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Why Dating is Crazy as Heck Tho Mar 14, 2019

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In the swipe right culture, dating ain't no joke, and figuring out how to have desires, without compromising convictions is a real struggle. Here's a few things we want you to know: Singleness is not a disease, for goodness sake. We totally believe in online dating. We want married people to stop saying unhelpful, #WHYTHO comments, and we hope you know that you are phenomenal and seriously worthy of love and companionship. You deserve a seat at the table in leadership, and you bring a unique experience and perspective that we need. Listen, dating is crazy as heck tho, and we're here to talk about it, and encourage you through it. As promised, here are resources for you from a fellow friend and podcaster, Kat Harris of the Refined Woman, who talks about how to get a date, how to flirt, how to stop denying your sexuality, and so much more. We co-sign on her resources: https://therefinedwoman.lpages.co/5-tips-to-activate-your-dating/ https://www.therefinedwoman.com/how-to-embrace-your-sexuality-even-when-youre-not-having-sex/ https://www.therefinedwoman.com/5-ways-to-put-yourself-out-there-and-still-be-pursued/ https://www.therefinedwoman.com/part-i-sexless-in-the-city-dating-relationships-and-sex/ To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why The Underdog Wins The Fight Tho Mar 07, 2019

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Tiffany seems to think the Mighty Ducks is a serious underdog story, but Ashley is more of a Goonies girl. Either way, the research proves it, we love to root for the underdog. We see ourselves in the one with all the obstacles, and as two fellow comeback queens, we know what it takes to have the odds stacked against you, and still learn to thrive in life. The underdog is scrappy, creative, with humility and hustle, passion and commitment, and today's episode will remind you, that you might lose a few fights, but overall, you're positioned to win. Share this episode with a friend - you'll laugh and find the courage to keep going, again. Also, as promised, @kevonstage witnessing to a robot who brought him toothpaste at a hotel. You're welcome: https://www.facebook.com/KevOnStage/videos/353745591901848/ To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why The Going Gets Tough Tho Feb 28, 2019

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When the going gets tough, the tough get going. We've all heard this phrase, but what does it mean to handle the tough parts of life that leave us feeling defeated, broken, and worn out? What does it mean to hold the tension, face what's hard, and persevere? Well, listener, let us tell you how we've managed to work through crises of life and faith, and come out still loving Jesus, because you know for darn sure this life is a crazy train. We've found that you can keep calm and carry on, even when everything hits the fan, even when you feel like life is easy for everyone BUT you. You can carry on, good soldier. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Things Get Worse Before They Get Better Tho Feb 21, 2019

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You ever working to get better and everything starts getting worse? What about when you're begging the heavens to make your spouse/friend/sibling/co-worker/boss better, but they start acting like hell incarnated, instead? Yeah, sometimes it gets worse before it gets better tho. Haven't we learned anything from Marie Kondo, and her magical art of tidying up? The clothes on the bed as part of the process inspires a level of panic like none other, but when it's all sorted, peace rains down like a river. Join Ashley and Tiffany as they share how to navigate the messy middle of life, how to glean every gold nugget in the hard places, and how to persevere in the process to see progress. Whether you need personal healing from an addiction, spiritual growth, or relationship help after a struggle, this will help you stay focused on the future. This episode was inspired by Tiffany's new book, She Dreams: Living the Life You Were Created For. You can order it at: http://shedreamsbook.com. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why You Need To Silence The Haters Tho Feb 14, 2019

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Okay, so, the Fyre Festival and the Amex Black Card got us thinking about something serious: The Hatership. Those folks who remind you what you're not, who you used to be, and who sit on the sidelines of your life, telling you what's up 24/7. #byefelicia, cause we really need to silence the haters tho. Join us as we discuss how to deal with the internet haters, real life haters, self haters, used to be supporters who are now haters, and how to remember the truth, and lean into relationships to recover. Yes to growth, helpful critiques, and opportunities to get better. Heck to the NO to the haters. You'll want to share this episode with friends and frenemies. This episode was inspired by Tiffany's new book, She Dreams: Living the Life You Were Created For. You can order it at http://shedreamsbook.com. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why It Takes A Village Tho Feb 07, 2019

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Loneliness is a problem in our world. We can even be surrounded by incredible people, who love us, and that we love, and without choosing to be vulnerable and honest, we won't experience the true power of a dream fulfilled. Cause it really does take a village tho. To build a dream, to build a life, to build the lives and dreams of others, we need people. People who help us navigate the highs and lows of life. People who will be with us when our day job ain't looking nothing like our dream job. People who will hold our arms up when we want to quit. People who answer the phone when we call in the middle of the night. There's no need to do life alone, and yeah, we know, people are crazy sometimes, but hey, so are we, soooo... Let's find the right kind of crazy people, who see us, help us, and allow us to see and help them as well. Teamwork makes the dream work, as the good old cheesy saying goes. #truetho This episode is inspired by Tiffany's new book She Dreams: Live the Life You Were Created For. You can order it here: http://shedreamsbook.com To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why She Dreams Tho Jan 31, 2019

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Dreams are no joke. They keep us up at night and the more we pursue them, the more we have a hankerin' for them to come true. The truth is, too many of us feel like our past choices or lack of access to resources or gender, or (fill in the blank) is reason enough to give up on our dreams altogether. Here's the thing, dreaming is your birthright and you owe to yourself and the world to get after it. Go on, girl. Get yours. This episode is especially fabulous since Tiffany reads the first chapter of her new book, She Dreams. Yep, that's right. For freezy. No dolla spent and you get a free chapter. You'll love it. Even better, you can snag the whole book, all 12 chapters today when you pre-order She Dreams: http://shedreamsbook.com To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Your Weaknesses Are No Joke Tho Jan 24, 2019

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Who else is obsessed with the Enneagram, DISC profile, Buzzfeed Disney Princess Quiz, and whatever else tells us who we are, and what we're good at? Okay, great, well, this podcast is the opposite of that. Cause your weaknesses might be killing you tho. You're welcome. What we don't want is for you to waste time improving your weaknesses, but what we do want is for you to understand how your blindspots could be impacting your leadership and capacity. We all have character flaws and things we're not great at, and that's why we need each other to thrive, so we cover each other, and experience freedom in our strengths and weaknesses. Shame has no power in a healthy community, and that's what we want for you. This episode was inspired by Tiffany's new book, She Dreams. You can find it everywhere books are sold on Feb. 5th, 2019, but don't wait until then. Pre-order like the cool kids at http://shedreamsbook.com. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why You Need To Fight For Peace Tho Jan 17, 2019

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Why is peace so difficult for us to find? We'll tell you why, cause it's hard out here for the humans. Anxiety, fear, stress, and daily responsibilities can choke the life right out of our heads and hearts. Plus, we can get so bottlenecked in our own stuff, that we don't even notice how desperately others are crying out for relief. Peace is possible, brave soul, no matter what you're facing, and in this episode, Tiffany and Ashley share exactly why you need to fight for peace. Plus, you'll learn how to cultivate peace in your life, and in the world around you. Also, ode to Martin Luther King, Jr., who we celebrate in America this week, a King of establishing peace, no matter the pain or the cost. This episode was inspired by Tiffany's newest book She Dreams: Live the Life You Were Created For. You can pre-order it today at http://www.shedreamsbook.com. When you do, there is a pre-order gift waiting on her site. Treat yo'self at snag it today! To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

Why Work and Home Are Not Enemies Tho Jan 10, 2019

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Have you ever felt like your work life was in direct competition with your home life? Excelling in your career, at the expense of your laundry, your health, or your relationships? Yeah, us too. It's time to stop allowing guilt to ruin our lived experiences at home and at work. You are worthy of dignified work, and a fulfilling home life. Regardless of your age and stage, single or not, this episode will help you integrate what you feel called to do outside your home with the life you want to create inside your home. Whether you're a leading executive, homeschool mom, young professional, or working for yourself, you are able to find peace in your pursuit of purpose. Work and home are not enemies tho. To pre-order Tiffany's upcoming book, visit http://www.shedreamsbook.com. To find out more about Tiffany's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at http://www.tiffanybluhm.com/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffanybluhm/ To find out more about Ashley's writing, speaking, or books visit her site at https://ashabercrombie.org/ Find her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashabercrombie/

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