Destined To Be

Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia by Elizabeth Gilbert

Resources

Gary Vaynerchuk

Andy Frisella's Power List on MFCEO EP107

Books on the Teachings of Abraham Hicks

The Secret

Tony Robbins

Jim Fortin

The Law of Action on Weebly

Double-Slit Theory

Napoleon Hill

Jim Fortin's Transformational Coaching Program (TCP)

Change Your Perception, Change Your Reality - EP048 Jun 09, 2020

Show notes

As the media shifts its attention away from COVID-19, public perception follows. We have something new to fear now, so the virus seems to have fallen off our worry list.

And yet, the only thing that REALLY changed was our focus.

So, what if you could leverage this idea to achieve your goals and attract the life you really want? What if changing your perception is the first step in changing your reality?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're explaining the science behind how our perception shapes reality. We reflect on the dramatic shift in public perception around the Coronavirus in recent days, discussing how we choose faith over fear and what you can do to find joy in this moment—no matter what's going on in the world around you.

We go on to explore how fear functions to control a group of people, challenging you to see current circumstances as an opportunity for awakening. Listen in for insight on shifting your perception by asking who you have to be to achieve your goals and learn how to stop blaming others and take responsibility for your life.

Key Takeaways

How we choose faith over fear in every area of our lives

What happens when you decide something is going to be difficult + how that shapes your reality

Why it's crucial to take action in THIS moment to produce a better outcome than you had in the past

How fear functions to control a group of people

Why we see the current circumstances as a great awakening

How recent events have inspired us to prioritize voting

How to find joy no matter what's going on in the world around you (and share it with others)

The dramatic shift in perception around COVID-19 in the last week

How to shift your perception by asking, 'Who do I have to be to get where I want to go?'

The sales concept of attraction vs. promotion

Why it's easier to blame others than take responsibility for your life

How to look at money as a form of energy that comes from the universe

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

WhoNotHow by Dan Sullivan

Resources

Charlie Rocket

Charlie on Instagram

How to Improve Your Focus & Avoid Distrac—Squirrel! - EP047 Jun 05, 2020

Show notes

Do you have a hard time finishing what you start? Are you overwhelmed with trying to do all the things and struggling to focus on the one most important thing right now?

We live in a world filled with distractions. Distractions that pull our attention away from our goals and take us to a negative place.

So, what can we do to get our priorities straight and stay on track?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing the relationship between energy and focus, describing what happens when we give our attention to negativity. We explain why we have to fix what's on the inside before we can be of service to others and offer tips on avoiding distractions like clutter or mindless scrolling on social media.

We go on to share how other things have taken a backseat while we focused on finishing our house, challenging you to be honest with yourself about what you can accomplish and prioritize accordingly. Listen in for insight on going into every situation with intention on the outcome and learn how you can improve your focus—and take your life to the next level!

Key Takeaways

The relationship between what we're focused on and where our energy flows

How we get distracted by mindless scrolling on social media

The danger in giving our attention to the negative + why that's easier for us than positivity

Why we have to fix what's on the inside before we can be of service to others

How some things have taken a backseat while we focused on finishing our house

How to be honest with yourself about what you can realistically accomplish and prioritize accordingly

What it means to pivot and when making a change is (or isn't) a good idea

The benefit of going into every situation with a focus on the outcome

Our top four tips for avoiding distractions and improving your focus

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS)

Resources

'No Politicking' on the EOS Blog

Tony Robbins

Ed Mylett

Jim Fortin

Todd Palmer on Destined to Be EP003

Change is Inevitable - EP046 Jun 02, 2020

Show notes

The only constant in our lives is change. And yet, many of us resist it with everything we've got.

But if you really want a better life, change is mandatory.

So, what can you do to get comfortable with change? How can you learn to get past the anxiety, take action and adapt?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're talking about change, explaining what happens when we fight change rather than responding to it. We discuss the connection between success and our willingness to be uncomfortable, challenging you to keep moving forward regardless of what other people think.

We go on to explore the evolution of our personal friendships, describing how we choose relationships based on value and why it's crucial to go into every situation with a strong intention. Listen in for insight on the IDS approach to navigating setbacks and learn how to make the Law of Attraction work for YOU by getting into ACTION.

Key Takeaways

The relationship between success and our willingness to be uncomfortable

What happens when we fight change rather than adapting to it

Why we can't stop progressing because it makes other people uncomfortable

How we create anxiety by putting off uncomfortable conversations

How to focus on friendships that will take you to the next level

Why we have to develop new skills in order to change for the better

How levelling up looks different depending on what season you're in

Why it's crucial to go into every situation with a strong intention

Our strategy for re-engaging rational thought when we're in fight-or-flight

The IDS approach to navigating setbacks

Why the Law of Attraction only works when we take ACTION

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS)

Resources

Rachel Hollis

Dan Peña

Double-Slit Theory

The IDS Issues Solving Track

The Secret

Taking Action: The Law of Attraction is More Than a Mindset

The Stories We Tell Ourselves - EP045 May 29, 2020

Show notes

How do you talk to yourself? Are you kind and encouraging? Or judgmental and mean? Would you allow someone else speak to you that way?

The stories we tell ourselves create fences in our mind. And more often than not, they hold us back from becoming the person we're truly destined to be.

So, how do we reprogram those subconscious beliefs and choose a different way to live?

On this episode of the podcast, we're discussing the stories we tell ourselves and explaining why you DON'T have to live with your conditioned beliefs. We challenge you to surround yourself with people who will elevate you and make decisions based on your vision of the future, not the way things have always been.

We explore some of the common stories we tell ourselves around money, work and coping with difficult situations and introduce you to strategies for becoming aware of those subconscious beliefs. Listen in for insight on reframing problems as opportunities and learn how YOU can transform the way you talk to yourself and live with more joy!

Key Takeaways

Why you DON'T have to live with your conditioned beliefs

The value in surrounding yourself with people who elevate you

How to make decisions based on your vision of the future

The stories we tell ourselves around deserving money

The common story re: joy and work being mutually exclusive

How to shift the way you cope with difficult feelings

The idea that money is an exchange of energy

How to develop self-awareness when you perpetuate anxiety

How to transform the way you talk to yourself and get your subconscious mind to work FOR you

What we do to reframe problems as opportunities

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo

Resources

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Invest in Yourself - EP044 May 26, 2020

Show notes

Success looks effortless from the outside. But what you don't see is the time and money top performers invested in honing their skills. The hours and hours of daily practice they dedicated to becoming the best possible version of themselves.

So, what can steps can you take NOW to be greater LATER?

What can you do TODAY to invest in your personal growth—that will pay off in the long term?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring what it means to invest in yourself. We explain what it means to us to 'pay yourself first,' offering advice on putting MONEY in a retirement account and investing TIME in habits that will move you forward.

We share simple strategies for investing in your health, your relationships, and your education—and then applying what you learn. Listen in for insight on investing in a side hustle that lights you up and learn how YOU can grow into a better version of yourself with the help of a coach or community that is invested in your success!

Key Takeaways

What it means to us to 'pay yourself first'

Jeremiah's advice on putting money in a Roth IRA or hiring a fiduciary

Mallory's insight around investing TIME in habits that will move you forward

Simple ways to invest in relationships

How to invest in your education + apply what you learn

The importance of investing in your health with proper self-care

Why it's crucial to invest in a side hustle that lights you up

How we define an investment as a short-term inconvenience that leads to a long-term payoff

The value in investing in a coach or mastermind when you're stuck

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Resources

Book a 15-Minute Discovery Call with Jeremiah or Mallory

TED Talks

The Complete Works of Florence Shinn by Florence Scovel Shinn

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz

Books Based on the Teachings of Abraham Hicks

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Jim Fortin

Want to Change Your Life? Raise Your Standards! - EP043 May 21, 2020

Show notes

If you want to level up your life, you have to set the bar high.

But when you raise your standards, you run the risk of being disappointed when others don't live up to those expectations.

So, how do you challenge yourself and the people you're leading to aim high—without letting it steal your joy if they fall short?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring Tony Robbins' idea that if you want to change your life, you have to raise your standards. We explain how you teach people how to treat you based on what you're willing to tolerate and discuss how to make decisions based on where you want to go and then build your standards around that vision.

We weigh in on why you don't have to feel bad for refusing to accept less than you deserve, describing how to set boundaries based on the avatar you have defined for that particular area of your life. Listen in for insight around what to do when people fail to meet your expectations and learn how to accept people for who they are—without apologizing for your own high standards.

Key Takeaways

The definition of a standard as a level of quality used as a measure to compare

How most people do the minimum to get by rather than living to their potential

Why changing your life begins with raising your standards

How you teach people how to treat you based on what you're willing to tolerate

How to make decisions based on where you want to go and build your standards around that vision

Why you don't have to feel bad for refusing to accept less than you deserve

The value in building an avatar for each area of your life

How turning your SHOULD into a MUST allows you to take control of your quality of life

What to do when people don't meet your expectations

How to accept people for who they are without apologizing for your own high standards

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Resources

Dr. Josh Henk on Destined to Be EP025

Tony Robbins

Amy Ledin on Instagram

Charlie 'Rocket' Jabaley

What to Do When You're Feeling Down - EP042 May 19, 2020

Show notes

Is the garbage weather and ongoing quarantine making you feel down?

Are you waking up with ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) and blaming your circumstances for the way you feel?

What if you could simply CHOOSE to feel good right now?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're offering advice on what to do when you're feeling down. We explain why a vision for the future is crucial in keeping a positive attitude and describe how mantras and an intentional morning routine can help you shift out of a bad mood.

We go on share six questions to identify what is making you feel poorly and challenge you to leverage presence to feel more joy and abundance right now. Listen in for insight around what's wrong with looking for fulfillment in externals and learn how to get out of victim mentality and take small steps each day toward a happier, healthier YOU!

Key Takeaways

Why a vision for the future is crucial in keeping a positive attitude

The problem with looking for fulfillment in externals

How to identify why you're feeling down + leverage mantras to shift your feelings

The power of starting your day with an intentional morning routine

Mallory's 6 questions to identify what's making you feel poorly

Why we make bad decisions when we don't feel good

How change is only possible when we get uncomfortable and do something different

The idea of FEAR as False Evidence Appearing Real

How being present helps us feel more joyful and abundant

How to get out of victim mentality + take daily steps toward your dream

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM) by Hal Elrod

Resources

The Miracle Morning for Network Marketers: Grow Yourself FIRST to Grow Your Business FAST by Hal Elrod and Pat Petrini with Honoree Corder

Chris Harder

Lori Harder

Morning Routines on Destined to Be EP006

Evening Routines on Destined to Be EP012

Do Nothing & Be a Better Human—with Rob Dubé - EP041 May 14, 2020

Show notes

Think you're too high-strung to meditate?

The truth is, meditation is not about calming the mind or finding your Zen. But it can help you make better, more conscious decisions in your day-to-day. And be a kinder, more present human in general.

Rob Dubé is the Cofounder and President of imageOne, one of the Forbes Best Small Companies in America in 2017. He has also been an avid meditator for the last 13 years and founded Do Nothing to teach other leaders the business benefits of practicing mindfulness. Rob's writing has been featured in Forbes, Thrive Global and EO Octane, and he is the author of Do Nothing: The Most Rewarding Leadership Challenge You'll Ever Take.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Rob joins us to explain why he turned to meditation to ease his anxiety and how his mindfulness practice informs the way he runs his business. He offers insight into the misconception that meditation is about 'getting away from it all,' describing how the practice involves observing our thoughts—and then returning to the breath. Listen in as Rob shares his experience at extended silent retreats and learn what YOU can do to be truly present for your family, your team and yourself!

Key Takeaways

Why Rob turned to meditation to ease his constant anxiety

What inspired Rob to write Do Nothing about his experience at silent retreats

How Rob leads his business with kindness, compassion and love

How what's going on in our minds + bodies doesn't always align with the way we present ourselves

Rob's response for people who say they're too high-strung to meditate

The misconception that meditation is about 'getting away from it all'

How meditation is a practice of recognizing our thoughts and then returning to the breath

Why the goal of meditation is not to be perfect but to be self-aware

Rob's take on what it means to be truly present for another person

The value in taking extended silent retreats to practice meditation for longer periods of time

How our intuition gets stronger when we slow down

How ALL of our emotions are here to serve us—not just the positive ones

Rob's insight on setting goals without being tied to the outcome

Connect with Rob

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Do Nothing: The Most Rewarding Leadership Challenge You'll Ever Take by Rob Dubé

Resources

Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman

imageOne

EOS Worldwide

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Todd Palmer on Destined to Be EP003

Lewis Howes

Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu

How to Level Up Your Crew- EP040 May 12, 2020

Show notes

As Jim Rohn famously said, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."

So, is the crew you hang out with now helping you get to the next level?

If you want to improve your life, you have to start building relationships with people who are where you want to be. But how do you make those connections?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're introducing the idea that you are a product of your environment and explaining how to build a next-level community online by making intentional choices around who to follow and friend. We explain how to build relationships with successful people by way of relationship equity and offer suggestions for simple things you can do right now to provide value for others, both online and IRL.

We go on to discuss the value in asking where you want to be in year and then assessing whether your current actions and relationships reflect that vision. Listen in to understand how the energy you put into the universe comes back tenfold and learn what you can do right now to lift people up—and level up your crew!

Key Takeaways

The idea that you are the product of your environment

How to build a positive community online by making conscious choices about who you follow or friend

How to build relationships with successful people by providing value

What you can do to provide value on social and IRL

Why it's crucial to uncover what brings you joy and do more of THAT

The value in asking where you want to be in a year and whether your current actions reflect that vision

What you can do to fill people up when you talk to them

How the energy you put into the universe comes back to you tenfold

How you can be a part of our Revolution Wellness crew

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory