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428: Is Feminism Making Dating Harder? (And What to Do About It) Apr 23, 2025

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Modern feminism handed us independence — so why are so many women burned out, bitter, and battling in love? Ooooh this one’s spicy and honest — just the way you like it!! 😉😮‍💨🌶️ In this solo episode, Monica’s dismantling the hidden pressure behind the “strong woman” narrative and she’s inviting you into a juicier, softer, more supported way of being. It’s not about going backwards, ladies. It’s about coming home. (And no, you’re not crazy for craving more.)

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🔥 The real reason love feels so hard right now (and it’s not because you're broken)

🔥 Why feminism gave us rights… but forgot to give us permission

🔥 The surprising ways “hyper-independence” is blocking your pleasure & polarity

🔥 Why women are more anxious, burnt out & disconnected than ever before

🔥 Why polarity isn’t about power games — it’s about coming home to your biology

🔥 How to stop emasculating men (even when you don’t mean to)

🔥 How your nervous system actually responds to masculine leadership (science, not fluff)

🔥 The real reason trusting men feels so hard — and what to do about it

🔥 Why it’s safe to stop proving your worth through doing, fixing, and micromanaging

🔥 The sneaky ways women micro-control in dating — and sabotage intimacy

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Order the BOOK — Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — MUSE: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/muse-masterclass?utm_source=flodesk&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=spring_2025

⇢ Watch the FREE Masterclass — How to Have Him Lead You: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/how-to-have-him-lead-you-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=lead-you-mc

⇢ Join the Waitlist — The3-Day Immersion (Tickets open May 6th at 5pm EST): https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ Get the Dating Masterclass — Embodiment of Dating: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-embodiment-of-dating?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general

⇢ Join the Waitlist — HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/dft9p0O8U78?si=qJ0omyrQRP954FzH

⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at media@monicayateshealth.com to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.

427: What if Motherhood Is *The Secret* to Success? With Cait Scudder Apr 16, 2025

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What if the thing you’re afraid will slow you down… is actually the portal to your next level?

In this raw and truth-soaked episode, Monica is joined by TEDx speaker and multi-7-figure mentor Cait Scudder for a no-BS conversation on motherhood, business, and becoming. This isn’t an advice-style episode or giving you more rules to follow — it’s a permission slip to evolve, soften, and let life stretch you into your fullest power. Whether or not you want kids, this one will activate something deep in your bones.

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🌶️ Is having a baby the actual code to scaling to 7-figures? (spoiler: maybe… 👀)

🌶️ How pregnancy rewires your nervous system, brain chemistry, + capacity to receive

🌶️ Birth as a spiritual initiation into leadership + your fullest power

🌶️ The link between pain-free birth and a pleasure-informed business model

🌶️ The neuroscience of intuition + why mothers are wired for next-level leadership

🌶️ Reclaiming feminine success: matriarch frequency vs. martyrdom burnout

🌶️ Navigating motherhood without self-abandonment or shame

🌶️ Creating your own version of motherhood — even if everyone else is doing it differently

🌶️ The ceremonial mindf*ck of matrescence (how it expands your brand, not breaks it)

🌶️ Why asking for help is sacred, not selfish

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER:

https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Connect with Cait Scudder:

https://www.instagram.com/themillionairemother/

⇢ Join the waitlist for the upcoming brand-new FREE, LIVE Masterclass: MUSE:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/muse-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=spring_2025

⇢ Join the waitlist for the 3-Day Immersion:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ Monica’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/qM2AqqW05a0?si=849XhcCygswsQRnt

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:

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426: NUGGET: What You’ve Been Getting Wrong About Nervous System Regulation Apr 11, 2025

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If you think nervous system regulation means staying “zen” 24/7, this nugget episode is about to shake up your whole perspective (in the best way).

Monica’s breaking down what everyone is getting wrong about this topic in the trauma-healing and somatic space — and this could very well be your missing link to finally letting yourself HEAL and be free.

She’s walking you through what nervous system regulation actually means, why your body needs to feel to heal, and how to get UN-stuck if you’ve been in a vicious cycle of constant healing.

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🌶️ The #1 myth around nervous system regulation that’s keeping you stuck

🌶️ Why true trauma release actually requires moments of dysregulation

🌶️ What it truly means to be regulated (hint: it’s not constant calm)

🌶️ The science of trauma cycles and why “freeze to safety” doesn’t work

🌶️ Why using tools 24/7 isn’t real embodiment — and what to do instead

🌶️ The power of allowing your body to go there — even if it feels messy

🌶️ How to stop faking safety and start living from true inner peace

🌶️ Why your body already knows how to heal — you just need to get out of the way

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER:

https://www.becomingherbook.com

⇢ Join the waitlist for the upcoming brand-new FREE, LIVE Masterclass: MUSE:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/muse-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=spring_2025

⇢ Join the waitlist for the 3-Day Immersion:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ FREE Masterclass: The Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-blueprint-to-feminine-embodiment

⇢ Monica’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/d19Ku9ULOag?si=wzI1SNjH7kvzfFkB

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

425: Your Fear of Being Seen Is Making Your Life Surface-Level Apr 09, 2025

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Plus Why Your Rage Is Powerful ||

If the fear of being truly seen has ever made you shrink, self-sabotage, or shut down when you wanted to speak up—this episode will crack your heart wide open. This is your permission slip to stop dimming your light, reclaim your voice, and come home to your raw, radiant truth.

Whether you're a healer, coach, entrepreneur, career woman, or just a woman who knows she’s meant for more—what you’ll hear in this episode is an energetic transmission to help you break free from the fear of judgment and finally feel safe being ALL of you.

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🍓 Why you shut down in moments that you actually want to speak up

🍓 The very real impact of ancestral trauma on self-expression

🍓 How the body stores and releases trauma for healing

🍓 Overcoming the fear of being canceled for speaking your truth

🍓 Why the fear of being seen drives you to self-sabotage

🍓 Understanding your body’s defense mechanisms

🍓 The connection between rage and magnetism

🍓 Embracing “low-vibrational” emotions instead of suppressing them

🍓 The difference in blackout rage vs. emotional rage (and how it leads to clarity)

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Join the waitlist for the upcoming brand-new FREE, LIVE Masterclass: MUSE: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/muse-masterclass?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=spring_2025

⇢ Join the waitlist for the 3-Day Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ Podcast Episode 336: How To Clear Your Fear Of Being Seen: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/336-how-to-clear-your-fear-of-being-seen-why-it-s-blocking-you-from-love-success-joy-abundance-actually-receiving-your-manifestations?_pos=3&_psq=being+seen&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ The Worthiness Cycle: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/trauma/the-worthiness-cycle-what-to-know?_pos=1&_sid=cf822f927&_ss=r

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/5QQYg3pWkjQ?si=NfaJNYZv6f8WGQHg

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

424: Ditch the Hustle: The Secret to Relaxed Money & Overflowing Wealth with Kate Northrup Apr 02, 2025

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Healing your relationship with money in a way that LASTS ||

Ladies, this is one of the most empowering and FREEING conversations that will totally shift the way you think (and feel) about money, success, rest, and overall personal growth!

Monica is joined by Kate Northrup—Bestselling Author, Nervous System Alchemist, & Money Empowerment OG—as they unpack the truth behind embodied financial wellness, subconscious programming, and the nervous system’s role in wealth. So, pop in your headphones, pour yourself a cup of tea, and let this episode be your ultimate money makeover—because, let’s be real, a wealthy mindset is the real glow-up! 😮‍💨💅🏼✨

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

💸 Building resilience and gaining financial independence

💸 Harnessing the mind-body connection to ease financial strain

💸 How our childhood & ancestral roots influence our money beliefs

💸 Understanding the nervous system’s role in making and KEEPING money

💸 Unpacking the deep fears & pressures of holding wealth

💸 Building a thriving business AND a strong relationship at the same time

💸 Why letting go of control actually helps you grow

💸 Breaking the obsession of being “irreplaceable”

💸 The meaning (and power) of relaxed money & rest

💸 Why scaling back can be the most powerful move for expansion

💸 The real secret to attracting wealth & opportunity

💸 The ultimate shift that makes money stress a thing of the past

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Connect with Kate Northrup & her signature money program: http://katenorthrup.com/good

⇢ Pre-order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ JOIN THE WAITLIST for the 3-Day Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/WIL-cFHXkXI?si=KRFK6Au20PHCpVO1

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

423: How Your Nervous System Influences Your Sex, Pleasure & Money (And How to Give It an Upgrade) Mar 26, 2025

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The real reason you’re stuck in cycles of burnout and/or meh bedroom experiences ||

Buckle up, ladies, because today’s episode is about to crack wide open the direct connection between your nervous system, s*x, pleasure, and MONEY. Yep, they’re all intertwined, and if you’ve been wondering why your affirmations aren’t quite hitting or why you keep blocking abundance (in the bedroom and your bank account), this one’s for you. So, grab your journal, take a deep breath, and get ready—because we’re going there. 😏🔥💸

HERE’S WHAT MONICA IS RIFFING ON:

💦 Why true alignment requires you to go deeper than mindsets + mantras

💦 How to reprogram your nervous system

💦 The difference between healing through mindset vs. bodywork

💦 How the way you receive in s*x affects your finances

💦 How to feel regulated on a more consistent basis

💦 Understanding the true meaning of control + surrender

💦 How to experience deeper pleasure

💦 The issue when you make situations “bigger than Ben Hur”

💦 Recognizing high-functioning burnout (this is SO important!!)

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Pre-order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER:

https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ JOIN THE WAITLIST for the 3-Day Immersion:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ GET INSIDE Queen Alchemy:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16

⇢ JOIN THE WAITLIST for HER Year:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025

⇢ Empoweredly Submissive:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/empoweredly-submissive?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=evergreen_general

⇢ The Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment:

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-blueprint-to-feminine-embodiment?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-masterclass

⇢ Podcast Episode 376: Why You Struggle to Receive Both Inside and Outside the Bedroom (And Exactly What to Do to Change That)

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/376-why-you-struggle-to-receive-both-inside-and-outside-the-bedroom-and-exactly-what-to-do-to-change-that?_pos=2&_psq=receivership&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Podcast Episode 336: How To Clear Your Fear Of Being Seen

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/336-how-to-clear-your-fear-of-being-seen-why-it-s-blocking-you-from-love-success-joy-abundance-actually-receiving-your-manifestations?_pos=3&_psq=being+seen&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Podcast Episode 377: Why You’re Addicted to Stress and the Missing Piece From “The Feminine Urge”

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/377-why-you-re-addicted-to-stress-and-the-missing-piece-from-the-feminine-urge-memes-on-instagram?_pos=1&_psq=addicted+to+stress&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Monica’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Lw_30kbi84Q?si=_shgBWHn55G2aZfK

⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory:

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/ copyright-disclaimer

422: Pregnancy Q&A: Spirit Babies, Nutrition, Birth, Daycare, Gentle Parenting, and More Mar 19, 2025

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You asked, Monica answered: ALL THINGS PREGNANCY EDITION!!!

If you've been dying for answers to your burning questions, this is the episode you’ve been waiting for. It’s raw, it’s honest, and she doesn’t hold anything back.

QUESTIONS SHE ANSWERS:

[Please note: Timestamps are for the YouTube video, so they may need to be adjusted slightly for the audio podcast]

01:24 What does it really mean to energetically prepare for pregnancy & motherhood?

12:34 What will your parenting style be?

22:16 Have you done anything to prepare the dogs?

25:53 You’ve achieved so much in your young life so quickly, what’s next for you after book & baby?

31:30 Resources that you’re loving about birth/your intention for birth?

42:08 Will you put your baby in daycare or have a babysitter at home to help with your bub?

53:36 Did you communicate with your spirit baby before you conceived him?

56:20 Nutrition & food before pregnancy/folic acid supplement?

57:20 How many more kids would you & Hal like to have?

01:00:06 Advice for discerning if having kids is a 100% aligned desire.

PLUS, SHE DISCUSSES:

🌸 Shifting the narrative around motherhood

🌸 Why gentle parenting might be doing more harm than good

🌸 The role of discipline in raising kids

🌸 Benefits of a diverse support system

🌸 How to create your own version of motherhood

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ Pre-order the BOOK!!!!! Becoming HER: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Blog | Pregnancy Must Haves: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/womens-health/pregnancy-must-haves

⇢ JOIN THE WAITLIST for the exclusive masterclass on the BTS of Monica setting her business up for motherhood: https://monicayates.myflodesk.com/qu84mdln7t

⇢ Podcast Episode 409: Our Conception Story | Everything We Did to Prepare and Boost Fertility: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/409-our-conception-story-everything-we-did-to-prepare-and-boost-fertility?_pos=1&_psq=conception&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Podcast Episode 348: Energetic Reasons for Infertility and Other Period Issues:

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/348-energetic-reasons-for-infertility-and-other-period-issues-painful-periods-pms-endometriosis-etc?_pos=1&_psq=infertility&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Podcast Episode 267: How you can prevent trauma in your children & break ancestral patterns/trauma:

https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/podcast/267-how-you-can-prevent-trauma-in-your-children-break-ancestral-patterns-trauma?_pos=1&_psq=trauma+to+children&_ss=e&_v=1.0

⇢ Queen Alchemy: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/queen-alchemy?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-16

⇢ 3-Day Immersion: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/immersion?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=atlanta-2025

⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/be-a-lover-not-a-mother?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=BLNM&utm_content=podcast

⇢ HER Year: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/her-year-mastermind?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=waitlist-2025

⇢ Work with Monica: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/work-with-me

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/o3Q9LfbPkgw?si=hmiwanHtk1lQsT0V

⇢ Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

Remember to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts, screenshot it before you submit it, and email it to us at media@monicayateshealth.com to receive an exclusive meditation track as a 'thank you' from Monica.

421: What Female Breadwinners and “Power Couples” Struggle With the Most (and How to Fix It) With Alex Cattoni Mar 12, 2025

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Ambitious, high-achieving, money-making ladies — this one’s for YOU.

In this juicy episode, Monica sits down with Alex Cattoni, founder of Copy Posse, to explore the multifaceted challenges faced by ambitious women, particularly in the context of relationships and the dynamics of being a female breadwinner. Together, they’re spilling the real tea on success, relationships, and being a power couple. ❤️‍🔥

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🌶️ The need for connection & community in a post-COVID world

🌶️ How being a female breadwinner shifts relationships & what to do about it

🌶️ Breaking down the myth that success makes women less lovable

🌶️ The real challenges of being the breadwinner (and why men struggle too!)

🌶️ The ongoing reprogramming required to balance success & love

🌶️ Redefining what it means to be a “power couple”

🌶️ Embracing traditional roles in modern relationships

🌶️ The unique challenges faced by ambitious women

🌶️ The delicate dance of boss energy vs. feminine energy

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ PRE-ORDER MONICA’S NEW BOOK (pre-sale bonuses available until April 8th, 2025): https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Connect with Alex Cattoni: https://alexcattoni.com/

⇢ The Feminine Female Breadwinner: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-feminine-female-breadwinner-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ffb-general

⇢ FREE! The Blueprint to Feminine Embodiment Masterclass: https://monicayateshealth.com/pages/the-blueprint-to-feminine-embodiment?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=qa-masterclass

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Gx-YlWE5NxQ?si=CZ_Vuydsfy6r34ru

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

420: The Full “Tell-All” of My New Book and Becoming an Author Mar 05, 2025

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Friends, the big day is finallyyyyyy here...

Monica’s book, Becoming HER, is OFFICIALLY available for pre-order worldwide!! 🎉

GET IT HERE NOW: https://www.becomingherbook.com/

Tune into today’s emotional and long-awaited show as Monica goes back down memory lane and shares the highs, lows (and what almost broke her), unexpected wins, and what her new book is all about. PLUS, she’s giving the inside scoop of how to pre-order the book and get your hands-on some exclusive, juicy bonuses!!

INSIDE THE EPISODE:

🍓 Juicy BTS details of how the book came to be

🍓 The struggles of writing a book that no one talks about

🍓 The raw truth on what happens when you choose the publisher route

🍓 The real reason she wrote Becoming HER

🍓 An insider’s peek at what the book is all about

🍓 Why pre-ordering the book is a MUST

🍓 Pre-order details + TIME-SENSITIVE bonuses!!!

🍓 Book launch party + book tour details

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As Mentioned In The Episode —

⇢ PRE-ORDER MONICA’S NEW BOOK (pre-sale bonuses available until April 8th, 2025): https://www.becomingherbook.com/

⇢ Monica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth

⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/GTfUl2N-vqo?si=qAQ8k3rh5ArOTzU1

⇢ NEW! Full, SEARCHABLE Podcast Directory: https://monicayateshealth.com/blogs/feminine-as-f-ck-podcast/podcast-directory

419: She Makes the Money, but Who Holds the Power? The Raw Truth About Being the Female Breadwinner Feb 26, 2025

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Are women meant to be the breadwinner?

A conversation that Monica jumped off of and immediately Slacked the team “holy sh*t, THAT WAS SOOOO GOOD!!!!” 🔥 And she immediately added it to the podcast cal to make sure you all were able to listen too! She’s being interviewed by the legendary Jennifer Szpigiel of Becoming Iconic® about all things relationships, being the breadwinner, femininity, and the edgy topic of where this all fits in today’s modern world. You’re going to LOVE.

Here’s a little taste of what they’re getting into:

🌶️ Achieving success without sacrificing personal relationships

🌶️ The issue with comparing personal progress in relationships

🌶️ Decoding a man's behavior + emotions

🌶️ How to navigate a relationship where paths no longer align

🌶️ The impact of individual values + dreams in a relationship

🌶️ How resentment reveals our deepest desires

🌶️ The disruptive effects of flipping masculine + feminine roles

🌶️ How to transition from breadwinner to embracing feminine flow

🌶️ The complexity + multidimensional aspects of a woman

🌶️ The diminished value of femininity in today’s society

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