Girls Gone Deep

Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com

Latest Episodes:

184: Vee’s Birthday at Top Floor: All-Hands Group Scene, a Balcony Threesome & Elle’s Play Party Comeback Aug 06, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee take us inside Elle’s first Top Floor party and Vee’s unforgettable birthday celebration in New York City. Vee attempts to surrender during an all-hands scene surrounded by the people she loves, while Elle returns to the lifestyle after baby number two and discovers just how desired, confident, and adventurous she still feels. Between a surprisingly deep debate about consent, the pressure to orgasm, unexpected breast milk, a balcony threesome, impact-play bruises, and a sunrise cuddle puddle, this night had everything. Somehow, the biggest takeaway is not how wild the party became, but how safety, communication, and genuine friendship made everyone feel free enough to go deeper.

Elle’s First Top Floor Party: First Impressions. (00:30)

Consent and Communication at Play Parties. (05:26)

Face Sitting Tips. (11:39)

Party Intentions, Fears, Desires and Boundaries. (14:57)

Vee’s All Hands Birthday Scene. (19:38)

Vee’s BDSM Balcony Threesome with Mister A and Brandi. (30:24)

Elle and Mister A’s Breast Milk Moment. (39:59)

Elle Hooks Up with Boyslut Zachary Zane. (42:55)

Partner Swapping with Jeb and the Builder. (46:12)

The Disco Stick Vibrator. (47:55)

What Elle Wants to Try Next Time. (50:59)

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183: Confessions of an Orgy Organizer Part 2: Water Sports, Pool Orgasms, Double Penetration & More feat. Bossy Jul 30, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee welcome back everyone's favorite unfiltered guest, Bossy, to play the card game of WHOREible Life. Be a fly on the wall as you listen to a fully detailed tell all episode. They dive into sex in a dirty ass pool, pee play, squirting, period sex, double penetration, embarrassing firsts, and why the most taboo conversations often lead to the biggest breakthroughs. It's hilarious, unexpectedly educational, and exactly the kind of late-night conversation you probably wish you were sitting in on.

CHAPTERS

00:00 – We Accidentally Turned This Into a Water Sports Episode

01:10 – Sex in a Swimming Pool... Does That Actually Work?

07:05 – From Pee Play to Pleasure: Falling in Love with Water Sports

17:43 – Period Sex: Hot or Hard Pass?

21:00 – Does Your Cycle Change Your Sex Drive?

23:00 – The Truth About IUDs, Implants, and Why Nobody Warns Women

28:00 – The Psychedelic That Unexpectedly Unlocked Squirting

33:45 – Our Best Hotel Sex Hack

35:05 – We Finally Tried Double Penetration

38:30 – Cucking Confession

39:10 – Why Watching Your Partner with Someone Else Can Be Incredibly Hot

44:15 – WHOREible Life 3 card draw: Shag Marry Die

Be fucked by someone else with a strap on dildo
Ride someones face
Give foot worship or toe sucking

48:40 –WHOREible Life 3 card draw: Shag Marry Die

Fuck in a sex swing
MFM Threesome
Tittie Slapping

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182: Guys Gone Deep: Group BDSM Scenes, Opening Up, and the Lincoln Tunnel Story with Mister A Jul 23, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee’s relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jealousy, emotional activation, reconnection rituals, and why feeling safe matters more than pretending non-monogamy is effortless. Then the conversation takes a completely unhinged turn with a Lincoln Tunnel emergency that somehow becomes kinky, hilarious, and weirdly romantic.

00:00
Introduction to BDSM negotiation and self-discovery

02:06
Evolution of the relationship and exploring boundaries

03:59
Scenes with multiple partners and dynamic roles

06:52
Negotiation questions and building anticipation

10:08
Handling fears, desires, and boundaries

15:05
The importance of communication and group chats

20:03
Scene construction and planning

28:07
The emotional and physical aspects of BDSM scenes

35:04
Voyeurism, watching, and emotional safety

42:58
Handling jealousy and non-monogamy

49:51
Community, connection, and personal growth

01:00:05
Final thoughts and advice for beginners

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181: Confessions of an Orgy Organizer: DP, Golden Shower Peep Show, Strap-Ons, Double Digits & More feat. Bossy Jul 16, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with one of their favorite humans in the lifestyle, Bossy, for a hilarious, heartfelt, and wildly unfiltered conversation about friendship, non-monogamy, and unforgettable play party moments. From the infamous "George" strap-on to Slut Olympics, chosen family, and hosting an 85-person lifestyle birthday party, they share it all. But beneath all the filthy stories is an honest conversation about communication, community, and why the people you build around you matter just as much as the sex.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Meet Bossy and Welcome to the Orgy Committee

00:48 Two Women, First Time Double Penetration (DP)

08:41 Do You Like Cum in Your Mouth?

09:44 Dating Separately Without the Drama

12:45 How Did You Build Your Dream Lifestyle Friend Group

18:48 Slut Olympics and Lifestyle Shenanigans

23:51 When is Play Done if there is No Orgasm?

26:41 Meet George: Strap-Ons, Chemistry, and Mutual Attraction

31:23 Double Digits: Penetration with 10 or more people in the same night

32:21 Trying New Kinks With Trust: Flogging

36:05 The Golden Shower Peep Show

43:50 Big Orgies Vs Small Orgies: Pros and Cons

48:44 Bossy Shares Lifestyle Tips from her 10 Years ENM journey

50:35 Asking Your Partner These Questions

54:03 Rapid Fire: Threesomes 2 Women or 2 Men?, Gangbang, and Final Confessions

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180: Big Depth Energy: Masculine Leadership Without the Alpha Male Bullshit and Redefining "BDE" feat. Ross Lewin Jul 09, 2026

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Podcast Summary

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists to tantra, ENM, and healing men's relationship with themselves, this conversation challenges nearly everything we've been taught about attraction.

Chapters

(00:00) What Is Big Depth Energy?

(05:20) Ross's Confidence Journey

(08:00) The Pickup Artist Trap

(10:00) Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys

(14:00) Inside Big Depth Energy

(18:30) Authenticity Is Attractive

(22:10) Living Your "Fuck Yes"

(25:00) The Power of Female Friendships

(27:40) Approaching Without Pressure

(31:45) Should Women Make the First Move?

(36:30) The Art of the Invitation

(41:40) Why Men Don't Approach

(46:00) Receiving "No" Gracefully

(50:10) Respecting Boundaries

(54:35) Their Open Relationship

(59:20) Coming Back Together

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Guest: Ross Lewin
Website: Embodimen Big Depth Energy Method™
Instagram: @embodi.men
Vetted Online Community: Sacred Society
Creator Of: Affirmation Sluts - positive dirty talk.

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179: She's Poly. Her Fiance is Monogamous. Can a Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Work? feat. Fernanda of Polycurious Jul 02, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with relationship coach and Polycurious host Fernanda Fabian to unpack one of the most misunderstood relationship dynamics: mono-poly relationships. Fernanda shares how she and her monogamous fiancé built a thriving partnership by moving painfully slow, prioritizing trust, and creating predictable check-ins that made difficult conversations feel safe. Together they explore jealousy, reassurance, boundaries, and why most couples sabotage openness by rushing past their nervous system's capacity. If you've ever wondered whether love can survive radically different relationship needs, this conversation will challenge everything you think you know.

CHAPTERS

00:00 - Wait... A Mono-Poly Relationship Actually Works?

11:32 - Building the Foundation Before the Poly Freedom

13:00 - The Biggest Mistake Couples Make When Opening Up and How to Avoid it.

20:19 - Check-Ins, Boundaries, and Hard Conversations to Build Trust

28:29 - Patience. Why waiting often gets you what you want faster than pushing

36:00 - Predictability Creates Safety

41:00 - What's In It for the Monogamous Partner? The Overlooked Truth

48:37 - Jealousy Isn't the Enemy

54:45 - Dating Monogamous People When You're Poly

Other Podcast Episode Mentions

Vee on Polycurious Ep. 77 Kink, Power Dynamics & Knowing When to Walk Away with Vee from Girls Gone Deep
Polycurious Ep. 12 She is Open, He is Not with Fer & Seth

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Guest: Fernanda Fabian

Website: Polycurious

Instagram: @polycuriouspodcast

Podcast: Polycurious Podcast

Email: polycuriouspodcast@gmail.com

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178: From Relationship Agreements to Anal Hooks: Open Love, All-Girl Orgies & Girl Talk with Aphrodite Jun 25, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee chat with Aphrodite in a meandering, OG Girls Gone Deep-style conversation: three girls talking sex, open relationships, and everything from deep to deeply silly. From relationship agreements, intentionality, proactive communication, hierarchy in polyamory, and navigating the unknown, to anal stories, tentacle porn, sex magic, Top Floor FOMO, surprise dates, and all-girl sex parties, this episode is chaotic, horny, thoughtful, and very GGD. Come for the open relationship wisdom, stay for the butt stuff and unfiltered girl talk.

03:05
Exploring Relationship Agreements

09:04
Tentacle Porn

11:52
Navigating Relationships and Communication

15:02
The Role of Intentionality in Relationships

17:57
Public Sex and Taboo Experiences

24:03
Creating Safe Spaces in Sexual Environments

26:47
Proactive Communication

32:35
Navigating Boundaries and Conflict Resolution

35:05
Understanding Relationship Hierarchies

38:06
Surprise Dates

41:37
Anal Stories

53:11
All-Female Play Parties

01:01:20
The Power of Anticipation in Sexual Encounters

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177: The Butt Whisperer: What 100 Assholes per Week Taught This Doctor About Better Anal Sex feat. Dr. Evan Goldstein Jun 18, 2026

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with renowned anal health expert Dr. Evan Goldstein to answer every question you've ever had about anal sex but were too embarrassed to ask. Grab your notepad because this episode is packed with the tips, tricks, and hard truths you need for anal success. From training your body for pleasure and avoiding painful mistakes to douching myths, STI prevention, microbiome health, and even anal Botox, nothing is off limits. Dr. Goldstein breaks down the science behind great anal sex in a way that's practical, hilarious, and surprisingly empowering. If you've ever wondered why anal works effortlessly for some people and feels impossible for others, this episode is your masterclass.

Chapters

How did you become The Butt Whisperer? (00:00)

Why Some People Are Built For Anal? 3 Types Of Assholes (5:00)

Anal Training 101: I Want To Get Into Anal. How Do I Get Started? (10:49)

What You Should NOT Be Feeling When Anal Training 3 Types Of Assholes (16:14)

What You SHOULD Be Feeling When Training And How To Know Your Ass is Ready For Sex (22:01)

The Sad Truth About Butt Plugs (24:27)

How To Clean and Feel Comfortable Plus Understanding Poop Mechanics (26:48)

Anal, STI Risks for ENM Community and Medications Used (30:54)

Douching Myths That Need To Die (35:54)

Prebiotics, Probiotics and Fiber For Optimal Ass Health (39:04)

Procedures to Strengthen Anal Skin. Do You Need Surgery or medical devices? (45:46)

Wet Wipes Are Ruining Assholes (49:01)

The Time of Day You Shower Affects Your Asshole (51:42)

Bleached Assholes, Skin Tags & Confidence (46:11)

Best Anal Positions For Beginners and Bringing Toys Into The Bedroom

Tips to Finger Asses Successfully (01:06:41)

Anal Botox? (01:09:58)

What If I'm Not Progressing, Not Experiencing Pleasure Or Ready For Anal After Practicing For A While, What Can I Do?

After Anal Care: Options for Tears and Hemorrhoids (01:14:36))

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Guest Dr. Evan Goldstein

Toy Website Future Method Toy Instagram @futuremethod

Medical Office Website Bespoke Surgical

Instagram @drevangoldstein

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176: Road Head, Rim Jobs, DVP, and the Art of Being Multiorgasmic Jun 11, 2026

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This week, Vee and Elle play WHOREible Life with repeat guest Catherine Drysdale, a dating and intimacy expert who shared how she accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom in Episode 168. Today, pull up a seat and eavesdrop on three unapologetically honest humans as we swap wild stories, reveal our kinks, confess our preferences, and answer the kinds of questions most people only think about behind closed doors.

Chapters:

Sex Club Or Dungeon + Sex Toy Preferences (0:00)

Why We Don’t Like Metal Handcuffs And Smart BDSM Tips (04:16)

The Carpet Men In Nyc (10:12)

Rim Job Or Double Vaginal Penetration (DVP) (14:38)

Make A Girl Squirt Or Give Road Head (22:20)

How To Be Multiorgasmic (28:40)

Edging And Elle’s Cervical Orgasm (45:14)

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Guest Info Catherine Drysdale
Dating & Intimacy Expert | Columbia-trained Clinical Psychology Graduate Student
Instagram: @iamcatherinedrysdale
TikTok: @iamcatherinedrysdale

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175: In Bed With Alexa x GGD: Sexual Fantasies, Public Play, MFMs and DVP Jun 04, 2026

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In this episode, Vee joins Alexa Andre of In Bed With Alexa for a conversation about sexual fantasies: the ones we secretly crave, the ones we've brought to life, and the ones that are better left in our heads. From public play and group experiences to praise kinks, fantasy fulfillment, shame, and self-discovery, they unpack how fantasies evolve as we evolve. The conversation gets raw, funny, and unexpectedly vulnerable as they explore what our deepest turn-ons reveal about our desires, insecurities, healing, and sense of freedom.

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