Destined To Be

Powerhouse Woman: How to Get Out of Your Own Way, Fulfill Your Unique Purpose, and Live a Powerful Life by Lindsey Schwartz

Resources

Dr. Joe Dispenza

Landmark Forum

EOS Worldwide

Extreme Ownership: How US Navy SEALs Lead and Win by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin

The Dichotomy of Leadership: Balancing the Challenges of Extreme Ownership to Lead and Win by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin

Turn Your Side Hustle into Your Main Gig - EP068 Aug 18, 2020

Show notes

45% of Americans have a side hustle, something they do outside their 9-to-5 that generates an additional stream of income.

But what if you want to turn that side hustle into your main gig? When is the right time to walk away from your W-2 and become your own boss? What does it take to be a successful entrepreneur or business owner?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing the how to make your side hustle your main focus. We explain how to break away from legacy thinking and pursue work you truly love, describing how to reframe your fear of failure and take a risk on yourself.

We go on to explore why believing in yourself and having a community of support are the most important predictors of success, walking you through the 6 human needs—and how they apply to being an entrepreneur. Listen in for insight on finding a network marketing company that connects with YOU and learn how to prepare for the responsibility that comes with being your own boss!

Key Takeaways

The benefit of having a side hustle to provide another stream of income

What makes network marketing the side hustle with the lowest barrier to entry

How to break away from legacy thinking and pursue work you truly love

Why believing you can do it is the most important predictor of success

How to reframe your fear of failure and take a risk on yourself

Why it's crucial to choose an emerging market that's about to be hot

How to find a network marketing company that really connects with YOU

The sense of belonging that comes from a community that supports what you're doing

Tony Robbins' 6 human needs

Certainty and comfort
Uncertainty and variety
Significance
Love and connection
Growth
Contribution

How to prepare for the added stress and anxiety of being your own boss

The mundane action steps that build success over time (that we don't see on social)

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Resources

What Success Means on Destined to Be EP051

Grit vs. Intelligence on Destined to Be EP049

Amare Global

Matt Tamas

Tony Robbins' 6 Human Needs

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

10 Universal Laws

Success Habits of an M.D. Entrepreneur—with Dr. Alex Spinoso - EP067 Aug 14, 2020

Show notes

Do you have a successful career, but it doesn't feel like enough?

Do you feel like you've stopped growing? Like you've gotten complacent, and now it's time to build something that will challenge you—and make a bigger impact?

What does it look like to walk away from an established career (and good money) to be your own boss? And what habits do you need to be successful?

Dr. Alex Spinoso is the CEO of CellSpark Regenerative Centers, the Co-Owner of Genesis Lifestyle Medicine and the Cofounder of PC THREDZ. He served as an ER and urgent care doctor and was a physician in the California prison system before becoming a doctor-entrepreneur. Today, he owns and operates eight clinics that specialize in anti-aging, hormone replacement and stem cell therapy, and he is opening six more locations in the next six months!

On this episode of Destined to Be, Alex joins us to share the anchoring habits he uses to stay committed to his goals and envision what he wants to build next. He explains why he left a lucrative career as a doctor and turned his family's life upside down to become an entrepreneur, describing his drive to be remembered and 'make people better' through his clinics. Listen in to understand what Alex does to create balance in his day and learn how to stay centered when YOUR day doesn't go as planned!

Key Takeaways

Why Alex left a lucrative career as a doctor to become an entrepreneur

How Alex turned his family's life upside down to save money for his first clinic

The experiences abroad that gave Alex a different perspective on medicine

Alex's mission to make people better through his anti-aging, hormone therapy and stem cell clinics

How Alex defines biohacking as manipulating the body to think it's in a different situation than it really is

How working out and meditating serve as the anchors of Alex's high-level discipline

Alex's drive to be remembered and pass his knowledge on to the next generation

The practices Alex leverages to create balance in his day

Put phone away for focused time with wife
Break day into mini-days
Build in time to take care of self

How Alex envisions a perfect day and what he wants to build next every morning

Why Alex uses a travel alarm clock rather than his smartphone

What Alex does to stay centered when his day doesn't go as planned

Breathing techniques to lower heartrate + clear mind
Create culture of good people who lift each other up

Connect with Alex

Alex's Website

Alex on Instagram

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Arete Syndicate Mastermind

Resources

Ong-Bak: The Thai Warrior

Amref Health Africa

Personality Isn't Permanent by Benjamin Hardy, PhD

Ed Mylett

Wim Hof Breathing Method

Navy SEAL Breathing Technique

Tony Robbins

Andy Frisella

The Power of Visualization - EP066 Aug 11, 2020

Show notes

Growing into the highest version of yourself starts with visualizing who you want to be and what you want your life to look like.

But you have to go beyond just dreaming about something once and then doing what you've always done. So, how can you harness the full power of visualization to build your best life?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing the power of visualization, describing how the universe responds to bold declarations and what role emotions play in casting a vision. We explain why it's crucial to have gratitude for what you want as if it's already taken place and weigh in on the difference between wishing for something and working toward your vision.

We go on to challenge you to dream BIG and develop the self-awareness to know exactly what you want your life to look like. Listen in for insight into the wouldn't-it-be-cool-if approach to creating audacious goals and learn what YOU can do to visualize an abundant future and set yourself up to make it happen!

Key Takeaways

Why so many of us limit our goals to what we think we can have

How we define vision as putting yourself in shoes that could be yours if you choose to achieve

Why it's crucial to have gratitude for what you want as if it's already taken place

How the universe responds to bold declarations

The role emotions play in casting a vision

The multisensory approach to visualization Mallory used to win first place in her last fitness competition

The difference between wishing and working toward your vision

The wouldn't-it-be-cool-if approach to dreaming BIG

Why you have to release judgement + physically write down your vision

The questions to ask as you develop a vision of the future

What makes you happy?
What do you want your life to look like?

The significance of having your vision live alongside of you and fully expecting it to happen

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Resources

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Matt Tamas on Destined to Be EP059

Secrets of a High-Performing Power Couple—with Brooke & Brett Thomas - EP065 Aug 06, 2020

Show notes

A year ago, Brooke and Brett Thomas literally packed up their entire lives to follow their dreams. But moving across the country and then working together on a business was not without its challenges.

No matter how much you love your spouse, spending all day, every day together is an adjustment. So, how did this power couple learn to navigate their new business partnership? And what habits have kept them mentally and physically strong through the transition?

Brooke and Brett are the faith-filled, mindset warriors behind the Live Out Loud community. Brett enjoyed a 25-year career as a leader in medical device sales and built a six-figure side hustle before leaving the corporate world to partner with his wife as the CFO of their own business. Brooke has a decade of experience running elite-level masterminds, live events and group coaching programs that support women in pursuing their purpose with confidence.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Brooke and Brett join us to discuss what inspired their move from an established life in North Carolina to pursue their dream of working together and living in Southern California. Brooke explains how she turned her gift of wanting other women to WIN into a successful career, and Brett weighs in on the challenges of working with your spouse when you're both used to being the boss. Listen in for insight around the role mental wellness plays in feeling your best and learn the three habits that make Brooke and Brett a happy, healthy, high-performing power couple!

Key Takeaways

How a cancer diagnosis inspired Brooke's shift from the corporate track to entrepreneurship

Why it's crucial to have a partner who supports you in whatever you choose to do

What inspired Brett to leave a successful corporate career and start working with Brooke

How moving across the country and working together wasn't the fairy tale Brooke + Brett expected

Why Brooke + Brett made the decision to leave an established life in North Carolina for SoCal

How Brooke turned her gift of wanting other women to WIN into a successful coaching career

Brooke's commitment to make her faith an integral part of her business

The three habits that Brooke + Brett credit for their strong mental wellness

Power Hour (morning routine)
Date night
Bike rides

How Brooke + Brett leverage the Amare Global supplements to feel their best

Brett's insight on the connection between mental wellness and peak physical performance

Connect with Brooke & Brett

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Brooke's Podcast: The Live Out Loud Show

Resources

Amare Global

No Kid Hungry

5 More Things We'd Tell Our Younger Selves - EP064 Aug 04, 2020

Show notes

You live and learn. And if you're smart, you take the advice of people who've been where you want to go and learn from their mistakes, too.

So, what have we learned in the last decade that can help you accelerate your growth and reach your goals a little faster?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're continuing the discussion from last week and sharing five MORE things we wish we'd known 10 years ago. We explore the value of investing in yourself, describing the clarity that comes from working with a coach or joining a personal development community.

We challenge you to have uncomfortable conversations sooner rather than later and surround yourself with the right kind of people. Listen in for insight on talking yourself into a better mood and learn how to overcome the fear of failure and start making bold power moves!

Key Takeaways

5 more things we'd tell our younger selves if we could go back 10 years

Invest in yourself and pay yourself first
Don't put off uncomfortable conversations
Be careful who you surround yourself with
You can talk yourself into a better mood
Don't be afraid to fail, just fail forward

The clarity that comes from hiring a coach or joining a mastermind

How to break the ice leading into a difficult conversation

The value in having a friend who helps you see both sides of a situation

Our advice on going where you're celebrated, not tolerated

How to recognize when an emotion doesn't serve you + switch the focus

How to identify the anchors that shift you from primal to powerful

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Resources

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman

Want to Stand Out Online? Share Your Story!—with Kellsie Moore - EP063 Jul 30, 2020

Show notes

What's stopping YOU from sharing your story?

Yes, it takes courage to own what you've been through and share it with the world. But think about it this way: How many people are waiting to hear your story so that they can be set free?

Kellsie Moore is the professional actor, business strategist and video presence coach behind Be Marvelous You, a platform designed to help entrepreneurs and business professionals connect through video and build an audience online. She empowers clients to craft their story and share it on video, teaching them to step into their CEO Self so that they look, sound and feel great on camera.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Kellsie joins us to share her experiences working at a community corrections facility and describe the AHA moment when she committed to choosing a different life. Kellsie walks us through the steps she took to pursue the things that make her feel good, explaining how her current business merges her love of acting, online business and personal development. Listen in for Kellsie's insight into why YOUR story matters and how it can become a guide for others—if you're willing to share!

Key Takeaways

Kellsie's experiences working as a teacher and administrator in a community corrections facility

The AHA moment when Kellsie committed to doing the things that make her feel good

What steps Kellsie took to intentionally design and choose her life

Why it's our responsibility to show up as our brilliant selves and use the gifts we have to offer

Why your story matters and how it can become a guide for others

How Kellsie's business merges her love of acting, online business and personal development

How Kellsie serves soulful, purpose-driven entrepreneurs through Be Marvelous You

Kellsie's strategies for helping people overcome the idea that their story isn't important

How Kellsie leverages the BE-DO-HAVE approach to feel more marvelous more of the time

How Kellsie helps clients look, sound and feel great on camera

Connect with Kellsie

Be Marvelous You

Kellsie on Instagram

Kellsie on YouTube

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Jeremiah on LinkedIn

Jeremiah on Facebook

Mallory on Facebook

The Entrepreneur's On-Camera CURE

Resources

Kellsie's Captivate on Camera Course

Casa Bonita Episode of South Park

Dean Graziosi

Millionaire Success Habits by Dean Graziosi

The Underdog Advantage: Rewrite Your Future by Turning Your Disadvantages into Superpowers by Dean Graziosi

Jim Fortin

The Jim Fortin Podcast: Transform Your Life from the Inside Out

James Wedmore

The Secret

5 Things We'd Tell Our Younger Selves - EP062 Jul 28, 2020

Show notes

We've learned a lot of lessons in our ongoing journey to become the best version of ourselves. Lessons that have helped us get a little closer to becoming who we're destined to be.

And while we don't regret the missteps or frustrations we've faced along the way, there are a few things we'd like to go back and tell our younger selves if we could. Things that might have accelerated our progress and can help you get further, faster.

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing five of the things we wish we'd known 10 years ago. We explain why haters can be a good thing, describing how the criticism you face usually comes from a place of fear and encouraging you to focus on the people who already like you versus trying to please everyone.

We go on to explore how nearly everyone suffers from imposter syndrome and challenge you to move past self-doubt by remembering that someone out there needs what you have. Listen in for insight on leveraging the power of gratitude to manifest abundance and learn how to build your confidence exponentially—simply by keeping the promises you make to yourself!

Key Takeaways

5 things we'd tell our younger selves if we could go back 10 years

Haters are a good thing
Everyone suffers from imposter syndrome
You can't please everyone
The power of gratitude
Keep promises to yourself

How criticism and judgement come from a place of fear

How to overcome self-doubt by remembering that someone needs what you have

Why it's better to focus on the people who like you vs. trying to please everyone

How to come from a place of abundance rather than lack

How our confidence grows when we keep promises to ourselves

Why it's crucial to set SMART goals that can be tracked

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Resources

Why You Should Want More Haters on Destined to BE EP016

Gary Vaynerchuk

Katt Williams

Amy Ledin on Destined to Be EP005

Jim Fortin

Go Where You're Celebrated, Not Tolerated on Destined to Be EP050

Emotional Intelligence Is the Catalyst for Change—with Brittney Connor-Savarda - EP061 Jul 23, 2020

Show notes

Do your emotions ever get the best of you?

According to Brittney Connor-Savarda, emotions are energy in motion. If we learn to channel them properly, they can be a force for good. But if we don't, the emotional shrapnel can harm us—and anyone else in the line of fire.

So, how do we develop the emotional intelligence we need to be less reactive and build a more fulfilling life?

Known as the People Whisperer, Brittney is the emotional intelligence, human behavior and communications expert behind The Catalyst 4 Change, a consultancy and coaching practice that helps tech entrepreneurs and executives find balance in business and life. She is also the creator of Generation EQ, a platform that helps parents teach their children the skills of emotional self-regulation. Her forthcoming book, The EQ Deficiency is due out in September.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Brittney joins us to explain how the struggle to deal with her own emotions ignited her purpose in helping others learn to self-regulate. She introduces us to the five elements of emotional intelligence, discussing how a focus on EQ benefits businesses and what parents can do to help their kids navigate strong emotions. Listen in for Brittney's insight on leveraging mindfulness to ease anxiety and learn how YOU can hone your emotional intelligence to change your thoughts—and improve your life!

Key Takeaways

How Brittney's struggle to deal with her own emotions led her to her purpose

How mindfulness helped Brittney learn to control her response in stressful situations

The benefit for businesses that focus on emotional intelligence

The five elements of emotional intelligence

Self-awareness
Regulation
Intrinsic motivation
Social awareness
Empathy

How Brittney works with tech execs + entrepreneurs to make EQ the foundation for business

Brittney's work supporting families and children in developing the skills of self-regulation

Brittney's insight on how to deal with a young child in the middle of a tantrum

How establishing boundaries and giving kids choices helps us avoid a battle of control

How Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) can be used to reduce the intensity of chronic pain

Brittney's explanation of mindfulness as an awareness of self and surroundings

Connect with Brittney

The Catalyst 4 Change

Brittney on YouTube

Brittney on Facebook

Brittney on Instagram

Email brittney-nichole@thecatalyst4change.com

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