The Jayson Gaddis Podcast

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SC 168 - How to Avoid Dating Narcissistic Men After 40 - Bobbi Palmer Oct 19, 2017

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If you are serious about not dating another narcissistic man, and you are an awesome woman over 40, 50, or 60, this episode is for you. My guest Bobbi Palmer, of "Date like a grown up" has some great advice for how to stay true to you and get what you want.
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About Bobbi [10:00]
How Bobbi met and married the man of her dreams within 6 months [13:00]
Getting clear on what matters and what doesn’t [15:00]
Talking politics, religion, family and finances on the first date [17:00]
How people hide from love behind their careers [20:00]
About the ‘Narcissistic Guy’ [28:00]
3 Principles of Dating Like A Grown-Up [36:00]
The challenge for older women who are dating [45:00]

SC 167 - Smart Couple Podcast Feedback Oct 17, 2017

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SC 166 - Evolutionary Love - Andrew Harvey Oct 11, 2017

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Do you ever wonder if your relationship pain is guiding you deeper into whatever you need to heal yourself? What kind of relationship do you have with God? With reality? In this fun interview, Andrew Harvey explores how you can create evolutionary love that is much bigger than the "you" you know yourself to be. Hang on for a wild ride as Andrew takes you into a sacred outlook on how relationships work and how they can serve your soul's calling.

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Andrew’s definition of true love [10:00]
Why is love hard? [11:00]
3 ways to build and cultivate true love [13:00]
‘The shadow’ and an exercise in shadow-work [20:00]
Taking responsibility for disowned parts of yourself [27:00]
Advice about purpose for when you’re feeling lost in life [28:00]
The role of suffering on a spiritual path [37:00]
A quote by Rumi [39:00]
What is the most important thing people need to learn in relationship? [41:00]

What Does ‘Do the Work’ Actually Mean? - SC 165 Oct 09, 2017

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What Does ‘Do the Work’ Actually Mean?

1:30 Defining ‘doing the work’ 3:00 Developing the self 4:00 What is the inner child? 5:30 How long must we work on the ‘inner child’?

SC 164 - Loyalty In Gay Relationships - Jean Malpas Oct 05, 2017

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Loyalty is essential in a long-term partnership. Is loyalty different for gay couples? What honest conversations and boundaries are you both talking about? In this episode my guest Jean Malpas has some excellent tips for addressing these concerns and for giving your partner the benefit of the doubt.

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Understanding cisgender and transgender [2:00]
At what age do people start to identify with their gender? [4:00]
An issue that comes up for any couple, gay or straight [8:00]
What’s ok and what’s not ok in an open relationship? [11:00]
What is the one essential factor in a successful relationship? [14:00]
Is there a difference between gay & straight couple relationships? [15:00]
Being mindful about areas of shame in relationship [21:00]
What is “minority stress”? [22:00]
Advice for couples who are struggling in relationship [33:00]

Will Porn Ruin My Relationship? - [SC 163] Sep 30, 2017

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What's porn's place in a relationship? [2:00]
How porn can negatively affect a relationship [5:00]
Porn is not the bad guy [7:00]
Porn, like any compulsion, can be a wedge between two people [10:00]
Ramifications of porn [12:00]

SC 162 - The Purpose of Marriage and the Truth About Soulmates - Arielle Ford Sep 28, 2017

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Arielle Ford explores the ups and downs of marriage, what to do with a new age nice guy, and how to rekindle the spark after stuckness. This week's guest got married at age 44, and realized she sucked at listening and didn't know anything about partnership. And now she teaches people all over the world the about the power of attraction, soul mates, and love.

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Talking vs communicating [6:00]
The purpose of marriage [8:00]
Shocking facts about divorce [12:00]
Women: How to fill up your oxytocin tanks [17:00]
Men: How to rebuild testosterone [18:00]
Do both partners need to be into growth and development? [21:00]
Stepping back into your feminine after being in work-mode [27:00]
How to have a difficult conversation in a positive way [33:00]
How to lighten the mood when you’re triggered [38:00]

SC 161 - Are You In An Abusive Relationship? Sep 26, 2017

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2:30 Defining emotional abuse

4:45 It Takes Two

5:30 Do you feel safe in your own home?

6:10 It's more complicated than 'just leave.'

7:00 How are you a part of your own abuse cycle?

7:35 Self-reflection and taking responsibility

SC 160 - What Keeps You From Finding The One - Katherine Woodward Thomas Sep 21, 2017

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What does your intention have to do with creating a great relationship?
According to my guest, everything.
If you are single, what vibe are you putting out into the world to attract a mate? If you are partnered, what vibe are you putting into your relationship?
This week's guest has so much to say about upgrading your story and your intention and how that can impact how fulfilled you are in your relationship (or future relationship). She also has some practical tips on how to do exactly that.

If you are trying to "call in the one", or just trying to deepen with the one you have already, this interview is going to help you a ton!

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Why do some women have a pattern of dating unavailable men? [11:00]
The power of setting intentions [14:00]
Self-limiting beliefs and 'stories' we tell ourselves [21:00]
Clearing up 'the power of thoughts' for skeptics [23:00]
A guided exercise with Katherine for finding your 'false self' [29:00]
How to talk to your inner child [34:00]
What to do when you're really stuck in your own story [45:00]
Katherine's go-to move for when she's triggered [49:00]

SC 159 - What To Do When You Get Defensive Sep 18, 2017

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QUESTION

When my boyfriend gets triggered and shares his thoughts and feelings with me, how do I not take it personal and get defensive? I feel like this creates a barrier between us when he is trying to reach out and I want to be with him in this moment. But I feel attacked even though I know he's not attacking me - I can hear my shitty defensive tone of voice and feel my body language change. I also can't get my thoughts clear enough to have a mature conversation with him, I'm all caught up in my own BS, it's pathetic! How do I get past this and be present with him?
Kim - Fairfax VA

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Question from Kim [1:00]
Zeroing in on what makes us defensive [3:00]
Working out what you need when you're feeling defensive [5:00]
What to do when you're too triggered to think clearly [7:00]

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