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Phone Addiction, Morning Routines, and Giving People Space Jan 09, 2025

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Hey folks.

As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/basics-needed-for-friends-who-lost-their-homes-today

If you were planning on joining our retreat, signing up sooner rather than later is also helpful. Do that here: https://the-angry-therapist.myshopify.com/products/love-thyself-a-winter-retreat-for-singles-with-john-kim-and-shaun-galanos

Sending love to all those affected by the LA fires.

Today, Shaun and John talk about appreciating what they already have, digital detoxes, their morning routines, and gratitude. They also answer a listener’s question: what should I do when my partner asks for space?

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Shared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About Men Jan 02, 2025

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Today, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work?

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Being Childfree, Spirituality, and Disappointing Others Dec 26, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: where’s the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for prioritizing your needs, and how do you maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t think women are viewed or treated differently in society?

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Live From Hollywood - We Can Do Better Dec 25, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John do a live podcast recording on the rooftop of the Mama Shelter hotel in Hollywood, California.

We talk about dating app fatigue, how to feel confident in LA when it's easy to feel insecure, Shaun's new sex toy collaboration, and we take live questions from the audience about regaining sexual confidence, dating outside the apps, and more! It's a special one, folks. You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Get your own Girls Get Off x The Love Drive Glass Wand: https://girlsgetoff.com/products/elle-glass-wand Thank you to Mama Shelter in Hollywood for hosting us: https://mamashelter.com/los-angeles/#menu&open=rooftop Sign up for the Love Thyself Winter Retreat for Singles on February 14, 15, and 16, 2025: https://the-angry-therapist.myshopify.com/products/love-thyself-a-winter-retreat-for-singles-with-john-kim-and-shaun-galanos

Heart-Ons, Wounded Masculine & Feminine, and Playing Games Dec 19, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about what they want for themselves in 2025, showing emotion by crying, and wounded masculine and feminine energies vs sacred masculine and feminine energies. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should women hold back and make the men they’re dating chase them, and how do I become less avoidant and not get the “ick” in the early stages of dating?

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Long Distance with Kids, First Live Podcast, and Taking Compliments Dec 12, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about their upcoming live podcast at Mama Shelter, their Valentine’s Day retreat, depression, and what women look for in men. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what should you do when you’re dating someone who doesn’t want the same things as you, and any advice on how to handle a long distance relationship when you both have kids? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001

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Addiction, I'm Too Picky, and I’m Attracted To My Therapist Dec 05, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about quitting nicotine, their addictions, complexities of parental relationships, and generational views on money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how do I know if I’m being too picky choosing a partner, and do you have any advice on how to channel more of my feminine energy?

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Money, Finances in Dating, and Being the Provider Nov 28, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun’s secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001

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Dating After 40, Threesomes (Again), and Moving To LA Nov 21, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about cutting people out because of political differences, John’s new tattoo, Shaun’s apartment hunt in LA, and feedback from their listeners. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: have you ever thought about having a threesome with John’s wife, Vanessa, and do you have any tips or advice on dating in your 40’s?

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The Election, Women’s Safety, and Soft Men Nov 14, 2024

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Today, Shaun and John talk about Shaun’s big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa’s wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community right now, and how can we do better for women’s safety and rights in the US?

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