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The Pros and Cons of Being a Slut Dec 12, 2023

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Hoe-tales: The Pros and Cons of Being a Slut

We thought that we were done slut-shaming, but apparently we're back to calling women sluts and whores. The double standard is real. Way too many are pointing the finger at women calling them out of their names, but not enough people are recognizing that they're not sleeping with themselves. Plus, the assumption of what someone is doing without actually knowing is definitely frustrating all parties involved. We're so quick to pass judgment on women on their own journey learning to navigate and figure themselves out. Your youth is designed for learning and exploring. And keeping your options open, having a multitude of energetic exchanges, and living life your way is your choice! Just be clear of the consequences, benefits, and opportunities of it all! We talk through the whole spectrum and explore the pros and cons of being a slut.

Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/8q4ikMIo-hs

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Quote of the Week

"If you consider a woman less pure after you've touched her, maybe you should take a look at your hands." - Kaija Sabbah

Dating Well AF Tip

"Knowing who you are and what you want sets your standard and helps you date better." – Alechia Reese & Dani Bourdeau

Getting to know yourself better is a lifelong journey of self-discovery and personal growth. It takes real intentional effort to become your own bestie.

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

Sex connects and disconnects some women and it's many times based on how you were introduced to it.
You will have to resolve the person you once were as you change and evolve, it's necessary to forgive yourself and honor that past version of yourself without feeling shame.
The decisions you make directly affect your type of lifestyle and experience.
Is ignorance really bliss? Once you know how it's supposed to feel it's hard to go to something that doesn't feel good.

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/in/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

How to Build Your Legacy and Manage Your Assets Dec 05, 2023

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Money and Legacy: Planning for the Final Chapter

Over 70% of African Americans don't have an estate plan. Over the next 25 years the largest wealth transfer will occur in American history, but the majority of Black people aren't going to participate in that because we don't have estate plans. You can keep complaining about what's happening to you or learn how to build legacies for yourself and your families. Edges were laid and wigs were snatched speaking with Attorney India Ali, Esq. and Ashley M. Fox of Empify, they gave actionable steps that you can use today to begin preserving and structuring the legacy for your family. Whether you're rich or working on it, this episode is for you!

Watch the conversation on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/_SLg_eOby3I

SPONSORED BY:

Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com

Quote of the Week

"Might fuck around and find out how worthy I am in this lifetime." – Lauren Eliz Love

Dating Well AF Tip

"The longer you entertain what's not for you, the longer you postpone what is."

Dating potential and not honoring what you truly want and the type lifestyle you desire will only ensure you never get it.

KEY POINTS & QUOTES:

Legacy is started and created while you're living.
We hyperfocus on death, but when it comes to legacy planning, focus on putting a structure around the legacy you're living now.
You plan trips, marriages, and vacations. Be willing to also structure your end of life plans.
People die, assets don't!
Wanting your children or family to "get it out the mud" comes from a place of anger, not love.
Set your child up so they have the tools and resources to lead the life they want to lead versus the one they have to lead.
The person in the mirror is who changes your life.

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India Y. Ali, Esq

Instagram | http://instagram.com/askattorneyali

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@askattorneyali

Website: https://askattorneyali.com

Ashley M. Fox

Instagram | http://instagram.com/_ashleymfox

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleymfox1

Website: https://www.empify.com

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | http://linkedin.com/in/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram | http://instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

How to Stop Self Sabotaging When Dating Oct 17, 2023

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In the "How to Stop Self-Sabotaging When Dating" episode, Triggered AF hosts, Alechia & Dani get honest about all the ways in which we sabotage ourselves when we're dating. If you want to attract better partners you'll want to get super clear about what works for you. From there, it's crucial to work on the parts of you that don't yet believe you deserve what you want so you sabotage yourself. You set the standard and boundaries for the way people handle you. Treat yourself so well that anytime you're treated contrary to what is your norm or standard, you can course correct. You'll be waiting a long time hoping for others to validate your importance in the world. So, first start with you! Listen in now for a little taste of what's included in the DWAF course and use these tools to date well and live even better.

Watch the conversation on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/q0UCIcyouak

Discover the best types of partners for you with the "What Type Dater Are You?" Quiz: https://bit.ly/dwafquiz

SPONSORED BY:

Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com

KEY POINTS:

Be intentional with how you treat and love yourself.
Set the standard for how people treat you.
Identify what you love about yourself and work on ways to show self-appreciation.
Learn to be vulnerable about your journey and tell yourself the truth.

QUOTABLES:

"If you do not believe that you are worthy of good things, you begin to attract things and people that do not treat you well."

"Replace negative self-talk with positivity."

"Learn yourself so that you can choose your partner and not settle for being chosen."

"Set boundaries and standards that you are able to maintain as well."

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

How to Use Delusion to Create a Dope Life Oct 10, 2023

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May all your delulu come trululu. In the episode of "Using Delusion to Create an Inspired Life," we focus on the power in transforming your reality through astronomical thinking. Delusion is essential in shifting your mindset. You cannot allow the expectations and opinions of others to dictate your life and the vast opportunities it holds. Everyone has different experiences in life, and there is no right or wrong answer in these experiences. Another person's experience – although true for and to them – does not have to be your reality. Create a delusion that is supportive of your purpose regardless of what others think you may or may not be able to accomplish. Remember, your delusion serves as an armor for your dreams.

Watch the interview on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/M-QQGRGgRJ4

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Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com

KEY POINTS:

Another person's experience does not have to be your reality.
You are in control of your destination.
Breathing is your permission slip to try again each day.
It is not everyone's responsibility to feed into your delusion.
Your delusion serves as an armor for your dreams.

QUOTABLES:

"You decide what your reality is."

"There are endless possibilities and opportunities in this life."

"Use delusion to create the life you want!"

"It is important to not be constantly seeking validation, but if you must seek validation do so for the favorite version of yourself."

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

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For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Triggered AF Podcast is produced by Triggered Media Group.

How to Improve your Money Mindset with Ashley M. Fox Oct 03, 2023

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In the "How to Improve your Money Mindset" episode, former Wall Street analyst and founder of Empify, Ashley M. Fox, describes how simply putting yourself in certain spaces can create the opportunity to expand your life. You must create an abundant mindset in order to attract abundance. We attract who we are and not what we want; therefore, training your mind to believe you are worthy of things is essential to accomplishing your goals. Ashley dives into the alignment of priorities in order to create generational wealth and invest in your future. Those that are wealthy subscribe to the mentality that they are deserving of wealth. You must feel like you are worthy of the lifestyle that you desire to bring it to fruition.

KEY POINTS:

You have to put yourself in uncomfortable places to become comfortable.
Trust that you know yourself better than anyone else.
Do not allow others' stories or experiences to determine your reality.
Remove the psychological blocks and words from your mind that hold you back.
Wealth does not have a benchmark.
Investing is not an option, it is a standard.

QUOTABLES:

"You don't attract what you want, you attract who you are."

"Your talent can get you into places that your character can kick you out of."

"If you have the money to spend on a company, you have enough money to invest."

"Learn the rules so you can break them like an artist."

"You cannot save your way to wealth."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Ashley M Fox.

Website | https://www.empify.com

IG | https://www.instagram.com/_ashleymfox

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

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Watch the interview on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KrcQV6eHQL4

What Self Love Looks Like IRL Sep 27, 2023

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In the "What Self Love Looks Like in IRL" episode, Triggered AF co-hosts got even more honest about the flaws they're still working through and the actions they're taking to work through them. It is absolutely okay to decide exactly what works for you and stand in that. Alechia and Dani got very real and provided a number of practical solutions and tools that can be used to overcome the challenges our flaws present.

SPONSORED BY:

Dating Well AF Course, visit to learn more: http://datingwellaf.com

KEY POINTS:

Some things that we sometimes see as flaws aren't always flaws. Sometimes it just won't work in the space we're trying to put it in.

Way too many people say they're "working on it," and yet take no actionable steps to actually work on it.

Many times we revert, the goal is to determine what you do after you revert.

QUOTABLES:

"It can be very difficult to submit after so many years of having to figure it out on our own."

"America has hardened women, so many of them think they have to leave in order to be soft."

"We're all trying to figure out a new normal and it can cause a lot of head butting."

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

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Learning How to Move Through Life's Blockages Sep 19, 2023

Show notes

This episode is a little different and was hosted with a studio audience in New York, NY at Brace Life Studio. Conversing with Nikkia McClain, Unique Matthews, and Amber Lee Forrester at Triggered AF's first live event, The Evolve Experience, was hilariously open, honest, and perspective shifting. Each of these dynamic women provided tools to help us identify and move through the blockages that keep us stuck. It is absolutely ok to wake up and decide that you want to create a better version of yourself. And identifying and addressing the past experiences that helped create these blockages is the first step to overcoming them.

We are powerful enough to recreate our own reality and rewire our thought process. The mental blockages connected to certain things and people serve as reminders for the work we still need to do. Remember, stop advocating for your limitations. Hold yourself accountable and take actions that enable you to evolve.

KEY POINTS:

Recognize what you want to change and what triggers those unhealthy habits.

Find ways to release the suppressed energy inside of you. Create conscious changes that compliment healthier habits.

Make decisions to adjust the things you internalize rather than completely eliminating the things that satisfy you.

QUOTABLES:

"Many of our relationships are mirrors of who we are"

"Either you'll pay now or you'll pay later."

"Stop advocating for your limitations!"

"Forget everything you thought you knew about food and be willing to start over."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUESTS:

Nikkia McClain

IG | https://instagram.com/nikkiamcclain

IG | https://www.instagram.com/tenenicole/

IG | https://www.instagram.com/supportyourgirlfriends/

Unique Matthews

IG | https://instagram.com/amorunique__

IG | https://www.instagram.com/eatinncheat

Amber Lee Forrester

IG | https://www.instagram.com/theflowcoach

IG | https://www.instagram.com/quartzwellness

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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Watch the conversation on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gcYEcUB8-bI

Navigating the Road Less Traveled with Caryn Ward Ross Sep 12, 2023

Show notes

In "The Road Less Traveled" episode, Caryn Ward Ross, award-winning award-winning actress, producer, and writer emphasized that sometimes you figure out who you are by figuring out who you are not. As the founder of Main Character Energy University and the creator of the transformative (Re) Write Your Life Story Method™️, she encouraged us to allow yourself the space and grace to figure out who you are not because it fine-tunes who you are supposed to be. When no one chooses you, you choose you. Failure is not final, and as long as you're living you have another opportunity to create a life that works for you. Our pain is not just for us. When we master and come through it, we become a distribution site for healing and transformation for other people. Use your insight to hold the vision of who you are and don't always lean into your eyesight — that's holding the vision of who you are.

KEY POINTS:

Sometimes we discover more of who we are by experiencing who we are not.
When it's now or never, choose now.
When you allow others to dictate your life, you become a supporting character in your own life.
Hold the vision of who you are! That's insight, not eyesight.

QUOTABLES:

"Sometimes we discover more of who we are by experiencing who we are not."

"If you're not willing to fail and mess up how will you know when it looks and feels right?"

"If it's going to be then it's up to me."

"Our pain is not just for us. When we master and come through it, we become a distribution site for healing and transformation for other people."

Watch the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mws0FYaBMvg

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Caryn Ward Ross

Website | https://www.main-character-energy.com/maincharacterpower

IG | https://www.instagram.com/carynwardross

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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How to Have a Better Relationship with Robert Brace Sep 05, 2023

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In the "How to Have a Better Relationship" episode, the founder of Brace Life Studios, Robert Brace, gave tools to help us navigate the challenges that come with romantic relationships. No one teaches you how to be a good partner and way too many of us are just winging it.

This conversation helps to provide the tools to show up as better people for our partners. Getting curious and putting our ego to bed in order to communicate more effectively sounds easy, but has been proven to trip many of us up. Healthy relationships don't happen by accident, nor do they happen overnight, our commitment to it changes the experience.

KEY POINTS:

Once we get in our own heads it's easy to confirm whatever bias we have in our minds.
If you're judging while your partner is explaining how they're feeling then your energy is spent on your judgment versus the curiosity of why they feel the way they do.
Feeling like a simp a lot of times comes from the feeling of having to keep doing without ever receiving also.
Lay your ego down and remain curious.
When you dismiss your partner's effort it shuts them down and makes them less available to you emotionally.
Natural is whatever you decide it to be.

QUOTABLES:

"Depth requires energy. Take the time to replenish yourself."

"Learn to listen through your own judgment."

"Stay curious because that's when you begin to better understand each other."

"If you want something that's going to last and go deep you're going to have to make some commitments to it."

CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:

Robert Brace

Website | http://bracelifestudios.com

IG | https://www.instagram.com/robertbrace

CONNECT WITH YOUR HOSTS:

Alechia Reese

For coaching, visit: http://gotvaluenation.com

Instagram | instagram.com/alechiareese

LinkedIn | linkedin.com/alechiareese

Dani Bourdeau

For coaching, visit: http://danifostercoaching.com

Instagram.com/thedanibourdeau

RESOURCES:

For more info, visit: http://triggeredafpodcast.com

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How to End Your Fight With Food with Jessica Procini Aug 30, 2023

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In the "How to End Your Fight With Food" episode, the founder of Escape from Emotional Eating, Jessica Procini, provides tools to tackle one of America's most prevalent issues today – our food. Our relationship with food exists on a spectrum – whether we're using it in a healthy way or abusing it. Taking steps to bridge the gap between your relationship with food right now and your ideal relationship with food is more effective than measuring food by quantity.

Food affects both the mental and physical aspects of our life, and the goal is to become an expert on yourself. We get so caught up in the 'what are we eating?' and judging that, but the stuff behind the what and the relationship we have with food is where we begin to transform and change.

KEY POINTS:

Taking steps to bridge the gap between your relationship with food right now and your ideal relationship with food is more effective than measuring food by quantity.