Your prescription for happier, healthier homeschooling. Christian psychologist, author, and homeschool mom of six Dr. Melanie Wilson shares research-backed, doable strategies for the things that steal your sanity — stress and burnout, time management, organization, motivation, and curriculum decisions — with plenty of encouragement along the way. For homeschooling parents who want calmer, more joyful days. Follow the show and homeschool with more sanity and grace.
Special Replay: Your Homeschooled Teen Has ADD? Help is Here
Oct 04, 2022
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A homeschooling mom on Facebook.com/motivatedhomeschooler asked for advice for her homeschooled teen and I thought other parents might have the same question. If you or your homeschooled teen is forgetful, distracted, or disorganized, listen to this episode of The Homeschool Sanity Show.
Teaching Tip of the Week
This week’s teaching tip is to make room for Christmas activities in your homeschool. Use my funny winter writing prompts for writing. Above all, allow Christmas to be a peaceful, joyful time in your homeschool, rather than a stressful one.
The Whole & Healthy Family With Jodi Mockabee
Sep 13, 2022
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We hear a lot about health these days, but what does it mean to have a healthy family? This is episode where my guest and I talk about pursuing healthy families with respect to the mind, body, and spirit.
There is so much more to our families than the bodies they inhabit. They have minds and spirits that need to be cultivated, too.
Sponsor
Finding a math curriculum that works for your family can be a challenge! With CTCMath, all of your kids from K-12 can learn at their own pace with one family subscription. That’s right! With a CTCMath membership, you have access to all grades and lessons, which means your children can work at whatever level is best for them. Whether your kid needs to catch up, keep up, or move ahead, with CTCMath they can finally understand math and work at their own pace. CTCMath is offering listeners a half-price discount plus a bonus 6 months when you register for a 12-month membership. Yep. That means you have access to a complete online homeschool math curriculum for all your kids for 18 months!
Healthy Familes Guest
Jodi Mockabee is a photographer, writer, blogger, speaker, social media influencer, and homeschooling mother of five living in the Black Hills of South Dakota. With a passion for health, wellness, parenting, and more, Jodi blogs her family’s journey and shares tips for a healthy and active lifestyle. She also writes curriculum for creative and artistic learning in a homeschool environment.
I found Jodi’s vision for family health to be quite inspiring. I hope you will, too. We discussed:
Special Replay: How To Know If You’re Doing Enough In Your Homeschool
Sep 06, 2022
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Hey homeschoolers!
I frequently hear this worry from homeschoolers I talk with at the great homeschool conventions: I don’t know if I’m doing enough. In a time when homeschoolers have an abundance of curriculum options for teaching their children and an abundance of philosophies of education to consider, it’s no wonder that many homeschoolers are concerned that they are doing too little. I’ll address this concern with ways to know if you’re doing enough in just a moment.
Join our community
But first I would love to invite you to join to join Homeschool Sanity Circle on Facebook. This is the perfect group for new homeschoolers who have all sorts of worries like these. It’s also a fantastic place to build friendships no matter where you are in your homeschooling journey. I’m looking forward to getting to know you there.
Thanks again to 7 Sisters Homeschool for sponsoring the podcast. Join me next time when we discuss how to trust God with our parents. Have a happy homeschool week!
Help With Handwriting
Aug 30, 2022
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Does your student struggle with handwriting? In this episode my guest will help us with handwriting.
Sponsor
Finding a math curriculum that works for your family can be a challenge! With CTCMath, all of your kids from K-12 can learn at their own pace with one family subscription. That’s right! With a CTCMath membership, you have access to all grades and lessons, which means your children can work at whatever level is best for them. Whether your kid needs to catch up, keep up, or move ahead, with CTCMath they can finally understand math and work at their own pace. CTCMath is offering listeners a half-price discount plus a bonus 6 months when you register for a 12-month membership. Yep. That means you have access to a complete online homeschool math curriculum for all your kids for 18 months!
Help with Handwriting
I wish I’d had Sarah’s help when my kids had a hard time with handwriting. Sarah joined me for a previous epsiode on occupational therapy. Sarah is an occupational therapist with a background in both pediatrics and home health, and a homeschooling parent. Sarah was first introduced to homeschooling in 2016 while working as an OT in a client’s home; she was amazed at the learning atmosphere and opportunities within the home. Now as an OT homeschooling her own family, she noticed that parents, though experts on their own children, were invariably asking the same questions and needed resources. As a result, Collins Academy Therapy Services was established with the dual purpose of educating parents on how to create homeschools specifically designed for students’ needs and training occupational therapists to best serve the homeschool community, together guiding children towards their specific purpose in life.
You can play this episode for your kids and see how many different sounds besides our voices they can recognize. It became comical but I don’t think it was too distracting.Sarah and I discussed:
Whether handwriting is still a necessary skill to learn
Why some kids struggle with handwriting (it’s not necessarily what you think!)
How To Teach Our Kids That Everyone Belongs
Aug 23, 2022
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How can we teach our kids that everyone belongs? In this episode, my guest and I discuss how to empathize with and welcome families who are different than our own.
Sponsor
Finding a math curriculum that works for your family can be a challenge! With CTCMath, all of your kids from K-12 can learn at their own pace with one family subscription. That’s right! With a CTCMath membership, you have access to all grades and lessons, which means your children can work at whatever level is best for them. Whether your kid needs to catch up, keep up, or move ahead, with CTCMath they can finally understand math and work at their own pace. CTCMath is offering listeners a half-price discount plus a bonus 6 months when you register for a 12-month membership. Yep. That means you have access to a complete online homeschool math curriculum for all your kids for 18 months!
Everyone Belongs with Heather Avis
Heather Avis is founder and chief visionary officer at The Lucky Few, a social awareness brand on a mission to make a more inclusive and loving world with an emphasis on shifting the Down syndrome narrative. The author of Everyone Belongs and the New York Times bestselling children’s book Different—A Great Thing to Be! she runs The Lucky Few’s hit Instagram account and is the author of a book and co-host of the podcast by the same name. A former education specialist teaching high school students, Heather is a popular speaker and a mother to three adopted children (two with Down syndrome). She lives in Southern California with her husband, Josh, and their three kids Truly, August and Macy.
I was touched by my interview with Heather and I think you will be, too.
We discussed:
How her parenting and adoption journey changed her
How we can reinforce our kids’ God-given value
How her faith helped her in her parenting journey
How we can better empathize with families different than our own and how can we foster inclusivity
How We Prepare For College As Homeschoolers
Aug 16, 2022
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Do you wonder how to prepare your kids for college? If so, I’m not going to tell you what to do. I hope that’s a relief. Instead, in this episode, I’ll share our experience with college, so you’ll have more information to make the best choices for your family.
Hey, homeschoolers! This week I am taking child number five and my only daughter to college. Even though I have three college graduates who have had good experiences, I don’t imagine that I’ve done everything the right way, or that I have the right to tell you what to do.
Every family and every student and even every year is unique as the pandemic has taught us. But I do want to share our story with you because it may help you in college choices and preparation. The other reason I want to share our story is because so many people (including homeschoolers) have been surprised by a particular aspect of our decisions around college.
I’m going to jump right in as though we’re having a chat at a coffee shop. I’m not going to give you six simple tips as I often do, but I’m going to tell you how we got to the place of sending homeschooler #5 to college. If we were actually in a coffee shop, you could stop and ask me questions. Using this format, though, you’re going to have to comment, email, or message me with questions instead.
I will start with a disclaimer: College isn’t for everyone.
We are sending our children for their goals at this time in our culture
I didn’t originally intend for the kids to attend college in person
Homeschoolers can and do get an excellent education outside of college classes
In this episode I share:
Factors that affected our college decision
Our kids’ college choices
The advantages of having our kids attend the same in-state university
Some issues we have discussed with our kids as they begin their college years:
Our expectation that they will study and be focused on keeping a high GPA
Pros and cons of fraternities/sororities
Travel plans for breaks
Which expenses are our kids’ responsibility
Conclusion
Has everything been perfect with our kids’ college experience? No. But we are satisfied with the choices we have made for our particular kids at this time.
I pray that something I shared helps you as you consider college for your homeschoolers.
Winning Your Homeschool Week
Aug 09, 2022
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When Friday comes, do you feel like you’ve won your homeschool week and can celebrate? Or are you thinking about all the things you didn’t do well? In this episode, I’ll share tips for winning your homeschool week through proper planning. Before we dive into the topic, I want to thank CTC Math for sponsoring this episode.
Sponsor
Finding a math curriculum that works for your family can be a challenge! With CTCMath, all of your kids from K-12 can learn at their own pace with one family subscription. That’s right! With a CTCMath membership, you have access to all grades and lessons, which means your children can work at whatever level is best for them. Whether your kid needs to catch up, keep up, or move ahead, with CTCMath they can finally understand math and work at their own pace. CTCMath is offering listeners a half-price discount plus a bonus 6 months when you register for a 12-month membership. Yep. That means you have access to a complete online homeschool math curriculum for all your kids for 18 months!
Winning the Week by Demir Bentley
I recently finished reading Demir Bentley’s book Winning the Week. I feel newly inspired and also feel validated in the planning process I teach to homeschool moms.
The key to winning your week is simple: It’s planning it. Most homeschoolers know that they should plan their week for success, just as most of the staff and entrepreneurs Demir Bentley is addressing know they should plan. But only a small percentage of us do.
Why is that?
• Don’t have time
• Afraid of the past
• Afraid of the future
But planning the week is a powerful way of decreasing anxiety and improving motivation. Because it has negative affect associated with it, though, we avoid it. Demir advises us to make planning a pleasant experience.
How to Plan a Winning Homeschool Week
Once you have a pleasant experience planned, start with prayer.
Then review your:
• Calendar
• Email
• Mail inbox
• Messages
• Purse
• Task list
Use the weekly planning page from The Organized Homeschool Life Planner.
Choose leveraged task (The One Thing by Gary Keller)
Choose one goal for the week – specify on weekly page
Now plan these must-do tasks for the week. If you have the Organized Homeschool Life planner, you can put them on the daily planning pages. I would suggest listing no more than 3 tasks per day to leave room for tasks that pop up. You can plan in more detail each day.
The other way to plan your weekly tasks is with a calendar or agenda. You can see visually that you will not have time to do math on Friday because you have a co-op meeting and a park day following. You won’t expect things to magically get done. You’ll put math on your day at home.
Schedule your tasks with as much detail as you like – in the morning, afternoon, or evening boxes in the Organized Homeschool Life planner, or at set times in Google calendar or an hourly agenda.
Be sure to leave time for what I call walk-in tasks.
Demir advises us to schedule our goal-related and priority tasks at the beginning of the week. I like keeping Fridays for easy tasks and for catch-up time if needed.
If you’re ready for more advanced weekly planning, you can plan your leisure activities, too. Put a dinner party with friends, a game night, or a hike on the schedule, so it is a lot more likely to happen.
Next week during your weekly planning session, ask yourself what went well so you can do more of that. Give yourself credit for it and thank God for the blessings.
Ask yourself what didn’t go well, so you can use leverage on it and improve 1% the following week.
Conclusion
With proper planning, you can have less anxiety, more motivation, and a happier homeschool.
Thanks again to CTCMath for sponsoring the podcast.
Have a happy homeschool week!
How To Help A Child Break A Bad Habit
Aug 02, 2022
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Does your child have a bad habit? If so, you want to help them. For example, a dad at The Great Homeschool Convention approached me for help in getting his four-year-old daughter to stop sucking her thumb. In this episode, I’ll share tips for helping a child of any age break a bad habit.
What To Do When You And Your Spouse Disagree About Discipline
Jul 26, 2022
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Do you and your spouse disagree on discipline? If so, you’re normal, but your homeschool happiness is at risk.
A sweet couple came to my booth at the Great Homeschool Convention and asked me what to do when they didn’t agree on discipline in the moment, as in, in front of the kids. I shared a few thoughts with them but realized that this is a great topic to dig into.
I address:
the importance of agreeing
what to do if you just don’t agree
the attitude we should have in discussions about discipline
what to discuss during a meeting about discipline
With good communication, a willingness to try new approaches, and some patience, I believe that most couples can come to some agreement on discipline. For those who cannot, being consistent with your own approach will still pay more dividends than giving up.
How to Develop Kids’ Work Ethic with Jordan Raynor
Jul 12, 2022
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What is your child’s attitude about work? Not great? This is The Homeschool Sanity Show, the episode where we discuss the truth that can make all the difference in their attitude about work and ours.
Sponsor
Hey, homeschoolers! Before we dive into the topic, I want to thank CTC Math for sponsoring this episode of The Homeschool Sanity Show.
Finding a math curriculum that works for your family can be a challenge! With CTCMath, all of your kids from K-12 can learn at their own pace with one family subscription. That’s right! With a CTCMath membership, you have access to all grades and lessons, which means your children can work at whatever level is best for them. Whether your kid needs to catch up, keep up, or move ahead, with CTCMath they can finally understand math and work at their own pace. CTCMath is offering listeners a half-price discount plus a bonus 6 months when you register for a 12-month membership. Yep. That means you have access to a complete online homeschool math curriculum for all your kids for 18 months!
Podcast Guest: Jorday Raynor
Most of us want our kids to be diligent with good attitudes. While we can and should train our children with this goal in mind, my guest today seeks to inspire kids toward this end with biblical truth. He is the author of the rhyming picture book The Creator in You that is getting rave reviews. He is also the author of the national bestseller Redeeming Your Time that I discussed on a previous episode. Jordan is host of “The Call to Mastery” podcast and writes a weekly devotional (“The Word Before Work”) that has been read by millions around the world. He lives near Tampa, Florida with his wife and their three daughters.