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Why You Feel Stuck Tho Jan 03, 2019

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Perfection. No mistakes. No failing. Hiding behind an image. But when you feel stuck tho, these are ridiculous ideals. To move forward, to gain momentum, we will get messy. We will make mistakes. Failure is certain (sorry dear listener, but it's true). And we'll have to value our integrity over our image. Dealing with the real, over the ideal, can help us decide our next best step, so we can get ourselves unstuck. As you start the new year, how do you want to move forward? What areas of life do you want to see change? We hope this week's podcast will inspire you to dream big, fail forward, and value the contribution you were created to make. To pre-order Tiffany's latest book, visit http://www.shedreamsbook.com To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why You Need To Be Instead of Do Tho Dec 27, 2018

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New year, who dis? Ummm, the same person we were yesterday because no one can change overnight. As we close the door on 2018, and begin a new year, it's important to ask, who do you want to be? We are not human doings, we are human beings, and if we focus more on who we are becoming, then our goals will be a natural outcome of who we are, rather than our best attempts to do, do, do. Listen to Ashley share her failure at the Five F's (Family, Fitness, Faith, Frienship, Finance) year after year until she finally threw New Year's resolutions out the window. You'll love hearing why. Tiffany shares how she orders her priorities, and chooses to do only what she can, so that she lives from her highest convictions and values. Share this episode with a friend and talk together about who you want to become as you step into 2019. You're remarkable, and we have loved spending the last three moths of 2018 with you! To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Women Are Strong as Heck Tho Dec 20, 2018

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Women are strong as heck because the lives they lead require courage, conviction, and resolve. Where women are not empowered, communities and nations suffer poverty, lack of economic growth, and a diminished view of God. From single parents to activists and authors, stay-at-home moms and executives, children, teens and young adults, women are spectacular, uniquely created to make a difference in the world. On this episode, Ashley and Tiffany talk about the power of a free woman, what happens when she tells the truth, and how she can partner with others to affect change. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why You Decide Your Traditions Tho Dec 13, 2018

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Trees, lights, presents, parties, and don't forget depression, loneliness, and the loss of what could have been... Ugh, holidays, why tho? With the magic of Christmas, and the busyness of the holiday season, it's easy to mask the deeper emotions beneath the surface. On this episode, Tiffany and Ashley share why you need to decide your traditions. When you suffer loss, divorce, and pain from childhood, how do you imagine the future? If you make a significant life shift, what happens to the long standing traditions of your past? One day at a time, managing expectations, choosing courage, resisting busy and overwhelm, you can pull the essence of the traditions you love, while creating a safe, enjoyable space for you and your people. No matter what you're facing, it is possible to find joy and hope here at the holidays. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Less is More Tho Dec 06, 2018

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December is upon us, and so are the enticing end caps at Target. Now is the perfect time for us to remember that less is more. With one more month before a new year, we hereby grant you permission to edit yourself. Rather than going a mile wide and an inch deep with more, choose to do less in your relationships, finances, holiday craze, faith, and information consumption. Presence over presents. Peace over pressure. Simplicity over stress. In this episode, learn why less is more tho, and gain some practical tools to resist the culture of more that permeates our lives. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Frozen Pizzas Tho Nov 29, 2018

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Community and connection - isn't that what we all want? It's what Facebook wants to create with millions of profiles (jury's out on that one), because they have identified our shared need. On this episode, Tiffany and Ashley discuss the importance of gathering together at the table to experience community and connection, and to be reminded that we're not alone in celebration or struggle. Listen, whether it's frozen pizza, fancy place settings, delivery service, or fine fare from your favorite restaurant, the point is that you spend time together. In a polarized, digital world, gather at the table where the ground is level, and we can share our laughs, fears, stories and concerns. As promised, Tiffany's favorite table book: Shauna Niequist's Bread and Wine: https://www.amazon.com/Bread-Wine-Letter-Around-Recipes/dp/0310328179 Ashley's favorite cookbook, with those GLORY RIBS, Mad Hungry by Lucinda Scala Quinn: https://www.amazon.com/Mad-Hungry-Feeding-Men-Boys/dp/1579655122 To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Turkey is a Problem Tho Nov 22, 2018

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Guys, seriously, can we talk about turkey on Thanksgiving tho? Who wants a dry piece of poultry as the main event tho? Everyone knows that SIDES are the hero of the Thanksgiving story. Why doesn't anyone serve filet mignon with twice baked potatoes and a cheese platter? Especially if you're Tiffany, who had a vegetarian help her stuff her turkey one year, wearing dishwashing gloves with leftover soap on them. This episode is filled with laughs to accompany your Thanksgiving holiday prep. Don't worry, if you're listening from somewhere else in the world, you'll cry tears of laughter too. Also, sorry to the entire United Kingdom from Ashley. We think she might have failed geography tho. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/ "

Why You Do Not Need To Respond Tho Nov 15, 2018

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Repeat after us: "No is a complete sentence." You are allowed to say no. No to more notifications than one human being can handle tho. No to the haters tho. No to the peer pressure tho. No, just no. But also, kindness is king. A healthy adult operates by employing responsible communication to clarify boundaries and set healthy expectations for themselves and others. You've got what it takes to stop responding to every single thing on the Earth. You can learn to live at peace with doing what only you can do to live your best life. You don't have to respond to everything and everyone, because sanity will leave your soul, and our hope for you is a clear conscious, and a healthy soul. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/"

Why You Need to Turn Off Your Phone Tho Nov 08, 2018

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What do we do with the little time we have to ourselves? What do we do when we are at a party, or with our family, or at dinner with friends? Is our phone our primary safety net? Do we reach for it every time we are bored, uncomfortable, or alone? Do we take time to dream, to sit, or just be? Well, Ashley admits to being a full-on iPhone addict, and Tiffany has done too much research to be addicted, but both of these women know the struggle is real. In this episode, we talk about why you need to turn off your phone tho, so you can reduce stress, anxiety, isolation, and learn what is refreshing and life-giving to your soul long, instead of just moment-to-moment gratification. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why the Grey is Okay Tho Nov 01, 2018

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We build our lives around our desire to be sure. This is this. That is that. 2 + 2 = 4. If I do this, it will produce that. If I give this, or say this, or do this, I expect that you will give that, say that, or do that back. But real life isn't actually like that. As much as we try to build a black and white world where we are safe, secure, and in control, we are often reminded that what we have built for ourselves is a false sense of safety, security and control, and we have to reckon with life in the grey. We don't budget the emotional labor required to handle the hard stuff of life, or the unpredictable variables we can't control. But grey is okay tho, and on this episode, Ashley and Tiffany speak to living a life in process, and growing in wonder, relationship and joy. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

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