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478: Maria Konnikova | The Confidence Game Jan 13, 2016

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Maria Konnikova (@mkonnikova) shows us how we can defend ourselves against would-be con artists and use the same principles for more benign purposes in her new book The Confidence Game.
The Cheat Sheet:
As it turns out, you can fool an honest man. But cynics -- by their own overconfidence in being savvy and "scamproof" -- are just as susceptible to deception.
Technology and the abundance of information most of us freely surrender to the Internet makes the con artist's job easier than ever before.
What type of person becomes a con artist?
How can we avoid getting scammed?
Understand how belief works, why we over-believe in some things (even when we have no evidence for them), and how this plays into our susceptibility to deception.
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/maria-konnikova-the-confidence-game-episode-478/
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477: Steve Kamb | Level Up Your Life Jan 11, 2016

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Steve Kamb (@stevekamb) gives us a blueprint to follow, based on game mechanics and nerd culture, to finally accomplish things in our lives we've always wanted but never found the time for in his first book, Level Up Your Life.
The Cheat Sheet:
Stuck in a rut? Need to get in shape and add more adventure to your life? Take your own hero's journey and stop letting fictional characters have all the fun.
What is The Progress Principle, and how does it help us stay motivated in pursuit of larger goals?
How can you ensure you'll return to your hero's journey when you occasionally falter (as most mere mortals do from time to time)?
Life is a multiplayer game.
Learn how to identify and quantify your fear, and then take action and use that fear to succeed.
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/steve-kamb-level-up-your-life-episode-477/
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Fan Mail Friday #44 | Data Dating Jan 08, 2016

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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #44! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!
Because Jordan is out of town, Kim Seltzer joins Jason for today's Fan Mail Friday!
In this episode:
How does someone with Tourette syndrome make good first impressions?
How do you break up with someone who has mental health issues?
What do you do when you're happy with where you live, but your spouse wants to move to a city that's a thousand miles away?
How does a woman who already has a boyfriend make new platonic male friends without leading anyone on?
How does someone who's been out of the dating scene for a while due to self-confidence issues get back into it -- especially in an unfamiliar town?
What really creates attraction? (And what do you do when you find yourself constantly attracted to the "wrong" people?)
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com!
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-44-data-dating/
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476: Jon Acuff | Do Over Jan 06, 2016

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Jon Acuff (@JonAcuff) shares how we can rescue Monday, reinvent our work, and never get stuck -- at any age or stage of career -- in his new book Do Over.
The Cheat Sheet:
90 percent of Americans are disengaged from work -- are you among them?
If you spend as many hours watching television as the average American, binge-ification is ruining your hustle.
In spite of its current trendiness, most people shouldn't be entrepreneurs. (Though those who are geared for it wouldn't have it any other way.)
Anyone can't do everything. Examples: Not everyone should write a book. Not everyone should release an album. Not everyone should try out for the NFL.
Ask these five questions to figure out what skills you really have.
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/jon-acuff-do-over-episode-476/
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475: John Lee Dumas | SMART Goals Jan 04, 2016

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John Lee Dumas (@johnleedumas) shows us how use the SMART goal system from his new Freedom Journal to accomplish a number one objective in 100 days.
The Cheat Sheet:
What is the number one reason some entrepreneurs succeed while others fail?
Which is more likely to win the battle of changing your life: the physical presence of a giant book that constantly reminds you of its presence versus just another easily ignored app?
What's the advantage of trying to accomplish one goal in 100 days over trying to accomplish several? FOCUS (Follow One Course Until Success).
How do you ensure your one goal is SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Timely)?
Can a regular goal be turned into a SMART goal partway through?
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/john-lee-dumas-smart-goals-episode-475/
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Fan Mail Friday #43 | Ignore Mom: Talk to Strangers Jan 01, 2016

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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #43! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!
In this episode:
How do you keep your work ethic strong when you're surrounded by countless distractions and people whose goals are short-sighted?
What are the best habits you can cultivate if you're looking to improve yourself?
What adjustments and expectations will make a move from the country to the big city go as smoothly as possible?
It would seem like you dodged a bullet when an ex-fiance breaks it off and moves back in with the terrible boyfriend she had before you -- if it weren't for the fact she's carrying your unborn child. What do you do now?
If you're afraid to strike up conversations with strangers, what are some exercises you can do to beat approach anxiety?
How do you date when you're living with your parents for the next few years while paying off a massive debt?
How do you find a positive in every negative?
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com!
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-43-ignore-mom-talk-to-strangers/
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474: Rob Scott | Identity Shifting Mastermind Dec 30, 2015

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Rob Scott (@rob_scott) is a master coach known for hijacking people's minds, rewiring their limiting beliefs, and leaving them completely transformed.
The Cheat Sheet:
Why is self-sabotage such a common characteristic among human beings, and how can we break away from it?
Our beliefs are like lenses; they alter the way we view reality, and they're designed to be invisible -- which can make changing faulty beliefs all the more difficult.
What's the "ninja move" that will help you identify and correct your own lenses?
Learn how Rob overcame three decades of rough personal history to triumph over a victim mindset and take responsibility for his own course of actions -- even through a life-threatening illness.
There are three steps to changing your limiting beliefs: awareness (look), new choice (challenge), and subconscious pattern (replace).
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/rob-scott-identity-shifting-mastermind-episode-474/
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473: AoC | Best of 2015 Dec 28, 2015

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The Art of Charm team (@TheArtofCharm) recounts personal favorite episodes from 2015. Did your favorite episode get left out? Leave a comment and let us know!
The Cheat Sheet:
Could you name your five favorite Art of Charm episodes from 2015?
Are you sure?
You just thought of another five, didn't you?
Or was it more like 10? 20? 30?
It's almost impossible, but we tried! Here are the results.
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-best-of-2015-episode-473/
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Fan Mail Friday #42 | What Happens in Reno... Dec 25, 2015

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Welcome to Fan Mail Friday #42! No jibber-jabber, just a short show where we answer Art of Charm listener mail and give out mini-lessons for the weekend!
In this episode:
Does consistently getting bored with people you date indicate there's a problem with you?
What happens when you're only attracted to people who are "super hot" -- and what's wrong with grading potential romantic interests on a scale of one to 10?
How can long-distance relationships become long-lasting relationships?
Can we make shorter, more condensed Art of Charm podcasts?
Do you need to change your technique to pick up people of another ethnicity or culture?
What happens in Reno doesn't always stay in Reno.
How to stop worrying and assume a positive outcome, instead.
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com!
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-42-what-happens-in-reno/
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472: Shawn Rafferty | The Safety Blueprint Dec 23, 2015

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Shawn Rafferty (@SafetyBlueprint) is here to show us how to avoid being victimized by harnessing the key principles of situational and observational awareness and making them a permanent part of our daily routine.
The Cheat Sheet:
What's more important than knowing how to react to a confrontation?
Learning how to avoid danger is less of an investment of time and energy than learning how to fight -- and more likely to keep you alive.
What are the differences between situational and observational awareness?
Even though we statistically live during the safest time in human history, cultivating a natural awareness of potential threats pays off more than willful blindness when bad people mark you as an easy target.
Learn some tips for becoming a hard target.
And so much more...
Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/shawn-rafferty-the-safety-blueprint-episode-472/
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