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EP 112: New Hobbies & Pandemic Struggles with Medinah Monroe Apr 30, 2020

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Today we are joined by Medinah Monroe from Cocktales podcast and we catch up on our new quarantine hobbies and the difference of dating vs being single while isolated.

We get into the drama of the reunion of Temptation Island and how her dating life is going to go moving forward.

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EP 111: Therapy, Celibacy, & Healing feat Hey Fran Hey Apr 15, 2020

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This week we are joined by the amazing Hey Fran Hey to discuss Celibacy and why Fran has decided to be celibate for the last 4 years. The importance of therapy in our lives and how we have healed from emotional trauma.

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EP 110: Speaking Out - Sexual Assault Awareness Month Apr 09, 2020

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TRIGGER WARNING!

Jamie joins us this week to speak out for the first time about being sexually assaulted while taking a ride from a ride sharing app. As hard as it was for her to tell her full story she is hoping to help anyone that may have similar trauma speak out and start their healing process as well.

SHIT YOU SHOULD KNOW

Uber Says 3,045 Sexual Assaults Were Reported in U.S. Rides Last Year

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/12/05/technology/uber-sexual-assaults-murders-deaths-safety.html

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This week a psychologist is asking for advice because her friends don't seem be as invested as she is.

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Did this white woman really tell me to leave the sauna because I was on the phone?

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EP 109: Marijuana and Our Kids with Good Moms Bad Choices Apr 02, 2020

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This Week I am joined by the ladies of Good Moms Bad Choices Podcast and we discuss how we talk to our kids about marijuana and how comfortable we are with them knowing that we use it recreationally.

The ladies talk to us about how the podcast could possibly be affecting their dating life and how Mila thought that Erica was engaged to an African Prince when she met her! (she was close...kinda..ok maybe not)

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EP 108: "I Wasn't Lost" feat WaxKyng Quarantine Bonus Mar 25, 2020

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Spending almost a week together 24/7 a lot is revealed in our relationship and our day to day and Since we are quarantined together why not get in front of the mic!

This episode Carla and Wax discuss how the relationship has changed after spending so much time together not only together but with Carla's teenage daughter.

Would Wax be ok being a stay at home dad?

Gender roles are real on this side of the fence!

& we are giving advice to unsolicited advice letters:

a womans bf is addicted to porn
an immigrant is struggling with her conservative bf and his anti feminism view

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EP 107: Parenting Special Needs Children & Anti-Vaxx Opinions Mar 25, 2020

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PARENTING A CHILD WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

This week Carla speaks with Stephanie and she shares her story of finding out that her beautiful healthy son has autism. In her early 20's she has to learn how to care for her son without prior knowledge of autism.

She shares her experiences with doctors as well as the opinions and harsh words of others because they simply don't understand what a child with special needs requires on a daily basis from their parents.

You dont have to have a child with special needs to learn about the challenges others face, learn about it so ignorance is what allows you to hurt others.

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

We are forced to become home school parents! How do we deal with it!?

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Woman has zero connection to her second child, and has an extremely overbearing in law.

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EP 106: Rona, Dating, & Non-Supportive Friends feat Imani Blair Mar 18, 2020

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This week Carla is joined by Imani from the Lick the Rapper Podcast. Imani was able to bring her perspective from a 25 year old relative in the entertainment industry and discuss how getting laid off from her current gig has her HUSTLING.

We discuss relationships that fizzle out because you outgrow them or grow apart and how to trust your significant other in a long distance relationship. We had two letters this week and let me tell y'all some of you are having a really hard time being quarantined home alone with no boo, but we have the best advice for you. ______________________

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EP 105: My Triggers are Changing & I think I am an Ambivert Mar 11, 2020

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This week Carla discusses the ever changing triggers. Did you know that your triggers change over time? With New Levels you deal with New Devils.

Let's discuss triggers and realizing that in your 30's you might not completely turn into an introvert because of age, but because of certain fears.

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MASTURBATION- How do can we start masturbating and what is it about it that makes it so weird to talk about in our communities?

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EP 104: Do I Even Need a Psychiatrist? feat Angel Adams Mar 05, 2020

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This week we are chatting with Psychiatric-Mental Health Nurse Practitioner Angel Adams and we are discussing all things mental health!

My #1 question is

Can't I just talk to my friends? Do I really need therapy?

Ha! Let's find out!

Also lets dig a little dipper on how psychiatrist prescribe drugs for mental health and if at times they are even really needed?

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EP 103: Daddy's Girl | The Race Against Time Feb 26, 2020

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This week Carla sits with Ruthie Fonseca host of Unexpected Reality to discuss the importance of girls having their father in their lives. Both ladies have lost their fathers and they tell the stories that impacted them and helped them become the women they are today.

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 19.7 million children, more than 1 in 4, live without a father in the home.

Ruthie Fonseca

Sudden Death vs Expected Death
Getting married without your father
Different Kinds of Parenting

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Atheist is terrified of death and the after life.

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Parenting and the opinions on Zaya

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