Honeydew Me

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141. Degrade Me But In A Hot Way May 24, 2023

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Hey you dirty little slut… Dr. Liz Powell is BACK and this time they’re helping us break down degradation and humiliation play. We chat about:

What degradation play is
WHY degradation and humiliation can be turn ons
How sex and shame are connected in our brains
Indicators that this type of play might be for YOU
Boundaries and safe words
Examples of how to engage in this type of play
Aftercare and dealing with feelings of guilt/shame

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140. You're Not Too Emotional: How To Embrace "Negative" Emotions & Ditch The Need To Be Taken Seriously May 17, 2023

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Our QUEEN, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, has returned, and this time she's breaking down the concept of "negative" or "bad" emotions. We chat about:

Victoria's thoughts on "negative" emotions
Allowing all emotions to be FELT
Being labeled as the emotions we allow ourselves to feel (sad, angry etc.)
Wanting to more ✨elegantly✨ express your emotions
Being taken seriously when you're upset
Is there such a thing as "too emotional"?

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139. The Sex Ed You Never Got: Masturbation, Plan B, & Porn May 10, 2023

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We’re chatting with sex educator Danielle Bezalel and closing some BIG OL’ knowledge gaps (courtesy of the shitty sex ed we got growing up). We cover:

If using vibrators makes it harder to orgasm without one
How much masturbation is TOO MUCH
How early people typically start masturbating and when to start talking about masturbation with kids
Emergency contraceptive 101
Can you take TOO MANY Plan B’s?
Navigating porn use in a relationship
Feeling in competition with porn
If sex should EVER hurt and reasons why it does
De-centering penetration in partnered sex

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138. Finding Your Normal: Navigating Low & Mismatched Libidos May 03, 2023

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We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about:

What libido is and isn't
The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire
What a "normal" libido looks like
Why low libido isn't inherently bad
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship
Common libido myths
What can negatively impact your libido

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137. Toxic Masculinity & Sex Shame Apr 26, 2023

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We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”. We chat about:

What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests
How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame
How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us
Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi
Labels in life and social media
What queerbaiting actually means

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136. Play With Your Butt: Tips, Techniques, & Positions for Anal Masturbation Apr 19, 2023

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We’re headed BACK to your backdoor and talking all things anal masturbation with Dr. Heather Bartos. We cover:

WHY your butt is such an epicenter of pleasure (even when you don’t have a prostate)
Prep and precautions
Techniques for playing with your butt
Internal and external methods
Positions
Toys and other props to try

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135. You Don’t Have To Love Your Body To Feel Sexy and Get Off Apr 05, 2023

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Ever wondered what the most "flattering" positions are? What about the ideal hairdo for ✨down there✨? Us too, but it turns out that "flattering" sex might not be a worthwhile goal. That's why we're talking with sex educator and author of “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life”, Elle Chase. Elle is here to help us unpack the oh-so complex relationship between sex and body image by chatting about...

How body image impacts partnered and solo sex
How to work through negative self talk/thoughts
How to navigate sex after your body has gone through a change
Whether sex should be "flattering"
Accommodating insecurities and finding RELIEF
What's the deal with body hair and how much should we care

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134. How To Cut Out Comparison & Navigate Insecurities In Your Relationship Mar 29, 2023

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We're diving head first (and balls deep) into some listener questions with Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, a magical human who specializes in helping people work through emotional outsourcing (AKA people pleasing, codependency etc.). In this episode we chat about:

How to "manage" a partner's insecurities
How to navigate boundaries in a relationship and what to do when you don't agree
The difference between being "kind" and "nice"
Being queer while in a hetero relationship
The FOMO trap and how to get out of it
How to stop comparing yourself to a partner's ex
Why talking about our insecurities makes us COOL
How to navigate lack of sexual desire and feeling like an outcast

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133. The Secret To Missionary Orgasms, Having Sex On A Yoga Ball, & Making A Pillow Your Third Mar 22, 2023

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It’s time for a little gab sesh because we miss ya, we’ve learned some things, and we have some updates. This week, we’re talking about:

Techniques for spicing up missionary position
The Coital Alignment Technique (AKA the secret to missionary orgasms)
Having sex on a yoga ball, in the ocean, and with a pillow (not at the same time)
Dating and navigating “the apps”
Period pain and endometriosis
A BIG OL’ UPDATE for Honeydew Me

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132. Uncensored Questions: Foreplay Strategies, BEST Initiation Techniques, & Working With ED Mar 15, 2023

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Our UNCENSORED QUEEN, Dr. Tara, is back and ready to answer all your spicy questions. We cover:

Tips and ideas for high quality foreplay
What NOT to say during sex
How to redirect someone during sex WITHOUT hurting their feelings
Mismatched libidos and what to do about it
How to CONFIDENTLY initiate sex
The 4 types of initiation styles and examples for each
How to navigate erectile dysfunction
What to do if your partner won't stop "jackhammering"
Getting your partner to slow down
How to start the pegging conversation
Moving from scheduled sex to spontaneous sex

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