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25. Consistently trusting he will change, he doesn’t, which then leaves you constantly frustrated? Here's how to stop that cycle Aug 26, 2021

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Has your love life been a cycle of consistently trusting he will change, he doesn’t, which then leaves you constantly frustrated? Here’s how to stop that..

So who am I? I’𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙁𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙮 & 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙙𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙩.⁣

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I help the professional frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of giving 2nd chances stop the cycle of trusting he will change by helping her learn how to set and KEEP boundaries with herself and men.⁣

I’m looking for 5 frustrated loyal women who are TIRED of giving 2nd chances (over & over) and you want to stop the cycle of trusting he will change (he never does).

So now you're ready to actually know your worth, plus learn how to set and KEEP boundaries with yourself and men.⁣

You have to stop asking for tips, you have to actually transform the way you think. Step by step, I’ll show you exactly what to do for a transformation.

⁣I have room for ONLY 5 new clients and if you believe you’re one of my clients. If you want better for yourself — apply here or send me a DM!

Don’t hesitate. Doors close Sunday: September 12, 2021 and ONLY 5 spots available.

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XO Reka

24. Deseree Rose on: Why you'll never get what you deserve from him, no matter how much you love him Aug 19, 2021

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Sis yes, you're a good woman and you deserve a good man but today's discuss will tell you why you haven’t achieved that. You're good at taking care of yourself, especially when it comes to your career. You know you're a smart woman so you don't understand why you keep getting into those types of relationships.

You say: I’m a good woman so I deserve a good man.

I would say yes BUT how you're executing that now is; “because I’m a good woman, I feel like I can create a good man, he'll change for me."

He won't and you should instead wait, be patience, set boundaries and discern that good man GOD HAS CREATED FOR YOU.

The other voice you hear is my best friend Deseree Rose.

She can be found on IG and TikTok as @deseree_rose

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So who am (Reka) I? 🙋🏽‍♀️ 𝙄’𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙁𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙮 & 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙙𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙩.⁣

My mission is to empower the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of settling and SICK of giving 2nd chances to that emotionally unavailable man learn how to set and keep boundaries and feel confident about being single.

I can be found on IG here and my DM is open to you.

www.SingleYouAcademy.com

XO Reka

23. How Social Media is Destroying Your Life (and making you feel bad about being single) Aug 12, 2021

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How much do you scroll? Who are you following? Do you think about that? How is it affecting you because Regardless if you know it or not... you're being affected. It may be the reason why you hate being single, why you want the wedding and do not know how to be married. Without knowing, you need to work on yourself first. Social media may be the reason you believe a man completes you and not you. You and he should come to the relationship whole.

This is a speech I did at the "women in business" conference in January of 2020.

So who am I? Hi. I’m Reka. I’m an NLP certified life coach. 𝙄’𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙁𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙮 & 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙙𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙩.⁣

Please don't hesitate to reach out to me. My DM is open for you.
IG = justmeReka or email me via Reka@justmeReka.com

XO Reka

22. Cena on: How having the wrong man can limit your success Aug 05, 2021

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Want to be successful? Then don't date or even marry the WRONG man.

Today's guest Cena Martin Chandler. Mom of 2 boys, Author, and Producer. Cena helps health coaches who scaled fast;. onboard, hire, and train their first community manager.

She writes...

Q: Do you wish someone had conversations with you about relationships?

Her: It would have saved me from going down a lot of dark roads on my own in the dating world. I was raised in a unique situation. My mom got involved with a cult and actually married one of the church leaders - so I learned unhealthy dating and religious abuse at the same exact time.

Let's talk....

Please don't hesitate to reach out to me. My DM is open for you.
IG = justmeReka or email me via Reka@justmeReka.com

XO Reka

21. Zee on: graduate of Single You Academy speaks on how I helped Her!! Jul 29, 2021

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I'm always asking YOU; how can I help you? You follow my socials for a reason and I'm always trying to reach out to see how I can serve you. So here I am again... this time with a graduate of Single You Academy!!!!!!!!

Typically I keep their testimonials private... I'll use their words but not post a picture or a video of them out of respect.

Which is why TODAY I'm 100000000% honored that one of my former clients wants to share her journey inside of Single You Academy with YOU.

So if you've been hesitate to join Single You Academy because "sight unseen" here is your moment to hear about her journey.

Today we will discuss:

Her toxic relationships and single journey before she met me.
Where she was mentally before she became my client.
Her journey through Single You Academy.
Where she is now mentally.

So her before (me) and after (me) as her coach!!!

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𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I help the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of giving 2nd chances stop the cycle of trusting he will change by helping her learn how to set and KEEP boundaries with herself and men.⁣

⁣I have room for 5 new clients this summer and if you believe you’re one of my clients. If you want better for yourself — apply here or DM me here @justmeReka. Don’t hesitate. Doors close Sunday: August 1, 2021 and ONLY 3 spots available.

XO Reka

20. Are you dating him or just dealing with him? Will you get the love you actually want from him? (Bonus Wednesday) Jul 28, 2021

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🚫Are you actually dating him or just dealing with him?

🚫Will you get the love you actually want or are you wasting your time?

Today. Those 👆🏽👆🏽are the questions I'll answer for you.

In this conversation we'll also go over:

💡My 3 Tips to Help You Spot a Liar.

💡3 Reasons why you fall for the lies/liar... and so much more.

If you can relate to the following then this episode is for you: 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽⁣

I am one of those who can easily get attached and with my current boyfriend, I feel like all I give him is sex and money. I receive little in return because I'm too busy trying to find a husband, so I’m not good at setting boundaries and I’m miserable. I’m so Pitiful!I feel terrified of being alone. (IG message from a woman)

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XO Reka

19. Why women don't follow their gut when it comes to men and the trouble it gets us in Jul 22, 2021

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⁣My Guest today is Coach Jos-Lyn, The Singles Coach

She writes:

My mantra is that singleness is not a death sentence but a life giving opportunity. I use my singleness to love on myself and grow into a woman that is pleasing to God, knowing what I want and how to get it, and growing in all of my relationships. I hurt myself in the past by ignoring red flags and not following my mind when I knew something wasn't right for the sake of being in a relationship. Being alone or single still means that I am whole so I don't force relationships and I am happy with my own company.

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𝙒𝙝𝙤 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙨? Women who have their life together, career wise. You're financially stable but you're constantly spending money and time on him. Trying to build him up. You’re steady letting him walk all over you. And you're left wondering why that is? You're constantly thinking 'how can I have my professional life together but not my love life?'⁣

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🗣 I’m looking for 3 frustrated loyal women who are TIRED of giving 2nd chances (over & over) and you want to stop the cycle of trusting he will change (he never does). ⁣

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𝙉𝙤𝙬 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙧𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙆𝙀𝙀𝙋 𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙚𝙣.⁣

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Step by step I can show you how to break that cycle. Get you back to trusting you. ⁣

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Doors close Aug. 1 to Single You Academy. Application process is open now.⁣

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🌱 Are you interested in applying? ⁣Send 'boundaries' to me via DM @justmeReka or email me via Reka@justmeReka.com.

Grab more information here.⁣

XO Reka

18. Are you constantly walking on eggshells, navigating drama, his emotions and minimizing your self? Let's Talk... Jul 15, 2021

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You're constantly walking on eggshells, navigation drama, his emotions and minimizing your self. Which means you're constantly doubting yourself and now when you say "I'm not dealing with him anymore" you don't even believe YOURSELF because you always take him back. Which is self betrayal...isn't it? Aren't you sick of that? I want to give you some tools on how to stop that cycle of dysfunction. Let's talk....

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XO Reka

🙋🏽‍♀️ — **17. Have YOU been gaslighting and manipulating yourself just to be with him? Let's talk. (Guest Coach Elulu)** Jul 08, 2021
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Today's guest is Coach Elulu. Coach Elulu is a certified life coach with a passion for helping singles and couples manifest, build and grow healthy and harmonious relationships that last! She has been successfully doing this work alongside her husband and fellow coach, R Anthony since 2016 through their platforms: Relationships & Chill, Wifed Up Academy and Date Like A Wife. She believes that relationships are our greatest teachers and that ANYONE can have the relationship they truly desire!

⁣She writes.... ⁣⁣

⁣⁣I use to think that romantic relationships just sort of happen. I believed that all I needed to do was succeed in life in general and the falling in love part would just take care of itself. Finally seeing my track record of failed attempts, I realized what the world has taught me wasn't working and I needed to take matters into my own hands and become more intentional. A month and half later I met my husband.

**As for you sis...**

𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙥𝙖𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙪𝙥 𝙧𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙡𝙖𝙜𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 “𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙖𝙡.”⁣

Every time he disrespected you and over stepped a boundary you set and you stayed. Then he did it again and you stayed. ⁣

Every moment you stay because being “alone” is a fear of yours is a moment you 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗵𝗶𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗛𝗜𝗠 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗬𝗢𝗨.⁣

Is that the woman you want to be? ⁣I’m willing to bet deep down the answer is no.⁣

Deep down I bet you want to be a stronger woman. One who sticks up for herself… you just don’t know where to start.⁣

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Start with me. ⁣So who am I? Hi I’m Reka. I’m an NLP certified life coach. 𝙄’𝙢 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙁𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙘𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙮 & 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙎𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙙𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙩.⁣

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𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜 𝗱𝗼? I help the frustrated loyal woman who is TIRED of giving 2nd chances stop the cycle of trusting he will change by helping her learn how to set and KEEP boundaries with herself and men.⁣

⁣I have room for 5 new clients this summer and if you believe you’re one of my clients. If you want better for yourself — apply here or DM me here @justmeReka. Don’t hesitate. Doors close **Sunday: August 1, 2021 and ONLY 5 spots available.**

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XO Reka

16. You're a GOOD woman and you deserve a GOOD man but here's why you haven't achieved that. Jun 24, 2021

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This episode is for the women who:

Feels like: I’m a good woman, why aren’t I married? What’s wrong with me? You feel like: I have my career life together but for some reason my love life is trash.

You're good at taking care of yourself, especially when it comes to your career. You know you're a smart woman so you don't understand why you keep getting into those types of relationships. Let's talk...

Did you listen? What were your takeaways?