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Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Stephen Jun 05, 2019

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Welcome back to the second installment of Where Are They Now! These episodes are a great chance to catch up with people who have previously been coached by Kim who are now in happy, successful relationships. On this show, Kim has a conversation with Stephen back from Episode 24 in 2018. When we last heard from Stephen, he was trying to figure out how to balance not diving in too deep, too soon and taking it slow with the women he meets. Since then, Stephen met a wonderful woman and they've been in a great relationship full of adventures for a year. Stephen shares his mindset and dating life when he first started working with Kim. He was going on a lot of first dates that never progressed anywhere meaningful. In the next stage, he would date someone for several months, but inevitably their connection would fizzle out. Through working with Kim, Stephen has been able to grow and learn to build deeper, emotional relationships with the people he meets. Stephen now shares that with his current girlfriend exemplified by him being much more vulnerable, sharing feelings and being open and intentional in conversations. Listen in to hear the steps that Stephen took to get to that point and a fun game you can play with your next date to practice reconnecting on an emotional level! If you're ready for a stronger connection in your love life, just like Stephen - start with the first step as he did: sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And, if you want to join Kim's 14-Day Flirt & Femininity Challenge - it starts today June 5!! Click here to sign up and learn the key ingredients to attract the men everywhere: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD

Interview With Melanie Benson: Changing Your Mindset With Bold Moves May 29, 2019

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Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim has a conversation with Melanie Benson, a performance optimizer, author and business coach about how to have a growth mindset. Melanie hosts the Amplify Your Success Podcast and her success tips are featured in Bloomberg Business Week, Woman's Day, and Parenting Magazine. There's a ton of talk out there about mindset - abundance vs. scarcity or fixed vs. growth - but how do you actually improve yours for the better? On this show, Kim and Melanie get into the details of what mindset is and how you can change yours to get what you want in life and love. If you want to meet the love of your life but you've been taking the same routes meeting people at the same parties or going to the same bars time after time, how do you push yourself to be the person that can attract what you say you want? In this conversation, Kim and Melanie talk through how you can start with one step to make big and bold changes. Perhaps you've tried taking baby step after baby step, and have realized you're going nowhere fast. To upgrade your mindset, determine the boldest thing you could think of to switch up your patterns and break yourself out of your comfort zone. Listen in this week if you want to start reconditioning your thought patterns and say out loud what you're willing to do to move forward in your dating life! Here's a bold move for you: sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough And if you really want to be bold and brave, join Kim's 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge starting June 6th to help you learn the key ingredients to attract men here https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD

Coaching With Kim: How To Navigate Cross Cultural Dating May 22, 2019

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Every week, Kim talks through dating difficulties and how to overcome them. One challenge many people experience is trying to date while straddling two cultures. Whether you grew up in a family with strong cultural values that differ from traditional American ones or are exploring the dating scene from a foreign perspective in any capacity, this episode is here to help! On this show, you'll meet Fred. He comes from a culture where the values of his Muslim faith were paramount, and intimate relationships between men and women are navigated quite differently than his experience in the American dating scene. Although he's tried to explore opportunities on dating apps like Bumble, he's feeling frustrated that his values don't seem to align well with the values of the women he's meeting both online and in person. Listen as Kim coaches Fred live through many of the challenges he's faced on his journey to find love and get married. Kim walks Fred through how to define realistic expectations for himself, begin creating his own "mini culture" that he defines outside the boundaries of his cultural background and develop a dating plan in America. If you're struggling to find a comfortable balance dating between cultures, or the entire dating world feels like a foreign experience to you -- help is out there! Sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The relationship you want is out there, you just need to take action and get the tools you need to discover it! And, starting June 6th, you can join Kim's exclusive 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge to help you learn the key ingredients to attract men. Join the private Facebook group challenge here: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD

Interview With Shira Myrow: Putting The Breaks On Dating Anxiety May 15, 2019

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Have you ever had minor heart palpitations trying to decide what to text a guy back? Do you spend more time coming up with a million "what ifs" about potential dates than you do getting asked out? Are you constantly worried about being rejected or not being good enough? If so, this episode about how to deal with dating anxiety is for you! This week, Kim interviews Shira Myrow, mindfulness-based marriage and family therapist who is deeply committed to helping people process painful experiences and dysfunctional relationships into secure, resilient narratives. Kim starts off by defining what dating anxiety is and how the various symptoms can paralyze your dating life. Kim and Shira dive right into a conversation about how Shira began her work helping people develop relationship intelligence. When it comes to handling anxiety in dating, you can't manufacture a spark between two people, but you can learn how to have a happy, healthy, loving relationship! Shira talks about how to notice and deal with anxious thoughts before you spin down a rabbit hole or try so hard to suppress an anxious feeling that you never move past it. If you've had bad experiences dating, had issues with your family growing up or are just lost in how to manage your feelings and emotions as you embark on your journey, listen in for some useful tips! Anxiety in dating is super common, but there is a way to overcome it! Reduce your dating anxiety right now, and give Kim a call for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session. Coaching may be your best option for working through your anxiety and landing the relationship you want! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Coaching With Kim: How To Attract The Right Partner May 08, 2019

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Everyone has challenges with dating! Attracting the right kind of person for you is a skill you can build with practice. This week, you'll hear Kim's coaching session with Maria. She's a vibrant, confident, and successful woman looking for a man who can match her energy and inspire her. However, she has found that she consistently attracts the wrong type of guy for her. Maria shares her journey from when she first started working with Kim 4 years ago to now. For Maria, meeting men isn't the issue, it's sending signals to the right kind of guys that she's interested in a relationship, and not just a casual romance. When your life priorities shift, the time you spend focusing on your love life will change. Kim and Maria talk through how to take a conversation from surface level to an appropriate emotional place. Listen in to hear Maria's breakthrough moment where Kim cracks the code of why this keeps happening to her and gives her hands on tips in how to overcome it. And it's not what you might think! If you're looking to shift your perspective on dating to land the relationship you've always wanted, give Kim a call with a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and have her crack the code on what you can do differently to attract the right one for you.

Interview With Jen Glantz: From Bridezillas to Love Mistakes~Things You Learn From May 01, 2019

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It's spring, and wedding season is here! If your mailbox is flooded with save-the-dates or your social calendar is booked solid for the next few months, listen up for an unconventional take on the weddings, marriage and relationships. This week, Kim interviews Jen Glantz, the founder of the viral business Bridesmaid for Hire and host of the podcast You're Not Getting Any Younger. After being asked by numerous friends (and strangers!) if she would be their bridesmaid, Jen decided to start charging for her services. After seeing hundreds of brides and grooms on their big day, Jen shares stories of all the love mistakes she's made throughout her life and in her more recent journey as an entrepreneur. Kim and Jen swap stories of the biggest misconceptions they had when just starting out in the dating world. These two talk through the importance of being clear on what you deserve in a relationship and taking intentional action. Jen shares her thoughts on the importance of communication in partnerships as well as a few fun stories from her days as a bridesmaid for hire. If you want to hear a lighthearted, playful conversation about mistakes in love and bouncing back better than ever, this show delivers wisdom on the experience needed to grow into your sexy confidence. If you're making love mistakes that are holding you back from being in the relationship you want and deserve, give Kim a call with a FREE breakthrough session: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The things you uncover could lead you to a healthy, happy relationship in no time at all. And, Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever Flirt Academy Workshop! Click here to find out more: https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions Apr 24, 2019

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This week, we're diving into another episode answering your questions on What Would Kim Do! On this show, Kim fields multiple questions from listeners about how to get over the fear preventing you from making a change. You'll hear tips on how to look at online dating as a practice tool to flirt, engage in conversations and meet great men. And if you've had trouble connecting with men in general, listen closely! Kim shares how you can start getting comfortable being around male energy so you can be successful on dates. This episode is packed with questions from people that are having trouble getting out of their heads and dipping their toes into the dating pool. Kim talks through how to shake off your energy from work, parenting or stress and release your anxiety. If you are an over-thinker, are uncomfortable around men or feel a lot of anxiety around dating in general, this episode is for you!! You can begin the deeper work you may need to feel confident, sexy and playful in your life by scheduling a FREE breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Getting started can be scary, but don't let fear paralyze you from finding the love you deserve. Also, Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop starting in Charlotte NC May 6! Find out more here https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/ or reach out to her and find out if Kim is coming to your hometown!

Interview With Koya Webb: Powerful Ways To Put Self-Love Into Action Apr 17, 2019

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You've probably heard the old saying, in order to love someone else, you have to love yourself first. But that is a lot easier said than done. This week,Kim has a powerful conversation with Koya Webb, an internationally recognized yoga teacher, personal trainer, holistic health and wellness coach, author, and motivational speaker, who is revolutionizing the holistic living landscape. Kim and Koya talk about how to prioritize yourself over others so that you're able to help, give to and care for others in your life. Everyone wants to be loved, respected and told they're beautiful. Before that can truly sink in, however, we need to believe this about ourselves. Kim and Koya discuss how to achieve radical self-acceptance in our journey to truly be OK with who we are you have to see every challenge as an opportunity to grow. They share powerful tips in how to put that self-love into action. Kimemphasizes the importance of self-love in dating and shares useful tools on how to shift your perspective in order to find a partner who encourages you to be your best self. Koya talks through how to rise from the victim of your circumstances to the creator of your own path. Listen in for empowering tips and ideas that will help you live your life to the fullest. If you are having trouble seeing and believing in yourself and what you have to offer the world, sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim. You have the ability to shine brighter than ever, but we all need support and coaching to get there. Sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and make your next move. If you're in the Charlotte, North Carolina area - mark your calendars! Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop! Click here to find out more: https://www.facebook.com/events/787953384919390/

How To Be Successful, Smart AND Feminine Apr 10, 2019

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Are you successful in every part of your life except for finding love? Do you have a hard time turning off your masculine, work energy so that you can show that feminine, sexy side? Or perhaps you never learned how to be comfortable in your femininity or you have turned off that side of you. Whatever your challenge might be, you will love this week's episode. Kim talks through how to tap into and use the art of feminine charm and debunks the myth that being in your feminine can somehow reduce your power, make you seem silly or easily dismissed. On the contrary, she brings in a recent study that qualifies feminine charm as an "impression management technique" that can help you achieve your goals in all areas of your life…including your love life. Every woman's definition of femininity is personal, but a few simple tips can help you land your next date while still being your authentic self. Listen in to hear Kim's tips on how to utilize your feminine charm effectively to attract men. If you want to learn how to be in your feminine more, this is a perfect opportunity to sign up for a FREE 30-minute call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. You have the power to turn on the charm to achieve everything you want in love. And if you want hands on training in this area and you're in the Charlotte, North Carolina area - mark your calendars for May 6! Kim is going on the road with the Great Love Debate for the first ever, Flirt Academy Workshop! Message Kim directly on Facebook to find out more here https://www.facebook.com/SeltzerKimberly/

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now? Apr 03, 2019

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Today we're doing something a little different! Last year, Kim coached Anne on the show, who was a master at getting to the first date, but had issues when it came to securing a second. If you haven't listened yet, check back to the episode from April 3, 2018 "Coaching with Kim: How to Get Beyond the First Date"! Now, Anne is back to tell Kim all about the amazing new guy she met last year and how she's changed since being on the show. Last year, Anne was a pro at getting guys to feel incredible but wasn't getting the deeper connection and affection she needed in return. If you're like Anne, coming off of a divorce, or in anyrelationship that didn't fill you up, you're more likely to accept the crumbs instead of the cake. In fact, you might not even recognize the cake even when it's served to you! On this show, you'll hear Anne share the progress she's made since working with Kim. Plus, Anne shares the tips she used to get men to understand that she's interested in them. Listen also as she shares the tools Kim gave her to create a more intimate, deeper connection with her now boyfriend. Stay tuned throughout to hear the advice Anne would have given her self, knowing what she knows now. If you are accepting crumbs when you KNOW you deserve the cake, do what Anne did. Schedule a free breakthrough call with Kim right here, right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough One year from now, you too could be in the beautiful relationship you've always deserved!

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