sex life and out of it and how to integrate it into your day.

Topics in this episode

The impact of the distracted brain
How the pause practice can help you
Easy ways to integrate the pause
What this has to do with sex
How the pause can create more connection with your partner and self
Discuss the four different types of pauses:

As always, it’s been my absolute pleasure to be here with you this week. Remember to pause and take stock of what’s happening in our minds and in our bodies. Really enjoy these moments and breaks from distractions, connect to you, and becoming a fully turned-on woman.

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Ep. 95: Your Fixed Mind is Keeping You Unsatisfied Feb 04, 2021

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If your social media feeds are anything like mine, you’ve definitely noticed a shift in the past few years around mindset and the self-discovery journeys people are taking. However, and you may not have noticed this, but I certainly have, there doesn’t seem to be much of a shift around how we’re thinking about sexuality. For most people, they tend to have a fixed mindset around sex and what that means for them. The power that our mind has on our pleasure and desire is incredible, if we are open to it!

In this episode, I share with you the characteristics of having a fixed mindset versus a growth mindset. I walk you through how to identify each and I share the amazing potential that is awaiting you from a growth mindset, particularly around your sexuality and your pleasure.

If you’re loving the concepts that I’m sharing on the podcast, then come join us in the group program, Better Sex in 90 Days. We take all of this information and this work to the next level. You learn to rewire your brain for more passion and pleasure with practices you can learn right away that are going to allow you to feel more sexual. Just imagine how much more your mind will be blown when you start implementing them in your life in a very focused way. To learn more, or if you have any questions, reach out to: team@daniellesavory.com

Topics in this episode

Sexiness isn’t something you’re born with or you’re not. It’s available to everyone!
What it looks like when we apply our fear of failure to our sex lives
How to approach new things with an open mind
Bringing awareness to a fixed mindset, and then moving to a growth mindset
The areas around sex that can be developed with a growth mindset
Why we should learn to anticipate failures, and what it takes to be prepared to fail
Some of the techniques I walk my clients through in order to investigate what’s wrong

As always it’s been my absolute pleasure to share with you, this concept of a growth and fixed mindset. I hope that you are able to see how this applies to how you are thinking about sex, and how you can begin to move more into that growth mindset. There is so much delicious goodness on the other side of a growth mindset. And if you’re ready to take this to a deeper level, be sure to check out Better Sex in 90 Days at https://daniellesavory.com/group/.

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