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Why Black History is American History Tho Feb 27, 2020

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This is a special episode of Why Tho as Ashley recently visited the Equal Justice Initiative's Legacy Museum and Lynching Memorial in Montgomery, Alabama. We're sharing some of the history of racism in America that she learned on her trip. You'll hear thoughtful questions, powerful, devastating images, and receive recommendations for how to keep learning about the lasting effects of racism in America. We hope you'll see how you can affect change in your sphere of influence, and remember, that we're all interconnected in the beloved community of Christ. We each bear his image. As mentioned in the show today: EJI's Lynching Report: https://eji.org/reports/lynching-in-america/ Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson: https://amzn.to/3c43Gex The Color of Compromise by Jemar Tisby: https://amzn.to/3a5lofA The Very Good Gospel by Lisa Sharon Harper: https://amzn.to/3a1VA44 Journey to the Common Good by Walter Brueggemann: https://amzn.to/3c4ibPk Thanks for listening to the show! Every week we create killer (FREE) content for you and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you so go visit their websites for downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Things We Love Right Now Feb 20, 2020

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We still don't understand why Glossier is not a key sponsor for this podcast. Probably because we keep giving away ads FOR FREE. But seriously, on the list of things we're loving right now: balmdotcom and their lash slick mascara is at the top of our list. From podcasts to road trips to all the things in your house you can still return to Nordstrom and receive store credit. We hope this episode helps you discover new things and in general, will be a good time had by all. Thanks for listening to the show! Every week we create killer (FREE) content for you and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you so go visit their websites for downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why Galentines are Better Than Valentine's Day Tho Feb 13, 2020

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Target does not get to decide when my partner spoils me with chocolate and roses. YOU BETTER BELIEVE we will shake our heads if any man spent over $100, or in Tiffany's case, over $10. Yes, of course we like chocolate and roses, but for petes sake, romance isn't about the fluff. It's about the heart. It's about reciprocity and communication. This episode covers romance for those who find themselves in today's dating scene and for those who are married. A little something for errr'body! Enjoy. We mentioned a few resources in this episode: The first is "Boundaries in Dating" by Townsend and Cloud. To grab this book for yourself, visit :https://amzn.to/2vR6VFj The second is "Sacred Marriage" by Gary Thomas. To grab this book for yourself, visit https://amzn.to/382NQyg. Thanks for listening to the show! Every week we create killer (FREE) content for you and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you so go visit their websites for downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why Everyone Has Something to Teach Us Tho Feb 06, 2020

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There is no skirting around the fact that those who are teachable and those who see themselves as life-long learners know the key to adulting. The honest truth is that everyone has something to teach us, alright. We can learn from the waiter at PF Changs, a book written 100 years ago, or from two women on a podcast who had no idea they needed to change their oil every 3,000 miles. In this episode, we talk about why choosing to learn what you don't know is necessary to ADULT. It just is. Thanks for listening to the show! Every week we create killer (FREE) content for you and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you so go visit their websites for downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why You Have Not Arrived Tho Jan 30, 2020

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Grit or Gift? You have the capacity for both in this life and we are here to talk all about it as we know grit and our gifts are necessary as we ADULT. Even tho it's January 57th, we are here for you as you bravely live your beautiful life. Thanks for listening! Every week, we create killer (FREE) content for you, and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast, and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show, and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you, so go visit their websites for free downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why Relating to the Generations is Adulting Tho Jan 23, 2020

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Relating to others (all the others) is a mad important Adulting skill. We are talking top priority, in 2020, and we want to help you do it, STAT. Instead of splintering into factions, we believe the generations are better together. Whatever your age, it's important to respect those who have gone before you and those who are coming behind you, and to offer mutual respect to build a bridge of connectedness. We can forgo what we think we deserve (entitlement) from others and let humility drive us toward one another instead. This is a show to share, dear listener, because we know that you know that we know that relating to all ages and stages is HARD OUT HERE FOR THE HUMANS. So, let's do better together. Thanks for listening! Every week, we create killer (FREE) content for you, and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast, and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show, and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you, so go visit their websites for free downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why God Does Not Have Enemies Tho Jan 16, 2020

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Polarization, villainization, and manipulation. Three big things we are helping you avoid in 2020. With the internet pastoring us due to the hours of our life we give to it, people are becoming increasingly settled in their camps and echo chambers. That leads us to polarizing narratives about others that are at minimum, not helpful, and often harmful. It becomes easy to make villains out of people we don't agree with, or even those who have hurt us, but in the words of Father Greg Boyle, "God doesn't have enemies. God only has children." We have to journey from the opposite ends toward the middle to a common place where we honor the image of God in the people we meet. (And yes, stay safe! Some people cannot be in our lives! They are too toxic!) Manipulation has a place in this too, and while adults may not go full on "mean girl," people who push past boundaries constantly drain us and have a "me first" agenda in everything they do. Their ways need to be recognized and dealt with so we can prioritize life giving relationships. We've got tips and strategies to help you do just that! Dear listener, every week, we create killer (FREE) content for you, and we'd love your support. Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast, and rate it a 5! You'll help others find the show, and you'd bless our little hearts too. Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you, so go visit their websites for free downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why EQ in the Digital Age is Adulting Tho Jan 09, 2020

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Technology is here to stay and it's time for us to thoughtfully consider what we allow to shape our mind, recognize how it affects our interactions with others and establish what kind of boundaries we want to place on our usage to help us relate to one another in meaningful ways. Are our devices taking over our lives? Is there something in between us all the time? Are we being dum dums on the internet? From comments to private messages, people are freer with harsh words, acting as experts in judgment and accusation. We're just wondering where that leaves our real relationships? We want to help you be a person of peace online, in real life, and a person who respects others values and convictions while lovingly standing in our own. We mentioned a few funnies on this episode including Ashley's new hat, from Keke Palmer's website, and this is the video meme you need in your life: https://twitter.com/mattryanx/status/1172208456708886528?s=20 Want to support Why Tho? Take a moment to subscribe to our podcast, and rate it a 5! Leave a review and we'll blast you on social, cause we're super fans of you too! Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you, so go visit their websites for free downloads, Bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why Adulting is a Must Tho Jan 02, 2020

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New Year, New You... Except we're hoping to not start 2020 off feeling overwhelmed, anxious and behind. So to help you live your best life, we're offering all the best tips and tricks we have to help you take responsibility for your life and no one else's, cause you can only do your part. In this episode, we're tackling how not to overextend yourself before you start, how to say "no" consistently so you can say "yes" peacefully, and how to foster connection and trust, instead of fear and failure. Our desire is for you to live honestly and joyfully. With lots of grit and gumption. We believe in you, and can't wait to hear how this year begins for you! We also mention Episode 4: Why You Can't Do It All, so Stop Trying Tho, and highly recommend you check that episode out too! Happy New Year listeners! Tiffany and Ashley have some free gifts for you, so go visit their websites for free downloads, bible studies, book trailers, and more. www.ashabercrombie.org www.tiffanybluhm.com

Why Resolutions Are Cancelled Tho Dec 26, 2019

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Hear, hear! Furthermore and forevermore, resolutions are CANCELLED THO. Here’s why... you’re worth more than impossible standards, goals without actionable items, and feeling like a failure by the end of January. So, we’re offering ways to think about the changes you want to see, and the person you want to become. Vulnerable and honest, you’ll see how we want to grow in the new year, and how we avoid the quick-fix traps. Do your big, beautiful life, but don’t let other people, social media, or anything else, tell you setting 25 resolutions will lead to happiness. Cause the opposite is certainly true. We love you Why Tho listeners! To learn more about Tiffany, her books, speaking, freebies, and more, visit www.tiffanybluhm.com. To learn more about Ashley, her book, speaking, freebies, and more, visit www.ashabercrombie.org

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