Girls Gone Deep

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

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194: Sexy Nerds & Conscious Sluts: Demisexuality, Role Play & Burning Man Oct 16, 2026

Show notes

This week, Elle and Vee are joined by their friend Dean, partner of repeat guest Aphrodite, for a conversation about navigating non-monogamy with emotional intelligence. From sexy Renaissance Faire costumes and play party debriefs to having tough conversations when you're already emotionally depleted, they explore how to push your growth edges without pushing past your limits. Dean opens up about being demisexual in the lifestyle, why labels can both help and hold us back, and shares some very sexy adventures from Burning Man. Plus, a simple 30-second intimacy exercise to reconnect with your partner when you're both running on empty.

Intro & Meeting Dean. (00:00)

Sexy Costumes, Renaissance Faire & Role Play. (04:55)

The Invite vs. The Overnight. (13:55)

Having Tough Conversations & Relationship Debriefs. (22:43)

Going to a Sex Party in a Weird Headspace. (35:00)

The Emotional Intelligence Echo Chamber. (39:45)

Demisexuality, Desire & Sexual Labels. (43:15)

Burning Man, Orgy Domes & Sexy Adventures. (50:50)

Final Nugget: A 30-Second Intimacy Exercise. (59:45)

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193: Pussy Worship, Baby Bisexuals & Why Loving Your Genitals Means Better Sex feat. Jordana Ezra Oct 08, 2026

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This week, Vee and Elle chat with Jordana Ezra, aka The Queer Sex Coach, about redefining what counts as sex, navigating bisexual awakenings, and why curiosity beats technique when it comes to eating pussy. From tribbing vs. scissoring to pussy worship, self-pleasure, and unlearning shame around smells, juices, and our bodies, they explore how sexual literacy and nervous system safety can transform pleasure. Plus, Vee shares takeaways from Jordana's tantric-inspired massage workshop, and the conversation takes an unexpectedly vulnerable turn into anal pleasure, emotional triggers, and aftercare.

Tantric massage: workshop takeaways. (02:11)

The art of receiving pleasure. (07:53)

What counts as sex? (11:17)

Tribbing vs. scissoring. (14:22)

Redefining sex beyond penetration. (16:47)

Baby bisexuals: exploring queer sexuality. (18:32)

Sexual literacy: curiosity over technique. (24:29)

Pussy devotion & worship. (27:59)

Pussy shame: smells, juices & body image. (30:46)

Self-pleasure as an antidote to shame. (34:05)

Nervous system regulation & healing core wounds. (39:57)

Unlearning internalized homophobia. (44:55)

Queer sex myths & clit preferences. (49:57)

Anal queen: positions & pleasure. (51:49)

The emotional side of anal sex & aftercare. (54:01)

Jordana Ezra:

Instagram: @thequeersxcoach

Website: jordanaezra.com

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192: Inside a Lifestyle Halloween Party: Orgies, Strap-ons, Spanking & Sensory Deprivation Oct 01, 2026

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This week, Vee and Elle revisit a Halloween favorite from 2023: a whirlwind trip to a lifestyle party filled with group sex, spanking, strap-ons, sensory deprivation, and a six-person orgy. Vee shares what she learned about navigating a big sex party—from confidently saying no and understanding orgy etiquette to creating privacy, leaning into novelty, and surrendering control while blindfolded. They also get into how sex can feel different with strap-ons, moving together during penetration, a deeply connected threesome, and ways to recover after a very sexy, very late weekend.

Inside a lifestyle Halloween party. (01:16)

Novelty, desire and saying no at a sex party. (07:40)

Starting a six-person orgy and navigating group play. (13:20)

Spanking, blindfolds and sensory deprivation. (18:56)

Strap-ons, penetration and sex as a dance. (23:58)

A mindful threesome and post-party recovery. (30:30)

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191: Sex Hacks: Multiple Orgasms, Training Your Body to Cum Differently, Anal Pleasure & the Vagus Nerve feat. Kenneth Play Sep 24, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with internationally recognized sex educator and “sex hacker” Kenneth Play to explore how Eastern philosophy, Western science, and a growth mindset can completely change the way we experience sex and pleasure. Kenneth breaks down how to train your body to experience different types of orgasms, hack anal and prostate pleasure, map the clit, work with the vagus nerve, and stack different sensations to unlock multiple orgasms. Plus, they get into kink and psychological arousal, why safety and trust come before touch, and the wildly underrated art of handjobs and fingering.

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190: Justice for the Handjob: Getting Him Hard, Edging & Techniques to Make Him Beg for It feat. Alexa Andre of Sex With Alexa Sep 17, 2026

Show notes

This week, Elle and Vee are joined once again by sexologist and educator Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa), who’s back to give handjobs the respect they deserve. Alexa breaks down her go-to techniques, including the pepper grinder and lemon squeezer, plus how to use pressure, lube, edging, ball play, foreskin and communication to make a handjob the main event instead of just a warm-up. The girls also get into cock worship, learning how your partner actually likes to be touched, selfish lovers, pussy worship, and why great sex is less about performing and more about paying attention to what actually feels good. Long live the handjob!

Why handjobs? (02:16)

Where to start? (09:34)

Tips to get him hard. (10:30)

Next step: dirty talk and praise, play with positions, watch and learn from the receiver. (17:15)

Hand techniques: pepper grinder and lemon squeezer, internal penis stimulation and new ball technique. (22:10)

More techniques: frenulum play, ball play, massage. (31:48)

Giving vs. receiving pleasure. Eat more pussy. (42:04)

Finishing. (55:33)

Circumcised vs. uncircumcised. (57:44)

Aftercare. (59:47)

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189: Cock Worship 101: Pleasure, Power, Penis Shame & Cock Warming x Talk Sex With Annette Sep 10, 2026

Show notes

This week, Elle and Vee are crossing over to Talk Sex With Annette for a deep dive into the art of cock worship. They break down what cock worship actually is, why it can be so hot for both the giver and receiver, and how to approach it with enthusiasm, intention, and confidence. From mindset and technique to the little details that make someone feel completely desired, they share their favorite tips and tricks for creating the ultimate experience.

Website: talksexwithannette.com

Substack: substack.com/@talksexwithannette

Instagram: @annettebenedetti
Get Annette's Cock Worship Guide HERE

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188: Slutty and Proud: Bi Men, Sex Parties, HPV & Fire Island Fuckfests feat. Boyslut Author Zachary Zane Sep 03, 2026

Show notes

This week Elle and Vee welcome Boyslut author Zachary Zane back for a conversation that goes everywhere. From male bisexuality and the stigma that still exists even in sexually open spaces, dick-size insecurity, HPV and sexual health disclosure, to why being open with your doctors actually matters. Zachary also takes listeners inside his very slutty week on Fire Island, shares his first Top Floor experience, and gets real about sexual confidence, enthusiastic lovers, and communicating how you experience pleasure. It’s an unfiltered conversation about being sexual, being proud of it, and creating more space for everyone to want what they actually want.

Website: zacharyzane.com

Substack: zacharyzane.substack.com

Book: Boyslut

Instagram: @zacharyzane_

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— support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.

🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP

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187: Things We Never Knew We Liked Until We Tried Them: Breath Play, Public Sex, Sybians & Surprise Kinks feat. Aphrodite Aug 27, 2026

Show notes

This week, Elle and Vee bring Aphrodite back for a gloriously unhinged round of Whoreible Life: Fuck, Marry, Kill that spirals into stories about her first five-person orgy, breath play, public sex, rope bondage, piss play, Sybian fantasies, and one truly unforgettable yoni egg disaster. What starts as a kink card game becomes a conversation about discovering turn-ons you never expected, the thrill of almost getting caught, and why there really might be a home for every desire. Then things unexpectedly go deep as the girls unpack marriage, long-term love, complacency, and what it means to keep choosing someone while leaving room for both of you to evolve. Equal parts chaotic, kinky, hilarious, and vulnerable, this is peak Girls Gone Deep.

Round 1 Whoreible Life Cards

taste yourself
be in an orgy of 8+ people
teacher/student role play

Aphrodite’s back, and Fuck Marry Kill immediately gets unhinged. (00:27)

Tasting yourself, teacher role play & what actually counts as an orgy. (01:42)

CNC: The role play that makes Vee rethink everything. (13:55)

Knicks in Five(some): Aphrodite’s first orgy?? (16:27)

Round 2 Whoreible Life Cards

Be one of the plugs stuffing someone “airtight”
Be peed on
Use a Sybian sex toy machine

Breath play: terrifying or erotic? Choking and face sitting. (19:56)

Piss play & secret shower confessions. (32:26)

Sybians & Aphrodite’s growing "Fucket List". (35:29)

Can you love someone forever without assuming forever? (44:30)

Round 3 Whoreible Life Cards

Be bound/restricted with rope
Have sex in public
Go out in public with a sex toy under your clothes

Public sex & the thrill of almost getting caught. (53:40)

The Slipper Room bathroom sex. (55:35)

Rope bondage & Shibari. (58:07)

The yoni egg disaster nobody will ever let Aphrodite forget. (01:01:17)

Are we exhibitionists… or do we just like being naughty? (01:05:12)

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186: Magnetic, Not Thirsty: "Fuck Yes" Energy, Play Parties & Better Threesomes feat. Eden & Ross Aug 20, 2026

Show notes

This week, Elle and Vee chat with returning guests Eden and Ross about the difference between magnetic, fuck-yes energy and the thirsty energy that can quietly kill a connection, whether you’re flirting with a third, navigating a play party, or opening your relationship. From worshipping a woman they met dancing in Ibiza and breaking down their favorite threesome positions to energy sex, sexy boundaries, and staying connected when your partner is fucking someone else, they get into what actually makes group play feel good for everyone involved. Plus, they explore why feeling secure and chosen in your relationship can make you more magnetic outside of it, how to boldly ask for what you want without hunting for an outcome, and why their approach to ENM is more sacred than swinging.

Getting sexy in Europe: Ibiza, pleasure, and the Europe adventure. (00:00)

Threesome R-BDSM: the consent conversation framework. (08:41)

Boundary-setting, consent, and emotional safety. (13:34)

Summer sex, pleasure, and staying out of autopilot. (16:17)

Vacation sex, novelty, and fucking in castles. (18:13)

Favorite FMF positions and trio dynamics. (23:00)

Staying connected in group play. (27:00)

Energy sex, resonance, and tuning fork energy. (30:45)

Goddess devotion and women-led containers. (37:30)

Couples coaching and conscious non-monogamy. (50:31)

Sacred Society: building a sexy vetted community. (57:55)

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Where to Find Them:

Ross: embodimen.com

Eden: theedenera.com

Couples Coaching: open.sacredsocietyproject.com

Sacred Society: sacredsocietyproject.com

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185: Fulfilling Fantasies (Replay): Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix feat. Brandi Aug 13, 2026

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In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with friend Brandi about her ten years' worth of experience in the lifestyle, throughout which she's been able to explore all types of fantasies, from orgies to sub/dom power dynamics to pet play, and the joy and empowerment they can bring.

Chapters:
Fantasies: exploring and fulfilling fantasies through ENM (ethical non monogamy). (0:00)

How can you make it work when you’re both submissive? (9:50)

Being dommed with your partner. (14:44)

Hiring a pro dominatrix. (18:10)

Female dommes vs male doms: trust, comfort, and safety. (25:13)

DC Fetish Ball: what is it like? (29:20)

What do you get out of exploring fetish and kink? (36:25)

Sex therapy: working to be more assertive, going for what you want in the moment, and growing your self-confidence to overcome the fear of rejection. (39:18)
Pickup lines: the best ways to approach a couple at a week-long event, and one night only. (49:41)
Friends working to make friends' fantasies come true. (55:24)
Vee, Elle and Brandi's fantasies to check off the list in the future. Gang bangs and being worshipped. (1:01:19)
What are some fantasies that have been fulfilled that you'd like to repeat? MFM, MMF, pet play and more. (1:03:25)

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