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Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going May 06, 2020

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How to move conversations off of apps and dating sites and into actual dates. Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 140 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. This week, Kimmy's back with another episode of Coaching with Kimmy. In this segment, Kimmy works with a caller live to crack the code to what's holding them back from finding love! You'll meet Cara, a vibrant woman in her early 30's who's been struggling to thrive on dates both online and off for almost 10 years now. She agreed to get a laser coaching on the show after taking a flirt workshop with Kimmy and realized she's had trouble flirting via text and email and hasn't been able to get past the first couple of dates without the interaction feeling like a formal business meeting. Kimmy dives right in asking Cara about her experience as an adolescent with rejection which is affecting how she interacts with men on dates. Kimmy walks Cara through how her fear of rejection and low self-esteem are causing her to have disconnected, guarded and boring interactions both online and off. This inspiring, uplifting conversation brings up the big question--how much do you value yourself and how is this holding you back? Kimmy nails down targeted hacks to help Cara raise her perception of herself, engage in more playful conversations and progress to actual dates. Plus, listen in to hear Kimmy read a Bumble conversation between one of her clients and a guy she met on the app. You'll hear Kimmy, in real-time, breakdown their conversation to show you *exactly* how to shift the tone and style of your messages to get the results you want. If you find yourself having trouble creating emotional connections or engaging in playful conversations while you're dating online, take this opportunity to get in touch with Kimmy for a free Conversation Booster Breakthrough session here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall. What you put out is what you get back, and now is the time to brush up on flirting and conversation skills so you can get back out there stronger than ever before!

Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.

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Charisma Quotient Episode 140: Coaching With Kimmy: Keeping Conversations And Dates Going

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Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

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Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses Apr 29, 2020

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How to get a great handle on the right mindset for your dating life in the middle of uncertain times. Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses is the title of the Charisma Quotient Podcast Episode 139 hosted by Confidence Therapist & Authentic Dating Strategist Kimmy Seltzer. With all the mixed messages swirling around what will happen after this pandemic, it's undeniable that we're living in a state of uncertainty. In this episode, Kimmy dives right in to acknowledge the fact that we're collectively experiencing the effects of a scarcity mindset and an uncertainty while dating. If you struggle with anxiety and are constantly seeking to control your world, life and dating right now can feel even more overwhelming. In this show, Kimmy breaks down her top 5 tips for how to use this uncertain time to your advantage. It IS possible to thrive right now and use this uncertainty to your benefit, despite what you may have been feeling so far. Listen in to hear exactly what you need to focus on to start shifting your perspective so you can use this period to grow and evolve instead of standing still. You'll hear steps to take around how to shift your mindset from focusing on unproductive worries to more productive ones. And, if you're missing your typical work, exercise, or social routine, you'll get advice on how to reintroduce routine to your day to bring back some predictability. Kimmy talks through some secret benefits to virtual dating that you can absolutely be grateful for and use it instead to build emotional connections. Finally, you'll hear a letter from a listener who's contemplating giving up on virtual dating while we're operating under stay-at-home orders. Stick around until the end to hear why Kimmy thinks that's the LAST thing anyone should use this time to do! If this episode is resonating with you, and you feel yourself grasping to control every aspect of your dating life and you're feeling completely overwhelmed and burned out, schedule a free call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Uncertainty while dating isn't always a negative thing if you know how to use it to your advantage. You are capable of thriving right now -- you just need the tools to make it happen!

Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.

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Charisma Quotient Episode 139: Uncertainty While Dating: The Benefits And The Bad Excuses

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Connect with Kimmy through any of these links:

Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders https://bit.ly/2Ee3sPL

Interview with Doug Sandler: How To Move Conversations & Strengthen Connections Apr 22, 2020

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Do you have a hard time knowing what to say when you meet someone? Are conversations boring and disconnected? Making meaningful conversations are key to having deeper connections with people. So what's the best way to engage someone in conversation? In this episode, Kimmy interviews entrepreneur, speaker and founder of the Turnkey Podcast Company, Doug Sandler. He's interviewed tons of celebs like Ariana Huffington, John C. Maxwell, and Gary V., and has mastered the art of engaging people one on one.

Kimmy and Doug dive deep on how to manage perfectionist tendencies and get into action mode. If you're struggling to move past superficial conversations, exhausted by small talk or find yourself craving more meaningful connections, this show breaks it down into simple steps in how to move past that. These two also discuss how it's all too easy to get trapped by getting in your head and thinking that every decision you make is final. In reality, you can have second, third—even infinite chances to meet the right person, it's just honing in on the skills to do that. This conversation shows that it takes work, practice and bravery to succeed.

Take a good hard look at the quality of connections you've been making lately both online and off and ask yourself if you've been making true connections or not. If you're coming up short by being misunderstood, or not able to progress to another interaction or date, hop on a breakthrough call with Kim here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and start to discover the power to create deep, real relationships with the people you want today. And if you are not feeling confidence putting signals out there with your body, join Kim and fitness expert Adam Schaeuble in the 14-Day Fit & Flirty Challenge https://s1cdup9s.pages.infusionsoft.net/# starting April 27th.

Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.

Charisma Quotient Episode 138: Interview With Doug Sandler: How To Move Conversations & Strengthen Connections

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Interview With Adam Schaeuble: Your Health, Body Confidence & Attraction Apr 15, 2020

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Do you truly feel confident in your body? Do you lack self-confidence in how sexy you are? There is a connection and symbiotic relationship between your health, body confidence and attraction. This week, Kimmy Seltzer is infusing fitness elements to your style, emotional and social intelligence and talking all about body confidence. To help with this, Kimmy's bringing on an incredible fitness expert, Adam Schaeuble, The PHD (aka Previously Heavy Dude). Adam shares the story of how he hit rock bottom when he weighed 327 lbs and what he did to jumpstart his own weight loss journey. Now, he runs a gym and boot camp program where he works with thousands of women and men to deliver practical, motivational tools helping them release what's holding them back and be the best version of themselves. Kimmy and Adam dive into talking about blame and guilt when it comes to accomplishing a challenge like weight loss or finding success in love. If you have found yourself pointing to external factors about why you're not landing the dates you want, or why you haven't stuck to exercise and health plans in the past, this episode will help give you the tools to feel more in control of your results. This uplifting, fun conversation will show you that you don't need to be a certain size, weight or shape to find the confidence and love you deserve--it's all about working to build the confidence you need to project the high self-esteem that attracts someone worthy of you! Listen in to hear the surprising #1 reason people don't lose weight along with Adam's tips on how to successfully stick to a health and exercise plan for the long term. Plus, stick around until the end to hear all the details about Kimmy and Adam's *NEW* 14-DAY FIT & FLIRTY CHALLENGE https://s1cdup9s.pages.infusionsoft.net/# starting April 27th. If you're stuck in quarantine, wondering how you're going to find the motivation to maintain healthy habits and sex appeal while you're at home, consider joining them. Sign up today to take back control of your body confidence with daily challenges and exercises to ramp up your health, hotness and sex appeal.

Hosted by Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist, Kimmy Seltzer. The Charisma Quotient shares an array of topics focused on Building Confidence, Making Connections and Finding Love.

Charisma Quotient Episode 137: Interview With Adam Schaeuble: Your Health, Body Confidence & Attraction

Connect with Kimmy through any of these links:

Chat With Kimmy: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough