Destined To Be

Emily's Path to Purpose Signature Program

Resources

Transcendental Meditation (TM)

Teach for America

Conquer Limiting Beliefs & Lead an Epic Life - EP088 Oct 27, 2020

Show notes

Feel like you can't do something epic because you're not qualified or somehow unworthy? Because you can't have your cake and eat it too?

What if these limits we're placing on our lives are only real because we happen to believe they're true? What if you could tell yourself a new story? Leave your limiting beliefs behind and grow into a new identity?

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're sharing our definition of limiting beliefs, explaining how they impact our lives in a negative way and drive us to energy-burning emotions like jealousy and judgment.

We discuss some of the most common limiting beliefs, describing how feelings of not-good-enough diminish our ability to make positive change or grow the confidence we need to reach our potential.

Listen in for insight on letting go of an identity other people put on you and learn how to leverage journaling to expose your own limiting beliefs and discover a new way of seeing the world.

Key Takeaways

How limiting beliefs are defined as a state of mind or conviction that holds you back from what you want to do

The limiting belief many hold around not being worthy/good enough

How our limiting narratives make us emotionally unintelligent and resistant to change

How we can use an awareness of our limiting beliefs to open up the way we see the world

Why we don't see the world as it is but as we are

The journaling process you can use to identify your limiting beliefs and explore your Future Self

Why being judgmental, jealous, comparing yourself to others and gossiping are irresponsible ways to use your energy

The relationship between making power moves and living an epic life

How overcoming limiting beliefs allows us to 'have our cake and eat it too'

Why you no longer have to carry the identity other people put on you (i.e.: the shy one, the loud one, the fat one, etc.)

How negative self-talk diminishes our ability to make positive change and grow the confidence to reach our potential

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Jeremiah's Instagram Post on Limiting Beliefs

Resources

Brittney Connor on Destined to Be EP061

Living with Intention for a Shared Vision—with Patrick & Jenn Kennedy - EP087 Oct 22, 2020

Show notes

Are you satisfied with mediocracy? Or do you want to grow?

Getting to the next level requires intentional living. It's about deciding what you want your life to look like and making decisions around that vision.

Jenn Kennedy is the business mentor behind Impact to Income, a program that helps online entrepreneurs grow their impact and scale their income to six figures and beyond. Jenn's husband, Patrick, spent the last seven years in a prestigious job as a buyer for Boyne Mountain Resorts before making the decision to leave his W-2 and join Jenn, working in her business as a full-time entrepreneur.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Jenn and Pat join us to discuss the tragedy that helped them get clear on a shared vision, explaining how they approach challenges as Team Kennedy. They offer insight on navigating difficult conversations, challenging us to explore our feelings before we react in anger. Listen in as Jenn and Pat share why it's crucial to support your spouse's investment in themselves and learn how living with intention helps the couple grow together and enhance their collective impact.

Key Takeaways

Jenn's journey from elementary school teacher to online business mentor

Why Pat left a prestigious job with a mountain resort to work with Jenn

The tragedy that helped Pat and Jenn get clear on their shared vision

How Pat and Jenn approach challenges through the lens of Team Kennedy

What it looks like to live intentionally vs. stay safe, comfortable and stuck

How Pat worked through his initial resistance to stepping into Jenn's business

Pat and Jenn's plans to work and live together in a RV + how they want the experience to look and feel

How Pat and Jenn navigate difficult conversations about money

Pat's insight on exploring your feelings and where they come from before you react

Why it's crucial for your spouse to support the investments you make in your vision

How connecting on a deeper level improves ALL aspects of Pat and Jenn's life

Connect with Pat & Jenn

Impact to Income

Pat on Instagram

Jenn on Instagram

The House Kennedy on Instagram

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Johnny Elsasser & Taylor Simpson on Destined to Be EP079

Resources

Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Exceptional Life by Jim Kwik

Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman

Keep Going - EP086 Oct 20, 2020

Show notes

The last few months have left a lot of people feeling defeated. But our mastermind group is not like most people.

We ALL found a way to adapt and KEEP GOING, despite the circumstances. And some of us even made the situation serve us, thriving in a time when the rest of the world has come to a standstill.

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're sharing our experience at Chris Harder's recent Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind event, explaining how we benefitted from getting out of our comfort zone for a weekend of glamping in Arizona.

We describe what a mastermind group looks like, discussing why we choose to surround ourselves with other growth-minded individuals who rise to the occasion and keep going—no matter how challenging the circumstances.

Listen in for insight on letting go of worry, fear and anger to appreciate the magic in the present moment and consider what YOU can do to be twice as happy and make twice as much money as you do right now!

Key Takeaways

How a mastermind brings together a group of likeminded individuals for peer-to-peer mentorship

Why we surround ourselves with growth-minded people who don't accept the status quo

The choice we have to either rise to the occasion or succumb to challenging circumstances

Our experience at Chris Harder's recent Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind event in Arizona

How we benefitted from getting out of our comfort zone for a weekend of glamping

The questions we were asked to reflect on at the mastermind event

What can I do to be two times as happy as I am now?
What can I do to make two times as much money?

How acknowledging the vastness of the universe helps us let go of worry, fear and anger to appreciate the magic in the present moment

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Resources

Chris Harder's Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind

The Law of Success by Napoleon Hill

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Enchantment Resort

Under Canvas

The Joy Activation Process—with Maryl Petreccia - EP085 Oct 15, 2020

Show notes

We have all known the devastation of loss. And how hard it can be to get back on track in the aftermath of difficult circumstances.

But you CAN find joy again. In fact, there is a process for exploring what lights you up and choosing joy over suffering as you build a new life.

Maryl Petreccia is the resilience expert and high-performance coach behind The Joy Activation Process, a platform designed to help women take control of their biggest transitions and toughest losses—and find their way back to joy. She is also the bestselling author of GPS to Joy: Navigate Life's Turbulence and Toughest Transitions to Find Your New Direction.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Maryl joins us to share her story of loss, explaining what she did to stay present and appreciate each day during her husband's battle with brain cancer. She describes how doing for others can take us out of our own pain and suffering, challenging us to act from the high vibration of love (even for those we disagree with most). Listen in for insight into Maryl's five-step Joy Activation Process and learn how to spark your very own journey to JOY!

Key Takeaways

What Maryl learned about relationships from her first marriage

How Maryl's life was 'perfect' until she experienced a series of losses

How Maryl navigated the emotion of her second husband's battle with brain cancer

What Maryl did to stay present + appreciate each day during her husband's decline

How doing for others takes us out of our own pain and suffering

The vow to her husband that sparked Maryl's journey to joy

Maryl's five-step Joy Activation Process

Awaken
Acknowledge
Act
Adapt
Affirm

The danger in basing your value on what you do (rather than who you are)

Maryl's take on seeing the person you disagree with most as the one who can move your mission forward

Maryl's challenge to act from the high vibration of LOVE

Connect with Maryl

The Joy Activation Process

Maryl on Facebook

Maryl on Instagram

Maryl on LinkedIn

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

GPS to Joy: Navigate Life's Turbulence and Toughest Transitions to Find Your New Direction by Maryl Petreccia

Resources

Women's Business Momentum Center

Moms Across America

How to Boost Your Mood in 5 Minutes or Less, Part 2 - EP084 Oct 13, 2020

Show notes

Feeling a little meh?

You can feel a whole lot better without spending a whole lot of time—by doing little things that spark joy and put you back in the present moment.

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're revisiting the mood boosters we discussed last week and sharing a few new ones, challenging you to make plans to do something fun each day and give yourself something to look forward to.

We explain the connection between practicing gratitude and manifesting what you want, challenging you to assume the emotions and feelings as if the event has already taken place.

Listen in for insight on the benefits of breathwork and meditation (and where to go to start your own practice) and learn how spending time outside connects you with the earth's natural healing energy!

Key Takeaways

Our top 10 strategies for boosting your mood right now

Move your body
Take a break from your phone
Drink some water
Put on your favorite music
Declutter your space
Do something for someone else
Make plans to have fun
Practice gratitude
Breathwork and meditation
Get out in nature

How doing cool shit on a regular basis builds confidence

Why you need to FEEL as if an event has already taken place to manifest what you want

The benefits of conscious breathing techniques like Wim Hof

How meditation teaches us to let our thoughts go by without grabbing ahold of them

How grounding connects us with the earth's natural healing energy

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Cindy Lauper 'Time After Time'

Resources

Crosby, Stills & Nash

Machine Gun Kelly 'Rehab'

Transcendental Meditation

Vishen Lakhiani's 6 Phase Meditation

Mindvalley

Dr. Joe Dispenza on YouTube

Gregg Braden on YouTube

Bruce Lipton on YouTube

OOLER Sleep System

Quantum Shields

Bringing Respect Back to the Trades—with Andrew Aranda - EP083 Oct 08, 2020

Show notes

Go to college, they said. It's the only way to be successful, they said.

But what if you can totally live the American dream without a degree? What if you can make six figures working in the trades, performing essential services that most people aren't willing to do?

Andrew Aranda is the Founder and CEO of Pure Plumbing, an award-winning business that started in his garage. A fourth-generation plumber, Andrew has 20 years of experience in the construction industry and has developed a particular expertise in the residential plumbing sector. He is also the creator of Modern Day Tradesman, a platform dedicated to bringing respect back to the trades.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Andrew joins us to discuss the income potential of working in an essential service trade, explaining how he built a successful plumbing business in Las Vegas by answering every call and being true to his word. He shares his focus on customer service, describing how he trains his employees to make customers feel comfortable and builds a culture of honesty with his team. Listen in for insight on what Andrew is doing to build awareness around the trades and find out how you can get involved in his new Modern Day Tradesman initiative.

Key Takeaways

Andrew's upbringing in a family business environment

The income potential of working in an essential service trade like plumbing (that most people won't do)

How Andrew learned about other trades doing construction rehab projects and ground-up development

Andrew's focus on customer service and delivering a good experience

Why it's crucial to get in the trenches with the people you lead

How Andrew trains his employees to make customers feel comfortable

The challenge around training employees quickly enough to uphold the reputation you've developed

How Andrew built a reputation by answering every call

What it takes to transition from a one-man show to a successful company

How Andrew creates a culture of honesty and builds connection with his employees

Why Andrew is creating Modern Day Tradesman to build awareness around the trades

How Andrew sees sales as doing something FOR a customer—not TO them

Connect with Andrew

Pure Plumbing

The Modern Day Tradesman

Modern Day Tradesman on Instagram

Modern Day Tradesman on Facebook

Modern Day Tradesman on YouTube

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurial Operating System for Business

Resources

Arete Syndicate

Dirty Jobs

Tony Robbins

Books by Zig Ziglar

Millionaire Success Habits by Dean Graziosi

How to Boost Your Mood in 5 Minutes or Less - EP082 Oct 06, 2020

Show notes

Do you need a mood booster?

If you're feeling low on energy or down in the dumps, you aren't showing up as the best version of yourself. But there are easy ways to turn it around and elevate your emotions RIGHT NOW, taking you from *blah* to upbeat in five minutes or less.

On this episode of Destined to Be, we're sharing six strategies for boosting your mood, explaining how taking a break from your phone and decluttering your space can make you feel better instantly.

We describe how moving your body and staying hydrated improves your brain function and share some of the music on our playlist for evoking positive emotions.

Listen in to understand why you make better decisions when your vibe is high and get inspired to do something kind for someone else to boost your mood—and make their day!

Key Takeaways

Our top 6 strategies for boosting your mood right now

Move your body
Take a break from your phone
Drink some water
Put on your favorite music
Declutter your space
Do something for someone else

The benefit of regular emotional check-ins to build awareness around how you feel

How staying hydrated improves your brain function

The songs we listen to in order to provoke positive emotions

Why we make better decisions when our vibe is high

Mallory's Fall Overhaul approach to decluttering your space a little at a time

Jeremiah's challenge to go out of your way to be kind to someone else

Connect with Jeremiah & Mallory

Entrepreneurs' Organization

Resources

Backstreet Boys 'I Want It That Way'

Post Malone

From Impossible to I'm Possible—with Meridith Alexander - EP081 Oct 01, 2020

Show notes

How do you respond when tragedy strikes? Do you feel powerless and focus on the impossibilities?

What if you made a different choice? What if you decided that miracles DO happen and started looking for the gift in your challenges?

Meridith Alexander is a mindset expert, motivational speaker and transformational coach on a mission to support entrepreneurs and professionals in tapping into their grit, resilience and fearlessness. She is also the bestselling author of The Sky Is the Limit: Sometimes the Limit Is Just the Beginning and the creator of the GRIT Mindset Academy, a program designed to help leaders reimagine the things that are keeping them stuck and emerge as the best version of themselves.

On this episode of Destined to Be, Meridith joins us to share the story of her daughter's accident and explain how her training in the inner game empowered her to show up in that moment. She explores how we are limited by the boundaries we place on ourselves, describing how she made the choice to expect the I'M POSSIBLE rather than the impossible as her daughter recovered. Listen in for Meridith's insight on identifying the gift in what seems like a struggle and learn her three-step process for finding fulfillment and joy in your life!

Key Takeaways

How Meridith's training in the inner game helped her navigate her daughter's accident

Meridith's choice to expect the I'M POSSIBLE instead of the impossible

How Meridith's belief in miracles empowered the medical team that treated her daughter

The AHA moment when Meridith saw her past pain as a gift

The power in owning the beauty of your humanity

The GRIT state required to initiate real change

Greatness
Resilience
Intuition
Transformation

Meridith's three steps to finding fulfillment

Identification
Reboot
Unleash

Why we are only limited by the boundaries we place on ourselves

Meridith's core desire to help people find their joy and achieve their potential

Why we need struggles to inspire us to ask new questions

Connect with Meridith

Meridith's Website

Meridith on LinkedIn

Meridith on Facebook

Email meridith@gritmindsetacademy.com

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