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If we’re not aware of our stress levels, it’s easy to become overloaded or shutdown during the month of December.
Here’s what you might notice if you’re feeling overloaded:
- Clenched
- Hot
- Heart pounding
- Fighting
- Anxious
- Hypervigilant
- Impulsive
- angry/frustrated/annoyed irritable
- Defensive
- Overwhelmed
- Shaking
- Aggressive
- Revved up
- Agitated
- Intense
- Panic
- Antsy
- Wound up
- Stressed
- Tight
- Fidgety
- Jittery
- Trapped
- Excitement (can often feel like anxiety)
- Nervous
- Buzzed
- Tingly
- Jumpy
- Knotted
- Saturated
You may also notice that you:
- have stuck, intrusive negative thoughts
- have heightened awareness
- have trouble sleeping, relaxing, or resting
- have difficulty making decisions
- experience digestive issues
- are jumpy or easily angered
- have racing, stuck, or intrusive thoughts
Here’s what to try in order to decrease the stress and calm your body:
When you feel this way, rate the number of your stress/activation on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 = non-existent and 10 being unbearable.
Ask yourself: What do I need to do in order to calm my body down and reduce the amount of energy?
Here are some coping strategies to try:
- Exercise
- Breathing
- shaking/bouncing
- Tapping
- tense/release your muscles
- Go outside
- Write down thoughts on paper
- Yell in a pillow
- Punch a pillow
- Lift weights
- Dance
- Play a sport
- Ask for help
- draw/paint/create
- Cross-lateral stimulation
- Meditation
- Laughter
- Read
- Anything mindful that keeps you in the present moment
- Color
- Word search
- Body work like massage or acupuncture
- Yoga
- Silence
- Stillness
- solitude
Here’s what you might notice if you’re feeling shutdown:
- Shut down
- Frozen
- Unmotivated
- Apathetic
- Stuck
- Stagnant
- Confused
- Low energy
- Numb
- Disconnected
- Lethargic
- Withdrawn
- Dissociated
- Flat
- Slow
- Distant
- Foggy
- Tired
- Collapsed
- Fading
- Dissolving
- Out of your body
- Drained
- Emotionally unresponsive
- Empty
- Fatigued
- Depressed
- unfocused
You may also notice that you:
- Don’t want to be with others
- Are leaking energy
- Don’t want to engage or connect
- Want to curl up and hibernate
- Start to withdraw
- Pull away
- Feel fatigued and exhausted
- Struggle to take actions
- Have brain fog
- Feel heavy or sluggish
- Feel frozen
- Are overwhelmed
- Experience hopelessness
- Feel numb or dissociated
- Are in avoidance
- Feel Shame
- Use food, alcohol, or drugs for comfort
- Procrastinate
- Feel immobilized, depressed, and/or numb.
Here’s what to try in order to increase your energy level:
When you feel this way, rate your energy level on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 = no energy and 10 too much energy.
Ask yourself: What do I need to do in order to boost or increase my energy?
Here are some coping strategies to try:
- Focus on the five senses and how they impact your energy:
- What smells energize me?
- Experiment with essential oils… peppermint is great for this.
- candles/incense/soaps/perfumes/lotions
- What sounds/music energizes me?
- Create a playlist.
- Listen to a podcast.
- Listen to natural sounds on a app.
- What do I find energizing to look at?
- Is it something outside?
- Art?
- A vision board or Pinterest board?
- Scrapbooks/photos?
- What flavors/foods/textures energize me?
- Spicy?
- Chewy? Crunchy?
- Brush your teeth
- What can I touch?
- Certain fabrics?
- Massage
- hot/cold showers
- Breathwork
- Dancing
- Spending time with a pet
- Seeing friends
- Going for a drive
- Sitting outside
- something else?
Here’s how you’ll know you have a tolerable level of stress:
- Comfortable
- Present
- Calm
- Relaxed
- Rested
- Safe
- Alert
- Grounded
- Mindful
- Engaged
- Energized
- Confident
- Alive
- Bouncy
- Smiling
- Leaning forward
- Chill
- Loose
- Open
- Lounging
- Playful
- Grounded
- connected
- something else?
I invite you to consider these questions:
- When do you notice feeling overloaded during the holiday?
- When do you notice feeling shutdown?
- When do you notice feeling a tolerable, comfortable level of stress?
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