Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

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Interview with Nikki Barua: How To Go From Barriers To Breakthroughs FAST Mar 11, 2020

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Why do some people actually accelerate and have success even when there are huge obstacles in their life and others don't? Do you allow the constant walls in front of you get in the way of achieving the life and love you want? You have the power to break down these barriers by challenging the way you think and act. When you're working towards a goal, how do you go about tackling your biggest obstacles and rising to the occasion so you can progress? This week, Kim brings on a global leader in breaking barriers for women in business, Nikki Barua. As the Founder & CEO of Beyond Barriers, a platform that helps women leaders gain momentum and unlock innovative and adaptive digital-age strategies, Nikki is a master in helping you think outside of your comfort zone and be successful. Kim and Nikki begin by discussing why and how it is harmful tying yourself self-worth to the opinions of others is. As women, we often have to work harder to unlearn unhelpful patterns that diminish our confidence. If you're a people-pleaser, this can create a huge obstacle! You will learn tips about how to get around the barrier of feeling guilty when you set a boundary and how you can instead gain the clarity you need to discover what you really feel and want. Nikki explains how to stop letting others set goals for you and move into setting those benchmarks for yourself. If you need to break through the barriers that are holding you back in your love life, then reach out to Kim for a free breakthrough call here: http://charismaquotient.com/apply/. This one call could be the turning point where you stop searching for someone or something that others want for you and start prioritizing what will make you truly happy!

Coaching With Kim: Where Are They Now With Julie Mar 04, 2020

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Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now? where you'll hear from inspirational women and men who have found success in love and life after coaching with Kim. In this episode, you'll meet Julie, a vibrant, classicly trained pianist podcast listener who found Kim because she was feeling paralyzed by her perfectionism and overanalyzed everything which was preventing her from finding love. Julie shares that she was driven to work with Kim because she had reached the end of her rope and needed help to get on the path of finding the right kind of relationship for her. After investing to work with Kim, you'll learn the story of how Julie learned to release anxiety and land the amazing dream guy she is dating today. Kim asks Julie to reflect back on how she grew up and the kind of people she used to attract earlier in her life. They discuss how Julie's perception of what a man "should" be has transformed while working together and the tools she learned along the way to stay in a successful relationship. This conversation will encourage you to get out of your comfort zone, let go of perfectionism and switch up your patterns to attract the right partner into your life. Listen in to hear key tips to lower anxiety and gain a clear picture of the reality of the situation so that you can date smarter. If you're struggling to get different results in your dating life or you're dealing with increasing anxiety around love, take this opportunity to learn the same lesson Julie did. Sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough This one call may be the very step you need to make a big difference in your love life. You could be the next star in these episodes to talk about your success story!

Interview With Evan Marc Katz: How Smart, Strong & Successful Women Can Find Love Feb 26, 2020

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You're a smart, strong, successful woman. In nearly every area of your life, you're operating on the highest level. But when it comes to your love life you can't seem to find a worthy partner despite your best efforts. In this episode, Kim and her guest, dating coach Evan Marc Katz, debunk 3 major myths about why smart, strong successful women sometimes have trouble finding love. As a dating coach to powerful women since 2003, Evan is a best-selling author and the who has helped thousands of women find happy, healthy and long-term relationships. Evan digs into how he got started in the dating space and shares how he transformed from a 'serial-dater' to a happily married man. Kim and Evan discuss how making real connections on a date isn't about how much you've achieved or accomplished. Instead, it's all about how someone feels when they're with you. If you're under the impression that all smart, successful, alpha men only want to date women 'beneath' them or that you need to change who you are in order for a man to be attracted to you, you need to listen to this episode! Kim and Evan volley back and forth about how you can reframe your thought process and release yourself from the old patterns that have held you back in the past. This conversation will show you that building confidence in dating (as you have in many other areas in your life!) is all about gaining experience. It's time for you to get out of your own way and make changes you can control. So, if you're ready to stop trying to achieve a loving relationship and start attracting a great partner, sign up right here for a free breakthrough call with Kim: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You are capable of finding the supportive, strong, successful and long-lasting relationship you've been searching for! Now is the time to recognize your strengths and apply them in the right way to discover the love you deserve.

Interview With Corey Poirier: Helping You Know Your WHY Feb 19, 2020

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How well do you know yourself? Do you know what your purpose is and how true to yourself are you being when you put yourself out there into the dating universe? This week, Kim has a special returning guest who breaks down exactly what the most successful people out there do to find their purpose and passion (and how you can do it too). Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx and sought-after keynote speaker and host of the top-rated Conversations with Passion Radio Show. He's interviewed more than 5,000 of the world's top leaders to uncover the underlying purpose and passion that makes them unstoppable. Now, you can get his new book that explains it all, The Book of WHY (and HOW) for just 99 cents until Feb 23rd! Check it out right here: http://www.thebookofwhy.com/ Kim and Corey talk through how Corey discovered his passion and the journey he went on to reveal his purpose. In this episode, you'll go through some major lessons and tips you need to know that will help you shift in ways to think about your purpose and how to achieve the goals that excite you to attract someone great in your life. If you're struggling to find your purpose and passion or you are having trouble attracting the caliber of person you want as a partner, reach out to Kim here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough The path to shifting your mindset and connecting with high quality people is possible for you! It's time to make the choice to create space in your life for what (and who!) you really want.

Raise Your Charisma Quotient To Find Love Feb 12, 2020

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Love is in the air this week and you deserve to soak it all up! With Valentine's Day on the way, now is your opportunity to invest in you by building your relationship with yourself and learning to attract love! Every day Kim hears from people who don't know where to go to meet their match and has been wrapped up with their work life. An email from someone who would rather be alone than pick the wrong guy again. A Facebook message from someone who feels unattractive and fears being seen. The truth is, it's not hard to create a love life you deserve. In this special episode, Kim's delivering you a sneak peek of her brand new course, The Love Academy that will get you results in your love life. As part of Kim's incredible podcast community, you're getting an inside scoop of the secret ingredients to her signature Charisma Quotient Formula and how you can use this to attract love. This show breaks down the 3 major components: Style Intelligence, Emotional Intelligence, and Social Intelligence and how to apply it in your dating life. If you've been a long-time listener of the podcast, you know that Kim offers in-person coaching, phone-coaching, virtual makeovers and more to help women and men all over the world find love. If you've ever thought about working with Kim before, but didn't have the budget to make it happen, or it wasn't the right time for you -- you've got to check out this special offer to early access to The Love Academy. Not only will you get an on-demand video course you can watch (and listen, just like the podcast!), but you'll also get access to a private Facebook community of other wing-women, and group coaching sessions to get your questions answered directly by Kim. If this episode resonates with you and you're tired of feeling lonely, detached, numbing out swiping on dating apps and not attracting love in your life and you're ready to start getting real results, then start taking action with this course. Check out this exclusive Love Academy pre-sale offer right here: https://bl394-94b6ab.pages.infusionsoft.net/ See you inside!

Interview With Cynthia Clark: The Science of Soulmates Feb 05, 2020

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Are soul mates real? Is there one special, perfect person out there made especially for you? This week on the show, Kim and her expert guest answer some soulful questions: Does your relationship have a destiny? How do you find your soulmate? You'll benefit from the wisdom of Cynthia Clark, who has helped more than 7,000 busy professionals find lasting love and soulmate connections through the soulmate code system. Using the science of palmistry she helps you understand your love language for powerful soul connections. First, you'll learn what a soul mate actually is and how your definition impacts the quality of your relationship. When you find your soul mate, these bonds open you up and help you and your partner grow personally through the relationship. You might be surprised to find out how fate and destiny play into this definition. Listen in to hear how Cynthia defines everyone's "relationship genius" and what you can do to discover yours! Kim asks Cynthia about the different kinds of soul mate archetypes and ties it into her dating archetypes, how to identify yours and find the right match for you. Cynthia shares the secrets to your love life that could be hiding in your hands. Tune in to hear all about. If you want to join Cynthia's Soul Mate Connection Membership program, sign up here: https://cynthiaclark.simplero.com/products/79167-Soulmate-Connection-Basic-Membership?ref=16265-Kim-Seltzer. And after you learn your soulmate archetype, you'll want to learn what your dating archetype is by taking my exclusive Dating Archetype Quiz here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY so you know how to overcome your challenges and capture that soulmate. Each step you take on your path brings to closer to finding love you deserve!

Not Feeling Good Enough? How To Avoid Your Inner Critic From Killing Your Dating Life Jan 29, 2020

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Do you believe that you are capable of everything you want to achieve in your life? Do you believe you deserve a loving, happy, and healthy relationship? This week, Kim tackles a BIG question we've all had: are you GOOD ENOUGH? It doesn't matter if you're already successful by other people's standards or if you're just starting your life's journey--we all deal with feeling like we're not *enough* for a lot of different reasons. But sometimes those negative messages are so loud that it negatively affects your ability to attract a healthy relationship. If you have ever questioned whether or not you're good enough to deserve what you want, this show was made just for you! Kim dives into how your experience growing up informs how you think about yourself. If you've ever found yourself trying to fix other people or putting others before yourself consistently, it may be your way to seek approval or validation which could be killing your love life. Kim delivers essential tips that will help you reprogram the inner critic so that you can walk into your next date, networking event or any social situation feeling good enough. When you're ready to shed your insecurities and be honest about your strengths, you begin to shine and attract the kind of people in your life who actually deserve you. In our social media-obsessed world, it can become all too easy to compare yourself to others. To combat that, you'll hear about what you can do to boost your body confidence, starting with downloading your free body type guide on Kim's site, seltzerstyle.com. So, if you're ready to stop the Gremlins in your head and start being your best self - sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough You deserve to see yourself as attractive, sexy and yes…good enough!

Interview With David Rosenthal: How To Find Your Voice Jan 22, 2020

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Are you afraid to put yourself out there or are you ready to speak out and be heard? Did you know that finding and owning your voice is a huge part of interaction and attraction? When it comes to finding love, owning your voice is essential - but finding the courage to speak up AND be vulnerable can be tough. Luckily, Kim's bringing on an expert at finding the voice from within - celebrated voice actor and coach, David Rosenthal. As CEO of Global Voice Acting Academy, he's voiced thousands of commercials and video games and has helped countless people discover their inner ability to move through the world without fear. David discusses details of how you can build up your self-confidence and conversational skills with some easy to do exercises. You'll hear some of the things David does with his clients so you can test them yourself and start establishing your voice now. This conversation will help you feel empowered to play! Learn how to experiment with your tonality, speed, and volume so you can bring your stories to life. And listen in to hear David coach Kim in a quick improv session to learn how it's done! If you're looking to improve your self-confidence, speak your truth and find your voice, reach out to Kim for a free 30-minute breakthrough session:https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. If you find yourself shrinking in conversations or you feel scared to shared your opinions, thoughts and stories with others - it's time to break out and make a change! Book your call today.

What Would Kim Do? Surprising Answers To Your Love Questions Jan 15, 2020

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We're back with the first "What Would Kim Do?" segment of 2020! Write in your dating and love questions to @SeltzerKimberly on Facebook, and your question could be featured on an upcoming episode. This week, Kim talks through how to conquer your fears around rejection, get comfortable with who you are, how to date as a single parent and get clarity on what you want in a partner. If you've ever struggled with addiction or addictive tendencies, you'll also want to pay attention to this episode. Kim answers a question about how addiction can seriously affect your love life and what to do about it. You'll hear a question with an insightful answer as to why it's helpful to learn to not get too attached as you date. Listen in for some ninja tips on how to find your voice and get out of your own way. When you know what you want and feel good with who you are, you have the freedom to try new things and be yourself without fear. This episode will show you that choosing to give people a chance helps you learn how to make dating fun and more connected! Once you know that you want to start attracting different people into your life, you've got to make a plan to accomplish it! If you are looking to make some concrete changes, get in touch with Kim and hop on the phone for a free breakthrough call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Getting coaching can be the biggest catalyst to jump start in your love life in a whole new way!

Interview With Debbi Dachinger: How To Be Comfortable Being Seen Jan 08, 2020

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Are you comfortable being seen? Now that it is a new year, it's a great time to push yourself to be more visible so that you can attract great things. The image you project to others is a direct reflection of who you are and how others perceive you. So, you won't be surprised to learn that image is the first key to your ability to find love. This week, Kim interviews Debbi Dachinger. She's a media visibility expert, keynote speaker and author of three international bestselling books. She has been interviewed on over 1,000 media outlets and hosts the syndicated, award-winning Dare to Dream podcast. Kim jumps in by sharing a personal story that demonstrates what happens when you hide in your clothes and play small. These two dish it out better than anyone about the magic that happens in your personal and professional life when you seek to be seen, heard, and served. Debbi divulges her rules for creating a visibility factor that work on TV, on dates, and more! Kim and Debbi discuss the importance of recognizing and respecting how you feel and how to allow those feelings to surface authentically. The trick is, expressing that in an honest, genuine way that builds connection. This episode proves that when your outer image reflects the authentic person you are inside, incredible results will follow. Stick around until the end to hear Debbi's rendition of a love song about one of her crushes! If you are struggling to feel visible, open and connected, you'll definitely want to listen to this uplifting and fun episode to learn how to be a celebrity in your own love life. And to kick off the new year right with new energy and goals, sign up for a free breakthrough call with Kim right here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Connect with Kim to talk through what comes up for you when you think about your image and some concrete steps you can take to show up as your best self in 2020.

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