Honeydew Me

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152. How To Puss Yourself Out There & Get What You Want Nov 08, 2023

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Ready to put your self OUT THERE? We thought so. Cue Amy and April, hosts of Shameless Sex Podcast and authors of the upcoming book "Shameless Sex: Choose Your Own Pleasure Path". We're unpacking HOW to puss yourself out there and get what you want both in the bedroom and beyond. We cover:

What it means to put yourself out there and how to get started
How to put yourself out there when you're single AND in a long term relationship
Where to find people to date or just bang
Pick up lines and initiating flirtatious conversations
Navigating and accepting rejection
Bringing back the spice to a long term relationship
Small ways to put yourself out there throughout the day

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151. Entitled & Indulgent Foreplay Nov 01, 2023

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This month at Honeydew Me, we're learning how to put ourselves out there or, as we like to say, how to PUSS ourselves out there. We're starting off with the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover:

Expanding your definition of foreplay
How to turn yourself ON
Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage
How to feel ENTITLED to your needs
How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨
Low-stakes ways to initiate sex
How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY

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150. Pet Play: Using Role Play To Unleash Your Wild Side Oct 25, 2023

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Ever been curious about role-play? Wanted to explore your wild side? Lucky you, because we're closing out kink month by exploring pet play. Tyomi Morgan, a sexpert and intimacy coach, is BACK on Honeydew Me to break down one of her favorite kinky activities. We cover:

What pet play (aka a type of animal role play) is and why it's a kink
How Tyomi engages in pet play and her pet persona
The dom/sub dynamic and what pet/handler relationships can look like
Props and accessories
Communication while role-playing
Dealing with the awkward and WTF moments that can arise during role-play

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149. Bondage & Restraints Oct 18, 2023

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This episode has us all tied up and we couldn't be more excited. Midori, a sex educator and coach, is here to share all her tips for bringing bondage and restraints into the bedroom. We cover:

Midori's definition of BDSM (IT'S SO GOOD)
Why being bound is so erotic
How to get started in bondage
Types of restraints (including household items, luxury restraints & more)
Body parts to restrain and body parts to avoid
Dominance and rope games

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148. How To Ask For Rough Sex Oct 11, 2023

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You deserve to have all your kinky little needs met, so in this episode, we're learning how to talk the talk and ask for what we want. Stella Harris, an intimacy educator, coach, mediator, and author of "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" is here to help us dig into the nitty gritty and develop our sexy communication skills. We cover:

Sexual communication basics
How to introduce and negotiate your kinky desires
Navigating shame around sexual interests
How to control your own "yuck" so you don't shame a partner
How to tell a partner you didn't like something you tried
How to make these conversations more fun

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147. Dominate the Bedroom: How To Build Confidence, Work Through Embarrassment & Dominate Like A Pro Oct 04, 2023

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It's officially kink month at Honeydew Me and we're kicking things off with a SPICY lesson on how to be more dominant. We're joined by Eva Oh, a Professional Dominatrix with ALL the tips we've been waiting for. We cover:

What makes a good domme both privately and professionally
What gets in the way of us embracing our dominant sides
Setting containers and boundaries
How to build confidence
How to work through shame and embarrassment when being dominant
How to recover when you make a mistake or say something "stupid" in the bedroom
What a session with Eva looks like

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146. Come With Us To A Sex Club Sep 27, 2023

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We're closing out non-monogamy month with a BANG... or lots of banging. We went to a sex club as total newbies and now we're reporting back to tell you everything you need to know. We cover:

Getting in, getting a tour, and first impressions
All the rules and why we LOVED them
The set up of the club
What we saw and what we DID
Major takeaways and tips for other first timers

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145. Cuckolding 101 Sep 20, 2023

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WTF is cuckolding? Why are people into it? Is it something I might be into? These are the questions we set out to answer when talking with Jen Meyer, a licensed therapist and sex educator who specializes in kink and consensual non-monogamy. In this episode, we cover:

What cuckolding is and how it all works
Why it's a turn-on
The different roles in a cuckolding scene
How shame and jealousy play into cuckolding
Figuring out if cuckolding is for you
How to navigate opening your relationship

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jenmeyertherapy.com

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144. Guide To Threesomes & Sex Parties Sep 13, 2023

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Susan Bratton, THE intimacy expert to millions, is back and this time she's breaking down two of her favorite nonmonogamous activities... THREESOMES AND SEX PARTIES. Here's what you can expect:

Susan sells us on threesomes and explains WHY she loves them
Positions for threesomes
What to do when you're feeling left out
IT WILL BE CLUNKY... we cover how to work through that
What it feels like to be double-penetrated
Finding a third
Why you NEED to be making "offers" and examples of how to do it
Navigating sex parties
Being a "good" slut

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143. Polyamory: How To Elevate Your Sex, Relationships, & Life By Unlocking Your Slutty Heart Sep 06, 2023

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First up in our non-monogamy series we’re covering POLYAMORY… because WTF is it and would you ever be into it? That’s what we’re exploring in this episode with sex educator and therapist, Dr. Liz Powell. We cover:

What polyamory is and what it isn’t (aka all the things we get wrong when we think about polyamory)
Why we need to be examining the “relationship scripts” we’re given to figure out what we actually want
What the BENEFITS of polyamory are
What polyamorous relationships can look like
How sex can work in polyamorous relationships
Boundaries, rules and COMMUNICATION

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