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Stop Wanting Him Back & Find Someone Better

Heartbreak coach, Claire Byrne, breaks down exactly how you can finally STOP wanting your ex back on this podcast that is unlike any other heartbreak podcast out there!

Heartbreak is messy, painful and overwhelmingly daunting at times, but it can also be the gateway to embark on a new journey beyond your wildest dreams if you LET it. You will laugh, you will cry, and have your own mind BLOWN, by how POSSIBLE it will be for you to THRIVE from heartbreak, versus barely survive.

After years of enduring toxic relationships, and being at a loss on how to navigate through the pain, Claire is now dedicated to helping other women like her, not only STOP wanting him back, but become the best version of themselves, BECAUSE of the heartbreak.

PLEASE NOTE: Claire refers to her exes and the listener’s ex as a “he,” based on her own personal experience as a heterosexual female, but this work can be applied to ANYONE going through heartbreak. ALL genders and sexual orientations are encouraged to listen and apply Claire’s tools into their own lives!

Copyright: © 2019 Claire Your Mind

Latest Episodes:

Too Negative For Love? May 22, 2023

Show notes

Today's episode is inspired by one of Claire's clients who reconnected with an ex (not part of her coaching plan!) and ultimately decided that overall she just thinks she has a "bad mindset." Much to the clients' surprise on the group call, Claire chimed in with, "Yeah ME TOO!" In this episode you'll discover how your negative mindset, whether it's about your love-life or something else, doesn't have to be a problem... it's NOT CONSISTENTLY DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT, that's the problem, and Claire shares what you can actively do to switch out of it... even when the inevitable disruptions and curveballs come your way.

10 Times Your Effort Into Finding Love May 15, 2023

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You want love, and you believe you're DOING your part...You're swiping, dating, working on yourself, etc.

Maybe you ARE... But what would it look like to do 10 TIMES the part that you're already doing, in order to find your person? NOT from a pressury, rushed, energy, but from curious, motivated and well... "energized" energy!

This episode was inspired by a book Claire is reading by Grant Cardone, called the 10 X Rule. How can you not only 10X your effort into finding true love, but 10X the idea of the person you're looking for, so that you stop settling for less than what you want and deserve?

Referenced Episodes

Inward and Onward
My Heartbreak Story

The Biggest Hallmark Of A Great Relationship May 08, 2023

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It's not kindness, communication, or respect... although those are pretty good hallmarks of a relationship too! Claire reveals what she thinks makes Larry and her work so well together, which doesn't involve just the two of them... Curious? Then check out this freeing and fun episode, where Claire definitely has a laugh at her own expense, as well as Larry's.

Referenced episodes My Heartbreak Story.

Inward and Onward

When You Want To Be Pursued May 01, 2023

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In today's episode, Claire addresses the woman's desire to be pursued, specifically in heteronormative relationships. Claire herself identifies as a "traditional feminist," who appreciates the man pursuing the woman when it comes to asking her out, initiating contact, and yes, even paying for the first couple of dates, while still being all about female empowerment, independence and equality.

HOWEVER, there were lots of ways Claire showed up at the beginning stages of her relationship with Larry that many would perceive as non-traditional pursuing between the man and woman, but she breaks down why it didn't feel like she was pursuing him.

If you are hesitant to put yourself out there on the apps, or even get out there in the world with the intention of "you never know who you're gonna meet... more of a chance being out and about, than at home behind closed doors!," this episode is for you!

Episode references:

Who Should Pay On The First Date?
Why It IS and Isn't About Your Love-Life
Dating App Smackdown
Three-part Empath Series

Why It IS and ISN'T About Your Looks Apr 24, 2023

Show notes

Big TRIGGER WARNING for today's episode, as Claire understands that physical appearance-- especially for women-- can tend to be an extremely sensitive issue.

And yet, it's an issue that she really wanted to address in today's episode, because what we look like, as well as what we want our ideal person to look like or NOT look like, often comes into play in our dating lives.

Claire's intention for this episode is to offer you a shift in perspective about the importance and pressure surrounding the issue of looks when it comes to finding your person, as well as your person finding you, but also shares some of her own truths and honest opinions regarding physical attraction, on your search for love.

Enjoy!

Why You're NOT Unlucky In Love Apr 17, 2023

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If you let the story, "I'm just not lucky in love" roll off your tongue, this episode is for you, because YES-- it IS just a story that you get to change instead of perpetuate as your truth! Claire helps you see how your love-life isn't about luck-- it's about belief AND the meaning you're making out of what's unfolded in your past romantic relationships. Enjoy!

Why You Keep Attracting Unavailable Men Apr 10, 2023

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If you think your attraction to unavailable men is super confusing because you believe you're super available, this episode is for you.

Get ready to hunker down and eat a slice of humble pie for this episode.

Claire truly believes that like attracts like, NO MATTER WHAT, and if you're willing to look at how YOU might have something to do with your continued pattern of attracting unavailable men-- despite how much healing work you've done on yourself-- get cozy and take a listen!

Too Rigid On Your Search For Love? Apr 03, 2023

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Claire speaks so much about how easy it is to settle for crumbs, but in this episode, she talks about common ways women automatically want to write someone off without deeply considering WHY they're writing that person off...

They're being rigid for reasons that usually have to do with past experiences, or observing someone else in a particular circumstance that makes you believe that someone who wasn't rich enough wouldn't work well for you either. (using money just as an example).

Today's episode is NOT intended for you to agree with bending the way Claire has bent for her own relationship that's right for her, but it is an invitation for you to deeply investigate WHY you're willing or not willing to give someone a chance, based on automatic beliefs you have about that person, or an idea that you need the relationship and/or him to look and be a certain way.

It just might break your brain open to be that much more open to who you're ideal guy is... that has nothing to do with his age, relationship history, or your ideal timeline of how your right relationship should unfold.

Mentioned episodes Dating App Smackdown

My Heartbreak Story

A Dating App Smackdown Mar 27, 2023

Show notes

Claire is bringing you a dating app smackdown on today's episode! Look, this isn't to say that your person is definitely on the apps, but the apps ARE the most mainstream way to date these days, and Claire is here to say that just because you've had some brutal experiences or "no luck" with the apps so far, doesn't mean you should throw in the towel when it comes to the apps.

If you are ready to take the dating app smackdown, as well as understand how you have so much more power than you realize when it comes to the dating apps, this episode is for you!

Other episodes mentioned: #211 "I Don't Want To Be Alone Anymore"

I Don't Want To Be Alone Anymore Mar 20, 2023

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In today's episode, Claire share's about a client's resistance to doing the work outside of their calls together (very normal!) but what was uncovered underneath the resistance broke open a whole new way for her client to approach her finding-love journey.

This is Claire's favorite aspect of the coaching work: When you don't even realize the blocked thought that's preventing you from where you want to go, because you don't even recognize the bad vibes this thought is having on your finding-love journey.

If you are single and so frustrated on your search for love, this episode is for you.

Episode references:

Dating "Correctly"

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