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Introducing: How to Date Feb 03, 2025

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Looking for love or navigating the modern dating world? We've got just the thing! How to Date is your ultimate guide to the highs, lows, and everything in between of modern romance. Hosted by broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day and relationship expert Mel Schilling, this podcast masterclass dives deep into the complexities of finding connection in today’s world.

Whether you're decoding dating apps, breaking old patterns, or building confidence, Elizabeth and Mel are here to help—with humour, honesty, and expert advice. Featuring candid conversations with fascinating guests, you'll learn how to spot red flags, avoid communication pitfalls, cope with rejection, and even find love that's truly worthy of you. Plus, practical tips and exercises make this a must-listen for anyone looking to date with confidence and self-worth.

After all, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself.

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Do you have a critical inner voice? Plus forgotten actors enjoying a renaissance and your questions answered - SHRINK THE INBOX Sep 17, 2024

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For the last episode of this season, team STB gets real with those pesky inner monologues (as promised in the Carrie: Sex and the City episode). Plus, what's the connection between 80s comedy-thriller Lovejoy and The Matrix? We explore actors who have come back from obscurity with aplomb.

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CARRIE BRADSHAW – How to fight the patriarchy and stop obsessing over relationships – SHRINK THE BOX Sep 10, 2024

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In our final character episode of this season, we put Carrie from Sex and the City on the couch. Nemone looks at why Sex and the City hasn’t aged well, and Ben talks about diversity in the privileged, white world of the show. We get into Carrie’s shopping habit, low self-esteem, and why everyone in the show is SO obsessed with relationships, even though the women really have no need for them. We also get a primer on the Bechdel test, and how you can tell if a show is sexist without knowing it. And if you want to check out more on the patriarchy and diversity, have a listen to our episodes on Sydney from The Bear.

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CREDITS

We used clips from episodes of Sex and the City. It’s available to watch on NOWTV/SKY.

Starring:

Sarah Jessica Parker – Carrie Bradshaw

Cynthia Nixon – Miranda Hobbs

Kim Cattrall – Samatha Jones

Kristin Davis – Charlotte York

Created by:

Darren Star

Candace Bushnell

Directed by:

Susan Seidalman

Nicole Holofcener

Alison Maclean

Michael Fields

Darren Star

Produced by:

Darren Star

Michael Patrick King

John P. Melfi

Jenny Bicks

Sarah Jessica Parker

Cindy Chupack

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JACKSON LAMB in SLOW HORSES: Do spies make the best therapists? – SHRINK THE BOX Sep 03, 2024

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Ben and Nemone put Jackson Lamb from Slow Horses on the couch. Gary Oldman’s version of Mick Herron’s character has become household name, and you can see why. A man with many layers, a million secrets, and a lightning rod for other’s emotions – perhaps he is the perfect Freudian analyst. Nemone gives us a crash course in transference and counter-transference, looks at why people mask and create false selves, and what drives people into a career where they hide their true selves from everyone, including themselves.

This is the PERFECT watching companion to Season 4 of Slow Horses, coming 4th September on AppleTV+!

And if you want to look at false selves, then listen back to our episode on The Morning Show’s Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon.

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Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from Season 1 of Slow Horses. It’s available to watch on AppleTV+.

Starring:

Gary Oldman - Jackson Lamb

Jack Lowden - River Cartwright

Kristin Scott Thomas - Diana Taverner

Saskia Reeves - Catherine Standish

Rosalind Eleazar - Louisa Guy

Christopher Chung - Roddy Ho

Created by:

Mick Herron

Will Smith

Directed by:

James Hawes

Jeremy Lovering

Saul Metzstein

Produced by:

Iain Canning

Hakan Kousetta

Jamie Laurenson

Gail Mutrux et al.

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CAPTAIN HOLT of BROOKLYN 99: Neurodiverse, gay and battling racism – SHRINK THE BOX Aug 27, 2024

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Ben and Nemone put Raymond Holt on the couch. We look at how this trailblazing policeman (the first black, gay police captain in the force) stands out from the rest of the precinct. We learn how family dynamics inform behaviour and what it takes to be a great leader. Nemone looks at a diagnosis of ASD or Asperger’s Syndrome for the captain, and Ben gives a heartwarming tribute to the great actor who played him, André Braugher.

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Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from episodes of Brooklyn 99. It’s available to watch on Netflix.

Starring:

Andy Samberg - Jacob "Jake" Peralta

Stephanie Beatriz - Rosa Diaz

Terry Crews - Terrence "Terry" Jeffords Melissa Fumero - Amy Santiago

Joe Lo Truglio - Charles Boyle

Chelsea Peretti - Regina "Gina" Linetti

Andre Braugher - Raymond Holt

Dirk Blocker as Michael Hitchcock and Joel McKinnon Miller as Norm Scully

Created by:

Dan Goor

Michael Schur

Directed by:

Craig Zisk

Julie Ann Robinson

Troy Miller

Dean Holland

Jason Ensler

Produced by:

Dan Goor

Michael Schur

David Miner

Phil Lord
Christopher Miller (both; pilot)

Luke Del Tredici

David Phillips

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SCHITT’S CREEK and Moira Rose: this is narcissism – SHRINK THE BOX Aug 20, 2024

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Ben and Nemone put Moira Rose on the couch and take a deep dive into her narcissistic tendencies, and what effect that has on the rest of the Schitts. Nemone explains how narcissism is not as easy to spot as its widespread use would have you believe. We also discuss the collection of wigs that Moira keeps in her closet and why they are transitional objects. And if you’re interested in hearing more on narcissism, then check out our episode on Game of Thrones’ Cersei Lannister.

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Raymond Holt, Brooklyn 99 (selected episodes)

Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from episodes of Schitt’s Creek. It’s available to watch on Netflix.

Starring:

Eugene Levy - Johnny Rose

Catherine O'Hara - Moira Rose

Daniel Levy - David Rose

Annie Murphy - Alexis Rose

Created by:

Daniel Levy

Eugene Levy

Directed by:

Jerry Ciccoritti

Paul Fox

Produced by:

Eugene Levy

Dan Levy

Fred Levy

Andrew Barnsley

Ben Feigin

Kevin White

David West Read

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Explaining addicts' behaviour, ‘trapped’ dramas (Handmaid’s Tale) and your questions - SHRINK THE INBOX Aug 13, 2024

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If characters in ‘trapped’ dramas escape, is that the end of the show? Ben and Nemone explore The Handmaid’s Tale and Severance as examples. Plus, Ben reacts to a listener’s ‘constructive’ feedback and Nemone explores Polyvagal Theory to explain why we might react in the way we do from childhood trauma.

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Raymond Holt, Brooklyn 99 (selected episodes)

Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

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THE WIRE’S Bubbles: How do you help an addict? – SHRINK THE BOX Aug 06, 2024

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Ben and Nemone discuss The Wire’s ‘Bubbles’ aka Reginald Collins. An informant and heroin user, a man with a fragile support network who finds himself stranded while trying to forge closer bonds with those around him. Nemone tells Ben how unconditional love is the hardest thing to give an addict, and the key to helping them start their journey to sobriety. Plus we hear wisdom from Gabor Maté. Our episode on the Queen’s Gambit has great insights into addiction if you’re looking for even more on this subject.

We talked about AA, Al Anon and Samaritans in the show. Here are links:

AA: https://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/

Al Anon: https://al-anonuk.org.uk/

Samaritans: https://www.samaritans.org/

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Moira Rose, Schitt's Creek (Season 1)

Raymond Holt, Brooklyn 99 (selected episodes)

Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from Seasons 1 of The Wire. It’s available to watch on NOWTV.

Starring:

Dominic West - Jimmy McNulty

Idris Elba - Stringer Bell

Lawrence Gilliard Jr. - D’Angelo Barskdale

Wood Harris - Avon Barksdale

Deirdre Lovejoy - Rhonda Pearlman

Wendell Pierce - Detective Bunk

Lance Reddick - Cpt. Cedric Daniels

Andre Royo – Reginald Collins, aka Bubbles

Sonja Sohn - Kima Greggs

Created by:

David Simon

Directed by:

Clark Johnson

Peter Medak

Clement Virgo

Ed Bianchi

Gloria Muzo

Produced by:

Karen L. Thorson

Ed Burns

Joe Chappelle

George Pelecanos

Eric Overmyer

David Simon

Robert F. Colesberry

Nina Kostroff Noble

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PEAKY BLINDERS’ Polly Shelby: the silent observer in all of us – SHRINK THE BOX Jul 30, 2024

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Ben and Nemone discuss Helen McCrory’s iconic Poly Shelby from Peaky Blinders. She’s a devout Catholic, but up to her neck in the murky world of bootlegging and murder. Nemone gets into the thorny question of how she might match those up, and reveals how each of us has a ‘silent observer’ inside. We also dive into the history of women’s rights in 1920s England. Look out for some killer lines from our Polly, too. If you like this, you’ll love our look at Cersei Lannister and how to lead violent men using more than physical force, and the toll that takes.

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Reginald "Bubbles" Cousins, The Wire (Season 1)

Moira Rose, Schitt's Creek (Season 1)

Raymond Holt, Brooklyn 99 (selected episodes)

Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from Seasons 1&2 of Peaky Blinders. It’s available to watch on BBC iPlayer.

Starring:

Tommy Shelby - Cillian Murphy

Polly Gray - Helen McCrory

Arthur Shelby - Paul Anderson

Ada Shelby - Sophie Rundle

Finn Shelby - Harry Kirton

Lizzie Shelby - Natasha O'Keeffe

Linda Shelby - Kate Phillips

Created by:

Steven Knight

Directed by:

Otto Bathurst

Tom Harper

Colm McCarthy

Produced by:

Katie Swinden

Laurie Borg

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ORANGE IS THE NEW BLACK’S “Taystee”: Adoption, Child States and Attachment Theory – SHRINK THE BOX Jul 23, 2024

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Ben and Nemone discuss Tasha Jefferson, aka Taystee, from Orange is the New Black. We get fascinating insights into child states and how difficult they are to escape; attachment theory and why prison can be a better alternative to living in the outside world. Expect to laugh and cry while reliving one of the early bingeable series on Netflix. And if you’re interested in looking further into issues of adoption and racism, check out our episode on The Queen’s Gambit, from Season 1.

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Polly, Peaky Blinders (seasons 1&2)

Reginald "Bubbles" Cousins, The Wire (Season 1)

Moira Rose, Schitt's Creek (Season 1)

Raymond Holt, Brooklyn 99 (selected episodes)

Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)

Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)

CREDITS

We used clips from Season 1 of Orange is the New Black. It’s available to watch on Netflix.

Starring:

Taylor Schilling as Piper Chapman

Laura Prepon as Alex Vause,

Michael Harney as Sam Healy

Michelle Hurst as Miss Claudette Pelage

Kate Mulgrew as Galina "Red" Reznikov

Jason Biggs as Larry Bloom

Uzo Aduba as Suzanne "Crazy Eyes" Warren

Danielle Brooks as Tasha "Taystee" Jefferson

Natasha Lyonne as Nicky Nichols

Taryn Manning as Tiffany "Pennsatucky" Doggett

Selenis Leyva as Gloria Mendoza

Adrienne C. Moore as Cynthia "Black Cindy" Hayes

Dascha Polanco as Dayanara "Daya" Diaz

Created by:

Jenji Kohan

Directed by:

Michael Trim

Andrew McCarthy

Uta Briesewitz

Jodie Foster

Matthew Penn

Produced by:

Jenji Kohan

Sara Hess

Tara Herrmann

Lisa Vinnecour

Neri Kyle Tannenbaum

Mark A. Burley

We would love to hear your theories: shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com

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