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Why You Need To Stop Making Excuses For People Tho Oct 25, 2018

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People lie, cheat, gossip, act wild, don't do what they said they would do, ghost us like they have lost their minds, and we still keep them in our lives! WHY THO? Maybe it's because we fear the consequences or repercussions of changing the boundaries in the relationship. We fear the loss of connection, or the rumor mill, or that a potential opportunity will be taken if we hold people accountable for their actions. We fear rejection and loneliness, and we are so afraid that the people we love the most won't ever change. We fear we'll be trapped in a crazy cycle of hurt and pain. In this episode, we learn why we need to stop making excuses for people tho so that our relationships are loving and meaningful, instead of scary and manipulative. No relationship is perfect, but we don't have to stay in transactional, dysfunctional relationships. We can work through our character flaws with the right people who are also working through their flaws. Time to get off the crazy cycle, and say BYE THO to people who have no intention of actually loving us. #byetho #whytho Who needs this episode? Share it with them! To visit Tiffany's site and learn more about her writing, speaking, or books go to http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ To visit Ashley's site and learn more about her writing, speaking, or books go to https://ashabercrombie.org/

Why Quitting Could Be the Best Decision Ever Tho Oct 18, 2018

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Why are we so scared to quit what needs to be quit? Sometimes we forget that it's not just about what we are walking away from, but what we are walking into. There's an expansive world of choice and love out there, and the microcosm of our moment (especially if the job, relationship, mentor, employer, pastor, etc. is unhealthy or unsustainable) can make us feel like, if we quit the world will end. Will quitting mess with our calling? Will we miss God? Will we have any other opportunities? Do we have what it takes to navigate the unknown? Here's why quitting could be the best decision you ever made tho: You can build a life you love, one step at a time. This episode will help you make an exit plan, dream bigger, and recognize unsafe people and places, so you can say, bye tho, with honor and grace. Thank you for joining us. Have you subscribed to our podcast yet? You know you want to. We'd love to hear from you! Rate, like, review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to be reminded to focus on faith and not fear, to build their big, beautiful future. Check out Tiffany's work at www.tiffanybluhm.com. Check out Ashley's work at www.ashabercrombie.org.

Why You Cannot Do It All So Stop Trying Tho Oct 11, 2018

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Comparison is killing us, and with the lifestyle bloggers, Pinterest perfecters, and everything from the magazines in the grocery aisle to the expectations of everyone else, we are struggling to have it all, do it all and be it all. On this week's episode, Tiffany and Ashley ask Why Tho? Who set up this impossible standard, and why are we trying to live up to it? Doing a few things well, instead of doing all the things kinda well (or not well at all, tbh), can change your life! Emotionally, mentally and physically, we only have so much to give each day, and we can decide what and who we value, and stop trying to do it all, so we can live a life we love. Have you subscribed to our podcast? Good work - we love spending a few moments with you! Subscribe, rate, review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to remember that it's okay to not do it all! To learn more about Tiffany, visit www.tiffanybluhm.com. To learn more about Ashley, visit www.ashabercrombie.org.

Why Ashley Abercrombie Tho Oct 02, 2018

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Ashley, who had a pHd in pretending, learned to take her mask off and get honest with a little old-fashioned truth-telling. Overcoming drugs, alcohol, an eating disorder, and dysfunctional relationships, Ashley opens up about the journey of recovery, dealing with fear, and learning to live in meaningful, reciprocal relationships. She started in Eden, North, Carolina, then moved to Los Angeles, and now lives in Manhattan, where she pastors a church on Wall Street with her husband, Cody, and is a full-time writer and speaker. For close to a decade, Ashley has been advocating for change, speaking out against injustice and serving people across diverse spaces and places. She's hilarious and honest, and nearly brain-dead from sleep deprivation while raising two young sons in Harlem, New York. Why wouldn't you want to listen to that story tho? Read more at Ashley's blog, www.ashabercrombie.org. Her first book will be released in the Fall of 2019, so sign-up for all the details! Instagram: @ashabercrombie Twitter: @ashabercrombie Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ashabercrombienyc/

Why Tiffany Bluhm Tho Oct 02, 2018

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Tiffany, who was left in an orphanage at two-days-old in India, has overcome impossible odds to become an adoptive mother and birth mother, and wife to her husband Derek. She's a full-time writer, international speaker, and the Gatherer-in-Chief of SIP, a table gathering that serves hundreds of women each season in the Seattle area. She drops wisdom bombs like: "Fixing the exterior doesn't fix the interior," and "What's breaking you, is also what's making you." She talks about shame, fear, anxiety, discrimination, abandonment, dreams and more. Why wouldn't you want to share this podcast tho? Read more at www.tiffanybluhm.com and do yourself a solid and order her book Never Alone, wherever books are sold. You can also invite Tiffany to speak at your next event, or conference. Check her out on Instagram and Twitter: @tiffanybluhm Facebook: www.facebook.com/TiffanyABluhm

Why Tho Intro Show Oct 02, 2018

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Why wouldn't you subscribe and leave a comment below tho? Tell us your "why tho" woes, and share with us your questions about life, love, faith, body image, beauty, and justice. While you're at it, share this podcast with a friend - it won't be the same without her. Want to get to know us better? Listen to Episode #3 and Episode #4, to hear Tiffany and Ashley's stories of overcoming fear, anxiety and shame, and laugh hysterically as two friends compare living in the Burbs with living in the Concrete Jungle. You can connect with the ladies of Why Tho, read and watch content, buy books, or invite them to speak over on their blogs: www.tiffanybluhm.com and www.ashabercrombie.org Follow them: Instagram: @tiffanybluhm @ashabercrombie Twitter: @tiffanybluhm @AshAbercrombie

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