Destined To Be

Debt Cures 'They' Don't Want You to Know About by Kevin Trudeau

Resources

Mike Boyle

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

The Secret

3 Lies You Need to Stop Telling Yourself - EP058 Jul 14, 2020

Show notes

What determines whether or not you achieve your dreams? Many believe that their circumstances are what's holding them back, but the truth is, the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves have MUCH more to do with our success (or lack thereof) than the situation we happen to be in.

So, what lies do you need to stop telling yourself to get where you want to be?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're sharing the top three lies you need to stop telling yourself in order to live the life you want. We discuss the first steps in overcoming the lie of unworthiness, challenging you to follow through on your commitments to yourself and others to build a feeling of self-worth over time.

We go on to explore the lie that there just isn't enough time to go after what you want, describing how to prioritize your time based on the things you value most. Listen in for insight on reframing the excuses you use to explain why you can't change and learn what you can do TODAY to shift your circumstances and take action toward the life you're destined to live!

Key Takeaways

Why it's crucial to take extreme ownership of getting where you want to be

The relationship between fulfillment and living in alignment with your core values

The top 3 lies you need to stop telling yourself

I'm not worthy
If I had more time, I would…
I would change, but I can't because…

The first steps to overcoming the lie of unworthiness

How gratitude serves as the ultimate form of receivership

How to prioritize your time based on the things you value most

How two people up against the SAME circumstances can have wildly different results

Why it's more challenging to change when we're comfortable in our misery

What you can do today to take action toward getting the life you want

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Resources

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Ed Mylett

Dr. Joe Dispenza

How to Transform Your Money Mindset—with Kara Ayala - EP057 Jul 09, 2020

Show notes

What is your money story?

Many of us were raised to believe that there are only to ways to achieve financial freedom: You're either born with money or you have a crazy idea that changes the world.

But what if we are ALL capable of building wealth as long as we know how money works?

Kara Ayala and her husband, Mike, are real estate investors who own multiple construction and property management companies. She is also a money mindset coach with a passion for empowering women to create multiple streams of income, giving them the freedom to invest in what matters most.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Kara joins us to explain why most people don't achieve financial success, exploring what shapes our beliefs around business and money. She walks us through the ups and downs of her entrepreneurial journey, discussing when she and Mike went all-in on real estate and how they navigate the challenges of working together as a husband-wife team. Listen in for Kara's top strategies for teaching kids about money and learn what YOU can do to shift your mindset and get your money to work for you!

Key Takeaways

How lack of education + limiting beliefs keep people from achieving financial success

Kara's top strategies for teaching her kids about money

How Kara thinks about raising kids in abundance without them feeling entitled

How Kara's childhood informed her beliefs around business and money

What inspired Kara and her husband to start their own plumbing + HVAC company

The major business setback Kara's family faced when a client filed for bankruptcy

When Kara and Mike decided to go all-in on real estate

How to navigate the challenge of working with your spouse by staying in your own lane

Kara's advice on setting aside money to invest every month

How Kara and Mike got into investing in trailer parks with the help of an unpaid mentor

Why it's crucial for women to get educated on how money works

Connect with Kara

Kara on Instagram

Email kara@karaayala.com

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Outwitting the Devil: The Secret to Freedom and Success by Napoleon Hill

Resources

Dave Ramsey

Entrepreneurs' Organization

The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM) by Hal Elrod

Imposter Syndrome: Overcoming What Holds You Back - EP056 Jul 07, 2020

Show notes

Do you downplay your achievements? Have you ever felt unworthy of a promotion or new position?

It's easy to get caught up in feelings of self-doubt. So how can we stop these feelings from getting in the way of our personal and professional development? How can we take ownership of our success and feel confident in any room?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring imposter syndrome, the feeling that you are not worthy of a title, position, or praise. We explain what it really means to be an 'imposter' and why most people are actually just 'rookies' who need to be more confident.

We go on to discuss the difference between facts and feelings and why it's necessary to visualize the person you want to become in order to actualize your goals. We also explore what it means to be a professional and why you don't need to be an expert in order to own that title. Listen in for our insight on overcoming imposter syndrome and learn to reach your full potential by shifting your mind away from feelings of unworthiness!

Key Takeaways

How we define imposter syndrome as a feeling of doubt and unworthiness

Why everyone feels like an imposter at some point in their lives

Why today's culture of instant gratification is plays a key role in imposter syndrome

The difference between an imposter and a rookie

Why it's important to take things slow and make gradual changes or pivots

What to tell yourself when you start to feel like an imposter

How to shift your mind away from feelings of self-doubt

What it means to be a professional and why you should take yourself seriously

How to become aware of the feelings that aren't serving you

Owning your achievements instead of downplaying them

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Book a 15-Minute Discovery Call with Jeremiah or Mallory

Resources

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

The Angie Lee Show

They're Not for You, and That's Okay - EP055 Jul 02, 2020

Show notes

Here's the truth: you're not going to be able to please everyone. That's OKAY. There are people in our lives and on our social media accounts who are not FOR us and will never be. So why do we spend so much time obsessing over the way other people view us? Why do we second-guess sharing an opinion because someone else might not like it?

It's so easy to get caught up in the opinions of people who don't matter. So, what steps can you take to cut out the people who aren't going to support and inspire you?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing people-pleasing and how it holds us back from achieving our goals. We focus on identifying the people who aren't FOR you and cutting them out. We offer examples of our own experiences with people-pleasing and how we've learned to avoid it.

We go on to explore how we're each conditioned to want approval from our family and friends, and how we carry that need for acceptance with us. We also weigh in on the importance of taking a stand and not letting fear stop you from sharing your beliefs. Listen in for insight on how to block out the people who aren't helping you achieve your goals.

Key Takeaways

How to build your community with people who will actually support you

Why it's important to avoid prolonging negative relationships

Sharing your story instead of hiding behind something for the sake of others

How to ignore those two or three people who don't like you

Using positive affirmations to bring your goals back into focus

Changing your subconscious to change your perceptions and your life

Focusing on the good messages instead of the bad messages

How to identify who does and does not inspire you in your life

Why you need to unfollow and unfriend people who make you second-guess yourself

The importance of taking a stand for something you believe in

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Book a 15-Minute Discovery Call with Jeremiah or Mallory

Resources

Gregg Braden

Charles Darwin

8 Mile

Addiction: Obsessions of the Mind That Overpower the Body - EP054 Jun 30, 2020

Show notes

What comes to mind when you hear the world ADDICTION? Drug and alcohol abuse? Food? Gambling? Sex?

We believe that there are many more very common obsessions that stop us from reaching our goals, but most of those behaviors aren't seen as addictions because they're socially accepted. So, what addictions are limiting YOU from living the life you really want? And is there such a thing as a healthy addiction?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're exploring addiction, any obsession of the mind that overpowers the body. We explain the difference between a chemical and a behavioral addiction, describing how judgement, comparison and overreacting qualify as addictions and what we can do to recognize our own craving for drama.

We go on to discuss the danger in addictive behaviors that lack immediate repercussions and reflect on how an obsession can keep us from becoming the person we're destined to be. Listen in for insight on striving for integrated living over so-called balance and get addicted to becoming a better version of yourself!

Key Takeaways

How we define addiction as an obsession of the mind that overpowers the body

How judgement and comparison qualify as addictions

How burying our emotions with food can lead to an addiction

What differentiates a chemical addiction from a behavioral addiction

How overreacting and catastrophizing can become an addiction

The danger in addictions that lack immediate repercussions

How addictions keep us from achieving our goals + becoming who we're destined to be

The idea of a healthy addiction to progress and self-improvement

How any obsessions can easily turn negative

Why it's better to strive for integrated living over balance

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Resources

Move Past Addiction on DTB EP008

Jeremiah on The Way Out Podcast EP160

Enneagram Institute

Todd Palmer on Integrated Living

Get Turned On to a Fulfilling Life—with David Norrie - EP053 Jun 25, 2020

Show notes

Is your life on cruise control?

If you feel like you're just going through the motions every day and leaning on technology to zone out, it's time to get 'turned on.' To wake up and start living the life God has planned for you.

David Norrie is the bestselling author of Turned On: Tuning In, In a Tuned Out World and the cofounder of Turned On, a platform committed to preserving the lost art of face-to-face connection at home, at work and in our faith communities. David and his wife, Angelike, also cohost the Turned On Podcast, a show designed to help listeners embrace the communication age without losing our connection with each other.

On this episode of Destined to Be, David joins us to explain the difference between living on cruise control and getting 'turned on.' He describes how to stop white knuckling life and surrender to God's plan in the four hallways—faith, health, business and family. Listen in to understand how David uses network marketing as a vehicle to pursue other interests and learn what YOU can do pivot into a fulfilling life that makes you happy and makes use of your gifts!

Key Takeaways

What inspired David to make Jesus the headline in his business

How meeting his wife taught David what real faith is

The difference between living on cruise control and getting 'turned on'

How to stop white knuckling life and surrender to God's plan

How everything we do in life prepares us for the future

David's four hallways of faith, health, business and home team

How to choose ONE easy thing to do today that will initiate a pivot in your life

The financial benefit of doing what you love and have a gift for

David's transition out of medical device sales and into network marketing

How to use network marketing as a vehicle to pursue other interests

Connect with David

Turned On

David on Instagram

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Turned On: Tuning In, In a Tuned Out World by David Norrie

Resources

The Turned On Method Course

Isaac Pitre Ministries

Trey Knight of Navan Global

Breaking Up with Your Bad Habits - EP052 Jun 23, 2020

Show notes

'It's been a tough day, so I need a glass of wine to unwind.'

We're all guilty of justifying a poor choice like this. And if it only happens once in a while, fine. But if a bad habit is starting to become routine, it's time for a change.

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing what you can do to break up with your bad habits. We share our definition of a habit as something we do automatically and describe how poor choices serve as temporary distractions to make us feel better in the moment.

We go on to explain why awareness is the first step in changing a bad habit, challenging you to recognize what's triggering your behavior and replace it with something better. Listen in for insight on how small wins build your confidence and learn how to end your relationship with the habits that don't serve you.

Key Takeaways

What we do to justify a bad choice and how it eventually turns into a habit

How we define a habit as something we do without actively thinking about it

How bad habits serve as temporary distractions to make us feel better in the moment

Why it's more challenging to change a habit the longer it goes on

How awareness is the first step in changing a bad habit

Why it's crucial to have accountability for where we are in life

How to recognize the emotion that's triggering a bad habit

What you can do to replace a bad habit with something better

How celebrating small wins builds confidence + leads to better choices through the day

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Resources

Ray Dalio

Tony Robbins

Destined to Be EP050

What Success Means + How to Achieve It - EP051 Jun 18, 2020

Show notes

"Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it."

—Maya Angelou

What is YOUR definition of success? Are you taking steps in that direction every day?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're discussing what success means and how to achieve it. We describe how success means different things to different people and explore how health, relationships and money (and the freedom it provides) factor into our definition of success.

We go on to explain why it's a problem to wait until you've reached a certain goal to be happy and challenge you to start living with intent and keeping small promises to yourself. Listen in for insight on developing a vision that's stronger than the emotions of the past and learn how putting other people first can take YOU to the next level of success.

Key Takeaways

Why success means different things to different people

How money (and the freedom it provides) factors into our definition of success

Maya Angelou's definition of success as liking yourself, what you do and how you do it

How being there for our kids plays a role in our definition of success

The danger in waiting until you reach a particular goal to be happy or fulfilled

How putting other people first attracts the next level of success

How health and nutrition impacts every other area of our lives

Why success starts with keeping small promises to yourself

Why it's crucial to develop a vision stronger than the emotions of the past

How caring about the people you work with leads to success in business

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory