Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

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Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Cathy Jan 01, 2020

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Kicking off 2020 with an inspiring success story, Kim's back with another episode of Where Are They Now? You'll hear from Cathy, a client of Kim's who, after coaching with Kim, has made some amazing strides. Her confidence has soared! Her ability to take action in alignment with what she wants has built positive momentum in all areas of her life. When Cathy first got in touch with Kim, she was struggling with overthinking and overanalyzing which was causing some major anxiety and stumbling blocks with dating. If you've ever experienced that, you know how hard it can be to stay out of your head and allow yourself to be present and connect in the moment. Cathy and Kim talk through how they were able to work together and create a structure that helped Cathy get clearer on what she wanted. They discuss that by learning new skills and rooting out the origins of her anxiety, Cathy is now meeting guys left and right! Your ability to flirt and be comfortable getting attention and being seen are all connected. Listen in to hear Kim's #1 tip around how to find joy when you're dating without attachment. It's a new year! This is a moment to look at your life with a fresh perspective and get inspired by the successes of others so you can create success on your terms! All it takes is one call. Sign up for your breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You could even be featured on a future episode of Where Are They Now with your success story! If you're ready to work through your anxiety around dating, or you're having trouble expressing yourself through all the thoughts swirling around in your head, get in touch with Kim. Start 2020 off right!

Are You Naughty Or Nice? Dec 25, 2019

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This holiday season, Kim asks the hard question: Are you naughty or nice? What if this holiday season was about receiving more than giving? On this week's show, Kim reveals to 5 Ways You Can Be Naughty Instead of Nice in your love life. Listen in, some of her tips might surprise you! When it comes to dating, you can achieve a healthy balance by being a little naughty! This doesn't mean being over the top but instead learning how to set more boundaries for yourself and let go of the tendency to always be polite. Sometimes naughtiness can go too far, but sometimes it's OK to be a little selfish! This show is all about how to strike the right balance for you and bring some variety into your love life to help you let go, take risks and find love. It's about breaking out of the hamster wheel, expressing yourself and not taking yourself too seriously so that you create opportunity to find real love...not love that is fabricated based on what others want for you. If you're feeling like you are giving more than receiving, it might be time to find your voice, speak up and choose to be naughtier than you usually are! And, if you've noticed you've started to feel resentment and overwhelmed about putting other people's happiness before your own, here's something you can do to end 2019 on a high note! Sign up for a breakthrough call with Kim, right here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough: and allow yourself to put YOU first!

Interview With Lisa Cherney: How To Get Freaking Real To Attract Love Dec 18, 2019

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So how many times do you cover your ears or put on a fake smile in fear of being yourself? How much energy do you expend worrying about being normal, proper or polite in order to be accepted? This week, we're getting *real*. Really freaking real by learning how to be your authentic self to attract love. Kim interviews Lisa Cherney, host of the ground-breaking Get F**king Real Podcast and founder of the GFR Squad. Lisa works with entrepreneurs and business owners to strip the masks and get real into order to help people fulfill their mission. This conversation cuts to the core fast - you might be surprised how Lisa's tips usually reserved for marketers and entrepreneurs are completely applicable in the dating world. Here's the truth, when you hide your authentic and vulnerable side, you actually attract lopsided relationships and you're much more likely to feel resentment. Kim and Lisa discuss how if you find yourself "tolerating" people, situations or environments around you, it sucks up both negative energy and physical space in your life. You'll hear some juicy, incredible tips from both experts about how to let go of the things in your life that don't feel good and how that will allow the universe to attract positivity. Listen as Lisa shares her unique GFR commandments and how those can help you in relationships and love. And, stick around to hear a great trick you can use to help you figure out the source of your self-doubt so you can learn how to overcome it. If you're sick and tired of not being honest with yourself and with others and you're dying to feel the energy, passion, and spark in your life again, you'll love this episode! If you want to understand the tools to give yourself permission to get real and find your authentic self, you've got to sign up for a FREE breakthrough call with Kim by clicking right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough It's almost the end of the decade, it's not worth spending another moment not living as the REAL you.

Interview With Rob Actis: The Law Of Action Begets The Law Of Attraction Dec 11, 2019

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Many of you may have heard of the Law of Attraction which is the ability for you to attract what you're focused on into your life. However, many of you may not have heard of the Law of Action...taking intentional actions that are in alignment with your goals. Without implementing the Law of Action into your life, the Law of Attraction will never generate results. In this episode of the Charisma Quotient, Kim interviews Rob Actis, the perfect guest to discuss the incredible ability to take action! Rob is the #1 bestselling author of The Law of Action and a renowned voice-actor (along with plenty of other titles, he even narrates his own book)! Kim and Rob dive right in and discuss many of Rob's life experiences that left him sure that he was still on this planet for a reason. Through personal and family health scares, a slew of near-death experiences, Rob says he loves being alive and truly lives each day like it's his last on earth. Kim asks Rob how he managed to get through some of his more harrowing experiences and how he has been able to *choose* intentional action even when it's really difficult. You'll hear Rob's method for building a foundation of momentum starting small and snowballing to MASSIVE action. Kim and Rob talk through the motivating events that launch us into action and tangible steps you can do to get there. One tip this show will teach you...when you surround yourself with positive people who encourage you, lift you up and push you forward, it's a lot easier to have a positive viewpoint of your capabilities. This episode is all about practical advice to empower yourself to take action, one step at a time towards whatever you want to achieve! You have to start somewhere so here is the PERFECT action for you and it's with a community of motivating women to encourage you. It's the LAST DAY to sign up for Kim's Flirt & Femininity Challenge - it STARTS TODAY and it's not to late! Click here to sign up: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD now.

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now with Ivy Dec 04, 2019

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It's time for another episode of Where Are They Now?, the segment where Kim brings back former coaching clients to share success stories and progress. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! This week, you'll meet Ivy, a podcast listener of 2 years and a veteran of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge and private coaching program. When Ivy started with Kim, she had no dating experience and had a lot of fears that were holding her back. She needed someone to hold her accountable to her goals and help her take the leap into self-love and confidence so she started with the 14-Day online challenge. Seeing how effective the program was for her, at the end Ivy was determined to take it to the next level and coach with Kim through private phone coaching. Kim and Ivy discuss how picky she used to be regarding men, how her perfectionism got in the way of letting go on dates and just having fun, and how she was limiting her opportunities with this mindset. This conversation is inspiring and uplifting! You'll hear all about how Ivy transformed to be able to express her emotions more clearly, learned to respect herself fully and get to know and love the woman she is. With her new found confidence, Ivy is now dating up a storm and actually having fun doing it! And, if you love a good makeover transformation, you've got to head over to Kim's Instagram page @kimmyseltzer to see Ivy's transformation for yourself! If you're listening and find that motivation is the obstacle blocking your path, this is your chance to break out of your pattern and start where Ivy did! Sign up for the next round of Kim's Flirt and Femininity Challenge by clicking right here: https://bit.ly/2YM4ddDThis is a private group just for women like you to learn flirting techniques, feel more connected with your body and feminine energy. The challenge starts on December 11th, so sign up while you can!

Interview With Lou Diamond: How To Thrive In Your Love Life Nov 27, 2019

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What does it truly mean to move from surviving to thriving? How do you maintain optimism throughout the challenges that life and love present? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in the realm of thriving, Lou Diamond, host of the Thrive Loud podcast. Kim and Lou talk about the difference between surviving and thriving in today's digital age and how to push yourself to meet all the goals you set. The more you reward yourself for using a positive outlook, focusing on using and celebrating your strengths, the more you will move towards thriving in your life. Kim and Lou discuss Lou's history in this space and all of the lessons he's learned along the way about how to course correct. Lou dives into simple steps you can take to transform your greatest adversities into your biggest strengths and discover your superpowers. This conversation is inspirational and motivating. It will help you recognize moments in your own life where you have an opportunity to thrive and move towards your goals. And, if you're ready to start to thrive in your dating life, now is your chance to kick into high gear. Kim is running another Flirt and Femininity Challenge starting December 11! It's a private group just for women where Kim assigns a daily challenge around flirting for you to implement in real-time. If you need to work on holding yourself accountable to your goals, this challenge is the perfect fit! Click here to join and see you inside https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD.

Finding Motivation To Change Nov 20, 2019

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Do you have a strong desire to change but lack the motivation? When you're trying to change your behavior, your motivation needs to be stronger than your fears, but how do you actually make it happen? This week, Kim delivers 6 Motivation Hacks that will help you stir up your passion and drive to make the changes you want in your life. If you listen to this podcast as part of your routine (we love that!), but we know it can be all too easy to listen, go about your regular life and put aside things you might have been inspired to do. On this show, Kim will reveal the secrets to unlock and embrace your desire to get different results in your life! And, if you're having trouble launching yourself into a new behavior, Kim will explain how to gamify your goals so that you can take small steps regularly towards the things you want to improve. If you stick to any of the motivation tips you'll learn in this episode, you will really start to see a difference. Ultimately, you have the power to make the changes you want to see in yourself but you have to have the motivation to do so. It definitely helps if you have a supportive community set up to hold you accountable for your commitments. Well, you're in luck! Back by popular demand, Kim is running another Flirt and Femininity Challenge https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD. It's a private group just for women where Kim assigns a daily challenge around flirting for you to implement in real-time. Plus, to give you a little extra kick of motivation... the first 10 women that sign up for a breakthrough session with Kim will be entered into the Flirt & Femininity Challenge for FREE ($47 value)!! If you need to work on holding yourself accountable for your goals, this double challenge is the perfect fit! Schedule it now! https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Interview with Emerald GreenForest: Achieving A Wealthy Mindset To Be Successful In Love Nov 13, 2019

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This week on the Charisma Quotient Kim and her guest, host of the Men on Purpose Podcast Emerald GreenForest are talking two major topics you might be surprised to find out are totally related -- Love and Money! Known as the Wealthy Life Mentor, Emerald shares the steps to her wealthy life mindset. You'll hear client stories and examples that show how interconnected the success of your love life and your money in the bank are. It all tracks back to mindset. Kim and Emerald's conversation will prompt you to ask yourself, are you inviting in opportunities to your life that help you grow and expand, or do your intentions tell a different story? Kim asks Emerald to go into the details and origins of her wealthy mindset steps and explain how those can relate to discovering abundance in your dating life too. You'll also hear why creative types have trouble maintaining an interest in dating apps! This conversation will help you think outside the box and achieve success in your dating life by looking at one area of success in your life, and apply them where you want to see improvement. If this conversation speaks to you and you're looking to shift your perspective, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim. She will help you learn to create wealth in your love life! Click here to sign up: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Interview With Rich Bontrager: How To Be A Leader In Your Love Life Nov 06, 2019

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Are you a leader in your own love life? Do you have the courage to take control of your love life? This week on the show, Kim interviews a powerhouse in courageous leadership, Rich "Trigger" Bontrager. As a Motivational Speaker, Pastor, Storyteller and Coach, Rich helps people rise above what holds them back to create confidence and empower leaders and communicators. Rich and Kim jump right in to talk about Rich's childhood and how he has defied the odds and overcome several different health issues that doctors were sure he couldn't come back from. He talks through how his health issues have impacted his relationships and how he was able to maintain courage and confidence throughout. This conversation is inspiring and will help you create hope for the future. Resilience in your pursuit of finding love is essential for success, but it's not always easy to create. You'll learn some concrete tips to have courage to defy the odds in your love life and understand the importance of becoming the leader you need to be in order to attract what you want. Whatever your baggage is, whatever you believe is holding you back in your life from finding the love you want -- this show will help give you the tools not to bring that baggage with you. If you want to learn how to have the courage, defy the odds and be a leader in your love life, then hop on a FREE breakthrough call with Kim now. You can sign up right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough She will definitely help you get there!

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions Oct 30, 2019

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Kim's back with another episode of What Would Kim Do? This is the segment where Kim answers your questions by explaining what she would do in your situation. If you want your question to be featured on a future episode, connect with Kim on Facebook via direct message @SeltzerKimberly. On this show, you'll hear an answer for what to do if you're interested in attracting someone who you think is "out of your league". Then, you'll hear a question from a man who says he's looking for an emotionally open and available woman who feels misunderstood in the process of meeting women. Kim's answer dives into the push and pull between what you say you want, and what you're putting out there. And, find out how you can use Pinterest to actually increase your self-image and start seeing yourself outside of the mirror! This episode will show you that practice makes perfect, how to gain self love and starting with a smile can set your intention for any interaction. If you listen in week to week and you have a pile of questions for Kim, we have the perfect solution for you. Sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough session with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Your first step to getting the answers you've been looking for in your love life is a couple of clicks away! For those of you in the New York City area, Kim is bringing the Flirt Academy to you! On Tuesday, November 5th, she's hosting a workshop for women to learn how to flirt with sexy confidence and own any room you are in! Sign up right here: https://www.facebook.com/events/440617036809810/

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