breakup BOOST: Direct Advice for Messy Situations

Latest Episodes:

#351: Dissecting a Threads Post: "Emotionally unavailable guys. When is this going to end???" Oct 15, 2024

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I came across a post on threads (which is basically the new x for Instagram) and wanted to address it on here, as I know so many people are in this same type of position… and need a bit of a wake-up call. Lots of important lessons in this.

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#350: The Temptation to Break "No Contact" to Call Them Out & Tell Them Off (sticking to the no contact rule after a breakup) Oct 06, 2024

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Temptation is a son-of-a-gun... isn't it??!! Add that onto dealing with a "no contact" situation... and, well... you've got a challenge on your hands. After listening to this episode, I think you'll be more motivated to ramp up that self-control. (I mean, at least that's what I'm going for... ;)

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(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

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#349: 3 LAME A$$ Excuses You Need to Stop Making for Their Bad Behavior (toxic relationship advice) Sep 27, 2024

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In this episode, I'm talking all about EXCUSES... including breaking down three common excuses people make for their partner's bad behavior (or whoever they are dating or interested in). These excuses are holding you back from the respect and love you deserve. It's time to get real, call out the nonsense, and take your power back. Enough already!

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

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#348: Stop Using "Unconditional Love" as an Excuse to Be a Doormat Sep 17, 2024

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If you've ever found yourself enduring bad behavior in the name of love, this episode is for you! I break down why "unconditional love" shouldn't be a free pass for someone to walk all over you... and remind you of the non-negotiables in a relationship.

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

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#347: BREAKUP PEP TALK: Douchebag Detox: From Heartbreak to HEAD HELD HIGH! Sep 10, 2024

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Breakup pep talk time! If you're out there crying over a jerk who mistreated you, cheated on you, lied to you... or sold you a story they never delivered on... (maybe all of the above)... this pep talk's for YOU!

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

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#346: Are they an "AVOIDANT" or are they just NOT INTO YOU or THE RIGHT FIT for you??? (my spin on "avoidant attachment") Aug 20, 2024

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I can't go a day without seeing or hearing the word "avoidant"... and I'm here to do my part in sharing some much needed FRESH perspective. Hopefully it will resonate with you and make you think twice before joining the herd in overusing the term ;)

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

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#345: The REAL Problem When You Are Irritated By Someone Who Won't Change Aug 10, 2024

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There is so much irony in wanting someone else to change. If you find yourself in a situation where you are super frustrated by the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or even married to... this one's for YOU!

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

(4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST

(5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

#344: "I Would Have Done ANYTHING for You!!!" (much needed perspective for a frustrated broken heart) Jul 28, 2024

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SUPER RELATABLE topic today! Lots of gold nuggets to be discovered and tucked away in your back pocket. Let me stop you from diminishing your value and having to look back on this with regret.

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

(4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST

(5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

#343: Having the Attitude of "Easier Said Than Done" When Getting Over a Breakup (or other adversity) Jul 17, 2024

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When you're going through a breakup, it can be easy to sink into a negative thought pattern. It can seem like everything is working against you. It can be easy to think that whatever you want in life will never become reality and that good things only happen to OTHER people. It can make you envious to see happy couples, wishing you had that too.

I get that.

BUT.......

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

(4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST

(5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

#342: 21 HARSH TRUTHS for Women in Dating ... Don't Shoot the Messenger ;) (tough love dating advice for women) Jul 05, 2024

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It's time to drop some truth bombs to prevent you from doing things you shouldn't be doing ... because doing certain things and making certain choices in dating will not lead you to The Promised Land. And THAT is one thing I can promise.

Listen to this episode NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz

Get More Help:

(1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com

(2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost)

(3) GET A PERSONALIZED VIDEO from Trina for you or a friend on CAMEO: cameo.com/breakupboost

(4) CHAT ONLINE with Trina from your phone or computer: premium.chat/breakupBOOST

(5) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST"

(6) Follow Trina on INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK @breakupBOOST