Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

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Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane Oct 07, 2020

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Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?: Coaching with Kimmy! In this segment, you'll hear Kimmy have direct, honest conversations with former clients to find out where they are on their love journey, what changed since they started working with Kimmy, and the secrets to their success. In this episode, you'll meet Jane, an accomplished, dedicated physician who was realizing she kept attracting narcissists. As a podcast listener, she reached out to Kim on a breakthrough call two years ago, during a stressful time in her career. Now (during quarantine!) she's met an amazing guy and is in a healthy, fulfilling relationship. EPISODE 162 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. Jane dives in by talking through the challenges she was facing in her dating life before she got in touch with Kimmy. Jane was struggling with expressing her needs and feelings effectively, along with being an overly generous, caring and giving person. Listen in for an essential tip about recognizing the difference between being truly vulnerable and over-sharing on dates. Kimmy and Jane talk through her online dating profile pictures and Jane's tendency to hide her body on her profile. You'll hear some of the biggest lessons Jane learned, like setting clear boundaries early and getting better at flirting. Kimmy even uses Jane's flirty texts as the gold standard for other clients! Stay tuned to hear all about the new man in Jane's life and how she's handling the uncharted territory of maintaining a healthy relationship with him. You'll hear how Jane actively applied what she learned about setting boundaries with him, despite her previous fear that it would have pushed him away. If you're like Jane -- leading a high-pressure career, attracting narcissists, struggling with online dating or being playful and flirtatious on dates -- take this opportunity to get on the phone with Kimmy right here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If you're feeling stuck in a rut, burnt out, or frustrated with the dating scene (especially now!), that 30 minutes could change the course of your entire life like it did for Jane. And who knows, maybe you will be the next star in her Where Are They Now episodes to talk about your successes. EPISODE 163 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Narcissists No More!: Where Are They Now With Jane. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi Sep 30, 2020

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Did you ever wish that you could be more fun and charismatic? Well, then you'll definitely want to listen to this episode where you'll learn how charisma is a learned skill. If you've been listening to this podcast, chances are you know it's possible through Kimmy's teachings but you'll hear a deeper dive into some tangible tips that will help you be more magnetic and attractive. This week, Kimmy brings on Holley Mignosi who is a speaking coach, storyteller, and hypnotic body language authority and helps leaders and executives master the art of charismatic communication to have a juicy discussion on charisma. EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi Often times we view others who exude charisma as if they were born with it. But the truth is, you can practice techniques to become more charismatic and influence others to be more magnetically attracted to you. Kimmy and Holley dive right in, talking about Holley's journey from the modeling and acting world into her current work. Holley talks about how in Hollywood, charisma is the currency, which can be both a blessing and a curse. You'll hear about a low point in Holley's life that spurred her to transform her relationship with her body image. Listen in to hear Kimmy and Holley discuss how charisma can help you radiate positive energy, make great first impressions, and build the confidence you need to go after what you want. Holley and Kimmy talk through how to tell your story from a place of victory, instead of victimhood. Plus, you'll hear tips from Holley about what kinds of hand gestures to use to show your date they can trust you, along with her 4 Pillars of Charisma. If you are wanting to hone in on your flirt skills to become more magnetic and charismatic, spots are still open for Kimmy's *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/ It runs until Oct 2 and it's FREE! Uplevel your charisma, and put those new tools to work in your life today! And as always, you can hop on a FREE call with Kimmy to help you personally map out a flirt plan here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough EPISODE 161 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering Charismatic Communication: Interview With Holley Mignosi. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan Sep 23, 2020

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Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminate bad first dates for good! Listen in to a lively, fun interview with fellow dating coach for men Matt Artisan, where they tackle your biggest first date fears from both a woman's and man's perspective. EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan If you're feeling stressed out, burnt out and sick of virtual dating, the last thing you want is another boring video date! This show will give you the roadmap for how to have an incredible first date, whether you're meeting online or in-person. This episode will empower you to take control of the conversation and uplevel your flirting skills so you can create intrigue and attraction, all while being honestly and authentically YOU! Matt and Kimmy discuss the pressure both men and women put on one another to drive the conversation without taking the reins themselves. If you're nervous, chances are your date is too and that can cause you to forget to open up, be curious and really try to get to know your date on a deeper level. These two experts share hacks both men and women can do to increase their approachability and likability factor. Matt shares some great tips about how to introduce physical touch safely, amazing ideas for first dates that allow you to get to know one another more deeply, and easy tricks to help you think of what to say if you blank out. Kimmy dives in on how to improve your flirt game and body language so that you send the right signals to let your date know you're interested. When you allow yourself to have fun through the dating process and practice opening up and showing your true self, you're building your confidence muscle so you can feel comfortable in your body and show what you have to offer in a relationship. If you're feeling like you're having trouble connecting on first dates and struggling to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster Session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and speak to how you can skip the shallow small talk and have better connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy's *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It runs Sept 28 - Oct 2 and it's FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. First dates should be fun! Put an end to boring first dates by letting your personality, energy and vibrance shine through every time! EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date: Interview With Matt Artisan. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy Sep 16, 2020

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Are you feeling like ALL of your first dates are boring? Does it feel like pulling teeth just to get the conversation going? This week on the show, Kimmy tackles how to take control of your first-date conversations all while creating chemistry. In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy's live coaching call with Kay, who's been having a series of boring first dates with no attraction factor. EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy Kay jumps in and describes her desire to find a man who shares her love of bluegrass music, art, and karaoke, but admits she's having trouble finding common ground with the men she's meeting. Kimmy and Kay discuss Kay's tendency to wait for guys to show her what they have to offer before she's willing to open up and share what she feels. Kimmy talks about how the essence of flirting is crucial when it comes to creating chemistry in conversation. When you let go of the pressure of pleasing your date and start to focus on making sure YOU have a good time, you'll start to loosen up! If you've found yourself avoiding sharing your feelings on dates, Kimmy lays out some helpful tips on how to shift your conversation from describing facts to recalling warm memories so your date can feel you on a deeper level. And, if you haven't considered what your body language is signaling to your dates, listen up! Kimmy talks through how you may be physically telling men you're not interested, even if you haven't expressed that out loud. Kimmy gives some hands-on, practical advice on how to overcome boring connections and gives Kay ideas of how she can put it into practice. If you are having trouble connecting on first dates and finding hard to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and shed some light around you can skip shallow small talk and have deeper connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy's new 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It starts Sept 28-Oct 2 and it's FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Flirting, dating, and connecting should be fun! Don't let any more boring first-dates bring down your light and energy! EPISODE 159 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/ Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Working On Yourself While Dating Sep 09, 2020

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Have you ever thought that you should press pause when it comes to working on your dating life in order to work on yourself? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy addresses this burning question. Since COVID hit, many of us have been spending more time at home. Finding love might seem like the last thing that deserves your focus. Shouldn't you be working on yourself right now instead of focusing on dating? Kimmy's answer to this might surprise you -- working on yourself IS working on your dating life. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating Personal development doesn't come with a deadline. This episode will give you a chance to check-in with your goals to determine why you're really pressing pause on dating. Are you actually becoming the best version of yourself, or are you isolating in order to avoid feeling hurt or rejected? Kimmy will challenge you to redefine how you can focus on your dating life while working on yourself with intention and purpose. If you've been feeling overwhelmed or stressed lately, it's easy to dial-in on what's not working and shut down rather than using your time to focus on an action plan to create movement. Listen in to hear tangible tips from Kimmy about how you can work on yourself while remaining in a dating mindset. This episode will help you look inward, lift you out of a pandemic-induced fog and release the pressure you may feel around "fixing yourself" in order to be ready for a relationship. If you're ready for a reset and want to graduate from personal development standstill into action taking mode, you're in the right place. If you want to learn how to work on yourself while dating book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Don't let analysis paralysis stop you from taking concrete action steps to finding the love you deserve. EPISODE 158 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Working On Yourself While Dating. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely Sep 02, 2020

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Do you really know what you want...especially when it comes to your dating life and relationships? Getting clarity on what you want is one of the most important things to figure out so that you can attract and design the love you deserve. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy brings on a special guest, attorney turned Purpose and Productivity Coach and host of the Imperfect Thriving Podcast, Kathryn Ely, for a conversation about ways to discover exactly what you want and how to go get it. EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely Kathryn jumps in and describes why she ended her career as an attorney to go back to school at 46 years old and become a licensed counselor. If you've ever thought that you've waited too long to start pursuing what you really want, this episode will show you how to pick back up one step at a time. These two discuss the fact that identifying what you want can be difficult, especially if you've never experienced it before. Kathryn talks through her framework for pinpointing what you want in every area of your life, so you can see the big picture. If you've begun to notice some limiting patterns or beliefs in your actions, you'll learn some steps to take to change your behavior so that you can see different results. Listen in to hear about how perfectionism can hold you back from being the best version of yourself and why allowing yourself to try new things with grace is a healthy practice! If you want to get back on track and get clarity on what you are looking for in your love life, book a free discovery call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. When you zero in what you want, you can uncover the life you've always wanted and gain the focus you need to take action! EPISODE 157 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: What Do You Really Want?: Interview With Kathryn Ely. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette Aug 26, 2020

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Welcome back to another success story episode of Where Are They Now? This segment features Kimmy's direct, honest conversations with former clients about where they are on their love journey and what's changed since they started working with her. If you're looking for the secret to their success, these episodes provide a roadmap for you to follow. EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette In this episode, you'll meet Lissette who dives right in to describe her life before she started working with Kimmy. Coming from a family and cultural background that places a high value on relationships, Lissette felt insecure about the fact that she was single. Plus, she was having trouble reconciling her worth, using sex to feel and find love and was giving away too much too soon. With Kimmy's coaching and the advantages of the pandemic to force her to slow down, Lissette was able to meet a great guy and begin a relationship like never before! Kimmy and Lissette talk through her lack of experience in monogamous relationships and previous reliance on using sex as a way to feel connected instead of focusing on emotions. If you've ever been confused about how to create emotional intimacy or have limiting beliefs of what value you bring to a relationship, this episode is for you. This conversation shines a light on the ways in which you might be preventing yourself from attracting the kind of partner you really want. Listen in to hear actionable steps that Lissette and Kimmy worked on together that allowed Lissette to start leading with her emotions and start a healthy relationship. You'll hear about how Lissette built her dating muscles through consistent reflection and finally started feeling fulfilled by putting energy and effort into a relationship she cares about. If you're used to leading with your sexuality as a default or find that you have trouble establishing meaningful relationships based on emotional connection, set up a call with Kimmy to talk here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough If Lissette's experience resonated with you, reach out. The work takes time, but if you put in the effort, it can happen for you too! EPISODE 156 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Using Sex For Love: Where Are They Now with Lissette. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman Aug 19, 2020

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Have you ever experienced true emotional intimacy in your previous relationships? This week on Charisma Quotient, Kimmy invites world-renowned author, counselor, lecturer and philosopher Rabbi Manis Friedman on the show for an eye-opening and thought provoking conversation about emotional intimacy. Whether you're currently in a relationship or looking to date someone to get a deeper connection with, this conversation delivers a nuanced look at how many elements of modern dating and love prevent us from experiencing true intimacy. If you have noticed a pattern of emotionally unavailable partners in your life, you'll want to listen to this episode! EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman jump right in to discuss how perceptions of love and relationship dynamics have become warped over the years. These two dial in on the constant presence of instant gratification in our lives and the focus on often materialistic things. In a world that is so tied to technology, swiping left and right, and moving on to the next option the moment things get difficult, this conversation reveals that when we focus on the material, so much value is lost. You'll hear Rabbi Friedman ask some big questions that will prompt you to carefully consider what you want and what you want from others you love. Stay tuned for some actionable tips around how you can begin to shift your actions to discover the level of intimacy you're seeking. Kimmy and Rabbi Friedman explore the tendency many of us have to become complacent or demonstrate a lack of respect to those we've become familiar with. And, you'll hear a surprising piece of advice about how to create spaces in your home that foster sexual intimacy. This episode will remind you to accept and love people for who they are completely, and not to simply tolerate aspects of others that we disagree with. If this episode resonated with you or if you've never experienced emotional intimacy or keep attracting emotionally unavailable people in your life, set up a call with Kimmy to find out if she can help: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough In just one, 30-minute call, you could uncover the key to your kingdom -- what is holding you back from finding the intimacy, love, and trust you deserve. To check out Rabbi Friedman's book, The Joy of Intimacy, click here: https://www.amazon.com/Joy-Intimacy-Soulful-Sexuality-Marriage/dp/0986277002 EPISODE 155 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Emotional Intimacy In Relationships: Interview With Rabbi Manis Friedman. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy Aug 12, 2020

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Have you come from being a target of emotional, verbal or narcissistic abuse in a relationship? Were you blamed, belittled and isolated to the point that it clouds your ability to be open to meeting and trusting new people? This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy takes a measured look at how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist. If you find yourself repeating a pattern of dating narcissists or getting involved in one-sided, toxic relationships, this episode was meant for you. EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy Today, you'll meet Jayne, a woman who runs a successful business coaching business leaders and is used to focusing on what other people want over her needs. She has very little dating experience, has tremendous fear around men really "seeing" her and is having trouble getting past the PTSD effects of her marriage with a narcissist who was very abusive. Kimmy opens this live coaching session with hearing about Jayne's journey of discovering the nature of her husband's behavior how the dynamics of their relationship broke down their marriage of 17 years. Kimmy encourages Jayne to have a raw, honest conversation about the pervasive ways that being with a narcissist can chip away at your self-confidence, self-worth, ability to trust, and your perception of what's real and what's not. This episode pulls back the curtain on what so many people struggle with who have been through these kinds of relationships. Kimmy and Jayne look back to Jayne's childhood and dig into her experience growing up, drawing parallels between how her parents treated her and how she currently reacts in relationships. If you have derived your self worth from what you give to other people, instead of an inner confidence, this episode will pose some questions that can help you break that cycle. Even though it can feel sad, daunting or scary, there are some concrete steps you can take to start rebuilding your confidence from the ground up. Kimmy gives laser coaching advice in how you can reclaim your sense of control if you need to have contact with the narcissist in your life and how you can start to take small, incremental steps to break patterns and build healthier relationships. Kimmy lists actionable tips in how to approach dating and learning to trust again. If you feel stuck in recovering from a narcissistic relationship and patterns and want help moving on, sign up for a free coaching call with Kimmy where she will help you pinpoint areas you are getting stuck in and ways you can break free from them. https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. And if you want to know if you are the dating archetype of the narcissist magnet, take my quiz right here and see. https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY EPISODE 154 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Again After Narcissistic Abuse: Coaching With Kimmy. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic Aug 05, 2020

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Let's face it, there's A LOT to pay attention to in your dating life nowadays. You're swiping through matches, trying to figure out if you'll have chemistry with your date virtually, all while dealing with living through a pandemic! At this point, you may have convinced yourself it's not even worth it to date right now. This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives right into the Top 10 BIGGEST Dating Mistakes you could make during this unprecedented time and ways to avoid them. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic Think of this episode as Kimmy playing devil's advocate to all the obstacles you've faced and excuses you've made about putting dating on hold recently. Right off the bat, Kimmy challenges you to be honest with yourself and determine if you're avoiding breaking bad dating habits out of fear vs. devoting time and effort to improve your love life. If you are committed to finding love, you have to be willing to do the work by sifting through these common dating mistakes and take action against ways to overcome them. Hint: Just because you're meeting via video chat, doesn't mean you should treat your dates like a business meeting! Kimmy talks through how to shift your mindset and make an event of your date. This is the perfect reason to wear an outfit that's been sitting in your closet for months, or talk about your feelings and experiences that go beyond the bounds of this pandemic. You'll hear some easy to implement tips about how to indulge in a lighter and more playful conversation and how to break the monotony of quarantine. Listen in to hear a tip that will probably surprise you about how you might be turning off your dates inadvertently! If you want to know more about specific dating mistakes YOU might be making, take her personalized dating archetype quiz to find out what your archetype might be and how mistakes might manifest on your dates right here https://bit.ly/2JZsSYY. Answer a few questions and you'll get a detailed description of your strengths and challenges when it comes to finding love. Plus, if you want to take it one step further, sign up for Kimmy's new exclusive podcast series, This May Be Why You Suck at Dating! https://glow.fm/thismaybewhyyousuckatdatingwithkimmyseltzer. This series (only $47) is designed specifically to answer your questions about mistakes you're making that are preventing you from meeting the person you've always dreamed of. It's dead simple to sign up (it takes about 30 seconds) and choose the podcast player you want to use. You can listen anywhere, in any app. EPISODE 153 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Top 10 Dating Mistakes To Avoid During A Pandemic. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ This Podcast is available on:⁣ Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣ Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g And many other podcast sites. ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook: https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/

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