Girls & The Gays

Latest Episodes:

Are all guys 100% straight? Burnout? Best/Hardest Part w Coming Out? Jun 11, 2021

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My love! I asked you all to submit some questions on Instagram for a brief Q&A. Answering questions from "are all guys 100% straight?" to "biggest regret" and everything in between... hoping you can get a deeper understanding of my story.

Cheers to us and Girls & The Gays - I appreciate you so much!

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Singleness and Pressures of Dating in Your Twenties Jun 07, 2021

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Society has made an immense pressure on us to be in relationships with everyone and anything other than ourselves. We lose focus and forget that this is a monumental chapter in our lives for are formative of our careers, self-fulfillment, and so much more than JUST dating.

So my love - buckle in because this one is going to be juicy mutha effin hot. I spill some tea on my most recent relationships and how it really gave me a reality check.

Press play and let the good times roll <3 <3 <3

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Seasons of Life That Helped Embrace My Sexuality Jun 04, 2021

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From being bullied in middle school, to pressures from society/family/friends, to a lot of self doubt in between ... being gay was another lens of challenge growing up. But these different seasons of my life qualified me. It helped me get closer to my higher sense of self, demand more from life. To live and not just exist!

Happy Pride my love - gay, straight, bi, and even if your just a bad b**** .. I promise this episode will help realign you in your path and navigate seasons of hardship. Through the telling of my story from middle school to post grad, welcome this energy today and choose to live.

All the best,
Your Gay Bestie <3 <3 <3

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Living Your Best Life While Navigating Your Unknown Twenties May 31, 2021

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Our 20's can be an interesting time. Lots of comparison, trying to get "there," confusion and anxiety in between ... I completely get it. But with lots of patience and deliberateness, I've been able to learn that your power still lies within your hands.

Navigating this season of our life is exciting if you choose and you make it! Thus, I leave you with some tangible steps that you can take that will help you create a life you'll be obsessed with.

So, join me on this conversation! Press play, share it with a friend, and please leave a review. I appreciate you <3 <3 <3 <3

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Growing up Gay, Grindr & Gay Dating/Struggles w Peter Samson May 24, 2021

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The moment WE have all been waiting for *drum roll* introducing ... the one ... the only .. my GAY BESTFRANDD Peter Samson!!

What better way to ring in episode freaking 3 0 than to make a toast with my gay bestie. Peter and I go all the way back to cheering together in high school, our first ever boy experiences lol, and just so many other GAY ish in between.

Buckle up because this one is J U I C Y.

Thank you for sticking around with me to episode 30??? Freaking cheers and bless up to us baby. Wouldn't be here if it weren't for you!

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Expectations vs Reality of Post Grad May 17, 2021

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It's been a year since I've graduated from my alma mater and I wanted to unpack some lessons that I've learned since then. This episode breaks down realistic advice and learned lessons with a sprinkle of my bestie, soap box pep talk as you navigate this new season of change.

Change is scary but you don't have to do it alone. As you welcome seasons of change, a blossomed version of yourself awaits. So... what are you waiting for? Press play and welcome this energy! You belong here.

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2 Jobs in 1 Year - Embracing Change May 10, 2021

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Hindsight is always 2020 babe. This episode, I talk about all things career and navigating the corporate space. I've been blessed to find my way to 2 amazing corporate jobs in the span of less than a year. Tune in to hear about how I navigate seasons of change and embracing uncertainty.

Change is the only thing that's certain and inevitable. As we continue to embrace change, I've quickly come to realize how much our horizon is broadened and scope for life is deepened. So? Cheers to seasons of more growth and change!!

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Fitness Influencers, Growing up Asian & Building Confidence w Tracy Bui May 03, 2021

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Love, this episode was so special as I was able to share our space today with someone near and dear to me - Tracy Bui. Tracy is a young "20 something year old" working in the corporate space as a Vietnamese American bad ass WOMAN. Through the use of social media, she has served as a catalyst toward many big topic conversations and unpacked change that our society is in desperate need for.

From establishing a social media presence to now starting her own personal training business, Tracy is a true role model, inspiration and world changer. I know you all will love her just as much as I do. Please how Tracy some love!

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My Coming Out Story / Tips & Advice Apr 26, 2021

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My love, this episode I open up about my coming out story and what it was like growing up as a double minority, the challenges I had to face and what helped me finally tell my parents my own truth.

I hope that this story can resonate with anyone who's trying to find their confidence in who they are. We aren't settling out here ladies! We are stepping into our abundance and taking ownership of who we are. Press play and send it b <3 <3

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Discreet Men & Gay Dating? Apr 19, 2021

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You asked for this one - you shall receive! Per your request, I wanted to share this story during my time in undergrad and how speaking to men in my past dating experience who weren't sure of their sexuality strengthened my exterior.

Talking about dating is still a hard subject for me as I still don't want to "over share" but I also feel that another gay friend listening in or anyone struggling within the dating world can feel less alone. Maybe you'll also be able to hear something that resonates with you!

Cheers babe - thank you for being here.

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