The Road to Self Love

Latest Episodes:

How to Take Extreme Ownership of Mental Health with Jason Reid Jul 13, 2021

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Hello, my sweet Self Lover!

Before we jump in, I wanted to let you know that today's episode could be triggering, as we will be discussing teen suicide. If you choose not to listen, I completely understand, and I will see you next week. Take care of you.

This episode is heavy, raw, and real. Our guest this week is Jason Reid – he is an entrepreneur who coaches CEOs and writes books. But, three years ago his world was forever changed with the loss of his youngest son, Ryan, to suicide. Since then, Jason has made it his life's mission to educate other parents on how they can be a better advocate for their children's mental health – because it is JUST as important as their physical health.

If you feel called to, please share this episode with someone who may benefit from hearing Jason's story.

If you or anyone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, please call 1-800-273-8255. Or, visit suicidepreventionlifeline.org – there is a chat feature available, in case you are not comfortable speaking with someone over the phone. You are not alone.

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS

(10:29) The Signs

(14:02) Can you Protect Your Kids 100%?

(21:40 / 46:00) Tips for Having the Hard Talks

(40:49) Forgiveness

EPISODE LINKS

Visit Jason's Website: ChooseLife.Org Watch "Tell My Story"

For 10% off of your first month of Better Help Online Counseling, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353

How to Trust Yourself (and others) with Paul Fishman Jul 08, 2021

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oh hey self lovers! This episode is inspired by a conversation that went down in my DMs and I am so excited to be having it here on the show!

Today we chat all things TRUST

-how to trust yourself -how to trust others -Is there a difference between self trust and intuition

and so much more!

Apply for The Self Love Diet: www.paulfishman.love/selflovediet

connect with Paul

IG: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman youtube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353

Is Your Vagina Probably Okay? with Vienna Farlow, aka The Cuntsultant Jul 06, 2021

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Happy July, Self Lover!

It's officially summer, officially over halfway through 2021, and I officially get to share this episode with my good friend, Vienna Farlow, aka the Cuntsultant!

Did you cringe at her title? Fear not, Self Lover. My guest this week is here to drop some knowledge about your vagina, or, someone you love's vagina! Western culture has sexualized the vagina, but it's made for so much more than just sex! In fact – did you know that it's actually more of an exit than an entrance? True Story. Listen on!

I learned so much from my conversation with Vienna – I hope this is just as informative for you!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(10:45) Why are we so afraid of the vagina?

(22:58) What does Vienna wish we knew about the vagina?

(36:50) The stigma around the vagina/how to get to know yourself

(58:44) The great coconut milk debate

EPISODE LINKS!

Connect with Vienna on her Website or her Instagram!

Books mentioned in this episode:

Sex for One Petals Do Less Word Slut Come As You Are

Visit SujaJuice.com and use the code SELFLOVE for 15% off of your next cleanse or function shot pack!

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353

How to Get Out of Your Own Way with Paul Fishman Jul 01, 2021

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Oh Hey Self Lovers! This cute little episode is all about ditching the one thing that is standing in the way of your dreams. My friend just called me out about this and I'm happy I get to share it with you!

Send me a DM with your dreams on Instagram!

Apply for the Self Love Diet

Let's Connect:

Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman youtube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353 website: www.paulfishman.love

How to Show Up the way YOU Want To with Cael O'Donnell Jun 29, 2021

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Oh hey there, Self Lover!

To cap off my June Podcast series, Proud to Love Myself, I have the privilege of sharing my conversation with the amazing Cael O'Donnell.

Cael is a light worker, a psychic medium, an author, and a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. His story of overcoming his obstacles to live in his truth is so inspiring, and I can't wait for you to hear it!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(9:02) A Medium Prophet

(12:40) The Stigma Around Psychic Readings

(15:40) A TikTok Story

(28:14) A Sexuality Journey

EPISODE LINKS!

Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!

Connect with Cael on his Website, Instagram, or TikTok!

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353

Take Your Power Back with Paul Fishman Jun 24, 2021

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Oh hey Self Lovers! This week's Self Love Solocast is all about taking your power back. It's a quick listen that will seriously reframe the way you look at your life.

If you're tired of letting other people control your life or you're ready to break free of societal expectations this episode is for you.

Let's connect

Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman YouTube: Paul Fishman text me: 619-202-8353

Are Your Control Issues Controlling You? with Eric Feltes Jun 22, 2021

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Oh hey there, Sweet Self Lover!

This week we continue the Proud to Love Myself series by introducing my friend Eric Feltes. Eric is an actor who also has amassed over 20 thousand followers on TikTok playing such characters as Double D Chadd and Samson the Plant Daddy. Throughout this episode, you will notice that Eric tells several stories about some situations he has felt stuck in, only to realize it was his need to control the situation that was keeping him stuck.

I love hearing Eric's process, and I hope that you are equally as impressed!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(7:58) Coming Out Controlled

(16:58) Dating & Auditioning

(26:34) Relationship with Religion

(35:00) Releasing Control

EPISODE LINKS!

Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!

Connect with Eric on TikTok or Instagram!

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353

This episode is brought to you by Suja Juice. Suja is on a mission to support more people drinking their nutrients and receiving organic fruits and vegetables! Visit sujajuice.com and use code SelfLove to save 15% off of your cleanse or shot pack!

Healing Your Anxiety - Coaching Call with Paul Jun 17, 2021

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oh hey Self Lovers,

I wanted to give you an inside look into what it's like to work with me. On today's self-love solo cast with a twist, I'm joined by one of my group coaching clients as we discuss her journey inside the program so far.

This is a recording of the call I hosted in my group program this week and I'm so excited to share it with you. Apply for the August round of group coaching here

Connect with me:

Instagram: @paulfishman tiktok: @paul.fishman website: www.paulfishman.love text me: 619.202.8353

Loving Your Body, Unconditionally with Ben Wallace (Re-Release) Jun 15, 2021

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Oh hey, Self Lover! How's it going?

This week I have thrown us back to the archives and I am resharing this beautiful episode that I did with Ben Wallace early last year.

Ben is transgender, but he is so much more than his gender identity. I love this episode so much, and I feel like I take something new away from it every time I listen.

I felt called to reshare this episode under a different title because I thought the message about loving your body was so important. The last time this episode was released, it was under the title "Trans is Beautiful".

Please note that the Instagram handle for Ben mentioned in this episode has been updated – it is now @bennett_wallace

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(4:00) Ben's Origins

(10:00) Advice for Parents of Trans Children

(17:10) Getting to Know Yourself

(30:00) Ben's Body Breakthrough

EPISODE LINKS!

Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!

Connect with Ben on Instagram or through his Website

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353

To get 10% off of your first month with Better Help, visit TryBetterHelp.Com/RoadToSelfLove

What Happens When You Protect Your Yes? with Joel Correa Jun 08, 2021

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Oh hey, Self Lovers! How are you feeling?

Today we continue my June series, Proud to Love Myself! This week I get to share my conversation with a very talented male makeup artist, Joel Correa. Joel has amassed a large following on his Instagram and TikTok (linked below!) for his unique ability to combine colorful makeup looks with comedy.

My favorite thing about these conversations with influencers from TikTok/Instagram is that I get to dig in and get into the person underneath what they choose to show online. Joel is intriguing both online and underneath his multicolored eyeshadow. He has a lot to share about how he became who he is today, and how he is able to not get caught up in his follower count. Plus, we discuss what it means to know your worth.

I can't wait to hear what you think about this episode!

EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS!

(7:41) The magic of winged eyeliner

(12:26) Making mountains out of molehills

(15:06) What happens when a "Yes Man" says no

(50:17) What is gaslighting?

EPISODE LINKS!

Apply for my new program, Proud to Love Myself!

Watch Joel on TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube!

Paul's Instagram: @PaulFishman

Paul's Website: PaulFishman.Love

For free weekly self love mantras and texts, send "self love" to 619-202-8353