Girls Gone Deep

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

Latest Episodes:

071: Sexologist Alexa Andre on The Secret to Relaxing While Receiving Oral, “One Penis Policy”, Biphobia and How to Navigate When One Partner is Less Experienced in Ethical Non Monogamy May 16, 2024

Show notes

This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa. They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including:
What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy? How can you deal when you’re unsure whether it will work with someone who has no experience with being open? (4:51)

Vulva owners reciving oral: tasting yourself so you’re not worried about how you taste or smell, and the benefit of having a partner who loves natural body odors. (17:07)

Alexa’s secret to relaxing when receiving oral: setting time boundaries! How long do you think it actually takes you to orgasm? Getting over guilt for taking “too long” to orgasm while receiving. (22:49)

Bisexuality and biphobia. How does biphobia show up in non-monogamous spaces? What is “one penis policy”, and how a male partner dictating that their female partner can be with other women but not other men is problematic. The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. (30:11)

The stigma of male-on-male play in swinger spaces and sex parties. Normalizing speaking about bisexuality, especially in men. Watching your male partner give head and deep throating. (34:29)

Alexa’s specialties, and the full range of volume in sex - letting go vocally when coming vs holding your breath and being totally silent. (39:20)

Is it weird to announce it when you orgasm? (41:44)

“Challenge your beliefs and question everything.” What do YOU actually want? The path to a greater sex life. (43:42)

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070: Oral Part 2: Gag Reflex Tips, Orgy Oral Positions, Spitting vs Swallowing, and the Importance of Grooming May 09, 2024

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This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL.
(Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.)
What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38)

Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56)

Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14)

Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45)

Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03)

Grooming and hygiene. (21:03)

Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17)

Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42)

Ask Dr. Elle:

Is it bad to give or recieve oral with morning breath? (35:20)
How do you give oral with stuffy nose? (40:01)
How can whatever is in the giver’s mouth affect my genitals? PH balance, etc. (42:33)
Is it ok to give head to an irritated dick? (45:05)
How can you get rid of the condom taste? (48:44)

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069: Oral Part 1: Our Favorite Techniques for Giving Head and Eating Out, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics May 02, 2024

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It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it.
Why do you deep throat? (1:53)

Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37)

Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49)

Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08)

Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going down on someone, etc): make out with the clit; build gradual pressure. (19:10)

Eating out: flicking vs sucking the clit; fingering in conjunction with clit play; in and out vs come hither. (22:34)

Tongue fucking. (25:44)

How do you stop someone if you don’t like what they’re doing? How to be comfortable sitting on someone’s face, and why you might not want really good head in a play situation. (27:21)

Eye contact during oral: yay or nay? (36:03)

What should we stop doing? What makes oral bad? Teeth, smell and bad hygiene, and the importance of tasting your own cum. (40:24)

How to give head (fellatio, blow jobs) to uncircumcised dicks. What do you do with the foreskin? (45:09)

Power dynamics of oral sex: who’s in charge? Face fucking. (47:38)

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068: Sensation Play with Sarah Eve: TENS and Electroplay, “Pervertables”, and Getting Out of Your Head and Into Your Body Apr 25, 2024

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more.
Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063.
What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not just touch - how to play with scent, sight, taste, and smell, too. (6:58)

What’s in your bag of tools for sensation play? (12:58)

Things to consider: intensity, pressure, speed, direction and location. (18:10)

Setting and negotiating the scene to deliver a great experience: the right questions to ask before engaging in a sensory play scene. (20:50)

TENS unit play and electro play - what to ask beforehand, insertables, using condoms and safety. (23:47)

What can you do when you don’t have tools at your disposal? Using your mouth: breath, spit, temperature, teeth. (30:17)

Thoughts on numbing or intensifying creams? (39:00)

How long is a good amount of time for a sensation play session? (44:09)

Pain play and floggers. (47:52)

What does sensation play do for couples? De-centering penetrative sex. (49:40)

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067: Overcoming Challenges and Exploring Dynamics in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Stag and Vixen, Playing Separately vs Together, and Alcohol's Effects Apr 18, 2024

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In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success. Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so much work? ...And what are some hot experiences they've had along the way?
First Hedo experience: a big challenge. Going through a polyamorous breakup. (3:55)
Tools from both solo and couples therapy. People pleasing. No "taking one for the team". (8:42)
Safety Tool: No record-counting. Setting desires not goals. (12:30)
Safety Tool: Move at the pace of the slowest person. Playing separately vs. playing together. (15:34)
Safety Tool: limiting alcohol consumption to help manage emotions. (17:51)
Safety Tool: Only argue for two minutes. Keep the mindset that you're a team. (19:01)

Spicy story: being a couple's first ENM experience. Enthusiastic consent. (20:01)
Spicy Story: Superslut's first double penetration (DP). (21:31)

Stag and Vixen: what is it? Why a woman might not enjoy watching her partner with someone else. Finding your dynamic through trial and error. Why Hedonism is not the ideal place to figure out what works for you. (22:50)
Drinking and the lifestyle: how drinking affects your ability to respect boundaries and agreements. Getting sober to save your relationship. How stopping drinking can enrich your experience with your partner. Getting used to being at an all-inclusive resort without alcohol. Discovering we are braver than we thought. What do you do with your hands? (28:29)

Why swing? Dressing sexy for your partner. Vaginal hook harnesses. (35:49)
Why be in the open lifestyle? Sense of community. "Hedo people are the best people." Icebreakers. (38:13)

Major takeaway: don’t have a checklist. Release expectations. There’s always next time. (41:01)
Squirting and exhibitionism. (43:20)

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066: Guys Gone Deep on Prostate Play, Squirt Juice Facials, Spit Play and Latex Fetish feat. Zachary Zane and The Builder Apr 11, 2024

Show notes

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.

First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :

from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life!

Then, The Builder:

from Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes!

Fucking yourself in the ass as a way to warm yourself up and clean yourself out before a play night. (3:20)

Squirt juice facials with a side of hot sweaty squirty sex. (9:24)

Spitting on your partner and into their mouth. (16:01)

For men, the balance of being forward yet also needing to read the room correctly. (19:45)

Enthusiastic consent in straight play spaces versus opt-out consent in gay spaces. (22:42)

Prostate play and how to have a prostate orgasm. (25:10)

Leaking prostate juices and toys for prostate play: nJoy and anal hook discussed. (29:14)

Airtight: the benefits of each position. (38:26)

"Running a train". (44:19)

Experiences meeting people on ENM or swinger apps. (50:15)

Working through catfishing and making real connections on dating apps. (54:48)

Where do you meet dates, and what do you do dates with a unicorn or another couple? (59:59)

Full head mask during sex and latex fetish experience. (1:03:03)

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065: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2024: Intentions and Takeaways, featuring Squirting, Day Orgies, Speculum "Caving" and Slut Scouts Apr 04, 2024

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery!
Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were!
This conversation includes:
Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing tips! (:45)
Setting Sexual intentions: butt stuff, Nuru, daytime orgies! (14:13)
HSB 2024 recap. (20:40)
Sexual intentions fulfilled? Additional intentions during the week. (21:59)
Day orgies recap aka DORGIES! Dorgy 1: Nuru and DP (double penetration). (23:00)
Dorgy 2: Nuru and getting out of your head to squirt. (28:00)
Slut Scouts: what it is, how to play, badges. (30:33)
“Gardening” Badge: using gardening tools as sex toys because Elle is a freak ;) (33:01)
Water Sports Badge: golden showers. (34:11)
“Spelunking” aka “Caving” Badge: pussy spreading with speculums (medical play). (36:38)
“Global Action” Badge: Eiffel Tower sex position, impact play spanking session, and shibari harness sex. Vee has an aha moment and becomes the initiator! (38:38)
Making a girl squirt, strapping girl on girl with strap ons. (44:13)
Major Takeaway: balancing friends and sex at HSB; Vee’s demisexuality confirmed! Building on relationships to have better sex. (48:32)
Pro Tips for Hedo! Learn from the girls’ experience. (51:14)
balancing friends satellite friends and new people. (57:12)
Dealing with fomo: just like Burning Man, wherever you are is where you’re supposed to be. (59:35)

For more on Hedonism including FAQs and tips and tricks, check out:
014: HSB: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights

015: Going Deep with Julia Lange: the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers

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064: SNCTM with Daniel D’Ottavio: Erotic Performance Art, Exploration Through Anonymity, and the Deeper Meaning Behind Impact Play Mar 28, 2024

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In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside. They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership.
Daniel D’Ottavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou D’vil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03)

Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to stay monogamous while working for a sex club, what your first sex club experience feels like, and learning about the consent culture. (5:27)

Erotic storytelling: How telling stories through erotic arts lead Daniel and his wife to SNCTM, and how her creative direction helped create a femme-empowered, luscious environment. (9:41)

What to expect at a SNCTM party: ambiance, service, clientele, privacy (including masks and NDA’s). (13:54)

Accountability and communication: How have these experiences affected Daniel’s personal growth, and his relationship growth? (18:15)

Types of performances at SNCTM: aerial, kink, and theatrical erotic artistry. (20:52)

Kink workshops: Discovering kink and impact play, and evolving into an educator. (23:05)

Catharsis and therapeutic benefits of impact play: The deeper meaning behind kinks and fetishes. (25:01)

The importance of having spaces to explore sex, kink, fetish and fantasy. (31:36)

How has SNCTM evolved since ownership changed in 2019? Consent rules, NDA’s, masks, one-strike policy, single women. (33:30)

SNCTM: fever dreams and sexual fantasies, and the emphasis on having a female-empowered environment. (42:21)

Nuggets from being part of the lifestyle community. (45:30)

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063: “Daytime Playtime” Sober Play Party: Penis Sounding, Sensation Play, Cumming On Top, Apple Vision Pro Home Porn Mar 21, 2024

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Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54)

What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54)

What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21)

Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31)

Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02)

Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting boundaries workshop: giving permission to others with your actions, and how to have initial conversations with new people about boundaries and STI status. (13:47)

Sarah Eve: sensation (sensory) play workshop, including tools, blindfolds, temperature play, breath and intensity. (20:28)

Does kink always have to be sexual? (26:22)

Penis sounding: Vee performs her first urethral sound! What is it, how do you do it, and what does it feel like? (33:10)

All the dirty details: Sensation play on the hitachi wand chair, blocking out voyeurs to get out of your head to orgasm. (44:15)

Cumming on top vs cumming on bottom. (49:54)

Sex club etiquette: is it ok to cum on chests at a public play party? (53:39)

Sex and technology: Apple vision pro’s capabilities for personal porn, and its limitations. (57:52)

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062: Sugar Daddy Fantasies, Orgasm Control, Foot Worship and Sex Dungeon Experiences Mar 14, 2024

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In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game!
Leia (@vibrantbyleia) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver (@Sashasilverxo) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix.

With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not.

Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:28)

Have you ever had a sugar daddy or sugar mommy and seeking.com discussed. (07:29)

Orgasm control, edging, cumming on demand. (12:50)

Impact play with a crop. (20:37)

Dominatrix Masterclass details shared. (22:13)

Been choked during sex, passing out, fingerprint marks, where pressure is applied and hand placement on the neck/chest. (28:06)

Using WHOREibe Life the game for tips on chaturbate. (36:05)

Massage with a happy ending and surprise rub and tug experience. (37:13)

Received foot worship and toe sucking and double dom experience shared. (43:23)

Sex dungeon experiences shared. (49:34)

Not being a voyeur creep in the sex cub and double standard of women watching others. (55:32)

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