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Connection matters deeply — and yet for many of us, it’s never felt more confusing.
In this solo episode, Dr. Alison explores the tension many people are navigating right now: how to stay open and loving toward others without losing clarity, discernment, or yourself.
Many of us were taught that love means endless accommodation, that boundaries are unkind, or that distance equals failure. Others, weary of being hurt, find themselves pulling back — unsure how to stay connected without feeling drained or unsafe.
This episode sits right in the middle of that tension.
Rather than offering formulas or quick fixes, Dr. Alison invites listeners to slow down and notice what’s happening beneath the surface of relationships — especially the ones that feel confusing, heavy, or hard to interpret.
If you’ve found yourself asking:
- How do I stay loving without losing myself?
- How do I know when to lean in — and when to pause?
- What does discernment look like in real, imperfect relationships?
This conversation creates space to reflect without pressure to decide everything right away.
More Resources:
📥 Download 3 free chapters + guided journal of I Shouldn’t Feel This Way and the FRAME exercise mentioned in today's episode here.
If you liked this episode, then you’ll love the following:
Episode 191: The 5 Most Important Things I've Learned About Faith, Attachment, & The Inner Life
Episode 179: Building Wise Trust - How to Protect Your Heart Without Closing it Off
📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here
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