Honeydew Me

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121. 6 Tips For Better Sex In 2023 (Part 2) Dec 28, 2022

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We're rounding out the year with some of our FAVORITE advice we've gotten in 2022. We've had INCREDIBLE guests, LIFE CHANGING tips, and whole lotta laughs so let's just dive right in and chat about...

Blow jobs
What to do when you’re working with a small mouth or tired jaw
Making things work FOR YOU
Why you don’t need to be healed to have sex or be worthy of PLEASURE
When the sex is bad
Leaving room for things to just BE BAD and not something you need to “work on”
Ethereal orgasms

Episodes mentioned:

EP. 74 Blowjobs 101: How To Give The Best Performance of Your Life with Luna Matatas

EP. 97 Sex & Mental Health: Struggling with Arousal, Getting Your Needs Met, & Worthiness Wounds with Nicoletta Heidegger

EP. 101 What If The Sex Is Bad? With Kate Moyle

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120. 6 Tips For Better Sex in 2023 (Part 1) Dec 21, 2022

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The POWER in being single
De-centering romantic relationships
Confidence and seduction
How to feel sexy
Thinking your "better"
Letting yourself be WRONG
Somehow it always comes back to COMMUNICATION

Episodes mentioned:

EP. 84 The Art of Seduction: How to Walk, Talk, & Touch Like A Bad Bitch with Danica Darling

EP. 87 A Shame Free Guide To Living Your Best Single Life with Shani Silver

EP. 115 You're Toxic, Now What? with Shrink Chicks

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119. Save A Horse, Ride A Face: Positions, Confidence And Getting Your O Dec 14, 2022

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In this episode we’re SITTING DOWN (lol) with Laydee Vee and Dee Black and getting a crash course in face sitting. We chat about:

What face sitting is
Who can be the sitter (HINT: it’s not just vulva owners)
Four different face sitting positions
How to get INTO the positions (and not feel awkward)
What to do once you’re up there
How to sit with CONFIDENCE

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118. Modern Love Languages: Discovering What You Need To Feel Loved Dec 07, 2022

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We’re talking with Anne Hodder-Shipp, an award winning sex educator and coach, about MODERN LOVE LANGUAGES and learning all the ways to love and be loved (because there’s like waaaay more than 5). We cover:

What a love language is and WHY they matter
The classic 5 love languages and their (very shitty) origin
What Modern Love Languages are and how they help us EXPAND our understanding of love
How to determine YOUR love language(s)
Specific examples of how to give and receive love based on your language
Why you DO NOT need to be in a romantic relationship to experience love
Meeting your own love language needs

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117. Labia, Sexual World Records, & Being A Dirty Wh*re Nov 30, 2022

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We’re feeling CHATTY, so let’s get into it. We’re talking:

Labia and labia lumps
“Innie vs. outie” labia
Labiaplasties
Edging during masturbation
Letting someone spit in your mouth (and LOVING it)
Sexual World Records (including longest masturbation sesh, farthest ejaculation and MORE)
Craigslist Missed Connections
Some of our toxic little tendencies (and some of yours)
Red Flag or Deal Breaker

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116. The Power Of PDA: How to Make Out In Public and Give Zero F*cks Nov 23, 2022

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Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about:

What Power PDA is
Critique and support for PDA
What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want?
Giving NO f*cks
Who decided affection needed to be kept private?
Should there be goal with PDA?
How far is TOO far in public?
How healthy displays of affection are GOOD
How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it

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115. You're Toxic, Now What? Nov 16, 2022

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This interview CHANGED OUR LIVES and our relationships because it turns out… we might be a little toxic (yep, that means you too). So let’s talk about it with Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks. We’re unpacking and working through a whole lot, including:

What it actually means to be “toxic”
Common ways that we're toxic but might not realize it
Anti-relational and dysfunctional behaviors
Expecting your partner to KNOW what you need
Feeling like your “better” at relationships than your partner
What if your partner "shuts down" during fights or discussions
Exit language during a fight and what to say instead
Taking accountability aka “what part do I play in this?”
When you secretly love feeling like the victim

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114. Friends & Sex: How Our Friendships Impact Intimacy, Sex, & Everything Else Nov 09, 2022

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Here at Honeydew Me, we came to the realization that our friendships have DEEPLY impacted our sex lives... so let's talk about it. One of our absolute favorite humans, Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, is back on the pod and we are DIVING into the relationship between friends and sex. We chat about...

How friendship and sex are related
Emotional outsourcing
Intimacy in relationships
Getting your friends' opinions: good or bad idea?
Gossip vs well-intentioned sharing
Is there such a thing as sharing TOO MUCH?
When your partner doesn't want you sharing ✨intimate✨ details
Do you need strong friendships to have strong relationships?
Having sex WITH your friends
How to find friends

Check out the FREE resources Victoria created for us HERE!

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113. Watch Porn For Hotter Sex & Deeper Intimacy Nov 02, 2022

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This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about:

How porn can BENEFIT your relationship
Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex
Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?"
Is watching porn cheating?
Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch
What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy
How much is TOO MUCH porn?

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112. Your Shameless Guide To Role Play Oct 26, 2022

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Halloween is fast approaching and this year we are ON THEME. We're revisiting role play and diving even deeper with expert tips, personal stories, LOTS of research, and input from our lovely listeners. We chat about: